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The [ __ ] just feel like they're the prize for no damn [ __ ] reason. Men will never forgive a woman who cheats on on him, but he will expect her to forgive him when he cheats on her. There's this notion that people have about women, which is where often times men like to say things like, "I'm a man, so that's why I cheat." It's not about gender, that cheating thing. It could go anywhere. Woman can cheat, man can cheat. is your decision, a personal decision to either stay or not stay. Any man who you you know you're at least 10 years older than a girl and then you're trying to ask her out or whatever, ready your money. Because you have money does not mean you are the price, sir. Because you will still go and look for you still chase that. You will chase honestly the truth. That's the fact. And you will still only stay with the one that you like. The one that you do not like, you will chop and go. Does guilt really equal loyalty or is just like an outfit for bad behavior? Hey guys, it's just my POV and another beautiful and exciting episode. But before we get into the topic of today, there's something that's been going wild on the internet and it's pretty much a wild take from an anonymous post. So the post says that if you feel guilty after cheating on your partner, then it means you are loyal. For me, it's kind of like raised eyebrow. Like what? No, it doesn't mean that. So for this week's episode, we're going to be diving into like relationships. What's loyalty for us? I mean, for you as a Gent, for me as a millennial, and does guilt really equal loyalty or is just like an outfit for bad behavior? like what's going on? What's relationship or loyalty to you? Yeah. As a Gen Z. Um, so relationship. So I'll talk about relationship before I talk about loyalty. Right. Okay. Yeah. So for me, I feel like dating in 2025, 2025, I'm talking from my own point of view, right? It's just two people who maybe like themselves and you know they both tick the boxes at least like 70% of the requirement to be in a relationship with them. It checks it and like they are just dating like they're just in a romantic relationship where you know there's sex, there's money, there's all of those nice stuff. That's honestly what it is. No, there's sex and there's money. I feel like those are like the major things you need to be in a relationship in 2025. Sex and money. Maybe not necessarily love, but likeness. Likeness enough to, you know, tolerate some of their [ __ ] So, what's loyalty like in relationships for you guys? Loyalty in a relationship to us is not letting your partner find out that you are with other people. Let's be for real. Because because you know people are not even really loyal but you know there's a way they say it is it is tiff that they catch that is barb is you know how they say that thing. Yeah. It's only when you get caught cheating until you get caught. Yeah. It's not cheating until you get caught basically. So I feel like if you're able to do a very good job at concealing whatever you know wrong things that you're doing you're actually loyal until you get caught. Okay. So that's really for me for you. Not to me. To me I'm a very loyal person. Okay. So for me I'm a very loyal person. I'm like and I'm generally not even the most sexual person. Let's be very honest. So I'm very loyal. What it takes to be in a relationship with me is more of consistency, very good communication, intellectual compatibility. These are like the things that I need to be able to connect with you. And do you get to see that for real? And do you get to see that in the dating pool? For real. It's very very rare for you to find someone who you're able to connect with intellectually. You're no all those things. It's not very easy. There are very few people who check those boxes. And those ones who even check the boxes maybe maybe they now want some other things that you know you're not really ready to give. So, are you trying to say that relationships are like kind of like non-existent in relationships? Genuine relationships are not very very common these days. Yeah, that's what I was saying. They don't exist anymore. Good. That's all I wanted to say. Not anymore to get to that. No, they don't exist anymore. Yeah. And um and now to you, what's relationship like to you? Right. I don't know. Maybe. Okay. So, I want you to like give me a lowown of a lowdown of what it was like, what dating was like for you guys back then and what dating is like for you currently. Okay. I like that. I like that because there's a whole lot of difference in how dating used to be back in the day and what it is now. Now, it's like a war zone. Like everybody's just fighting for their survival. Now, me go do the most. Now, me go give the No, no. Now me go give the least. That's it. That's kind of like the moto the motto for this season. It's like zero effort. Let everybody just be crawling towards me. That's man and woman alike. I don't know why they have that mindset where they kind of feel like oh I'm the price. Everybody wants to do I think these days men everybody wants to do and everybody just wants to do the most. So anyways um back in the day our relationships was oh it was so romantic. No, I'm even Oh. Oh my god. Oh my god. No, I'm even thinking about like back in the day like secondary school to like early uni. Yeah. You had like relationships where the guy will always message you or like come to you every morning. I mean at that time we just had like maybe like Nokia phones and whatnot, but every single morning a guy is messaging you. Oh, hello beautiful. How was And it's genuine. It's not like where you at or what you doing type of message. What are you doing tonight? No, this one is like for real like oh last night I I was so happy that I spent time with you that I saw you da da da da and then you guys not get talking and then you plan for how you're going to see like midday because you don't want to wait all the way till evening cuz you guys miss each other so much and then you now link up. That's actually so cute. Yeah. Then when you even now meet up like maybe in the neighborhood because I grew up in in Su. So it's kind of like half ghetto half like you get but it's still ghetto though. You get what I mean? Anyway, so like in the neighborhood you can now come out and be like oh let me go and see this my friend maybe like her name is like Jama. But you would just be using style to pass near his house and he he would just be like at the balcony. That's cute. He's giving very much like love birds. Yeah. And then he'll be like at the balcony waiting for you just to get a glimpse of you. And then when he sees you he's like hey what's like even to wave everybody's like awkward you guys are having butterflies like yeah everybody's so emotional in butterflies and whatnot. And then you also find that the guys also want to do things like oh I want to buy you ice cream or I want to buy you something to eat. Like they're very eager to they were just kind. Yeah. They just want to, you know, put you make you happy because they are the ones in charge. I feel you. That was back in the day. Now, and now the [ __ ] just feel like they're the prize for no damn [ __ ] reason. Like, I need to swear there because it doesn't add up. It It's so confusing to every woman out there. And I know that even those ones that are like encouraging the men or like mothers who are also telling their sons that, oh, you're deprised. Don't ever whatever whatever deep down in their mind they know that that [ __ ] is confusing. It's confusing because I'm as a woman I'm unable to like be in my softness where you two you are also being soft but what that does is because I'm a woman I have to out soft you period. So there's good to be a competition of who is the softest competition usually the best and that's and that's where there's always issues. Yeah. Also about loyalty, nobody's loyal. Period. It's nobody. No, but I'm loyal. I beg. Me, too. I'm loyal. I'm actually very loyal. I can't even lie. So, genuinely, when I'm in a relationship, I'm 100% in that relationship. Mhm. Except I'm not in a relationship, then I don't know what I am then. Yeah. But when I'm in a relationship, then you're in situations 100% in that relationship. So loyalty in our generation, millennials, first of all, you had to even find single men in my generation or women first of all. So most times when you're speaking to somebody who's like, you know, a millennial or like grown grown a grown guy, they they're always like, "Oh, it's kind of complicated. Maybe a divorcey. That's if at all they're even single." But most of the time they're married with children. What kind of where does loyalty lie in that sort of conversation? Like that don't make any sense. So first of all for us women and men I don't know about that they're already taken or something. If the few of them that are not taken, you'll be looking at them like I suspect you. So they taken and they basically not loyal between um millennials and Jenz's. Which generation do you think is the most disloyal? I think it's Jenzio. I think is millennials. I think millennials are very very very disoriented. Ask me a question. Let me answer you. You not you you wait. Let me answer then you can ask what your own opinion is. I feel that Jenz's are the most disloyal and I'll tell you why. Okay. Yes. because I always do. Okay. Anyway, anyway, anyway, so because I feel like like now we're in a generation where, you know, we're fighting for equality. There's so much feminism. So, it's like the excuses that millennials always give to their men for cheating, they Jenz's lack it those excuses, right? They are not interested in having those excuses or overlooking or just ignoring a man's excesses. They are about to call him out of everything. That's why accountability is also a big deal for Gen Z's these days. I mean, everybody needs to be accountable for whatever actions that they take or decisions that they make. To be honest, I agree with that. But I also know that um Jenz's are more being they are more picking on who to blame for a situation more than let's just ignore it and just vi and just okay but this is not a lie. This is not a lie because I feel like even even most Jenzi marriages are bad. Jenz relationships are actually really bad. They're really really bad. And because so not me even making my assessment based on myself. No. And because their relationships are so bad, that's why even the millennial like let's say like the men because you know men who date like younger you know so when they have like these young girls that are like the pool and then they are all with this radical behavior. What do you think that these negative? Yeah, I think so. But then but then this is I think this is the way I'm going to answer it. I feel like Gen Z's generally are very disloyal. Right. Then for the millennials 90% of the men 100 just say 100 just count more like 100 are not loyal people at all because who is paying these bills it's not the boys you know it's because of the men are actually the ones paying the bills and and you know why the men are paying the bills because they have the orientation of doing what they're supposed to do but most millennial ladies trying the reason they are paying the bills these men is because they already have the orientation that I need to be responsible. I'm the one who's taking care of this and this and this financially. So even when they come across a Gen Z babe, they are still in that their mindset because that's who they were brought up to be. That's how they are. That's how they operate. So it's like when you now go down to like Gen Z's, you now have the 50/50s, you now have all that. And to be honest, I know that the Gen Z girls, as much as they shout about wanting 50/50, they enjoy the 100% of a millennial man. Oh, do you think Jenz girls want 50/50? No, they are there to Yeah, they do because Yeah, the femin Yeah. That's why there's feminism so much. Yeah, they do want it because they also want equal rights and we love it. We are there for it. But then we also know that in the dynamics of marriage and a union or relationships, one person has to be in charge of finances, physical things, and then the other person has to be in charge of like emotional things, intuitive things, things that are more of the mind. And that's where man and woman comes in. Now, when you start to blur the line and start to everybody just start to get confused. And I think that that's pretty much what's making this loyalty question pop up. Yeah. But the women, the millennial women, I think they're doing a very great job because they the most of the mothers of this generation. I see they try their possible best to stay in their marriages. They try their best to, you know, they stay married, they give birth to their kids, they try to be as loyal as they can be loyal because it's not like they have, you know, that much chance. I don't understand chance like her. No, I'm being very honest because you know the life of a woman who like has kids and has settled into motherhood, she's gone through all of the relationship ups and downs and then you know even if she's going to be cheating, she's going to be cheating for very good reasons. Like what? Probably he's more he gives her like he listens to her more. He makes her feel better, tells her nicer things. probably observes nice days in her life, you know, stuffs like that. These are reasons why a millennial woman would cheat. It wouldn't really be because of the sex. Let's be honest. I disagree completely. Specifically, millennial married women. Let's be for real. No, I disagree 100%. Okay. So, why like the reason they can decide to cheat varies from any angle to another, anything whatsoever. And it's not necessarily about attention. It's just that okay. Okay. What about the fact that you know that your man is cheating? And for you to be able to manage that cheating that he's cheating, you kind of need to cheat so that you can point. My point is Millennial. It's not about attention. Let me finish because I let you finish. It's not about attention that will now make her now say, "Oh, she's only cheating because of this or because the man is not doing this, the man is not doing that." Some people also just even just want to cheat because they are okay. They are all right with whatever is going on. The man has the chance to go out and have a good time, she too. She wants to have the chance to go out and have a good time. I feel like this still goes in line with what I'm saying because I'm only trying to say that a millennial woman who is like married, I was trying to point out the fact that millennial women are more loyal than the men, especially those in marriages. And if there's any reason why they need to do anything that's outside of their marital vows, it's for a candid reason. Anybody's cheating for men, they are not cheating. Okay, so for men who cheating for any reason who just love to change girls because they want to have fun and that's a good enough valid reason for them. And it's can also be the same way for the babes. I mean the thing is I realized that there's this notion that people have about women which is where often times men like to say things like I'm a man so that's why I cheat is not about gender that cheating thing it could go anywhere woman can cheat man can cheat it's your decision a personal decision to either stay or not stay while I understand what you're talking about when you say like oh a millennial woman because of our orientation and how you need to be in the house and what what But we too, we've also started to be seeing that these men are not about to adjust accordingly and we need to get our voices out there too. That's why there still were also in the movement of feminism, accountability and da da da. Now why I'm talking why I'm even speaking like this is because I know bear guys, young guys in their 30s, but they got one sugar mommy somewhere and that mommy is not having any issues with the husband. They are happy. They are spending money. They are traveling. But she just has probably her husband is not very available for her especially sexually. That's what men always like to think that that's why the young guys when they come to you they feel like ah you must be lacking sex. You are not lacking anything. Okay. So you don't think these women are lacking? They are not lacking anything. Especially like see the truth is you can if your situation says that you are lacking sex. Okay. Yeah. But generally speaking the notion that you think that these women the reason they are talking to you is because of that sex that women are not really wired to be seeking sex that much. You can want it at different times. Maybe when you're ovelating or something like that you can you can want it but you're not wired to always be seeking it. So when a guy comes to you, they always have that mindset that ah I'm sure she go day hungry make I give and give and give and not be really like that. She just wants your own company fresh boy or maybe a young she wants you to entertain her while she's sitting down and she's just doing sipping her wine. You're there jumping about talking doing whatever. How much you How much you seen that sound on IG giving me your Oh my god, I've forgotten that that sound where the guy was miming a song. Okay. And the woman was like like she's in her forces or something. She was trying to sleep and then the guy was performing and he's now said, she know, oh yeah, honey. Yeah, honey. So, it's kind of like the same thing where guys to entertain a rich ass woman who is grown. She just wants the all that thing. It's not I think I think I just generally like the fact that like lately everything that you typically would expect from a man women are also doing it. I agree. You know, women are also doing it because millennial women look so beautiful. They have so much money. Clock that. So they they're actually topping the charts in so many aspects of their life. occupation wise, financially, physically, you know, and they're also having the most fun. Exactly. What do you think a woman like that will be? You think it's sex that she's hungry for? I I feel you. I feel you. So that's where that thing comes in. I feel like Jenz's on the other hand, the girls, all they just want to do is just collect money. Now, now. Yeah. Jenzi girls want to because what else are they using you to do? You and your old old waste. Like it's not as if you can even do the work really. So what are they using you for? Like and and another thing too is I think that even any man who you you know you're at least 10 years older than a girl and then you're trying to ask her out or whatever, ready your money. Ready your money. Like try to be No, you should know that if it's for your handsome is not the reason. No, it's not. You're not so cute. So the thing is I think that because these men have this mindset that that fact that they have money now makes them the prize. Yes. Now that is a big ache because you have money does not mean you are the price sir at all because you will still go and look for you still chasing that you chase honestly the truth. That's the fact and you will still only stay with the one that you like. The one that you do not like, you will chop and go. So when the girls too come to you, they want to chop and go. Is it that you think that the girls don't know when you don't actually like them? You must be deceiving yourself to think that they don't know. So what they do is since they know that you don't like them and you're asking for sex or you want sex, you they already know the end game. They now start to ask you for money because they already know you don't really care for them. You don't want to have a family with them. You don't want to marry them. You don't want to send them to abroad or whatever. So what's the point is what I was thinking because what's this thing with men who would who who automatically think that oh they are the ultimate because of they have money. Like they walk into your life they have like they don't even have any intentions. No good intentions no purpose. They don't want to marry you. They don't even want to ask you out. You see, if they even date you, it's even interesting. Like, they're not trying to date you. They're not trying to get married to you. They're not trying to do anything to you other than have fun with you, right? As a matter of fact, is your beauty that that attracted him. So, you're basically a trophy girl or an escort girl, even though you guys are in a talking stage and everything, is not never going to go past a talking stage. They just want to sleep with you. Now, a man who knows that this is what he is. He has been talking to you for how many months? They did not ask you out. Nothing. Nothing. Nothing. Now he's getting offended when you're trying to be transactional about everything. When you're trying to at least hold hand somewhere, it just doesn't make any sense. Makes no sense to me that you're not ready to commit to anything, but then you want her to treat you like you are her boyfriend, you're her king, you're her husband, something. No. If you're looking for such benefits, at least give the relationship a title. So based on this conversation, I just want to move on to the next one because we can be going back and forth about man and woman and relationship and money or no money. So um yeah. So okay. Okay. So, Kelvin, I'm like, I want to ask you this question because I know that it's a dicey situation. Like, if you're dating somebody, you guys are cool, everything is nice. The person cheats, confesses immediately and changes, you cheat, you confess immediately. You confess immediately and then you change your character or you change whatever it is that you know. Do you think would you call that loyalty or just damage consider? So, so Kelvin, and for you guys too, if you're in a relationship and you're like really in love and whatnot, then the person cheats on you, confesses immediately. Yeah. And then changes afterwards, is that loyalty or is it just damage control? Okay. So, first of all, for my kind of person, if you cheat, shut up your mouth, though. Shut up your mouth. It's It only doesn't even make any sense that you even told me because now that you've told me, what am I supposed to do? I wasn't on the lookout for anything, right? And now you've confessed to me. Maybe because you think I'm eventually going to find out. Well, it's not a very smart move because clearly it's it's damage control in my opinion because if you cared so much, why did you even cheat in the first place? But then I understand that human beings make mistakes. When you make such a mistake, keep it to yourself. Keep it to yourself. I mean, at least you did such a good job that I didn't find out, right? Keep it to yourself. Because now that you've told me what shouldn't have been a problem, now we are looking for how we can solve a problem in a relationship that had no problem. But how about transparency? Um, how about trust issues? Oh, that means you have the problem then. Not necessarily. Because how do you trust someone who has played? That's why the person confessed and changed when you didn't have a reason to confess. You just confessed because of love for you. Because I can remember I have a friend. Mhm. And I'm so sorry, my love, because I love you so much. But then I'm just saying this. I'm not going to call your name now. This my friend was dating a guy and then she called him after she had had something to do with a guy who's his friend. And then she said, "Um, hello. She's a very soft girl. She's like, "Hello, I'm so sorry. I did this. I did this. I did that." The moment I even heard it, I I first said, "My dear, you're a very big fool." I agree. You're a very big fool. Because from there, the relationship just went down. Yeah. Well, it just went down because you don't need to I feel like when you don't have a problem in a relationship, if you've made a mistake, acknowledge your mistake and make amends. That's exactly what I just asked. The moment you you tell someone, then that's a problem. It's a very big problem because now you are battling with more than the wrong deed. You're also battling with how you're going to manage your partner's emotions. How you're going to say something and you need to stress everything to prove to them that you are actually being genuine. So is it loyalty or damage control? It's damage control because you are not loyal. You cheated. If you didn't cheat, maybe loyalty. Yeah. No, but you cheated. Maybe if you didn't cheat, maybe you're loyal. That's what I said. But you cheated. So like, but then you cheated. So it's damage control. No, it's damage creation. Anyways, I hope you understand that there's something called transparency. Yeah. And there's a need for transparency when you're in a serious relationship. Relationship. So for the sake of transparency, I find that a couple people would go and confess. However, I don't buy the idea that a woman should go and confess to a man. How about a man confessing to a woman? He can confess to me any man. And the only reason I'm The only reason I'm pointing this thing out, hang on. The only reason I'm pointing this thing out is because we are able to look past it. Yes, men will never forgive a woman who cheats on on him, but he will expect her to forgive him when he cheats on her. It's the same thing with last week's episode where we're talking about Chama and David. Do you know how many times Chama has forgiven him? So that's what I mean when I say a man can confess to a woman, but as a woman and it left me wondering, I'm not buying that idea. I'm never going to do it. I am never going to confess to you if I find myself in any of that kind of me dead dirty confused I don't know drunk situation whatever situation I want to call I can never confess to a man that I cheated on him why unless he catches you if he even catches me say if I have the chance to know what you think yeah to say something I would just say something else because he would even even though he knows he would prefer that I didn't tell him because he needs to react to that thing I have said to him and he needs to prove to me that is unacceptable. So he's going to make sure that he's never going to forget. Like usually men they just will never forgive no matter what. Even if they see you killing yourself like I'm sorry honey you say bye [ __ ] Me I just personally don't even appreciate you because I feel like you are trying to test me. You want to see what I can do now that you have told me because I want just don't tell anybody. That is stupidity. It's not transparency. I agree though because that transparency is going to cost you the relationship. I feel like if you look at the reason why you're telling your partner that, I'm guessing you're telling your partner that so that the relationship will be solid. So your partner would know that you know I can confide in you for anything and you should be able to confide in me for anything. It's for the longevity of the relationship. But logically speaking, when such a thing happens, the relationship ends because you want that relationship. If it's a woman, it will last. You see that's your transparency. Weigh it. Well, they didn't catch you and you're so sorry, Abby. Don't cheat again. Yeah. So, if someone cheats Yeah. and conceals it, like keeps it a secret forever. Mhm. and their reason is because okay they don't want to break their partner's heart or whatever. Would you call that caring or it's just a form of cowardice? So if I'm the one who cheated if I'm the one who cheated Mhm. and I and I'm holding it back is because I care for my partner. But if if my partner is the one that cheated and holding it back for my gun if my partner cheats and is holding it in that's coward terrible bro now and I will explain why this is like this. Wait I will explain why this is like this. Okay. So for me if I confess to my partner a man that's because normally I would choose a man but if I say yeah ah now if I confess to my man I know that no matter what I say to him after that he's never going to have an open mind or like forgive me or anything he go just they vex de vex and every day he'll be making reference to that story or but if he says it to me, I would do the same thing to him, though. Period. I will do the same thing to him. I don't think I don't think I'm open to forgiving anybody who's cheating on me. So, you see, and now I'm confused. So, so I don't think I'm going to be that forgiving, but maybe like in a marriage I can consider. So, is it care? Is it care or is I said it again. Okay, let me say it again. If it's me who is guilty of the offense or of cheating, he's care. I care for the man because I know that if I tell him he's just going to die. The truth is for men, he's just going to die. A man is just going to give up. He'll give up everything. He just she's killed me. So that's why I can't tell him. I'm caring for him. But he can tell me I'm not going to die, but I'm going to treat his [ __ ] up. I feel you. You see that? That's different. For men, they're just going to die. give up. Everything is lost for that entire maybe like week to a month. They are [ __ ] up with work, with you know their thoughts, everything that they imagine. If you say that you're going to the market, ah, she's going to that guy. You'll just be seeing you and the guy in bed like you'll just be dreaming of crazy. So that's what I mean. They can't leave past the wrong days. So I care for him by not telling him. Yeah. But I expect him to tell me. Even if he doesn't tell me when the thing happens, he should tell me later on. Like he should tell me later when the thing don't pass, you know, when he's gone. And maybe lie to me that it was before he met me. He tells you really late. He's fresh. Yeah, that's what I said. And lie to me that before he met me. That's like the only way because I don't so because I'm such a loyal person. Even in friendships, even in family, even in just whatever situationships, I don't mess around. I don't go around talking about you, putting your business out there. I'm super super like loyal. Even with work, I'm a loyal person. So, I don't expect you to be able to just cheat and then just come and tell me. I didn't I don't think I gave you the chance to do that. I don't think I don't appreciate it at all. I don't Somebody has mine to go and tell you I cheated on you. You should go and look for the chance to cheat on me after I haven't given you. I'm quite a dynamic person like as in my nature. So, every day I have something new that's happening. I have like something interesting. I I feel like I'm a handful already. If you're dating me, how much more you now go and find someone else? Come on. That's like you went out out out of your way to [ __ ] with me. So, if you ask me, if you ask me, I feel like concealing such incidents, it doesn't necessarily mean that you're a coward, honestly, because anyone can actually admit that they cheated. The only thing there is that if you're having anything to do with someone like me, you don't want to tell me such things because I can never forget that you did such a thing. You're a man. You only started a problem. You only started a problem that wouldn't have existed. Now, funniest part is that if someone cheats on me, I would actually forgive you. I won't. If somebody cheats on me, I'll actually forgive. Like, it has never even really ever been a problem to me. I don't care to find out if you're doing anything. As a matter of fact, I'll never check. I don't want to know even if I hear such a thing it's like okay that happened and let it go like it's not that deep you know the moment I catch you my dear I'll rubbish you I'm going to I'm going to put it to you in a way that you will regret doing such a thing because now I found out it means you're even so dumb like do you know what it is for me who doesn't live with you who doesn't really know what you're doing who is not even invested in those type of things that you're doing. Imagine someone like me, I find out you're a real it. I'm going to finish you with my mouth, with my actions, with my everything and it will end. Simple. And that's man life. It must end. The truth is if as much as I'm saying that, oh men are so unforgiving, I think I'm like that too. But it's also if you find out it must also because it's also because it's also because I don't like I said earlier I don't give you the chance to be able to. So if you end up doing so it's because you deliberately and you must have thought about me and the situation but you still went with your full chest to do it. That tells me that you don't even love me. So that whole idea where where they always say, "Oh, a man can cheat and still love his wife." But it's funny, how do people even find out who their partners cheated with? How do they find out? Yeah. So, do you don't know that when you're in a relationship with somebody, you already know the person while you and the person are cutting each other. You're getting to know the person, the way the person does things. The moment a man starts to see another beep, he cannot hide it. He must do something sketchy. He will always do something [ __ ] sketchy. He will always maybe turn this and you as a woman because we're very observant. And that's the thing that I don't think men even realize how observant we are. By the time you do that first thing, we don't first get this guy. But okay, let's leave him. And because we've left you, you too, you think she know? Yeah. You come relax. So that's where it is because you're with a partner that you've been with, that you've caught, that you dated, you have this tendency to always notice when they do something different. And once they start doing something different, your investigative spirits are just jumping. Right guys, it's your turn. No holding back. Now drop your wildest comments right there in the comment section. So what does loyalty mean to you in 2025? Is guilt a sign of love or is it just proof that you already crossed the line? Let us know right there in the comment section. Uh-huh. And if you have a personal story, anonymous or not, share with us. Gen Z, millennial, old school romantic, whichever, we're here for it. All right, guys. 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