Startup Therapy

The realities of evolving a startup. Ryan and Will discuss how the first idea is rarely the final solution, sharing insights on how to navigate the pivoting process. Using Uber and their own experiences at startups.com as examples, they explore the dangers of clinging to an initial plan and the importance of staying open to change. They also touch on overcoming ego, internalizing market feedback, and avoiding self-sabotage to ultimately achieve a more successful and fulfilling business.

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What to listen for:

00:51 The Myth of the Perfect Plan
02:04 The Uber Example: Evolving Business Models
03:55 The Importance of User Feedback
04:48 Facing Investor Expectations
07:44 Ego vs. Agility in Decision Making
08:47 The Afford It Story: Lessons Learned
13:21 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
13:53 The Original Plan and Its Challenges
14:25 Admitting Mistakes and Moving Forward
15:10 Evolving as a Founder
15:58 The Birth of Startups.com
17:26 Learning from Market Feedback
20:45 Detaching Ego from the Product
23:14 The Importance of Adaptation

What is Startup Therapy?

The "No BS" version of how startups are really built, taught by actual startup Founders who have lived through all of it. Hosts Wil Schroter and Ryan Rutan talk candidly about the intense struggles Founders face both personally and professionally as they try to turn their idea into something that will change the world.

Welcome back to their episode
of the Startup Therapy Podcast.

This is Ryan Rutan, joined
As always by Will Schroeder,

my friend, the founder,
and CEO of startups.com.

Will, it's no secret at this
point anybody that listens

that you and I spend most of
our days talking to startup

founders about businesses, new
and old, you know, gone and,

and imagined and yet to be.

How often is it that the very
first idea that we come up

with the very first plan is
the one that's gonna get us all

the way to the promised land?

Damn near never.

Ah,

never surprised

me.

Right.

We wanna have the
fantasy of it, right?

Yeah.

The fantasy is this, like
when people say like, Hey, you

know, you started a successful
business, you know, how did

you come up with the idea?

And I always tell the, the, the
same thing I said, I didn't,

I. Like, oh, would you mean
somebody else came up with that?

I was like, no, the idea for
this business didn't exist.

So I came up with a dumb one.

Yeah, yeah.

That, that got us here.

Yeah.

Um, and I always use that as
a way to explain that, that

the businesses we're supposed
to build are an evolution.

Learning about what's
supposed to be built.

Yes.

Like it would sound awesome
if it was just like,

Hey, here's exactly what
I'm supposed to build.

Yeah.

And I'll just go do that.

It reminds me of like, if
someone was just starting off in

their life and you're like, Hey,
I'm not gonna make any mistakes.

I'm just gonna start with
exactly what I'm supposed

to do for every decision.

Yeah.

And.

Execute perfectly.

Right.

And by the way, you're about
five years old at that point.

Right?

So you've got all the
life experience you need.

Exactly.

You know everything
that's coming.

Yeah.

It's funny that, but but
it, it is sort of par

for the course, right?

Yeah.

This is most of
the conversations.

We end up having founders
believe some version of that.

Here's what I think the
problem is, you know, kind

of what we'll unpack today.

I think because we get so sold
on this idea that the product

has to be exactly this way.

Yeah.

Yeah.

We prevent ourselves from
keeping our minds open saying.

Does it?

Or like, are we actually
holding the startup back?

Yeah.

Because we're
unwilling to let it

evolve.

Oh, that's an interesting
way of looking at this.

Yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

So to what extent are we
not, not just that we're not

moving it forward as fast as
it could be, but that we're

actually holding it back.

Okay.

I like that.

I like that.

Here's a dumb example
'cause it's probably not

even true, but I just, but
I, I wanna point it out.

When Uber started, if you
recall, way back in the

day, Uber started as a,
a way to basically make.

Black cars, right?

Like private black cars like
Lincoln Town Cars accessible.

It wasn't intended to overturn
the taxi industry at the time.

It was very hyper specific.

It was everyone's
private driver.

That was the initial tagline.

That was the tagline
That's right of of Uber.

Right?

And so in that initial.

Reckoning if you were, uh,
Travis and Garrett from

Uber, the, the, the founders,
and you were thinking to

yourself, okay, this is it.

We're gonna be all about
getting all these black

cars that are typically Unad
addressable and you like,

it's very hard to get them,
hard to find, hard to book.

Yep.

Tons of downtime, and we're
gonna give you essentially

a quasi taxi, but a limo to
get where you want to go.

And we were like, no,
that's the business.

It's not another business.

Think of what was lost,
what would've been lost if

they stuck to that model.

Dude, I would've walked so
many more places in life.

If Uber hadn't existed
as it does now, it

would've been awful.

There's a million cases
and, and I bet a lot of the

folks listening, they're
a case of this right now.

Yeah.

Where they're saying
to themselves, but this

model's not working.

This model has to work.

And it's like maybe, or maybe
the model that's supposed to

work, lo and behold, isn't about
giving people access to limos.

Like, like maybe there's a
different version that would be

a hundred times more valuable
if we just let it evolve.

And I think we have a hard
time letting it evolve because

of, you know, this kind of
myth of the perfect plan.

You know what I mean?

Yeah,

for

sure.

And, and I think that's,
that's where it starts.

It's like we, we spend so
much time thinking about it

that of course we must have
thought everything that we

need to at this point, now
we're gonna start building it.

So we've made some plans
and I think you're, you're

right, like part of that
challenge then that perfect

planning that we've done.

Actually starts to blind
us to, to real feedback.

Like, and it's so funny
sometimes man, like I'll, I'll

talk to founders like my getting
customers, um, sessions that

I do on Mondays and Fridays,
we run into this all the

time where they're like, and
they're just not getting it.

And I'm like, okay,
what are they getting?

What are they taking
away from this?

What are they telling you?

They're telling me this
and this and this and this.

And I'm like, okay.

Have you, if that's what they're
telling you over and over again,

are you starting to internalize
any of that feedback?

Like or are you just
saying No, they're wrong?

Yeah, like, because here's
the deal, they still have

the credit cards that they
need to vote with to prove

that you're right and they're
current, consistently voting no.

So let's go with maybe
there's some validity to that.

And, and it's just tough.

And I get it.

Like, you know, after you put
so much time into it, there's

the whole sunk cost fallacy.

There's the, I don't want
my baby to be ugly thing.

I've already told everybody
this is what I'm building.

How could I possibly
build anything else?

But man, the, I cannot overstate
the necessity of like that early

and continuous user validation.

Let give you an example.

The most common scenario that
I hear, and I'm sure there's

folks listening that, that
have been through this, the

most common scenario I see is.

But I just raised
money with this idea.

There's nothing
more humiliating.

Okay.

And I'm just gonna call
because I've been there.

Then saying to investors,
this is the future.

Going and proving that this
is the future, only to find

out it's not the future.

Right.

In fact, you were way
off and having to go back

and say, just kidding.

Now this is the future.

That's hard to do.

It is.

It's hard to do, but
it's important because

what's the alternative?

If you've realized that's not
the future, you're building

towards a future that you
already know doesn't exist, at

some point are the investors
gonna be happy that you go

back to them and tell them, I
was super wrong and I already

have your money, so I'm gonna
go try to be more right now.

Right?

Not exactly the kind of
thing that inspires a vote

of confidence at a lot of
levels, but on the other

hand, like that is what gives
them a chance at, at getting

a return on their money.

So it look, they may
not be happy to hear it.

But they're gonna be happier
than you just plowing

forth into something you
know is not gonna work.

This took me a long time to
internalize, because early

in my career, whenever I was
making any kind of decision

for the company Yeah.

And, and I was communicating
that to my staff and I had

to change my mind later,
it made me feel weak.

Yeah.

It made me feel like, uh, as
a weak leader, which to be

fair, I was like 22, 23, 24.

So were you.

So that's kind of what
we were a work leader.

We were weak leaders.

Right.

Like that was, that
was just an accurate

assessment of the situation.

I felt, rightfully so, that
I had to overcompensate for

my clear lack of experience.

Right.

Especially, again, back then,
different era where like young

CEOs didn't exist and so you
were a sideshow at best to

begin with and you, you were
exactly what people expected to

fail, like for all the reasons.

Okay.

It was really hard for me
back then to be able to say,

Hey, that was a mistake.

Let's move left instead
of right, kind of thing.

Because at the time I was
so preoccupied with me being

wrong that I wasn't willing
to let the product or the

organization be right.

I got a piece of feedback early
on that was so beautiful and I,

I probably didn't appreciate it
for what it was in the moment.

Early, early, early.

I, I wanna say, I don't
remember what they were calling

him at the time, but early,
uh, it was a, an uncle of

a, a close friend of mine in
university early at Salesforce,

like really early, like
chief revenue officer before

that's what they called it.

Something like that.

Right?

Just somebody came in, I
was trying to explain to

me and he was debating
back with me and, and you

know, he was significantly
more experienced and just

super, super smart dude.

He said he is like, look.

I'm hearing what you're saying,
but at this point it feels like

you're trying harder to be right
than to find out what is right.

I love that.

I love that.

Right.

And I was

like, in the moment I was like,
Ooh, that stings once the sting

wore off probably years later.

I mean, it's something I
still hear that at times now.

Yeah.

When I find myself pushing
back against something, I can

hear his voice saying, are
you trying harder to be right?

Or find out what's
actually right?

I'm like, dammit, I
think I'm doing it again.

And what's interesting to
me about that is it's, it's

all tied back to our ego.

Yeah, right.

A hundred percent.

We have this sense back when
I was making those moves early

in my career and, and I had
to make a change of sorts.

My issue, I would say was
like 80% my own ego, like

how it affected me in 20%.

My concern as to how it
might've affected the

business, I don't know that
I could have changed that.

I mean, part of that was
just my own evolution.

I, yeah, I think it is
because in the beginning,

a pivot feels like a
confession of failure right?

To ourselves, to anybody
around us, and I think

that that can't be ignored.

I think what you eventually
realize after you've

gone through enough of
them is that it's not a

confession of failure.

It's, it's a calibration towards
what might actually work better.

And once you realize
that you become a bit

more comfortable again.

There's still times where
like that's uncomfortable.

Particularly if you've just
been out, like shouting to

the rooftops on LinkedIn
or you've raised phones.

The articles have been
written about it, right?

Like you've gotten some
publicity and now you're

going, well shit, that's
not exactly what we're

gonna go do now, but, right.

We had this happen with a, a
company we did called Afford

It, and it was essentially
what Affirm is today.

Oh yeah.

Um, buy now, pay pay
later years before Affirm.

And, uh, we got
into the business.

And it was going great.

Like we were selling tons of
products, but then there's

the part where, where you
have to pay later, which

means we have to collect.

And any kind of credit
business isn't a credit

or banking business.

It's a collections business.

Yes, a collections business.

It's all what it comes down to.

It's not hard to get
people to take free

money, to get cool stuff.

A hundred percent right.

Like, like any loan is about
collection, not disbursement.

Anyway, we got into the
collections part of it, and

all of a sudden we're on
the phone collecting from.

Single moms who were using
this to, and, and this wasn't

like a story, this just kept
happening, that were using this

as a way to like buy an Xbox
for their kid for Christmas.

I grew up with a single
mom and so like I knew

this process really well.

Yeah.

And the last thing
that I wanted to do was

collect from single moms.

Right?

Hey, you're behind
on your payments.

Oh, what?

Oh, oh really?

I'm, yeah.

Nevermind.

Bye.

Just kidding.

Right.

And so, so, okay, so,
so here's the thing.

We had raised a bunch of
money from really prominent

investors on a very big
concept that was working.

That's the worst part.

That was working.

And we had a bunch
of term sheets for a

Series A at the time.

At the time, I'm like.

Oh shit, how do I
get out of this?

Like, I don't wanna
be in this bit.

I don't want to.

I don't wanna

do this anymore.

I was like, now to be fair, that
decision got made for us because

we were headed right into the
financial crisis, like 2007 era.

Yeah.

Everything dried
up over overnight.

And like we couldn't
raise any more money.

Wasn't

that, wasn't a whole lot
of money being tossed at

subprime lending at that.

No.

There, there were, unless
you were the governments

of Iceland, really?

Ireland and Cyprus, who were
like, it was not real possible.

We'd love to buy some
de class repackaged

debt.

That'd be great.

Right, right, right, right.

And so anyway, none of
it was, I wasn't willing

to let go even though I
didn't even wanna do it.

Like that's the worst part.

I didn't even wanna do
that business anymore.

I just raised a bunch of money.

I'd just gotten to LA at the
time and I was everywhere at

all the events and everything.

Talking about this business.

I put my entire
ego into it, right?

Yeah.

My reputation and everything
into this business, and

overnight I was like, I
just made a giant mistake.

I wasn't willing to let
it go because of my ego.

Yeah.

I, I think that's it.

It comes down to like, if,
if I'm thinking of it from a

spectrum perspective now, and
it's got, you got ego on one

end and you've got, I'm gonna
call it agility on the other.

The closer we can get away
from, you know, the further

we can get from, from ego
and get closer to agility, I

think we're, we're better off.

But it's hard, right?

It is a struggle to let go.

And I think to your point, it's
really hard to do that until

we've sort of gotten punched in
the face by, by getting it wrong

with ego and maybe accidentally
gotten some wins from agility

and your case, like you were
forced outta the business.

And, and look, you don't
need to spend a long

time answering this, but.

What do you think would
have happened had we not

run into the, the, the whole
financial crisis, right?

Like had more capital have
been available now, you

were already kind of like, I
don't wanna do this anymore.

What's the crystal ball?

Like the, what
would've happened?

Would you have continued
with the business?

Yeah.

Wouldn't it become a firm?

I

mean, no.

I, I would've, I wouldn't have
become a firm and again, I,

when, when people are like, oh,
I had this idea before that,

I did this idea before that.

Sure.

That was the easy part.

What Max Lein did, you
know, with Affirm was a

hundred x what I would've
ever done with afford it.

Uhhuh.

I mean, to, to be fair,
that's like me saying, well,

I had a pretty good game
and so I guess I'm Tom Brady

right in, in this equation.

He's Tom Brady.

I'm some idiot that plays
flag football with a

bunch of 50 year olds.

Right?

Like not to same athlete.

Yeah.

So my point is Affirm
would've been just fine.

Who knows what would've
happened to us.

But I can tell you, and, and
I'm, I don't like to admit

this, I don't like to admit
the fact that I would have

pressed forward and did.

Not because I thought it was
the right thing for me, the

market, the world, et cetera.

Yeah.

But because my ego was so
attached to it, because I

had so many people that I
had committed to that I,

I wasn't willing to stop.

And it, running out of money
was kind of the only way that

was gonna get me out of that.

And, and even
then, I spent like.

18 months, 24 months nonstop,
banging my head against the

wall to try to like, get capital
before we eventually gave up.

So I didn't go out easy either.

Like it was guns blazing.

That's, I mean, that's the
paradox, man, of, of building

products versus building
your identity into it.

That's a big part of this.

At that

point where we're so wrapped up
in it, it's like we, we can no

longer isolate ourselves from it
makes it really hard to let go

because we're essentially saying
I'm killing off a part of myself

in order to kill this thing off.

That's a hard
decision to get to.

You know, something that's
really funny about everything

we talk about here is
that none of it is new.

Everything you're dealing
with right now has been done a

thousand times before you, which
means the answer already exists.

You may just not know
it, but that's okay.

That's kind of what
we're here to do.

We talk about this stuff on
the show, but we actually

solve these problems all
dayLong@groups.startups.com.

So if.

Any of this sounds familiar.

Stop guessing about what to do.

Let us just give you the answers
to the test and be done with it.

Let's stick with this.

This goes back to the dream.

The dream is, hey everybody,
this was the original idea.

This was the original plan.

This was the reason you quit
your last job and joined to

work for equity or whatever.

You know, it's the reason
investors put money in.

It's really hard to say
that that plan didn't work

and expect the same level
of enthusiasm for new plan.

It's so much easier to
say It's tough, man.

Let's just stick with old plan
because it was the oldie timey

original and force that through.

It takes balls to be
able to say I was wrong.

Okay, let's full
stop right there.

I was wrong and that's okay.

I wasn't willing to do it.

I am now, but at the
time I was not for sure.

It's,

yeah,

and man, and again, like
in hindsight, way easier to

see, but like clinging to
that original version isn't

loyalty, it's not toughness,
it's not strength of character,

it's potential self-sabotage.

Right.

But being able to see that
in that moment, it's up

there amongst, I think, the
hardest of the challenges

that we face as founders.

Particularly 'cause it often
comes at such an early stage.

Yeah.

That we have so little else
to go on other than our own

enthusiasm, our own ideas, our
own thoughts, and a little bit

of feedback from the market.

And then that little bit of
feedback from the market is

going counter to what we hoped
it's brutality at its finest.

Well, okay, so
let's build on that.

I wanna talk a little
bit about why I don't

have the same issue now.

Where was my evolution so
that I could get to the point.

Sure.

And hopefully other founders
listening can kind of get to

that, that same, uh, point.

This came from a few
different places.

One, it came from once I started
to understand that clinging to

the original idea, just 'cause
it was the original idea mm-hmm.

Was just dumb.

Like it wasn't, I couldn't come
up with a good reason all other

than it sounded cool that it
was actually the best, most

strategic, most mature way.

Again, in most cases, I
was attaching it to ego.

Now when I tell people
about this ego, et cetera,

invariably I'll hear a lot
of people say, yeah, well I

don't have the same ego to it.

First off, bullshit.

Okay, second off, second off in.

Is that your

ego talking?

Yeah.

This kind of is, but okay,
so, but here's what's changed.

Fast forward years later.

And we start fundable.com, which
would later become startups.com.

Now, by this point, I had seen
in a bunch of my own businesses,

things just evolve, right?

Yeah.

Things just go a different
direction and that be better.

So we launched fundable.com.

It's a crowdfunding platform.

This is like 20 11, 20 12.

It turns out.

It was just a bad idea.

And, and Ryan, obviously I'm
not saying this to you 'cause

you were there, you know
exactly what I'm talking about.

A bad idea being, it just
wasn't like that viable

equity crowdfunding would
not go on to be as an entire

market.

Correct.

Wasn't, wasn't, wasn't
what everybody thought

it was gonna be.

But even,

especially back then.

So with that said, because
I had the benefit of seeing

what happens when I don't
evolve that time, me and

certainly you and the rest
of the team were very open.

To trying something else.

That's essentially what led us
to startups.com, which is, you

know, much different, much, much
better, more viable business

that is about to celebrate.

Its start of its 14th year.

Right?

Wild.

Absolutely wild.

Two deals from now, I think.

Yeah, right.

Exactly.

But stick with that for
a sec. Had we been like,

no equity crowdfunding.

You know, once you start,
start a plan, you don't change

it and you see it through, we
would've gone outta business.

Yeah.

We're like, come hell or high
water, we would be sitting in

high water and hell right now,
like 30 other companies who

who tried the same thing did.

And the only difference
between us and them was our

willingness to be able to say,
what if it's something else?

What if the answer is elsewhere?

Go back in time.

'cause for me, there
were a couple of specific

things that happened.

I think that that
helped me with this.

One of them was, a few
situations started to

appear partially just from
experience, partially just

from time in the game where the
adaptation became proactive.

The evolution was
proactive, not reactive.

I think part of it was early on
I was being told I was wrong.

I was, whether it was the
market investors, people around

me, whatever it was, I was
being told, you are wrong.

So the evolution was
basically somebody else

telling me I needed to evolve
or something else telling

me I needed to evolve.

I think as I grew and as I
built more and more, what I

started to see was, there's
actually some signals of

this from the market, right?

Things like going out and
doing customer interviews

before you start building shit.

Really talking to the people
that you're building for

making sure that you filter
this down to a really like,

not just ideal client profile,
but like early adopter.

The people who are really gonna
go after this thing at an early

stage, knowing that we'll move
beyond that, but to gather

that feedback and so that the
pivot would become sooner.

Before I had decided and done
so much and become kind of

fixed in my thinking one, but
also because it felt proactive.

I had gone out and discovered
reasons why maybe I needed

to evolve as opposed to being
smashed in the face with a

sign that says Evolve or die.

And I'm like, well,
then I quit on dying.

Well, let's talk about that.

Let's talk about like
what letting it evolve.

Actually looks like, you
know, what does that mean?

At the, the very least, it's
about giving up some control

over what you believe the
idea absolutely has to be.

Right?

It's, it's about stepping back
and saying, look, I think if

we really wanna see this thing
survive and thrive, yeah.

We have to let it grow
into what it wants to be.

Now.

Now sometimes what it wants
to be doesn't look like

what we wanted to build.

Of course, man.

Like your first plan is,
is, is a guess at best.

Right.

Only the market can
confirm or deny that guess.

Like we can't sit around
and think through it

and be like, okay, yes.

Now we're right.

Will and I have sat down
and we thought it through,

and now we know we're right.

Bullshit.

You can't do it.

Well, you know, and again,
sometimes what it wants to

be a collections business
for single moms now you want

it to be right, not only not

what you wanted it to be,
but something you won't

even tolerate it being.

That's what I'm, it's

like, okay, I'm done.

I'm out.

I've seen a lot of cases where
people build a product and

there's some services to help
get the product to go, and after

a while they're like, yeah,
it's kind of just a services

business that kind of has like
a product tchotchke to kind

of get it started and I don't
wanna service the business.

That's okay too.

Meaning that if that's not
the business you want, if

you don't wanna collect from,
uh, payments for Xboxes, for

single moms, don't do it.

Right.

That would've been a great
pitch deck, like intro page.

Right.

Collecting from single moms.

People been throwing
money at you.

Yeah.

Putting the screws
to single moms.

Yeah.

Actually, you know, I. We
had a couple of investors

who, while we were on the
campaign trail raising money

kind of said exactly that.

They were like, Hey, well
at the end of the day, won't

you be collecting from people
that couldn't otherwise make

their payments, et cetera.

Right.

Which is a reasonable question.

And my whole point was, yes,
there are people who need to

buy things that don't have that
amount of money, but we're gonna

do it in payment terms that
they can actually afford, like

on very tiny payments over,
over a, a short period of time.

And that was true,
but that doesn't mean

everybody's gonna pay us.

Right.

And so at the end of the day,
you're still gonna collect from

people that just didn't want
to pay you, whether they could

or not put on your loan shark
suit, start knocking on doors.

Yep.

Exactly.

What it's so part of it for
me, as I've been, you know,

involving myself, has been
taking my ego down a notch.

Yeah.

Being like, I don't
have to be right.

The product has to be right.

I don't have to be Right.

Which is the advice that
you got, and I think part

of it too is detaching
yourself from the product.

Meaning like, if this doesn't
work, it doesn't mean I suck.

It means a product I
built isn't working.

Not the same thing.

Yeah.

I think that that separation
of self is one of the hardest

things to do depending on
where it comes from, right?

Like I think there are times
where like you build something

more opportunistically and
maybe you're not as personally

attached to the outcomes.

I'd argue that's a bad
business to build in the

first place because you're
probably not gonna survive it.

But like I, I think that's.

It's a necessary piece, right?

We have to be able to,
to, to separate ourselves

to a healthy degree.

At least say like, look, I
wanna be involved in this,

but I'm not this, right?

Right.

There's an old farm joke
that talks about involvement

and commitment, the pig,
and it's, uh, it, it

goes to breakfast, right?

It's like the chicken is
involved, the pig is committed.

Committed.

Yeah.

You gotta be the chicken, right?

You gotta be the chicken.

In the startup case.

Within our own company though,
Ryan, one of the things I'm

very proud of that we've
done culturally is while we

all, you know, have a million
opinions, strong opinions on

things of, of what we think
should be right, what the

product should be, et cetera.

I think partially because
we've worked together for

so long and we've seen this,
you know, work so many times,

we're naturally slightly
less committed that way.

In other words, we're like,
like you and I yesterday,

we were talking about, um,
landing pages and, and what the

messaging should be, et cetera.

We both have ideas
of what could work.

Yeah.

But we, we've both done
this enough to know.

Hell we know, right?

Like put it up

for some testing

That's I'm saying market,
like try everything, try

everything and, and, and,

and separate ourselves.

And that's the thing, like
at the end of the day, we've

gotten to a great place where we
want to find out what's right.

I don't care which
one of us is right.

I'm not like, oh, another check
on the, on the wall for me.

What was wrong and I was right.

Like, who cares?

We just want to get to Right.

But that goes back
another couple steps.

That goes back to the point
where we're saying what matters

most to us in this business
and, and it was something

that we fundamentally,
early on we said like, do

we care about crowdfunding?

No.

Do we care about customer
acquisition for startups?

No, not, not really.

Right?

Do we care about any of the
other things that we built?

Not in that sense, but what
we care about is the, is the

outcomes created and for whom
we care about founders, right?

So at the end of the day, like
when, when we can separate all

that and just go, is this gonna
be the best thing for the people

that we're trying to reach?

It's gonna help 'em understand
what we do so that they can

get to value quickly and go
on and do what they wanna do.

This makes it a hell
of a lot easier.

Right.

But that goes back to the
core principle that you talked

about, which is not being
stuck on whatever that first

thing we thought was, and
then trying to force function

that into people's lives,
whether they need it or not.

Disaster.

Another way to be saying like,
like if someone were to say,

Hey, this is, you know, this
business I'm building, it's

going great, et cetera, and
my question would always be.

Compared to what,
what else did you try?

What else have you done
to prove that this is

the best thing for you?

Uh, like, I'll, I'll
give you an example.

When people talk about the
startups.com model, like

what we do, they could
pose the same question.

They could say, well, you
know, aren't there other

things you could be doing
that would make more money?

And my answer is yes, if
that were our only selling

Xboxes to moms, right?

Single moms, right?

Yes.

There's a lot of other things
you could do that would make

more money that we ne don't
necessarily want to do.

C selling Xbox to moms, right?

Yeah.

Like, so it's not always
about, again, uh, the

answer is always what makes
the most money, right?

Sometimes the answer is,
is what makes you happiest,

makes you most satisfied.

We believe the customer, uh,
deserves things like that.

But what's important is
that you're challenging

yourself, right?

That, that you're saying,
Hey, we believe this is the

path, but have we challenged
other paths to confirm

that this is the path?

Because I, I think that's,
I think that's where.

Companies lose their edge
when they say, Hey, this is

the way we've always done it,
so this is the way we do it.

Which is exactly how the
company that's gonna eat your

lunch right, gets introduced.

I always think of companies
like, this is maybe a

bad example, maybe not.

I. Of Intuit.

You know, Intuit's actually
a phenomenal company as far

as its performance, like
the, the fact that it was

able to buy companies like
Credit Karma or, or MailChimp

and things like that.

Yeah, yeah.

Just shows like how
much strength there is.

Yeah.

These weren't small
transactions either.

They

were not small transactions,
but at the same time, here's

a company that still builds
Turbo TurboTax, like it's being

installed on Windows three 11.

Right.

It's not like nobody there is
like, Hey, shouldn't this be

like a super cool like Web3
0.0 style ux or something?

Like, they're like, Nope, nope.

Windows three 11, right?

Yep.

That's 14.

Plop install it.

Right?

They, they still use the
same jokes when it's loading.

I love Turbo.

I, I love the idea of TurboTax.

I use TurboTax, but it is easily
the most outdated piece of shit

software I've ever seen, and.

I can't figure out how that
isn't a call for literally a

million other companies to be
able to dominate that space.

But, but my, but that's my point
here is a product that clearly

has not evolved, uh, which to
me is dying for a competitor.

Yeah.

And yet for whatever reason,
I mean, I guess part of it,

there's just, there, there's,
there's a lot of, a lot of

weight to the incumbency there.

Right.

So that, that's part of it.

But Yeah.

But if they don't change, yeah.

They haven't evolved.

Right.

Yeah.

But if they don't change,
and I think for many of us.

Change is scary.

Uh, change is not only scary
because it's tough for us

because as leadership, you
know, we're taking a gamble

every time we make a change.

It's tough for us to be able to
take the entire organization,

all the people associated
customers, investors, right.

And get all of them to
change and get all of

them on board with that
change because they look at

change being scary as well.

Yeah.

I think in general,
this kind of.

Comes back to the fact
that founders, if, if, if

we're gonna evolve, right?

If we're gonna, if we're
gonna change who we are,

you know, we've gotta
be willing to evolve.

Ryan, I can't think of anybody
that has done really well that

hasn't been willing to kind of
burn it all down at least once

to do it differently, you know?

Yeah, yeah.

No, for sure.

In the startup space,
absolutely not.

It's uh, it's part of it,
I think, you know, but, but

let's, let's stick on that.

The, the burn it all down
and start again thing, right?

Where do you stand on.

Small versus radical
pivots, right?

Like, I feel like this is
in, in the startup space, we

often just see like there's
these wholesale changes and

sometimes that works out.

We hear the stories
where it works, right?

And the ones that, that
where it doesn't work, we,

we don't hear about them
because they just disappear.

But like, I. How can we try
to approach these things

from a minor tweak versus a
total overhaul perspective?

Because to me that's always
significantly easier, right?

Behavioral change,
the fear factors, all

that stuff goes down.

But how often in your, in your
recollection was it sort of,

I. We can do this by making a
bunch of little turns versus

trying to shove the Titanic
all at once past the iceberg.

I think that's a great point.

I think that the, the best
way to start is by showing up

today, tomorrow, and opening
the conversation with your

team about whatever topic
it is, no matter how minor.

Say, Hey, let's level set here.

Uh, step one.

None of us knows the answer.

We all have opinions.

We all have strong opinions on
what we think the answer might

be, but the answer itself,
we can't know until we've

taken action and responded.

So if we're gonna pivot to a
new product, you might have a

strong opinion of why it won't
work, but let's both agree that

neither of us actually knows.

Right.

So we can't argue this or
prevent ourselves from evolving

from a position of certainty.

You can't possibly do that
because blah, blah, blah.

Right?

You can't possibly do that.

And there might be risks,
but it doesn't mean you

can't possibly do that.

And so I think for, for
all of us as founders.

If we're going to evolve,
if, if we're going to be

able to adapt and change the
organization or maybe prevent

ourselves from staying on this
ridiculous path that is not

getting us any further, that's
putting us kind of like out to

pasture as we speak, or it's
not making any money or not

keeping us viable if we can't.

Take our ego off the table.

If we can't get to the point
where we're willing to make

a wholesale change for the
better of the company, even

if it's at the expense of us,
then we're never gonna adapt.

We're never gonna evolve,
and we deserve that fate.

But if we can change that, if
we can change that process,

if we can change that process
ourselves and be open to

making those changes and
evolving the way we need

to, then our business could
be a hundred x what it is

today if we just let it.

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