Nichole Bigley: A Psychic's Story

What if your soul chose your parents, your life, and your purpose before you were even born?

This week on Fairy & Flame, we’re joined by Nichole Bigley, psychic intuitive, Reiki Master, energy healer, author, and host of the popular spiritual podcast A Psychic’s Story, for a fascinating conversation about life before birth, angelic connections, and the intuitive gifts we all possess.

At just four years old, Nichole experienced something extraordinary. When her father thanked her for choosing their family, a flood of memories returned—memories of existing before birth, feeling connected to the infinite oneness of the universe, and choosing to come into this earthly life.

That experience would become part of a lifelong spiritual journey, including her connection with angels and her mission to help others awaken to their own intuitive abilities.

Together, we explore:

✨ Life before birth: Do our souls choose our families and earthly experiences?

✨ Angels and spirit guides: How can we recognize and deepen our connection to divine guidance?

✨ Our psychic senses: Are we all born with intuitive gifts waiting to be awakened?

✨ Oneness and consciousness: What if separation is an illusion and we’re all connected to something greater?

✨ Remembering our purpose: How can we reconnect with who we truly are and why we’re here?

Nichole reminds us that spirituality isn’t reserved for a select few. Our connection to the divine may be closer and more accessible than we ever imagined.

Whether you’re curious about pre-birth memories, exploring your intuition, or looking for a deeper connection with your angels, this conversation invites you to question what you think you know about life, death, and everything in between.

Maybe the journey isn’t about becoming someone new. Maybe it’s about remembering who you’ve always been.

Connect with Nichole Bigley

Website: https://www.apsychicsstory.com/

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Podcast: A Psychic’s Story

Book: Looking for Angels: A Guide to Understanding and Connecting with Angels

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Kasey Hodges

Hi, I’m Kasey Hodges—brand strategist, truth-seeker, and lover of meaningful conversation. With 25+ years in marketing, storytelling, and creative direction, I’ve built a career helping brands speak with clarity, integrity, and heart. I grew up in the Midwest, raised in a Christian lineage — the legacy of faith, fire, and spiritual discernment lives on in everything I do. That foundation taught me how to listen for what’s real, to seek what’s authentic, and to hold space for transformation. These days, I’m as passionate about soulful alignment as I am about strong messaging. Whether I’m guiding a guest through a vulnerable conversation or helping a brand uncover its deeper purpose, I’m committed to creating a clear and ethical channel for communication—one that helps people grow step by step, from the inside out. I believe in sharing what holds love, what carries weight, and what points us back to the heart of things—with mindfulness, intention, and just the right touch of magic. When I’m not prepping for a pod, you’ll find me outside—tending to the earth, the animals, and my own spirit. I have a deep love and respect for nature and the wisdom it offers. My little backyard farm is home to Bagel the pig, a flock of sassy chickens, three loyal and energetic dogs, and a cat who may or may not be in charge of all of us.

Host

Kathryn Camsey

I’m Kathryn Camsey—a soulful voice rising in the spiritual space. I’m a British-born TV host turned intuitive guide, and my journey from glittering red carpets to deep spiritual rebirth led me to my life’s true calling: helping others heal, awaken, and remember their magic. Though my life once looked picture-perfect, it was deeply shaken by unimaginable loss—my beloved niece was murdered, I faced a canceled wedding, lost my best friend to cancer, and experienced a health crisis that brought me to my knees. But I chose not to stay broken. I chose transformation. What followed was a decade-long soul journey of deep inner work, study, and spiritual expansion. I explored everything from chakras and crystals to astrology, the divine feminine, meditation, angels, affirmations, and the healing power of joy. These weren’t just tools I studied—I lived them, practiced them, taught them to my daughter, and now I share them with heartfelt purpose. I’m bringing my sparkle, wisdom, and fairy-touched spirit to the podcast. Blending practical tools with powerful storytelling, emotional honesty, and high-vibration energy, I aim to speak like a friend, guide like a mentor, and inspire like a muse. Every conversation is meant to feel like a cozy cup of tea with your wisest, most magical soul-sister.

Guest

Nichole Bigley

I’m a psychic intuitive, and I’ve been talking to angels my whole life. It started at a very early age when my memories of before being born on Earth suddenly returned. I recalled being part of the universal energy or “oneness,” how we are all connected, and that we come here with a purpose – to experience life as spiritual beings in the physical and share our unique light with the world.

What is Fairy & Flame?

Fairy & Flame was created by Kasey Hodges and Kathryn Camsey, two kindred spirits from Leiper’s Fork, TN whose shared love of storytelling, creativity, and mystical curiosity brought them together. Kathryn and Kasey weave their unique backgrounds into soulful conversations on consciousness, creativity, healing, and ritual. Our mission: “Building up the collective consciousness of our world, one pod at a time.”

At its heart, Fairy & Flame is about connection—sparking curiosity, nurturing authenticity, and holding space for the magic that happens when spirit meets story.

Fairy & Flame (00:00)
Is that any better?

Nichole (00:02)
I still can't hear.

Fairy & Flame (00:04)
that's weird. So weird.

That's so strange. ⁓

Nichole (00:11)
There we go. can see, or I can hear.

Fairy & Flame (00:15)
Okay, I was like, because we were getting audio on our side. We could see our audio moving. Perfect. ⁓ let's see. All right, I just want to make sure. ⁓ Nicole, can you say something real quick? Can you talk? Good. Okay. Perfect. That looks good. Awesome. How are you doing today, Nicole?

Nichole (00:28)
Hello, hello.

Hello.

I'm better now that I'm talking to you all. No, my dog's not doing so well. It's been about a couple weeks, and he's not even five yet, so probably gonna have to put him down. So it's just been kind of one of those, yeah, it's all right. But I don't mean to bring it down, I just, it's like.

Fairy & Flame (00:39)
⁓ you had a bad morning.

but I'm sorry.

no.

You know what's so strange? We've heard so many I feel like there's been I had to put my dog down unexpectedly like a two months ago. It it got into something poisonous. A poisonous like a bait box at our neighbor's house and I didn't know it. And then I've just had this so many strange animals.

Nichole (01:07)
Hmm.

no.

Yeah, I think it's just the time. Well, the eclipse was really rough too, apparently. maybe then. But how are you, Leo?

Fairy & Flame (01:20)
Yeah, it was. ⁓ what show does that? ⁓ are you a Leo?

Nichole (01:28)
I didn't, well one of my signs is yes, I'm a Pisces, but my moon is Leo.

Fairy & Flame (01:30)
⁓ Well, sending love to Leah. I'm sorry and I'm sorry and I think that's rough. Yeah, we're good. We could we just got out of a in studio pod actually that we had this morning with our friend the tea huntress, Sarah Scarborough. She's amazing. Do you know Sarah? Have you

Nichole (01:35)
Thank you. Thank you. How are you both? Yeah. right. Good.

Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

No, I don't.

Fairy & Flame (01:51)
⁓ she's we talked a lot about tea and plants and all that good stuff. So ⁓ but she she's a friend of ours, so we got to talking and I was like, All right, we're gonna go, we're gonna change.

Nichole (02:01)
Hahaha

Yes, yes, I'm glad you had fun and I'm glad we were finally able to get on here and do this.

Fairy & Flame (02:10)
Yeah, Kat was in the UK for the last month, so we're we're back. So do you have a heart what do you have a heart out? I just wanna be respectful of time.

Nichole (02:15)
Yay.

No, I do have a session ⁓ that's going to follow this. I'd like to prepare a little bit, but I can go a little over if needed. So yeah.

Fairy & Flame (02:24)
Okay. No problem. Well we'll we're gonna draw we draw a card before every pod just to kind of center ourselves in whatever that is. Okay. This is a card for you. These are the eight this is the angel what is this one? The angel oracle or angel No, this is the Angel Card Story Virtue. It was like one of my it was I think it was first tech deck ever. Celebration celebration ⁓

Nichole (02:34)
That's fun.

Mmm.

celebrate good times come on

Fairy & Flame (02:54)
I love that. She's and she's looking up at the at the moon. next to the water. I love that. We'll post that. Awesome. Yeah. We're gonna celebrate. Celebrate ye. Alright, so Nicole, it's pretty simple. We're done we'll do an intro to the pod and then we'll do ⁓ introduction to you. And then we'll just start kicking it off with the questions. Okay. So I'm gonna Okay. You ready? Yep.

Nichole (03:02)
Thank you for that.

Sounds great. I'm excited.

Fairy & Flame (03:23)
I don't need to that. You can. Hello, and welcome to Fairy and Flame. My name is Catherine Kamsey. And I'm Casey Hodges, and together we're building up the collective consciousness of our world one pod at a time. And today I always say that I'm excited, but I am always. I literally say it every time. But I'm just excited we have a pod. We're excited we're gonna. But also it's it's just wonderful talking about topics that I love and I love everything that you do. So let me just give you a proper ⁓ introduction, Nicole, so that everybody knows exactly.

Nichole (03:25)
You

Fairy & Flame (03:53)
Who you are and all the wonderful things that you are bringing into this world. So our guest today is Nicole Bigley, psychic intuitive Reiki Master, energy healer, and host of the Top Charted podcast, A Psychic Story, along with Supernatural Matters and a Psychic Stories Kids Edition, which I love. ⁓ Nicole has been in communication with angels her whole life, teaches that we all carry at least one of eight psychic senses, and is the co-author of Looking for Angels, a guide to understanding the connection.

with angels. Today we're talking about the memory she carries from before she was even born and what she believes angels actually are. So welcome, welcome, welcome.

Nichole (04:33)
Thank you, ladies. I, too, am excited to be here. So thanks for having me on.

Fairy & Flame (04:37)
We should mention that we've actually been on Nicole's podcast. So we

Nichole (04:41)
Yes. So please listen to that episode. That was so fun.

Fairy & Flame (04:45)
It was it was so fun. You have and I just saw you had a guest on yesterday or what was the preview yesterday? I I follow him on Instagram and I'm so excited I can't remember his name now. But you have so many wonderful guests and psychic story is a great podcast to listen to. We have a we have a funny story. We met we met through a a mutual friend of ours or a mutual acquaintance of ours, and ⁓ we it we actually

Nichole (04:54)
Uriel, Maximo, Energy Look.

Fairy & Flame (05:15)
Got reintroduced by Julie Ryan, and we're like, wait a minute, we think we already know each other. It's like one of those instances where the universe is going, and you didn't get on the elevator that time, we're gonna do it again. So we're reconnecting again, and I'm so glad that we are. And we've got a long list of questions today for you. So yeah, there's so much I want to learn and know, but here we go. one of the first things I want to dive into is before we get into all of the other amazing things that you do.

Nichole (05:21)
Mm-hmm.

Fairy & Flame (05:45)
is that you talk about your memories even before you were here, which is fascinating. So can you just dive into that a little bit and tell us a little bit more about that?

Nichole (05:54)
Sure. Yeah. So when I was little, always, I can't remember the exact age. I don't think I was more than five. So definitely I say usually four. My dad was tucking me in and he was saying something to the effect of, know, thanks for choosing us. When you come here, when, when souls come to earth, they choose their parents and they choose their families. And it was almost like this big rush of a memory, although it wasn't a memory. It's almost like I felt like I was there, you know, back, back there again and go, I know dad.

And he gave me this look like, what do mean you know? And I said, I know. And so he asked me to explain. I told him, and I'll use the words that I have now as an adult, because it was really more, I'm sure you understand this, both being psychic and intuitive what this is like. But there's a knowing. I'm also very clairvoyant, so I have a lot of visuals. And so I remember it was as if I were in space, and there was everything and nothing around me all at once. And all that is essentially is what I call it.

And I'm looking down and I'm looking at Earth and there's the clouds, I can see the water and everything. And I see this little girl and she's playing on a lawn and she had this beautiful dress and this long curly hair. And I said, although it was more telepathically her, I want her to be my mom. And as I'm saying that, I kind of went to move forward. I didn't have a body, like a physical body, but I went to move forward.

and I heard this voice say, no, it's not time yet. And I felt disappointed. And I went to step back and I don't know, move, turn around, pull my attention elsewhere. And then I heard it's time. And I'm just going down, down, down, down, down. And then the next thing I know, I do remember being in the womb briefly, but it was as if I'm being born. And that part, I'll leave out all that. But then as I'm coming out,

Of course, I'm cold all of a sudden. I'm like gasping for air. I felt the physical weight of being in a physical body again. And it wasn't painful, but it did feel painful because it felt very compressed, like very heavy, you know? And then I had this realization like, no, I did this again. I'm here. And that was like the first thought and realization I had. It's almost kind of like I have not had children.

But when they say that you have birth and you have children and then you go to have another one, you almost have amnesia a little bit about it. It was like I wanted to go when I was back on the other side because it didn't seem so bad. And then when I was back in human form. But anyway, so I'm telling my dad this story and his eyes are just bigger and bigger and bigger. What? Like four. Like four. Yeah. Yeah. And the only reason I can date that is because I remember the room we were in. We moved around a lot when I was growing up.

Fairy & Flame (08:28)
When you told them this rate, how old were you when you told four, four years old? That's incredible. I've never had that. I've never

Nichole (08:40)
I asked my parents, okay, well, what ages were I in? So was either like four or five, like at that age, no older than four, or sorry, five. And so the look on his face, and I'm telling him the story. Now I didn't get into now having the memory. There were certain things I didn't describe. Like I remember the doctor, how many people were in the room, where my dad was standing, where my mom was, ⁓ all of that. I have very vivid memories of.

Fairy & Flame (08:44)
Okay. Go ahead.

Nichole (09:04)
when my mom was like holding me on her chest like that first kind of like skin to skin contact that you have and like feeling the motherly bond and the love and all of those things. just it was like a download of you just know and it's this big memory and I had all of this. So the next morning I wake up and my mom's making me breakfast and she says so your dad told me that you told him a story last night and I was like it's not a story. She's like well tell me tell me what it was and so I told her exactly.

the same thing and both of them are like, okay, cool, cool, cool, you know? And what I, at that point, I didn't even think to ask them, well, what was your first experience of coming to earth or what was it like for you? I call it the other side, you know? And because I thought that everybody had those types of memories or recollections, it wasn't until I got older and then I'm finding out and having conversations that was not necessarily the case. But yes, so that was my first, ⁓ my first memory.

Fairy & Flame (10:00)
Never heard a story like that before. And your parents just were like, You want bacon with your eggs? Like after that, like was it just was it just done or did they did it ever come up again? Or did they ask you more questions about it?

Nichole (10:07)
Bye.

Well, my fam, go ahead, sorry, you were saying?

When I got older, we would have conversations about it. But my family, need to understand too, because I talk about this on my podcast a lot. know you both listen. But my mom's side and my dad's side, they're both very open. So this type of thing when they're saying this is not, ⁓ well, it was uncommon. No one in my family had had a memory or shared a story like that before. But it wasn't one of those things of, it was more of a curiosity. my parents, while my dad was saying, ⁓ we pick our sole family when we come here,

He didn't use those words exactly, and I said, know. ⁓ That part wasn't planning the seed in the sense because I remembered everything else. He didn't tell me exactly any of that. The part that was the coolest that I remember, and this is why I do one of the many reasons the work I do, is that that connection to oneness, that connection to what I call a God universe source, that frequency and essence that we come from, the all-knowing, all that is.

we're never disconnected from it. And so from an early age, I remember being on the other side because I was looking down and not having this physical form in this body and being in that vibration frequency of love, just unconditional love and peace and calmness and everything and thinking, wow, this is amazing. And knowing that all these quote unquote souls are also connected. And it's just this kind of like this vibration of, I look at it as like a pulsation type of thing.

And so that helped me understand whether I'm meditating, working with other people, trying to tap in, that we still remain connected to that even though we have this physical body. At a very young age, I knew that. It was fascinating to me. I asked more questions as I got older versus the adults asking me because like, wait, people don't remember this. Why? There are very many other examples that I can share about my realization of.

Not that I was different because we all come from the same place, but that my experience and my memories were different because I could recall them a little bit more easily than some.

Fairy & Flame (12:14)
Yes.

That's so it's it's so fascinating. When my daughter was born and she was about just sort of talking, she just said sort of off the cuff, she just said, mummy, do you remember when I used to be your mummy? Just and then and I was like, ⁓ and she was really, you know, so small. It wasn't, you know, anything that could have been manufactured and I was and it does make sense because we have that sort of relationship. She's very sort of great. She's never felt like a little baby to me. You know, I'll get to the front door and I'm I'm like, Where are keys? And she'll she'll open it. Is we've got that sort of so it's it's

Nichole (12:27)
that's so cool.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Fairy & Flame (12:46)
It it's it's that's don't know, it just reminded me of that. She never said anything more than that, but it it was it was it's fascinating. Yeah, yeah, that she that she would say that. So and I love all the things that that you're doing and you also have ⁓ is it is it a kids podcast as well that you that your the children's one as well? How did what made you put that together? I think that's brilliant.

Nichole (12:53)
That's really cool to have that experience with her. Yeah.

So I don't have children, obviously. I have nephews and a lot of friends that I'm close with their children and everything too. the reason for it was because my family was so supportive of each other, but also myself when I was growing up as a child. And so I realized that you may be an adult or a caretaker of a child and not know necessarily what to do.

In that instance, if you are not necessarily maybe as intuitive yourself or understanding what your child is sensing and seeing, and that was about six years ago or so, I haven't revisited it yet, but I am gonna revive it here in a little bit, and that is because really to give not just the adults that, but also if there are kids or teenagers at a certain age that wanted to start to ⁓ ask and look for more resources, that that would be available for them.

So it was really important for me to also help the newer generations coming in, knowing that they're not alone. And especially because as we've talked about on my podcast too, we have so many sensitive souls coming in. It's been happening for the last 20 years, but even more so a lot of souls leaving too, given the times. And we were talking about that right before we hit record. And because of that, we need, I believe a society and culture to be able to provide support in ways that maybe

didn't exist before and making it lot more accessible for that younger generation.

Fairy & Flame (14:31)
L do you think it's more sensitive souls coming in or do you think there's a shedding of maybe some of the junk that has been layered on top of it, whether that be dogmatic religion or ⁓ judgment, ⁓ things that it's become even since we've started the podcast, I feel like there's a hundred more podcasts that have come out talking about different layers of this space, right? So is is is it that those

Nichole (14:59)
Mm-hmm.

Fairy & Flame (15:01)
Souls are more sensitive, or is it that just it's there's more of an enlightenment? Okay.

Nichole (15:06)
I think it's both, but you have to have the souls like us here, the people that are listening that are kind of paving the way. ⁓ You know, the greats that before there were podcasts were out there writing books and doing those things, doing the real work, waking up one day at a time from a soul perspective. So there's been a lot of groundwork that's been laid for the collective consciousness to open up and to pave the way.

And in particular, you know, COVID taught us nothing else dismantling a lot of systems that, you know, and showing us what the reality actually is versus not. And especially this last year, too. So all of it. Yes. But then as a result, these more I want to say sensitive, but because it's not even advanced, it's more it's a different frequency. It's a different vibration in essence as as all of the other things that you're talking about are being dismantled. The programming, the system that the.

quote unquote, societal norms, the things that we put ourselves in a box to essentially not be free, even though we're these sentient beings, with the work's been done to some extent. So now more warriors and other light workers and sense of souls are coming in and they need to be supported in newer ways that maybe it hasn't been in the past. And that's why I love podcasts and also like yours and mine and everything else is because, you know, technology is a wonderful thing. It's allowing us to reach more people and.

having that accessibility really helps also open it up ⁓ for people.

Fairy & Flame (16:35)
Yeah.

'Cause we we had this conversation just the other day 'cause we were putting together something and i you know, in the South you would have just said, ⁓ my grandmother knows things. You wouldn't have said she was a medium or a psychic. That she just know she just knows when someone's gonna come in to the house with, you know, an emergency or whatever it was, right? So the context around it was was different, but it was the same it was the same stuff, right? So, ⁓ yeah, it's it's fascinating.

Nichole (17:02)
Mm-hmm.

Fairy & Flame (17:05)
So you you work a lot with ⁓ Archangel Michael, don't you? Is that is he somebody you start is he your first angel that you started working with?

Nichole (17:13)
Yes. So then fast forward after that age of like four, it was like five or six, and I'm playing in my room by myself. And for several days in a row, I kept feeling this presence. Now I am one, by the way, on my dad's side, my aunts can see souls as if they're literal physical beings. So yeah, and growing up with that, I cannot do that, at least that I know of.

⁓ So if there have been, ⁓ you know, it's been right over my head. But I say that because it was like being in a room and knowing that there's a presence there, feeling that presence, but nothing being physical there. And so finally, one day I got up the courage and I just was talking to myself or I thought I said out loud, who are you? And in my head telepathically or clairotiently, I heard I'm Michael. And so that began my relationship with Michael.

And as I was growing up, he would teach me things. Like I remember learning working with energy and working with energy balls and ⁓ certain things like I also children at certain ages, it's hard for them to start to go to sleep, especially if they're empaths ⁓ and or clairvoyance because a lot of information starts to come in when you're falling asleep and you can get like overwhelmed and it's like hard to wind down and go to sleep. And so I couldn't turn my brain off. I didn't know what was going on. And so.

He taught me what I call the chalkboard exercise, because I'm older. So in school, you'd have the chalkboards. He's like, imagine a chalkboard and visualize. And anything that's coming in emotionally or anything that's coming in mentally or whatever, just wipe it away. then what he's teaching me was moving it out of my energy field, not having to think or feel it as it was coming through. So he taught me a lot. I did not refer to him as an imaginary friend, because

I had friends that said that they had imaginary friends and I thought, you have such a great creative imagination. Because I couldn't see them, feel them, hear them either. I don't know. That's a whole nother conversation. He felt different. So I just, I'd never even really shared, I don't think with my parents. I actually need to ask my mom that, my dad. But so yeah, Michael. And then it wasn't until my 20s and my early 20s when I decided to get attuned to Reiki and become a Reiki master that, because I always even growing up, I felt him and knew him.

When I was attuned to Reiki, the angels came through in a bigger way. I started seeing them as flashes of light, as little sparkles of light. They were showing up in energy healings. I knew it was Michael because I could feel him. It's kind like when you know your best friend. And you know their feeling. You have the feeling that your best friend gives you when they walk into a room and you're finally sitting down and you're having a conversation and you're catching up. So when he would come in, I'm like, OK, Michael's here. But then he would bring in these other light beings. And that was Raphael and others.

Fairy & Flame (19:48)
Yeah.

Nichole (20:03)
And that's when it dawned in, I was like, these are angels. Because then I would feel ancestors coming in, whether they were mine or other people's, or different other types of beings. And I would see them, feel them, know them. And they felt very different than the angelic or than the celestial. And so then that's when I got into my 20s, I was like, ⁓ that's what this is.

So it's not like I was walking around saying, hey, Archangel Michael is my guardian angel, because I didn't know until I started actually doing energy work and light work and that sort of thing.

Fairy & Flame (20:34)
Do you see him now more clearly? Does he have more as a colour or

Nichole (20:38)
So he, excuse me, he's kind of funny because, especially in sessions, I'm kind of like in the zone, I'm sure you both are like this too. And so he kind of plays around. So it'll be like a big flash of blue light or if I'm looking off, because I'm usually not like looking at the person even as I'm talking to you, I'm looking off in the distance and he'll be like a big flashlight or he'll get my attention like, hi, I'm here. If he feels like he needs to get my attention for that person, for me.

The way that I feel him and know him is similar to like when I was a child. I just feel that angelic presence around me and it feels very grounding and very protective. He's very funny too. But I will tell you a little side thing too, because I've shared this before. I had a crush on him when I was little because when I could see him in my mind's eye, he was like so good looking. But I know now as an adult, angels are like light beams. They don't really have human form, even though the depictions in the art.

Fairy & Flame (21:22)
Yeah.

Nichole (21:33)
But how he would show me to make me feel comfortable was this really good looking, like just man that I was like, I have such a crush on you.

Fairy & Flame (21:40)
Did he have a big sword in his hand?

Nichole (21:43)
I never saw the sword, I saw the shield a lot ⁓ and like the armor and everything. So that's also where I would feel very protective with him. And I always thought as I was growing up, I was like, I'm going to marry Michael. That's how much of a crush I had on him. thought I'm going to marry, I'm going to marry Michael. So yeah. Yeah.

Fairy & Flame (21:46)
Yeah.

He's your spirit husband. Your spirit husband ⁓ I love that. Is your do you have anyone else on your team that you refer to when you need things or is is is he the main one? Do you have other are there others?

Nichole (22:16)
Yes, so thank you for asking that. So when I started with Reiki, ⁓ Archangel Raphael, that was the second angel that Michael brought in, which again, I, my family on my mom's side is Catholic, but I did not grow up in any sort of religious household. So I'm not super into religion for a number of reasons. ⁓ But this was just the way I working, you know, obviously with Michael and now knowing this, but he brought in Raphael and it makes sense because Archangel Raphael, the angel of healing, they are all healers.

So I worked a lot, I intentionally called in Gabriel, because Gabriel is the Archangel for communication, and especially given my job before this, I was in PR and communications. So when I was first starting out, again, I got attuned to Reiki, but I was like, okay, I know Archangel Gabriel's for communications, and I don't know what the heck I'm doing here, I'm not this new job, I need you to help me. So it helped me with a lot of meetings, writing, that sort of thing.

At one point, this is a really fun story too, right after I, well I shouldn't say right, like maybe a few months after I got attuned to Reiki, ⁓ I had a dragon show up in meditation and it kind of freaked me out a little bit because I was like, it's this big black dragon that like flies and everything. And I thought, I have not heard anyone talk about dragons in my Reiki school or my teacher or anything. And I don't know if this is necessarily a good thing because usually, you you see Michael slaying the dragon.

Fairy & Flame (23:40)
Yeah. right.

Nichole (23:40)
Or dragons are looked as like demons and stuff. so, again, preconceived notions, religious dogma, all that. And so anyway, didn't say anything to anyone because I just thought, I'm going keep that to myself. And then the next time I was with my reiki master, she was doing some energy work on me. And she's like, you have a dragon around your energy. And she described it to a T. And I said, OK, thank you for confirming that. She's like, what are you talking about? And I said, I have a dragon. I think.

I know he's on my spirit team, and she's like, I want a dragon. yeah, ⁓ well, everyone does. And actually, work. The angels have been teaching me, because I've been trying to learn more recently. And I'm going to be doing, talk about this in my membership to the psychic club, but dragons work with angels. And they work with them a lot. And they are the protectors of the portals. And the reason why a lot of, whoever you want say they are, don't want us to know about them, and then they got erased from history,

Fairy & Flame (24:11)
Dragon T.

Nichole (24:37)
is because they allow us to travel multi-dimensionally, ⁓ move into different timelines, do all of that. yes, so I have a dragon. So I would say Raphael, Michael, Gabriel for sure, my dragon. And then I have some ancestors. I don't have a name for my dragon. I probably should get the, you know, it's interesting. They don't, ⁓ it's kind of like you have to like name, I hate to say this, but like name your pets.

Fairy & Flame (24:50)
Well what's the fact controlled?

Yeah.

Nichole (25:04)
Like, they don't necessarily need, you know, animals don't need names in the wild. don't, beings don't necessarily need names. It's a very human thing. And it's similar to like guardian angels too. Sorry. Can you help me name mine, Kat?

Fairy & Flame (25:12)
I name it. I name it. my gosh. Really? We're gonna do this? Okay. Okay. Well what does he look like? What is he? What colour is he? Is black?

Nichole (25:20)
Yeah, I think it'll be fun.

Black, and it's kind of like that iridescent. So when you look at the scales, it's like it's black at first, but then the scales are very iridescent colors. So for

Fairy & Flame (25:32)
You know what I got? I I I don't think if I'm gonna pronounce this properly. What colour is his eyes? Are they blue?

Nichole (25:37)
They're like a greenish blue, yeah.

Fairy & Flame (25:40)
I'm thinking what's the French word for black? Is it noir? Noir, yeah. Noir. I thinking noir. Yeah, that's what I meant anyway. That's better than what I got, which is Ralph. Yeah. Noir Ralph.

Nichole (25:44)
Yeah, no. I love that. Okay, so now I have a name for my dragon. Yes.

Well, that can be his middle name.

Sounds like a very fancy French perfume, sorta, kinda, Americanized a little bit.

Fairy & Flame (26:00)
It's a shame we haven't got JT, her husband speaks fluent Spanish, and he could help us. It's a joke. It's it's a joke about it. It's okay because he doesn't listen. So ⁓ I love that. so is everyone so you say a dragon's very protective as well. They they come in they protect the portals, yeah, but they're very protective of you as well if they come in.

Nichole (26:07)
Mm-hmm.

Yes, yes, and ⁓ meeting more people, it's so amazing because I've met so many more people that also have dragons and felt a little bit shy or self-conscious about mentioning it. And so there are water dragons, there are air dragons. And what I find fascinating is when you look in the Chinese zodiac, for example, the only non-animal one is a dragon, but that's actually because they did exist, they do exist, that sort of thing. But. ⁓

Fairy & Flame (26:48)
Yeah.

Nichole (26:50)
For me, mine is a very protective one. In fact, when I was in Egypt last year in the fall, I hadn't seen my dragon show up as much before. Because he only shows up really when something needs to be cleared or space or protection, yes, grounding. And he was going in, man. Anytime we would go into a temple, and I could see in my mind's eye the way that it was back in ancient Egypt or in Kemet, where they were flying in the kind of like,

Game of Thrones, quite frankly. Like flying everywhere and going everywhere. So they're protectors of the inter-dimensions of Earth and everything else and of sacred spaces around the Earth. so he was just flying with me everywhere. It was so cool.

Fairy & Flame (27:32)
That's so cool. It's so interesting that you brought up the the guardian of the portals because you know we have a we have a now mutual friend, another mutual friend, Angie Arkin, and we were talking to her about this the other day that we're gonna get to a point one day where we will be able to open these portals and travel through them and move throughout, you know, the the space and time through these portals. It's interesting though I this isn't the first conversation I've had about dragons actually, ⁓ in the last six months. It keeps coming back kind of like fairies are kind of at that kind of

Conversation back. So it I wonder if it's lining up with this idea of being able to travel through portals eventually. that would be cool. Yeah. I'd have a parcel straight to your kitchen. She's a feeder. I mean, gosh, yeah, I think that's just so fascinating. One more angel I just want to touch on because somebody that I'm fascinated with is and not not often people mention him. We often hear about Michael and and and and Gabrielle and and

Nichole (28:02)
Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Fairy & Flame (28:32)
Raphael but is Metatron. Do you ever work with Metatron at all? 'Cause he's quite very impactful.

Nichole (28:36)
Yes, Metatron and Zaggeel both too. So yeah, I work with all of the Archangels, but Metatron is a really fascinating, great one with a, you know, but for listeners that might not be familiar with sacred geometry, sacred numbers, nature. Also because Metatron is, fun fact, the only angel that actually had been human. And then through ascension gets turned into the angelic and is the youngest Archangel.

Fairy & Flame (28:40)
cool, thank you. Yeah.

Nichole (29:05)
So Metatron will show up, especially if people go to Mount Shasta a lot because of the connection and the portals and all the energy there. So he's a really great one to work with. And I'm curious to hear why you love him so much too, Kat. For people that I don't want to say struggling, but that are

working more towards ascension and working more through their spiritual growth because he did used to be in human form at one point and can understand a little bit more of our human existence.

Fairy & Flame (29:36)
Yeah. I think I'm just fascinated with him because his energy is is it's slightly different, you know, and that he I I'm a very sort of straight talking person. I'm a I'm sort of like get to the end, let's get to it. Yes. ⁓

Nichole (29:40)
Mm-hmm.

You are?

Fairy & Flame (29:50)
I'm usually so shy. ⁓ so for hit me, you know, he's the sort of person that gets you there quickly. There's no sort of like fluff with him. It's sort of like get to the point where he has an instant gratification element to him too. Like when you need something and yeah, you call him in, he's gonna be there. But you might not like that unfolds, but And I and I also love sacred geometry. I got really into it and all my fairies that I have in my books, they all have the flower of life. And so I'm fascinated with that and sacred geometry in numbers and so just

Nichole (29:56)
Mm hmm. Yeah.

Fairy & Flame (30:20)
just all of all of the above, I suppose. So it's just I I I I always like to mention him 'cause I feel like he's not the the forefront of the one that everyone mentions. I think because he's so I know, it's so cool. Yeah, imagine him like super, super cool. That's how he is in my any any Yeah, like being like

Nichole (30:28)
Mm-hmm. It's also such a unique name. Mm-hmm.

Wearing like leather boots and leather pants and mm-hmm.

Fairy & Flame (30:42)
Nicole, when you're having a session with somebody, take us through the process of your the way that you work with somebody. What does that process look like? Everyone's is a little bit different.

Nichole (31:01)
Sure, so right now on my website, I essentially have two sessions and I just did that to keep it simple. One is energy healing where, spoiler alert, the focus is on energy healing, not as much of an intuitive reading, although intuitive information can come through. Now I'll just put that to the side, but what I think you're asking more about is the intuitive session itself. And that is, I say that all my sessions are healing.

They're not therapy, it's not therapeutic, but you're going to receive messages and insights that are for your own soul's growth and development. The way I prepare is anywhere between an hour to 15 minutes in advance, depending on what I'm feeling led to do. I do a lot of prayer work, meditation. I start tuning into the energy slightly before the session, not too much more before the session, maybe 10 minutes before. I call in my guides and angels, their guides and angels, that person's higher self.

I ask for permission again, even though the person booked a session with me, because sometimes I have rescheduled sessions, because I've heard, yep, this person has not time yet. ⁓ So there's some divine timing with it, but that's very rare. And then when I get on a call with someone, I don't like Zoom. I don't like video very much. I find it very distracting. But I do do audio international Zoom ⁓ for people. But then if it's the first session with me, I do the light

a condensed prayer again for them so that they can hear the words I use. Not because it's from a religious perspective, but because I want it to be able to share that with everyone so that you know that you can do this yourself, that you can work with God and Universe Source, your guides and angels, you can receive messages yourself. So I do that so that people can learn a little bit. And then it just depends on the session focus. Some people want more type of predictive answers to questions.

Others have experiences that they want to share and they want to get a read on. Some people want to learn about their spirit team and their connection there. So it really just varies depending. And then at the end of the session, matter if it's your first or second, I always close it out and I sever the energetic connection. But I do a prayer at the end. It's meant I really it's more of an intention based on what we talk about. So if somebody wants to clear something, if you want to manifest, co-create, if whatever that is, I'll do a prayer.

surround them with their angels so they can continue to support them even after the session and that is pretty much how a session goes with me.

Fairy & Flame (33:27)
And you and you say we've all got everyone has gifts and everyone has an ability to tune in. What's what advice would you give to somebody that was thinking, ⁓ that sounds interesting. How would I how do you know what your gift is? How do you find that out?

Nichole (33:30)
Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm. So I like to start with and ask people, all right, what are your preferred ways of either communicating and or learning? So if someone says, am a really I love visual diagrams. I don't like to read instructions, but I like the visual diagrams you and you can visualize and maybe you have a really great creative imagination and you can see things you are going to likely tend to have more of that clairvoyant ability.

because you naturally are inclined to work in the real world and operate in the real world as a human within that. And clairvoyant is being able not just premonitions and predictions, but seen in your mind's eye and all of that. ⁓ If you tend to feel a lot, and we all have emotions, and for the most part, unless we're psychopaths, we all have empathy. ⁓ If you tend to feel more, and that is what you recognize in your life, you're definitely more of a clairempath.

And that clear empathy means, the angels told me once when I asked them, me a number, usually if you don't realize it and you're an empath, 80 % of what you're feeling is not yours. It's other people, because we're such sponges and we're picking it up. If you tend to be in your head a lot and you are thinking constantly and you're having constant inner dialogue, you have more of that clear intellect. We don't put these, and I don't really like to use those labels or those terms, but it helps people to understand, which is why I use them.

Fairy & Flame (34:48)
Wow.

Nichole (35:07)
because we tend to think of it as the physical. If I hear with my physical ears, if I see with my physical eyes, if I smell with my nose and my taste with my mouth and feeling it with my physical body, those are the things that are real, quote unquote. But there's an energetic mirror to it. So that's why I say everybody has it because you're not gonna only have the physical senses. It's like if you're walking down the street and this happened one time to me in the city.

⁓ I was like in New York and it was eerily quiet. was like early in the morning. No one was around walking in the city and there's all these tall buildings. And I look up because I could feel eyes on me and somebody's looking out the window and we make eye contact, but I could feel their eyes on me. And you know, that's your instinct. That's your intuition. so, but I can have when people are in a session with me, if they're not sure ⁓ what my guides and angels will do is I clear my energy.

Fairy & Flame (35:51)
Yeah.

Nichole (36:00)
And then I ask them to show me how their intuition shows up or their psychic abilities. And they show me how it is working for them. And then that's how I'm able to tell them, all right, this is how it's coming across from you. And that is really helpful for people because oftentimes it's more helpful to hear it phrased a certain way or for somebody to show you. Because when it's really strong, we're not even like when I thought, my parents had these memories. Everybody has these memories. We just assume.

⁓ I have a strong sense of gut intuition. Everybody has a strong sense of gut intuition. Not always. So those are the things that you think are obvious, and it's not intuition. you're not necessarily recognizing it as much.

Fairy & Flame (36:33)
Yeah.

Gi give us give us an example of that Claire intellect. Like is would that be, for example, ⁓ a doctor who is really good at diagnosing things? Is is that a waste that they're using their Claire intellect or

Nichole (36:54)
So not everyone has an inner dialogue. Like science is like, which.

Fairy & Flame (36:58)
That's that is crazy because ⁓ mine does not ever slow down. Yeah.

Nichole (37:03)
Could you imagine how quiet your brain would be if you didn't have an inner dialogue?

Fairy & Flame (37:07)
I'd quite like it. Yeah, it'd probably be very

Nichole (37:09)
Yeah, yeah. And that's why a lot of people do meditation and try and get into one of the ways for meditation is to have a clear mind and have all that. But so if you are someone that's constantly thinking, all right, what am going to have for dinner? I need to go and do this tomorrow. Making lists and stuff like that. That is your egoic thought. That is you consciously shifting and doing tasks and thinking through your mind.

Fairy & Flame (37:13)
Yeah.

I think

Nichole (37:36)
If you have thoughts that come in and there's dialogue that's happening or also think of it, it could also be termed as like telepathy, then that is your intuition coming through in a completely different way. So think of writers, for example, when they're like, that book just flowed really easily. And maybe they're thinking or they also could be hearing almost like a narrator in their mind, ⁓ you know, a clear audience. So it can come through. ⁓

in those ways, but that is one way. But yes, I would say doctors, especially if they're more clinical or people that are more processed and that's the way they think and they're able to move through their day and they're efficient. But that's more the logical mind, the egoic, whereas intuition is going to cut your intuitive mirror to that is going to come in where you're not having to think about it at all. It just drops in.

Fairy & Flame (38:25)
Got it. So it's it's it's almost like it's so th it is that six cents per se, but you're saying under that six cents there's these all there's these eight different categories.

Nichole (38:29)
Mm-hmm.

Yeah, there's actually 12. And I cut my Guides and Angels off when I was writing my book, because they said, and then there's more. I'm like, no, it's just too much for people. So I kept it at 12. Yeah, yeah, there's, ⁓ gosh. So you have your clairaudience, so hearing. Your clairsalience, which is smelling. Your clergustance, which is tasting. Clairrecognizance, which is gut knowing. You have your clairvoyance, which is clear seeing. You have.

Fairy & Flame (38:40)
Can we can you can you can you list up?

Nichole (39:01)
Clear intellect which is your mind your mind. ⁓ I don't have my book in front of me. I should know all of them. But yes, there's 12 What? Yeah, that was not a shameless plug. But yes now it is a shameless plug. But yes ⁓ the Claire sentience was just clear physical feeling too. So ⁓ often though your clear physical feeling you think that

Fairy & Flame (39:08)
Everyone should buy a but if everyone buys if everyone buys your button they're much Yeah

Nichole (39:26)
I get chills and it's because I'm cold maybe or if I have a stomach ache or a headache, I wasn't feeling it before. I ate something or I'm having a headache. It could very well be someone else around you. Clear empathy. I say clear sentience. Some practitioners will label that as clear physical feeling and emotional feeling. I kind of separate them as if you're an empath and you feel they do go hand in hand. But if you are an empath and you feel so much to me that can tend to override. OK.

Fairy & Flame (39:45)
Okay.

Nichole (39:55)
So that is, yes, so I think I had most of them there. There were a couple others, but I can't remember them.

Fairy & Flame (40:01)
Can you have can you have all twelve? Could all twelve be in play? Okay. Got it.

Nichole (40:03)
Yeah, well, we all technically have all 12. Think about it this way. I am not good at math. It takes me really, if I really wanted to do some complex algebraic equation, I could remember and likely reteach myself and do it, but it doesn't come so easily. I'm also not very good at music or other things, but I'm artistic in other ways. And those things that come naturally, so we can do it. We can tap into an ability.

that we put our mind to, because it's all our conscious awareness and all of our energy that we have at our disposal. And it's available to us. But it might be harder. So what I like to say to people is lean into your strengths and what comes. So if you're a feeler, feel the feelings, but recognize that most of them in the beginning are not yours. And the more you recognize that, you go back to your own, what I say, energetic baseline, where you're actually your own energy and feeling.

If you are more in your head and you're a clear intellect and you have a lot of ruminating thoughts and you can't shut that down, do things, which is one of the reasons why Michael taught me the chalkboard exercise. Like everything's written on the chalkboard, it's erasing so that you have a clear mind so that then when things come in, that is your intuition shining and not necessarily the egoic mind. So there are ways that you can work with it. So hopefully that helps.

Fairy & Flame (41:23)
Could you

I'm I'm this is this is kind of a weird question. But is there is there a way, let's say you've got you you're a mom of two kids and a husband and you've got all these things, you got animals, you got life, and is there a way to parcel off a part of your brain? Almost like I see in my brain as a little box that would allow, okay, if something needs to drop in, drop in over here. Almost like drop in this box that I've got on the right side. I've gotta have it right, my mailbox. I've gotta have all of this other stuff, but but come

Nichole (41:45)
Mm-hmm.

Fairy & Flame (41:54)
to this space. Is there a way to live in both worlds or is it something really okay.

Nichole (42:01)
Yes, sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt you. Yes, one of the things that I do, and I'm sure you both experience this as well, especially one, if I'm in an interview like this, or two, if I'm in a session, is I'm having a conversation with the two of you. I'm having a conversation with your guides and angels if they step forward, also my guides and angels. So it's kind of like being in a really crowded room, and mine are respectful, yours are respectful. Sometimes people's loved ones are not respectful or what have you.

And so it's just this loud crowded room and your senses are on fire in all these different ways. So if something comes through to me, I will often say in my mind or in my head, put a pin in that. I don't know why, it's just something I say. So I'm going put a pin in that or I put it on a shelf and I ask my guides and angels to remind me later because otherwise you're going to be so overwhelmed with information. And so what you're talking about, which I love, is it's more of a visual exercise. So I do it.

mentally of, ⁓ thanks, hold that thought, let's get back when it needs to come back through. Because sometimes I'll receive, and I'm sharing this with you as a mom, because I know where you're getting at, ⁓ I'll receive information and I don't necessarily know where it fits in because I'm not, I know it's not for me, I'm not in session yet with someone, so I'm like, okay, remind me about that later. And then when I am in the session with someone, it comes right back to the forefront.

And I'm like, OK, now I know that this is for this person.

Fairy & Flame (43:29)
think so much I think my abilities I I think that's what gets in the way of them so much is I have so much going on in my brain. I can do a lot of things like a lot of women can.

Nichole (43:37)
Yep.

Fairy & Flame (43:41)
And when I'm in meditation, whoof, you know, it flies right open. I just want to get into a space where it almost can coexist together. And I don't have to just be in this room with no nothing happening and a candle going and my eyes closed at a certain time with nobody up. Like it would be nice to just say, put a pen in that spirit guides. That's brilliant. I love that.

Nichole (44:05)
Yes. Well, and it kind of goes back to when we were talking when I was little and Michael taught me that chalkboard exercise, because again, we're not taught these things when we start opening up more. And especially when we're listening to podcasts like this or we're intentionally working on our spiritual growth, we are opening ourselves up to more experiences, whether we've said it or not. And so as the as empaths, because I believe every human for the most part is this empath empaths first and foremost, because Earth is an emotional planet.

We're having this this physical experience here, but all this other information is coming through to us. And then we're also working on it as an adult. What do we do? So one of the things I would recommend for you is or for anyone listening is one of the things I do every single morning before I even get out of bed is I tune into my own energy. I get that baseline. I ask myself, how am I feeling on the energetic levels and all levels? How so what does that look like emotionally? What does that look like physically? What does that look like and feel like mentally?

What does that look like now? What's that? I call it the wrapper, like my ethereal, the psychic aspect, my aura, everything around me. And usually, and because we go to sleep, so we think, we're going to wake up refreshed. Well, no, we go into dreamland. We travel. We do more. It's not just sleeping for, it's sleep for our physical body, but it's not sleep for the soul and rest for the soul. So when we're in between that veil, right when we're waking up and we ask ourselves that,

We can breathe into it and we get that energetic baseline. then we can say, like, so for today, I was a little off. I'll be honest. And I was really excited to have this interview. But you know, it's because I have a dog. He's not doing very well. And so my energy is off. So I did this exercise. And I'm like, OK, is this mine? Is this his? Is this something else I'm not aware of? What's going on energetically? I sat down in meditation for this time for a good hour to clear my energy, got my baseline. But there was a lot going on.

And now as I'm going through the day and I'm navigating, I push all of that to the side where 90 % of that was not mine. I pushed all of that to the side. And so I can be present and aligned with myself. So then when something else comes into my energy field, I immediately know it or feel it or think it. I'm like, OK, put a pin in that unless it's something I need to deal with that's right in front of me right now. So that's how you walk and chew gum at the same time when you're intuitive.

Fairy & Flame (46:24)
Well that sounds very doesn't I love that that's such a wonderful r it's brilliant. That tool's brilliant to be able to do that, to have put a pin on it. I when you said that I sort almost sort of like you know, like you're talking about the chalkboard, a pin board, where you put like a little

Nichole (46:38)
Yes. I never thought about that. Yeah, it's literal.

Fairy & Flame (46:42)
Yeah, literally, yeah. I must be visual. Yeah. Put a little put a little pin in it. Do you have any advice for seeing as you're obviously good at tools? ⁓ if people are and we you know, I've learned so much just by I mean I'm I learn every pot I do I learn something new. ⁓ and so if you're with people that you are finding toxic or sucking off your energy and you know, and I do have tools to to to to like detach from that. Do you have anything that you would suggest that people can can do for themselves? If you've you we all

No, there's that one person that you have to deal with that might, you know, and you come away and you feel sort of yucky and it feels like their energy is sort of sticking on you. What would you suggest to?

Nichole (47:21)
This is going to sound harsh, but cut them off. There are people, and we'll get to that, where you can't. I'm at the age right now where there are certain things I can feel in my body. I can feel it emotionally. I could be excited in my mind about something and then want to do something, and my body and my heart are just like, it's a hard no, and I feel anxious. It's the same thing with people.

Fairy & Flame (47:28)
I heard the same thing. We're not talking about English specifically, are we?

Nichole (47:51)
⁓ I do understand that we can't cut every single person off in our life with this. Maybe we work with a difficult person or we have a family member or a friend, know, we can't just cut off everybody. So in that instance, ⁓ I would say it really depends on the situation. So I'll just use work as an example here. Let's say it's a, you need that job, you get a paycheck, your boss is such a micromanager and they're anxious and so it makes you anxious and everything else.

in any of those instances is like I have to go into work so I need to I need this job. I'm going to call in the light. I'm going to call in my guides and angels. I'm going to ask that my energy not be impacted by this person's energy. You mentioned severing the connection. That's a really great visual tool. You can energetically cut cords. If you've been in a relationship, I see this a lot with people, whether it's a friendship or a romantic relationship.

And you were really bonded, but then that relationship has gone toxic, but like it's been months or years of essentially your energy like entwined for so long. It's not as simple as just imagining cords and getting and cutting them. Sometimes it's over and over and over again, but it's also about recognizing maybe that their energy is still entwined with mine and that needs to be released and let go. And so there's many things that you can do primarily asking your higher self there at that person's soul's higher self of.

okay, we be either copacetic, can we be in a peaceful state and really working with energy there, not necessarily here on this physical plane, if that makes sense.

Fairy & Flame (49:29)
They're connecting with their soul rather than their physical self. I've had instances where I've done that though and they're like, No. I've gone up to the higher self, my high and and they have or I've had instances where I'm trying to cut the cords and then the the the scissors went, they won't work. Or it's it's it's really weird. I I'm gonna have to do a bit more of a deep drive.

Nichole (49:31)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

really? Yeah.

Hmm. So then that would tell me that maybe the and I hate to use the word karmic but like the karmic lesson or experience is not done yet So then I would say I know it can be just but then I would say okay show me more What is it? That I need to know not that you need to experience But what do I need to know that I'm not that's not being revealed the hack I use and by the way, it works like a charm

And I learned this when I was a teenager, because Michael taught me this too, was any time we're repeating things, whether it's relationships or situations like this or anything in our life, like, just can't. I ask for that contract to be null and void. And any karmic lessons or experiences, be like, thank you. I've got them now. ⁓ Now, remember, you may experience it in another way in your life through something else. But at least if you want that.

that relationship or that toxic person to be kind of like removed to some extent. That's one way to do it as well.

Fairy & Flame (50:52)
That's interesting. And would that work with so that there's that instance where there's someone that you just want that person out of your life? So null and void, great, we're done. We've learned that lesson. What if you have a family member who you want that particular contract done? But obviously they're your family members, so they're always going to be in your life and on on a soul level you love them, but they drive you crazy. Not talking about me specifically at all. ⁓ yeah. So no, it's it's ⁓ it's

Nichole (51:13)
I'm

I know. No, no, no, no. It's all it's great questions. I would say what I was hearing ⁓ your guides and angels say is what is the and it's not going to be on this podcast. So you may need to do it afterward on this episode. What is the relationship that you want to have with them? Because you can still. Yes, family's family and they're not going to go anywhere necessarily. We can't cut everybody else off in our lives. So is it that my relationship with them is going to be, you know,

They're in your life for reason, but also that doesn't mean that they need to be in your life all the time. So what is the type of relationship that you want? And this is going to sound a little woo or manifesty, but they're also saying, like, visualize the type of relationship that you want to have with them, too. Not necessarily they're saying, by the way, for you to like the way that they speak to you, because I feel like this might be a communication style. But it's more how do you want to feel when you're with them and you're experiencing that aspect of the relationship?

Fairy & Flame (52:13)
Okay, thank you.

Nichole (52:14)
And that'll shift the energy dynamics with it. ⁓ I will say the other final thing, sorry, that they were telling me with the one where trying to cut the cords and you see that too, is that it might not necessarily be related to you and what you need to experience, but related to what the person still hasn't learned or experienced. So in that case, you can also be like, no BS, like I'm done. Like this is not my problem or not my issue to fix. So that's when the null and void thing comes in too.

Fairy & Flame (52:43)
That makes perfect sense. Yes. Okay. Did you just secretly get a reading from the board? That's nothing specific to my life at all. Yes.

Nichole (52:49)
Yeah, she did. She edged that in.

Hey, these questions have applied to me and I'm sure, yeah, to every single listener out there. So, yes.

Fairy & Flame (53:03)
That's right. It's just, you know, you do all this work, you learn all this stuff, you know, and you you know, you read and you do all this and then you still have these situations and you're like, Well I'm doing this and I'm doing doing that. What else? What else is it's still showing up, it's still coming. So, you know, there's always something else new to learn. I'm I'm a co I'll I'll be forever student of everything here. So thank you. ⁓ I appreciate that.

Nichole (53:07)
Mm-hmm.

I know, it's exhausting.

Absolutely. Thanks. They were great questions. Thank you for asking.

Fairy & Flame (53:26)
Well, they were great questions. Well I'm just gonna ask ⁓ Is there anything, Nicole, that's coming through specifically for Fairy and Flame for our pod? Is is there anything or any of is any of our guides or any of your guides put it a pin? Have you put a pin in anything since you've been talking to us for for the pod?

Nichole (53:46)
You know, I haven't, but as soon as you ask the question, are you guys going to be doing a series?

Fairy & Flame (53:55)
Yeah. Yes. Yes. That's crazy.

Nichole (53:58)
Because I just saw, so for the listeners are like, well, how did she get that? So I like to explain it. I saw series and words written in my mind. So I'm clairvoyance and then I heard series and then I was seeing it like, and so I, and this is where I try not to, why I asked you the question versus interpreting it. Series to me could be a series of like within the, within the podcast itself, where it's like, for example, I have a series where it's called listener stories. It's still within the podcast, but it's

Fairy & Flame (54:06)
⁓ we had it then.

Nichole (54:27)
of a psychic story, but it's in its own little container. A series could be TV series. Series could be more video. I'm seeing like all of it. ⁓ So anyway, so I'll leave it at that. But that was the first thing that they said, because at first I thought maybe it was for the listeners, but they were like, no, it's specifically to the podcast. And then they said series.

Fairy & Flame (54:45)
Amazing 'cause yeah, we're in a little bit of this we're waiting to hear back on some things, but that couldn't have been that was Yeah. That was Hey, that's fine. You're good at this. You should do this you should do this for a living. That's amazing. Yeah, thank you. Yeah. Who are your guys? I know you've got the angels that we talked about, but who else do you have that? Do you have any ancestors?

Nichole (54:59)
I try. mean, it's not me. Yeah, it's not me. It's guides and angels, Hmm? Yeah.

Yes, so my mom's mom, my maternal grandmother, she, it's funny, I feel bad that I did this, but for a while there, she was showing up in every reading, every person I went to. I want to know about my career. There's my grandma. I want to know about my relationship. There's my grandma. And she would just kind of hog the air time. So finally I was like, grandma, take a step back. But when I started doing this professionally, I'm not a medium, meaning I can communicate with souls that have crossed over. I do. prefer.

⁓ Angelic and other types of beans and working with people on their souls growth So when my grandma shows up in a session that she to me is kind of my mediator saying hey I met a friend on the other side knock knock kind of like, you know A friend would refer to say hey so-and-so would be great for your podcast I'm gonna take your recommendation probably over something else if my grandma's coming in with a soul on the other side like hi Granddaughter, can you let them in so she works with me and so she shows up

Yeah, so she's and she taught me a lot. She was one where, well, again, everyone in my family on both sides, but she had a lot of knowing she she predicted a lot of deaths. She didn't like her abilities because a lot of that was about death. so also, though, unfortunately, I have her and then all my family members. It's like a kind of a party sometimes when the first time it ever happened. I was about to go to sleep and I was like trying to read a book.

And all of a sudden I felt all of my family, including my grandma in my room. And I thought, this is so fun. What are you all doing here? This is great. And then the next day, got some bad news about two family members that were passing. And so I realized that she shows up too. the feeling, my God, the card, celebration. When my ancestors show up, it's celebration. It's fun. Yes, yes. Because I was wondering why.

Fairy & Flame (56:58)
There you go.

It is. We pulled this card. We pull a card before every pot and Nicole's card was celebration. I love that. That comes from

Nichole (57:10)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. So yes, so it's a celebration. It's a party. And at first, I thought, that's so fun. And so now I know. So I share that. That's primarily for me. But go ahead.

Fairy & Flame (57:23)
And it could be a celebration for them because as we all know, the the real celebration

Nichole (57:26)
Correct. They're returning back to the other side. it may be sad for us, but so she is. And then another ancestor that came through. So first of all, what I should say is I refer to loved ones in spirit, mostly in sessions. If people are coming to me, it's usually like a mom or a dad or a grandma or somebody that they knew and they were close to. But there's also ancestors that we have from other lifetimes.

Fairy & Flame (57:31)
Yeah, yes.

Nichole (57:53)
that haven't been able to physically be here in this lifetime with us. And so we've bonded and so they're helping us. So when I refer to ancestors too, that's what I mean. It's not only your soul family in this physical form and in this lifetime, but I do have one that showed up. Long story short, I'll just tell you. I was, my mom found, speaking to my grandma who's on the other side,

She had, I would say it was more like the family historian and there was a huge file folder of all these family photos and my mom wanted me to look through them. I'm looking and there aren't names on them, there aren't dates. So these people look great, but who are they? We have no idea. Well, one of these photos, I was just drawn to this woman and I was taken in by her eyes. I knew that there was something there, wasn't necessarily short. And then later on there's another photo. My grandmother had taken a photo copy of

my relatives photo and off to the side she wrote true story. I did not know this part. So my family on my grandmother's side was from Lichtenstein. So Lichtenstein is a really small little country and she I guess we had always been told that we were ⁓ connected to the royalty. Well she was actually supposed to be on the throne to Lichtenstein. Well she decided she didn't want that so she abdicated her seat for love.

and left and came to the United States and my grandmother had handwritten this whole thing and sure enough the photo that I was drawn to that I didn't know who she was was the photo that she photocopied. I say that because I was like okay well that was a couple months ago my mom said we should look at the photos and I thought nothing else of it. Cool story great wonder what happened to you didn't know anything else because there's no other history and so I'm having a reading for my dog Leo.

from another pet psychic and she's giving a reading and she says, there's this ancestor of yours on the other side. She describes her this like really dark hair, piercing eyes. That's what drew me in to the photo is that she had these piercing eyes. And she said, Leo was her dog in a past life and she brought Leo to you and she's communicating with Leo through you. And the reason I was having this session was because Leo's not doing so well he's gonna cross over soon.

but she came through. So I would say she's on my spirit team, but she's new. I'm just starting to work with.

Fairy & Flame (1:00:10)
Wow. What's her what's her name?

Nichole (1:00:13)
I knew you were going ask me that and I still don't know her name. She didn't write down the name, but I am going to find out. I have her photo and stuff, and so it'll be easy enough with the history and with the throne and stuff to look it up.

Fairy & Flame (1:00:16)
shit.

What kind of dog is Leo?

Nichole (1:00:28)
He's a Pomeranian, chocolate and white. He has one of like little fox faces.

Fairy & Flame (1:00:30)
Leah. ⁓ so sweet. bless him. sending mails. You I guess there's a part of you then that's thinking you guys are doing this tug of war with Leo. It's like okay, now it's you've had your time. Now it's back back to the What a cool story.

Nichole (1:00:45)
Ha ha.

Yes, yes, yes. But yeah, so, so, yeah, so lots of ancestors from that perspective, but primarily the, the angelic for sure.

Fairy & Flame (1:00:59)
What what's your grandmother's name? my grandmother was called it and you were a V as well. Vontella. Yeah. Yeah. Which is quite unusual. ⁓ very good. That's that's so interesting. I love that. Nicole, before we ⁓ wrap things up today, this has been a fascinating conversation and it's taken at me and like I don't even we haven't even followed any of this. We have a way of doing that. ⁓

Nichole (1:01:01)
Viva!

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

I was kind of like with mine too when you were on mine. just had, it's like having coffee with friends.

Fairy & Flame (1:01:29)
Our taglines building up the collective consciousness of our world one pot at a time. We're gonna change it because I told Kat, we're not building anymore. It's here. ⁓ but what it what message do you have right now for the collective? There is a lot happening. We just got through talking about eclipse season. There's been so much happening with Mother Nature.

a natural disaster's just a lot of big energy rolling through our world right now. And it's hard sometimes to really stay in that place of peace, but it's so, so important. What is your message? What is your guide's message that's coming through right now for our collective?

Nichole (1:02:09)
that our sovereignty and our free will and choice is key. So we are being sold a book of goods and have been for so long. And that's why it's really hard for people because the wool has been pulled back and the veil has been pulled back or the curtains. And now we're sitting around going, what the F, what do we do? And the simple thing is if you stay in your lane, if you focus on your own light,

if you try as much as possible to know that the reality around you, not actually the reality around you, it's all of a falsehood. The only truth is within yourself. And so when you're focusing on that, even as hard as it is, if you can be in that state of peace and love and joy and happiness and bliss as much as humanly possible in this human body, then you're doing the work, then you're doing your job. When a day is stressful and things are just not going well for you,

Understand and know the very first thing when you ask the question I heard is they said it's okay And I thought why can't leave with that that was what they said. It's okay But the bigger message is all of that underneath it to say it is all working out. It is all okay It's actually a good thing think of it like the Phoenix rising from the ashes type of scenario And then the how and the what it can feel overwhelming in terms of what we have to do But it's not about going and and focusing on that person should do this

whether it's politics, that person needs to do this, whether it's religion. there's a flood, the world is burning, there's a war rate. Like, stop with all of that and focus on the within. And if every single person were to do that, there truly would be peace on Earth. And that's where we are.

Fairy & Flame (1:03:54)
That's beautiful. It's our it's our light shine. Let your light shine. Let me light shine. Yeah. And watch That's right. That's beautiful. Thank you, Nicole. Thanks. That was wonderful. Yeah. We so appreciate you being on Fairy and Flame. Is there ⁓ can you tell everyone where they can find you, where they can find Psychic Story? I know where they can find it, but would you like to tell them?

Nichole (1:03:57)
Mm-hmm. And it ripples out. Yes.

Sure. Yeah. So A Psychic Story, can listen wherever you listen to podcasts or wherever you're listening to this one, just hit the follow button if possible. A Psychic Story, so it's two S's in the middle, is my website or psychicsstory.com rather, and it's also on all social. I'm primarily more active on Instagram. And if you want the book Looking for Angels, you can, I would say support your local bookstore if you can, but it's also wherever you get books. So.

Thanks again for having me so much. I wanted to give you a quick update. I realize I never sent you the picture of the little fairy house that I got. So I'll have to text you and send that to you. ⁓ And I got a little bit more of a gift. A walnut was placed on the little balcony of it. And I think it was a squirrel, though. But I'm going to tell myself it was a fairy.

Fairy & Flame (1:04:47)
yes. Yeah, I'd love that.

Yeah.

wasn't a spiral. We before we had our pod earlier, because we we interviewed Fairy Lady yesterday and this happens to me all the time. But Casey the we interviewed the Fairy We interviewed the Fairy Whisperer. Yeah, the the Queen of the Fairies. ⁓ but we had s Casey'd put my mic on the chair and then we came back down here and it was round the corner and and I I'd said, Come on fairies, w where is it? 'Cause they do stuff like that to me all the time and it's just n it's just a little nod that they're here. Keep the fairies my recommendation just I love the fairy

As to keep them outside. I have them everywhere. They they get just this morning I was like, where is that damn microphone? I just set it on your chair, Catherine. Where is the microphone? And then we usually round the It's on the ground ground around the corner. I mean it was crazy. But anyway, good love them very well. Thanks for teaching us so much as well. I appreciate it. I love getting built.

Nichole (1:05:31)
Yes, yes.

That's too funny. Well, thank you so much again for having me. I appreciate it and hope you have beautiful rest of your days.

Of course, and good luck with the series. I can't wait.

Fairy & Flame (1:05:58)
⁓ neither can we. Thank you, Nicole. Thank you.