Dru's Notes

I sit still for two and a half hours each day. Meditation trains a specific muscle: each minute is a rep against the urge to stop or check the time, and that muscle transfers to hard runs, heavy lifts, tense negotiations and cold showers.

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I sit still for two and a half hours each day. Meditation trains a specific muscle: each minute is a rep against the urge to stop or check the time, and that muscle transfers to hard runs, heavy lifts, tense negotiations and cold showers.

Featuring: Blaise Pascal, David Goggins, Tim Noakes

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Dru Riley
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Blaise Pascal
Featured in Dru's Notes: Mental Toughness via Meditation.
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David Goggins
Featured in Dru's Notes: Mental Toughness via Meditation.
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Tim Noakes
Featured in Dru's Notes: Mental Toughness via Meditation.

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"All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone."

Blaise Pascal

I sit still for two and a half hours each day.

Meditation trains a specific muscle. Each minute is a rep against the urge to stop or check the time. Two things pull at you when you sit. The body wants to escape the moment. The mind wants a distraction: a thought, the phone, a snack, anywhere else but silence.

The same urge shows up elsewhere. On a hard run. Under a heavy lift. In a tense negotiation. The mind reaches for the exit. Most people take it.

On a hard run, the urge to stop used to feel stronger. Now it feels like a familiar pull I sit with and overcome each morning during meditation. The body still has more to give. Most of the time, the mind is where our limit lives.

There's a name for what's happening. The sports scientist Tim Noakes calls it the Central Governor: your brain throttles your muscles long before your body is in real trouble. The fatigue you feel at mile six is a warning issued by a cautious brain. The actual ceiling sits well past it. David Goggins puts the same idea in lived language. "Sadly, most of us give up when we've only given around 40 percent of our maximum effort. I call this The 40 Percent Rule." The body usually has more to give. The mind reaches for the exit first.

Stillness is difficult. Doing it daily builds the muscle.

- Running and lifting gets easier
- Negotiations are easier
- In tense conversations, you think clear when you used to panic
- Cold showers become easier

Train the urge in one place. Reap the benefits in others.

What "limit" could you train past?