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Resentment!
Reality Check!
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Day 13,777(1) - Resentment!.mp3
Transcript
00:00:01 Kevin
Resentment.
00:00:02 Kevin
So, people are going to resent you for being honest with them because people can't handle the truth.
00:00:10 Kevin
Jack Nicholson said that in a movie.
00:00:13 Kevin
But it's not untrue.
00:00:16 Kevin
People can't handle the truth.
00:00:18 Kevin
They don't like it.
00:00:19 Kevin
And so loved ones are going to eventually kind of digest it.
00:00:22 Kevin
Like when you read a book, sometimes you don't digest it for like weeks, months, years later.
00:00:26 Kevin
And you start applying different things from classic novels and stuff like that.
00:00:30 Kevin
You're like, wow, that's great information.
00:00:31 Kevin
And that's kind of how people work, right?
00:00:34 Kevin
So you tell them the truth.
00:00:35 Kevin
They don't like it at first.
00:00:36 Kevin
They're resistive because it's change.
00:00:38 Kevin
It's something they don't want to hear.
00:00:39 Kevin
It's something they don't want to address themselves.
00:00:41 Kevin
And you're forcing them to address it, which that forcefulness
00:00:45 Kevin
in just using your words like truth is going to make them resent you.
00:00:49 Kevin
And loved ones will get past it and they'll be like, you know what?
00:00:52 Kevin
I appreciate him more or her more or whoever for telling me the truth and being honest with me.
00:00:57 Kevin
And that's a true friend.
00:00:58 Kevin
That's a true spouse.
00:01:00 Kevin
That's a true parent, you know, whatever.
00:01:04 Kevin
So with that said, others are going to gain resent and they are going to be resentful and they may never let go of that resent.
00:01:12 Kevin
because it's probably something they're still not going to deal with.
00:01:15 Kevin
And because they, maybe you're, you spoke truth at them and they just, they don't want to take it.
00:01:20 Kevin
That's just not how they're wired.
00:01:22 Kevin
And, they're going to hold resentment against you.
00:01:24 Kevin
And you just have to deal with that.
00:01:26 Kevin
There's something that you're going to deal with and you can do it.
00:01:30 Kevin
You can do it.
00:01:31 Kevin
I have faith in you.