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104: What You Can Do When The Law Of Attraction Is Not Working For You
I celebrate my birthday on 3rd June 2021. Because of this, I'm doing a Money Mindset Series: Birthday Edition. A gift for you as your money mindset mentor to create an outrageously successful life and business. In this Money Mindset Series, I hope that it will help you create wealth and gain practical wisdom on releasing your money blocks. For Women Who Love The F-Word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and A Happy Family..... YOU HAVE A DIAMOND WITHIN YOU AND YOU DESERVE TO SHINE! Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset
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The podcast features business leaders, celebrities and inspirational figures with guests including Gary Vaynerchuk, Sheryl Sandberg, Elena Cardone, Mary Buffett, Neil Patel, Kim Kiyosaki, Pia Wurtzbac, Gerry Roberts, Grant Cardone, Denise Duffield Thomas, Sue B Zimmerman, Jay Abraham, Robert Kiyosaki, Anik Singal, Blair Singer, Nas Daily, Dame Wendy Tan, Jacy Wee, Freda Liu, Carrie Lee, Success Resources Veronica Tan & Richard Tan and many more.
Hear more about amazing role models from around the world share their inspirational stories and practical tools for personal and professional success. In each episode, creator and host Genecia Alluora draws out the stories and deconstructs the strategies of remarkable figures making an impact. To Own & Love The F-Word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and family.
Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, 𝑰𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑾𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 2019. She is the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F’ membership program. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and online academy, she mentors hundreds of thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online. With her coaching products, academy and membership, her vision is to support 1 million women to own and love the F-Word.
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Genecia Alluora: I celebrate my birthday on 3rd of June. Because of this, I'm doing a Money Mindset Series Birthday Edition. A gift for you as your Money Mindset Mentor to create an outrageously successful life and business. In this Money Mindset Series, I hope that it will help you to create wealth and gain practical wisdom on releasing your money blocks. For women who love the F-word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and a happy family. You have a diamond that is within you and you deserve to shine. Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly online course is available at shor.by/moneymindset.com.
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Genecia Alluora: Hello, gorgeous. Welcome to today's episode. I'm Genecia Alluora, author of two best selling Books, Make It Happen, and Personal Branding Secrets, former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owners, Southeast Asian Women of Excellence 2010, and International Progressive Women 2019. I'm also the founder of Soul Rich Woman. Today's episode, I want to talk about what to do when the law of attraction isn't working for you. When I first came across the law of attraction very much earlier in my career, it's really very, very exciting. It's like Christmas for me, or Chinese New Year. It's like the birthday party.
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Genecia Alluora: So you think, Oh my God, how could this be possibly true? Can I just really ask for something and get it, Genecia? This is amazing. So you see, you can set goals, make a dream board, and wait. And you feel like you've done everything right because you've pasted all the photos, the images, the car you want, the house you want, the husband you want, the money you want. And so you get really pissed off because nothing happens, right? So you said to the universe, Hello? Why universe, you're not giving me? Where's all the things I asked for on my dream board? So I had someone ask me for advice recently, and she was confused about how this works.
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Genecia Alluora: She loved following our podcast show, Soul Why, and for women who love the F word and also Make It Happen podcast show. And she was incredibly frustrated. She's like, Genecia, I'm really panicking. I have no money in my bank account right now and I've got three big bills to pay this month. What am I supposed to do? So I say to start with, stop feeling bad and scared about it. It will only make it worse. So even though you are worried, start by first affirming that everything will be okay to visualizing you paying the bills easily through feeling, feel the feeling of being so taken care of by the universe. And she said, Genecia, you don't understand what I'm saying. How am I supposed to do that when I have no money in my bank account? It's true.
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Genecia Alluora: Everything that you are saying is lovely, Genecia, but in reality, there is nothing there in my bank account. So you see, negative affirmations are just as powerful as the positive ones. When you you say, I have no money, I'm broke, I'm in a six figure debt, I am in a five figure debt, I have no money to pay for your program, I have no money to pay for this, I have no money, you will only perpetuate the feelings of fear and anxiety, which will probably attract even more bills and unexpected expenditure. And the funny part about the situation was that she couldn't see the pattern. Of course, because I am the mentor, right? Of course, she as a mentee, she wouldn't be able to see the pattern. But then again, after communicating with her, she still couldn't see it.
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Genecia Alluora: So she was constantly experiencing this feeling of having no money, complaining and whining. And then at least once a month, she was running out of money and she was unwilling to look inside and change. I told her to stay positive and to affirm that something would come up. And it did. Someone eventually did give her money out of the blue and she was saved that very month. Then the horror story came. The next month, she wrote to me again and said, Genecia, I did another law of attraction experiment, like you said, and asked for $2,000 to show up today, and it didn't. Why? And it gets really a little bit frustrating on my nerves, actually.
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Genecia Alluora: I wanted to tell her, look, there's a process, okay? It's not always you think you want it now and then you will show up instantly with a snap of your fingers and like the Fary Godmother, and it will immediately appear in front of you. If that were to happen, then everyone will understand what is the law of attraction. But you know what? There is a process here. It's not always going to show up instantly if you are not willing to do the inner work involved. It's really so much fun when things manifest instantly, but most of the time there is a time lag and there's no way of knowing how long. Why? Because imagine between us and our dream and the things we want to manifest, there's so many blocks in between. There's so many garbage and clutter in between.
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Genecia Alluora: So the faster you want to manifest something, it only makes sense if you clear all the trash, the garbage, the clutter in your life, especially in your mind. Because we are not truly aligned to what we want and we have to do some emotional or physical decluttering. It can be symbolic, like throwing all your clothes, clearing up your room, whatever that may be. To let the universe do its job. We may have to look at self beliefs that we have around money or take stock of some of our bad habits. Most people can't be bothered and they just want an instant solution and find a magical Fairy Godmother. Bibbidi bubbidi boop. And not do any work towards it or change their behavior in any way. And to make matters worse, they will keep complaining and whining and they love to blame people.
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Genecia Alluora: Oh, it's Genecia's fault because you know what? My law of attraction matter didn't work for her. The Soul Rich Woman blueprint didn't work for her because she's complaining, she's not willing to do the inner work. Oh, it's somebody else's fault and they are always blaming someone else. So if you have done some emotional decluttering, they are very clear and you're very clear on your goals and you are taking some action every day, then your desire, your dream, your goals will show up eventually. However, it is incredibly important during the time length to remain totally aligned to the feeling of the outcome. It will be hard to be open to new opportunities and possibilities if you are worried and stressed.
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Genecia Alluora: Now, that's the big secret behind the secret. You have to feel it before you have it, and that can be very tough for some people. When you allow doubt and resistance to come in, you will actually block your natural flow and ease, to receive abundance, to make money, to be happier, to have more freedom, to have financial independence, or to be even fabulous. You will press the pause button on extracting what you want. So I just want to say, trust me, you can learn to be lucky, to be able to attract the F-word into your life, fabulous freedom, financial independence, and happily, easily and effortlessly. The trick is to master the Soul Rich Woman blueprint, to stay positive even when your reality is temporarily something totally different.
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Genecia Alluora: One of the story I would like to share before I go will be the story of how I dream to be standing on an international stage, especially if it's organized by Success Resources. This was one of my biggest dreams as a speaker because when you stand on an international organizer, we've brought in Tony Robbins, J. Abraham, T. Haf Ecker. I just want to be standing on that stage together with them, with Kim Kiyosaki, Robert Kiyosaki I've always dreamt about having that and I always believe and keep seeing it every single time, every single year. And it took me years to be eventually identified as a speaker. Sign on and bring brought to the Success Resources stage and speaking alongside Kim Kiyosaki in 2019.
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Genecia Alluora: Speaking alongside Mary Buffett in 2017 speaking alongside J. Abraham, T. Haf Ecker, Robert Kiyosaki in 2020. So I just want to say this believe it before you see it. I guarantee it. Your stuff is on its way. We all have a part to play in this. This is your time and you are ready for the next step. The more you take action in a consistent way, the faster you build momentum and really grow your business. Now, if you love today's episode, do rate review and subscribe to our podcast on itunes and Spotify or any apps that you are using right now to listen in because it helps us to get found.
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Genecia Alluora: Someone might just need to hear this episode. As always, I love you, appreciate you and thank you for being here. You are the reason why I show up every day. To walk with you, not in front of you. I am right here beside you. Perfectly imperfect. Thank you and I'll see you in the next episode. And bye for now.
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Genecia Alluora: The key to unlock consistent success. The key to unlock that diamond within you. No other things involved. This is what you need to do and must do tonight. You can do it because I've done it. As long as you have a mentor who can take you from where you are now to where you want to be, you can shortcut your success. You can be different in order to make a difference. Turn your talent into your business. Turn your passion into a paycheck by being you, by being you and owning you. Give yourself a second chance. Never say no to your failures. As a woman, we have the power in our hands. Never let your fears hold you back. Quit thinking and start doing. Life is really short and keep pursuing what you truly ever wanted to achieve. Women come together. Alone, we are strong. Together, we are unstoppable. The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint is going to be transforming your life today, yesterday, last year. Because you took action today, I'm going to say more power to you.