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After involvement with the same man, Wifey, Shun and Baby Mama, Shannon have formed a unique bond to keep their children and family united in spite of society norms that tend to pit one against the other.
Shun (00:36.83)
Hey, I'm Shawn.
Shannon (00:38.252)
Hi, and I'm Shannon.
Shun (00:40.24)
And we're the host of Wifey and Baby Mama. Happy Thursday, family, and happy Thursday, Baby Mama.
Shannon (00:46.798)
Happy Thursday.
Shun (00:49.708)
Welcome to week eight everybody we are moving right along So is our subject matters on last week We discussed another tough but serious topic topic when it hurts more to say and we touched on points that are indicators on when it might be time to go because we all know you know from either experience or relationships we've been around experience and other people's on the outside looking in
Shannon (00:52.807)
Yeah.
Shun (01:18.3)
sometimes staying together, you know causes more damage right Shannon and As you mentioned last week, you know, we always feel compelled to do a kind of flip side So in our topic tonight titled the stranger sleeping next to me. We're gonna talk about things that may not be of interest to the partner anymore when it comes to The husband might like something different or the wife may have took a different path, but
Shannon (01:22.092)
That's right.
Shun (01:45.072)
It may not you know be an end-all or in some cases shouldn't be an end-all, you know, man shannon I wish we could have gotten a mail on this one Even even last week, you know as a matter of fact, we haven't been able to secure one mail this season Y'all they stand away from these topics. Okay
Shannon (01:52.867)
I know, yeah, that would have been cool.
Shannon (02:00.974)
We'll get one. We'll get one.
Shun (02:05.0)
But well that you know, I was gonna say that you know men are a little less forthcoming the you know these kind of touchy subjects in my opinion and which keep in mind is not an expert opinion, but It's a fact that men are not big on showing their emotions as easily and quickly as some women are, know It's sitting their vulnerability out there for the world to hear so we struck out so far But you're right Shannon. You never know what the future holds. So we're gonna stay up to miss the dog on it
Shannon (02:22.455)
Right.
Shun (02:32.498)
Got about five, no, about seven more episodes after the night. So we might get lucky So anyways, we're gonna get into tonight's topic the stranger sleeping next to me and by stranger We don't mean literally we are referring to the couples who you know may have got outgrown each other the ones who are no longer attached emotionally Physically sometimes or maybe just have different outlooks on life habits, whatever it may be for whatever reason you two just don't vibe anymore
Or in other words of one of my country friends Bethany y'all don't G. Ha Don't ask me what that mean now all I know Now all I know is mean I mean it don't get along and so ask me where it came from That's what I should say, but I know what it means. It means they ain't getting along so Anyway, something as simple as G hon Can be a deal break. I had to say it one more time Shannon that could just be a deal breaker sometimes but seriously
Shannon (03:03.694)
yeah, I was about to ask.
Shun (03:24.624)
It may even Shannon be as trivial as something you mentioned in last week's episode the partner didn't think her husband was funny anymore, you know Who knows but that to me is wild, know, especially if there are kids involved, you know You don't want to blow up your whole lifestyle for the sake of we're not having fun You know go make your own fun then come back and sit down somewhere and go to sleep girl. Bye
Shannon (03:30.978)
Bye.
Shannon (03:41.326)
That's right. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Either go have your own fun and come home and knowing that your husband is there or your wife, if the roles were reversed, you know, knowing that they're there. I remember when I was young, you know, when we were both young, I'm sure we both, you know, let people, let good people go for dumb reasons. And I remember...
Shun (04:08.272)
Absolutely, I did and I wasn't so young but go ahead
Shannon (04:13.474)
Yeah, it's like they were a perfectly good person, know, a perfectly good man, but she picked on one little thing and said, nah, I don't like him because he don't want to travel to foreign countries with me. Can you go or, you know? Yeah, exactly. Exactly. I remember, yeah, pet peeves. And I remember this couple.
Shun (04:16.773)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
Shun (04:28.445)
or his tall but his tall longer than the other one like what? HIPPEEDS!
Shannon (04:40.174)
a coworker of mine, her and her husband have been married for years. And he does not, to this day, he doesn't like any type of specialty food. When I say specialty food from other countries, whether it could be Italian, he doesn't like it. If it's not down home country, know, Southern soul food, he's not going for it. But she likes to try, you know, different cuisines and go eat Thai, go eat.
Shun (05:04.296)
Yeah.
Shannon (05:09.9)
you know, French or, know, whatever she's in the mood for. And she said, yeah, I'll go with my girlfriends or I go alone, alone. And I was, I don't know, in my early twenties. And when she told me that I was appalled. I was like, how could you be married to him? If, if you, know, you all aren't on the same page. So like you said, you can't just blow up your spot for, for dumb stuff and they're happily married. mean, yeah. Yeah.
Shun (05:37.085)
Trivial stuff, you know And if growing apart is the only issue meaning you don't like what I like Shanna or you don't go to places I go I personally at this age would never leave my marriage for that, know, unlike stand in a situation where it's damaging you physically Emotionally or publicly publicly humiliate me, you know, but to each his own What one person allows or may be able to tolerate?
Shannon (05:50.68)
Right, right.
Shannon (05:59.598)
to eat his own.
Shun (06:03.502)
look like something totally different to you and I Shannon so I Eat this woman on love and hip-hop, you know, y'all know who I'm referring to She shall remain nameless because baby ain't no way under or inhale You're gonna drag me like her husband does her on TV Through the seasons has had a whole outside child and been caught in hot tubs with women's and stripper like he has drug her on national TV like Words like forgiveness and sacrifice is not a reason for staying. It's another s word. I can call her
Shannon (06:06.222)
Yeah.
Shannon (06:18.36)
Mmm.
Shannon (06:32.174)
Right. Yeah.
Shun (06:33.256)
But you know, I'm gonna be nice, but moving right along. So with that, know, we have different levels of acceptance. You know, let's just put it that way. That's why I just share experiences, Shannon. You just share experiences. At the end of the day, all these situations have to be gauged individually, you know, because I can honestly say, I don't know if the other woman would have put up with what I did in the beginning of my marriage, you know. I endured some disrespect. I consider disrespect.
Shannon (06:41.518)
We do. We do.
Shannon (06:52.131)
Yeah.
Shannon (06:59.49)
Right.
Shun (07:01.766)
Other women calling my husband's phone that he used to date and popping up where we are because somebody messy invited them Or they wanted to just show up and start drama, you know and all the while I know he couldn't control their actions, but I felt like he should have did more to check it. You know what I mean? But he felt like it'll stop eventually cuz he's a different person than me I'm a bus in your head. He figures I just won't say nothing and then they'll just stop, you know
Shannon (07:08.481)
and
Shannon (07:18.55)
Right, right, yeah.
Shun (07:30.356)
As long as they not confronting us is no harm. But you know what, Shanna? I bounced on him for a little while. I straight left him. And he came back like, okay. Like I didn't know it was that serious. Let me do something about it. Now again, the unsaved me would have still been like, no, you're done. I'm good on you. Cause I shouldn't have had to leave you for you to see that. But people are different. People handle situations different. That was just how he handled things. Just let it die down. You know what I mean? I believe in getting at it.
Shannon (07:36.226)
Yeah, yeah, right.
Shannon (07:47.564)
Right, right.
Shannon (07:58.146)
Right.
Shun (07:59.966)
Cuz a man had one time to call my phone was like, if your husband ain't gonna be there I'm gonna come he might not be there but I'm gonna always represent him like I will shut stuff down immediately you get what I'm saying, but people deal with things in different, know different ways and Although he didn't see it as disrespectful It bothered me. So eventually he had to address that you know what I mean? But the reason I stayed and I stayed and I shared that story Shannon is that wasn't big enough
Shannon (08:04.418)
You
Shannon (08:09.043)
Yes, yes, yes. yeah.
Shannon (08:19.64)
Right.
Shun (08:28.724)
for me to take my kids out of their stable environment. That wasn't big enough for me to be divorced, you know? And my advice would be to always try to resolve the issue if no one's being armed, you know? Now, if he was out there chasing other women or the shoe was on the foot, he calling them and I catch him calling them, it wouldn't have been a discussion for me. Peace out. But we have to deal with each, we have to deal with each and everybody deals with it. They have a different level of acceptance. What do you think?
Shannon (08:32.248)
Right.
Mm-hmm.
Shannon (08:40.622)
Yeah.
Shannon (08:44.238)
Mm.
Shannon (08:48.194)
That's right, yeah.
Shannon (08:57.166)
Right, no, I mean, look how you've, the two of you have grown because you didn't just throw them away and walk away. Yeah, you didn't leave. You said, okay, yeah, I'm mad. I can, you know, go away for a little bit, but it took that for both of you to grow. Because even when stuff is quote unquote done to us, we still learn something from it, you know? And see?
Shun (09:02.152)
Yeah. Leave. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
Shun (09:23.828)
learned not to be violent because that used to be my answer to everything because people probably gonna say from what you're saying well what does she learn I learned not to go bust a chick in the head that ain't always the answer even though she fully deserved it a couple of them but you don't do that because what does that teach my kids right that's not the way to handle things number one and number two he thinks I go she go fight a little bit she'll be okay I don't have to deal with it no
Shannon (09:27.008)
See? Yeah.
Shannon (09:32.146)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Right. Right. Yeah. Yeah.
Shannon (09:43.303)
Right. Yeah. Yeah.
Shannon (09:49.747)
Mm-hmm, right.
Shun (09:51.044)
Me shutting down to leave and taught him something too. I got to deal with this man. I'm gonna lose my wife You know what I'm saying? So he still had a choice to make
Shannon (09:55.404)
Yeah, yeah.
Right. Now there are situations, you know, where people, you know, really do grow apart. Especially when they marry really, really young. Because what you want at, well, except in your case, because you've been in love with since you were 16 with the same man, but for lunch or 19, I'm sorry.
Shun (10:08.978)
Mm-hmm.
Shun (10:17.108)
19. Hold on now 19. Hold on. Give me a little bit now. I ain't been crazy that long. It was three years later and I'm just kidding. It was 19.
Shannon (10:24.865)
I'm sorry.
I'm confusing you with Beyonce, I'm sorry. God. So, you know, because for me, what I wanted at, you know, in my, you know, teens and early 20s, I definitely don't want now. Because for me, I was so shallow, you know, it was all about the look. I didn't care about, you know, if you had any substance, if you...
Shun (10:30.676)
No, ma'am, but go ahead
Shun (10:48.232)
I get it.
Shannon (10:57.314)
believed in God, if you could, you know, hold a intelligent conversation, none of that matter. It's just like, Hey, I'm, I'm with the finest dude. walking around. Exactly. That was always my go-to. So imagine if I would have gotten married back then how, you know, and who I am today, that would have never worked. And I use my mother and father as a
Shun (10:57.553)
Hehehe.
Shun (11:09.64)
in the globe.
Shannon (11:26.486)
example as well. My dad, wonderful man, everyone knows I loved him to pieces. But my dad was a simple guy. He wanted to work. He wanted to come home and, you know, maybe watch TV. He didn't always watch a lot of TV, but give him a Budweiser and, you know, some dinner and he's going to sleep ready to get up at 4 a.m. the next day to go to work. That was his thing. Whereas my mother, you know,
go get her, she got her a master's in system engineering, just to travel the world and do all these things. So they, of course, divorced when I was young, but they definitely would have never made it either way because she was worlds apart from him. So they maybe could have made it work.
Shun (12:18.484)
Mm-hmm.
Shannon (12:23.298)
But neither one of them would have been happy because he wouldn't want her going anywhere. Because he wasn't that type of husband that say, OK, well, if you want to go to France, go on. No. He would say, no, you're staying here. And then she would be unhappy because she'd want to go here, there, and everywhere. So it was just that they wanted different things. And they married young. My mother was 16. That's another 16. She was 16 when her and my father married. See?
Shun (12:34.739)
Mm-hmm.
Shun (12:48.372)
My mom was 16 when she married my dad took that was that that was a norm back then yeah
Shannon (12:53.878)
Yeah, that was the norm. Yeah, definitely was. But there was no way that they could stay together. But then you have the people that... Yeah, yeah.
Shun (13:01.114)
And my mom and dad, know, they didn't stay together either and quite frankly shannon jimmy and I didn't stay together You see how much went on and how much transpired? You know, we're successful. we're working through this marriage. I won't say successful is when You know you have no more trouble and you just can wake up every day and you can trust it and you can believe it We're not there After four years, it'll be five years in february that we've been remarried. We're still working. I mean actively working
Shannon (13:09.491)
yeah, yeah.
Shannon (13:19.054)
Yeah. Yeah.
Shannon (13:28.078)
Mm-hmm. Yes.
Shun (13:30.204)
So imagine back then at that age it definitely was no chance. You know what I mean? We're grown as heck now. We definitely didn't stand a chance the first time around, you know, but your mom and dad realized they were, you know, from two different worlds. They called it. And sometimes that's just what it has to be, but you can, you can make those choices. But we talked about this last week. It, the choices get better the older we get, you know,
Shannon (13:34.894)
bright right yeah yeah
Shannon (13:56.952)
He bright, right?
Shun (13:57.668)
It's easier to stay than to walk away because you got stuck into these things you got children So it just all depends and that's why I will say several times guys throughout this episode We got a gauge every situation differently and Shannon. I'm gonna tell you that Harm and physical abuse and all that is not the only reason what you just said is a perfect situation Sometimes just losing yourself isn't worth it your self-worth, you know, that's not worth standing situation Like do I have to stay bogged down?
Shannon (14:03.895)
Yeah.
Shannon (14:22.22)
That's right. Yeah.
Shun (14:26.834)
Because you don't want to travel or you don't want to try new foods or or you don't believe you should tell a chick not to call your phone Because you're married now. I mean whatever the case may be right but We have to my second husband I'll go to him When it doesn't work to stay You know jimmy and I could work through what we worked through but my second husband we were going through the exact same thing like where jimmy and I are now as far as losing each other or or dying inside and he was I
Shannon (14:30.243)
Yeah.
Shannon (14:33.71)
Right.
Shun (14:56.06)
Wanted to stay I did not want to divorce my second husband I'm gonna be honest and say that because I did not want to have another failed marriage I did not want my children to have another man to have to come around them because he was a good father to them I knew they were safe. I didn't have to worry about him looking at him touching on like I was comfortable and secure in that marriage Financially, I didn't have to worry about what a bill was But he wasn't happy because he knew I was in love with someone else. So at first I was livid
Shannon (15:03.128)
Yeah.
Shannon (15:11.982)
Right.
Shun (15:23.696)
at the thought of how selfish can you be to just leave me to save yourself, right? Until I found myself in that same situation. And leaving is all you can do to keep your own sanity sometimes. So I absolutely know that. I probably became a stranger in more than one relationship, Shannon. And I probably stayed in a few for whatever reason. And I've left a few because I saw no benefit in staying, because it did more harm than good.
Shannon (15:36.194)
Right, right, yeah.
Shannon (15:51.342)
Right. Yeah, yeah. And then you have the people, you know, that they're perfectly fine just becoming what I call roommates. They're married. And from the outside looking in, everyone's like, they've been married for 45 years or whatever, not realizing that probably 30 of those 45, these two people were just simply roommates. You know, they're...
Shun (16:03.316)
Yeah.
Shannon (16:16.642)
They don't want to be with nobody else. They don't want to go out and date and get back in the, you know, whatever technology is available for people to find, you know, spouses or whatever. They're like, no, we're good. We have a nice home. We have nice clothes. We have, you know, cars or whatever we have that we've built together. Why not keep it like this? As long as they're both still faithful. And I, we've seen that a lot where
Shun (16:19.186)
That's right!
Shannon (16:46.444)
No one's trying to go get with somebody else. No one is doing anything. They're just living their lives as basically roommates. And a lot of people would, you know, talk trash about that. And, you know, the younger me, I'm sure I would talk trash about that. But now it's like, okay, whatever works for people as long as, like you just mentioned, no one's dying inside, you know, they're comfortable.
Shun (16:59.219)
Right.
Shun (17:12.136)
Right or lose are losing themselves and again, like I said, that's importance of gauging each situation Separately sometimes people are okay with being roommates. Sometimes people okay with you stay up I stay down I have known at least three couples I'm not kidding you that stayed together to all of their children were out of high school and the minute those kids were gone they were done and I I Respect that although I could probably never see myself doing that being miserable that long
Shannon (17:21.645)
Yeah.
Shannon (17:35.074)
They were done, yeah.
Shun (17:41.286)
Until I was in that situation because I would have stayed with my third daughter's I would have stayed with him So my daughter could have had a complete family because you know what I had felt twice with the other two And I just wanted one of them to see what that felt like, you know But he was like, I don't know them but you or the baby i'm going so No, he didn't mean he didn't say it like that He just had to save himself and he was a great father to her then he's a great father to all three of them still like I said, we're all family so
Shannon (17:52.11)
Bye.
Shannon (17:59.022)
Right, right, right.
Shannon (18:11.234)
Yeah.
Shun (18:11.726)
Respect his decision to move on and I know this is kind of untraditional Shannon But I just I want to bring up a movie that this this kind of reminds me of I want to just do a scenario and Like fictional family so I can throw that in is that cool? Okay, so we talked about how people change in Sometimes you see it sometimes you don't sometimes you become a stranger. I know this movie, and I think I've talked about it before with a effortful or funny Valentine
Shannon (18:26.518)
Yo, yeah, go ahead.
Shun (18:42.644)
That's one of my favorite y'all. That's why probably reference a lot I mean I could watch it every freaking week, but her husband cheated on her constantly, you know So one day she just ended up leaving, you know, so he comes home. She's gone. She took the kids she left and The daughter ends up calling a family member dies. He comes to the funeral She just left him. She didn't talk to him. She wasn't talking about she was just done her aunt dies and he comes down for the funeral to wherever she went back to her hometown and
He says, you know, I miss you and I want you back and I need you to forgive me and I want you to come home and she said to him if I do decide to come back, you know one day you might like not like the person I've become and he said to her I'd like to meet that person and I thought long and hard about that line. What do you mean? You like me, you know, she don't you don't turn into that when all honestly if you think about it because it's always two sides to every story, right?
Shannon (19:41.026)
yeah, yeah.
Shun (19:41.082)
Maybe she had become too mundane to focus on the house and kids work, whatever. Nevertheless You didn't see him stepping out or you didn't you know, you didn't tell him it bothered you you went on You know you dealt with it for so long and then one day you just left maybe in that time She did become someone else but you don't let stepping out be your resort You know to the the stranger or your significant other has become you talk about it and try to resolve your differences And you know and you learn to live with it or move on
Shannon (20:01.496)
Right.
Shannon (20:07.394)
Yeah. Yeah.
Shun (20:09.704)
But what I'm gonna what I said all that to say this in case I confuse someone and I mumbled it He said I'd like to see that person Maybe he started stepping out because she no longer paid him attention But instead of talking to her about it instead of sitting down saying hey, we're drifting apart. He chose to go see other people Instead of her saying hey, you know, what am I doing wrong and they could have did this. It's a movie, right? We don't see all sides of a movie I'm just wrapping it up in a little button a nice little neat bundle here by saying
Shannon (20:21.272)
Thank
Shannon (20:33.803)
Right,
Shun (20:39.91)
If you see your significant other changing or becoming something, becoming a stranger, hey, let's talk this out. Because you could save yourself a lot of years of heartache and heartbreak. That's just my opinion.
Shannon (20:46.69)
Right.
Shannon (20:53.026)
Yeah, yeah. And I love that, you know, because like you said, we don't know both sides. And even in real life, we've seen this situation and we don't know why people do what they do unless they have some type of, you know, sex addiction or something like that. But for normal people, if there is infidelity or something, there's usually some root cause there and it's not
Shun (21:05.555)
Right.
Shun (21:22.1)
And I want to think when he said I'd like to meet that person I like to think that whoever she had became Shannon. That's not who I married You know what I mean? That's what that line meant to me. So yeah, I get what you're saying
Shannon (21:24.472)
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
Shannon (21:30.718)
Right, right. Yep, yep.
it. I gotta watch it.
Shun (21:39.078)
All right, so you got anything else? Yeah, see now i've referenced that movie. I know at least three times I told you I you was almost back to your black heart almost so i'm gonna give you to the end of this season Just do that for me. We give the audience assignments all the time, baby mama You need to get to somewhere this weekend and watch funny valentines. I'm telling change your life. Don't change your life All right, well you got anything to add to the well I did the fictional family so
Shannon (21:57.002)
and watch that. I got to. I got to.
Yes.
Shun (22:06.472)
We could do the wrap up in the sweet little line. We can get out of here.
Shannon (22:12.494)
All right, so go ahead and wrap it up. No.
Shun (22:14.324)
You got anything else to add to that on topic? All right, let's wrap it up then Okay, family will leave you with this tonight things change and people change too You know that does not mean you can no longer serve each other as life partners Sometimes simple discussion is all it takes Start some new hobbies together or embrace your differences, you know Taking your own separate life outside of the home like Shannon said her friend did go to these restaurants and things by yourself As long as it is an infidelity
or something that can bring shame to your family and your relationship, go for it. However, if you continue to sleep next to a stranger, that's exactly what they will become, know, someone you don't know anymore, and possibly someone you may eventually learn to live without. It happened to me. But if you both have found peace with the distance or your separateness, and you still want to remain in relationship, like Shannon said, for 30 years, you just was roommates, do your thing and don't let anyone shame you for it.
You know, we all have to do what works best for us in our individual situations, keeping your vows in mind, keeping godliness in mind, keeping self-respect, you know, in mind. And that's a decision that only you and your partner should be making while considering the children, of course, if there are any. That's a wrap up.
Shannon (23:33.494)
Love it, love it. All right, well here we go into our final segment since we've covered fictional family with funny, what's it, what's it, funny valentine? funny valentine, all right. That's fine, yes, that is great, that's great. All right, here we go.
Shun (23:46.628)
I I just couldn't help myself. Funny valentines, funny valentines. I couldn't help myself, Shannon. I had to talk about that.
Shun (24:04.054)
Alrighty.
our sweet little life segment for tonight.
It doesn't state if it's a male or female writer, but it reads as follows. The sweet little lie I would like to get off my chest is that I invite company over often because I no longer have a desire to be intimate with my partner. I plan things late and make sure people stay as long as possible so that I can clean up and go right to bed and to sleep. It's causing a strain in our relationship, but I love him and I don't want to leave. I'm sorry, love them. They don't say if it's him or her, I'm sorry.
But I love them and I don't want to leave I just don't have any physical attraction to him anymore But I don't want to be with anyone else now These are pain. These are not for sweet sweet little lies are not for opinions or advice But I do feel compelled to say two quick little things I don't know if this is more of a sweet little lie or a problem that will certainly grow into a deeper situation That's number one
Secondly, I'm not sure of the age here because none of that's supposed to be disclosed but as an older woman I can tell you and If you're listening and I hope you are This could really be a conversation that can be had it could probably menopause or midlife crisis depending on the gender of the writer So, you know, I was kind of I kind of felt a little bit of that as I was reading this but anyways
Shun (25:34.312)
Like I said, it may be a conversation that can relieve you from pretending and excuses which has to become draining after a while and it will get old with the other person. So that's all I'm gonna say about that, Shannon.
Shannon (25:42.2)
Right. Right. Yeah. Yeah. And I know you said no, no opinions, but, this ties back to what we were just talking about. You know, you don't know what could drive someone outside of the home, you know? not that there's any excuse, infidelity is wrong, period, point blank, whatever. We're, we're not trying to excuse any type of behavior, but you don't know what could drive people. Yes. Yeah.
Shun (26:08.328)
People are human to wear him, you know, we we run and when I say not for a pain in shame I don't mean that we don't give I mean like we're not we're not obligated to but sometimes like I just feel compelled because if you wrote it, know Maybe you don't want in the world knows who you are. But maybe like hearing it. It gives you some kind of comfort. But anyways, I Want to say this really quick before we end
Shannon (26:15.382)
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Right.
Shannon (26:25.43)
Right, right.
Shun (26:33.192)
think that We're human first I know that we try to like live by God we try but everybody listens to show Shen is not Christian that we got to face it Everybody that listens to wife and baby mama does not believe in Christianity whatever That's what we believe in and if you don't and you still listen to us. We really thank you But we're not forcing our values on you. That's not what this is So outside of that Shannon if you don't believe in Christianity and you don't have those values in those biblical
Shannon (26:42.498)
That's right.
Shun (27:02.356)
You standards to that you're upholding. I'm absolutely going to cheat on you if I ain't getting it at home You know what I'm saying? So let's just be real
Let's just be real and I mean we're human first So even the most Christian godly people are still human first that flesh is a mean thing so we can pray But you know, that's that's what forgiveness and that's what grace is for we all make mistakes every day and don't get me wrong Cheating is not a mistake cheating is a choice. I will never ever Let somebody fool me to believe or let it come out of my I made a mistake. No, you made a choice But it's sometimes I mean is that choice, you know, is it ever you know? Okay, I don't know
Shannon (27:13.719)
Hmm
Shannon (27:18.754)
Yes, yes.
Shannon (27:28.62)
Yes.
Shun (27:40.392)
But I get it. So I get what you're saying.
Shannon (27:41.74)
Right, right.
Shun (27:44.668)
And that's all I have, Shannon.
Shannon (27:46.74)
All right, we'll tell them how to send in more. We want more.
Shun (27:51.782)
Well If you have any sweet little eyes that you want to get off of your chest We invite you to email us at wifeyandbabymama.gmail.com That's wifeyandbabymama.gmail.com and you're also privilege to hit us up on any of our social media social media pages Which I don't say every week and I should and I just kind of forget but yeah So a couple of these came from social media. So if you would like to do it there, that's fine, too I'm in our inbox or our dms whatever but
Wife and baby mama at gmail.com is always open for you and your sweet little lies or any Opinions we have about the show because we asked some males to write in last week. So we looking to hear from y'all We're looking to hear from y'all on these two topics. Yeah, I don't want to come on here and say it We'll take the emails and read them All right, baby mama. Thank you
Shannon (28:32.876)
Yeah. Yeah. That's right. All right. Thanks, Sean. All right. So until next week, we once again thank everyone for tuning in and listening to us and supporting us and wanting to hear what Sean and Shannon got to talk about. until next week.
Have a good one.
Shun (29:00.978)
Love you all. Bye.