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Christian homemakers need encouragement and motivation to stay the course. Homemaking and homeschooling can feel overwhelming, but they don’t have to be. If you’re a Christian mom longing for a well-ordered home, a peaceful homeschool, and a joyful heart—without the stress or burnout—you’re in the right place. Moms can be productive and peaceful when grounded in Scriptural truth.
I’m Mystie Winckler, homeschooling mom of five, founder of Simply Convivial, and your guide to managing both home and heart with faith and focus. Here, we talk about biblical homemaking, sustainable homeschooling, and cheerful productivity—all through the lens of organizing your attitude and embracing your God-given calling.
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✔️ How to be diligent, not just busy
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So I have some bad news
about time management.
You see, it's not really a thing.
You can't manage time.
There's nothing that you can do
that will make today any longer
than it already is or any shorter.
You can't save three hours on
Monday and move it over to Thursday.
You can't negotiate with the clock and
ask for an extra 90 minutes because
everyone needed you all at once.
Time just keeps moving.
So what we call time management
is not time management at all.
Any effective time management
is actually self-management
What you can manage is your own attention,
your own choices, your own expectations
Do you follow the plan you made?
Do you do the things on your daily card?
Or do you spend 45 minutes avoiding
what you know you should do while
telling yourself that you just
don't have enough time to do it?
Blaming our problem with time, blaming
our ineffectiveness or our feelings of
being too busy on needing better time
management makes it sound like we have
a problem with a planner or a schedule,
something that's external to us that will
kind of suddenly make everything work.
But recognizing what I actually
need is better self-management
means practicing self-control
And as Christian moms, we
have to recognize the truth.
God has given us enough time to do
the work that He has called us to do.
So complaining that we don't
have enough time is actually
complaining against God Himself
God has given us everything we need
to do what He has called us to do.
That's reality
Not, now he hasn't given us everything
that, so that we can accomplish all
that we could potentially accomplish.
Not everything that someone else
accomplishes, not everything that we
imagine that we probably should be
doing, but what he's actually given
us to do, each one of us in particular
So when the hours just don't add
up, we have to be honest with
ourselves and ask, "What am I trying
to do that does not belong here?"
And there might be things that we
need to cut out of our schedules or
out of our expectations, but we also
need to be brutally honest about
how much time we are dawdling away
And implementing a different
schedule or setting up a different
planner will not fix that
In order to fix our own dawdling
and distraction, we have to have
the self-awareness to recognize it
when it's happening, 'cause it's
not like we're scheduling that in.
It just happens.
So we have to be aware when it
happens, and then we have to have the
self-control and self-discipline to
turn away from it, to repent of it, and
choose the harder, more important, more
meaningful work that's in front of us.
And of course, that
doesn't mean never resting.
We should have planned and perhaps
spontaneous times of actual rest.
But actual rest is not avoidance or
coping or distraction And so we need the
self-awareness and the self-discipline
to recognize the difference
And we also need to stop telling ourselves
that we are trying to get everything done.
That's the wrong goal.
It just doesn't work in homemaking.
There is no status ever in a home
where everything is done because
the job of a homemaker is managing
life, and life is always happening.
Life is ongoing and continuous.
And so, like, catching up, it
doesn't really mean anything.
It sounds good, but it is this
unreachable, unattainable goal
that if we don't allow ourselves
to rest until we have caught up or
gotten everything done, then we're
never going to sit down and rest
The self-control and the self-management
we need to have good time management is
actually the ability to work when it is
time to work, to rest when it is time
to rest, to sit down with our family
at dinner and enjoy that time without
letting the ticker tape to-do list play
in our head, to be present on the couch.
If we're supposed to be reading to
our children and that's what we are
doing, we should be there in that
moment enjoying it and not trying
to mentally be two places at once.
It's that mental attempt to be in one
place and doing one thing while actually
mentally keeping track of being and doing
other things in other places that causes
stress and anxiety and that sense of
impending doom and dread for our lives.
And if we write down the things
that need to be done, choose our
top three for the day, and then
are present in the work that we are
doing or the rest that we are having
we can learn to love our life at home
and recognize that our time has been well
spent, even if not everything got done.
Because we weren't trying to
get everything done anyway.
We were just continually
doing the right next thing
I just realized my light was weird.
Sorry about that
This is why in Convivial Circle, one of
the things that we have ladies set up is
not a perfect planner or perfect schedule
where everything has its slot, and we
just march through the day getting all
the things done as if we're machines.
But we set up
A daily card where we pick
the top three for the day.
And I actually have a
free training on that.
So after this episode, you can find
a link to that free training called
From Overwhelmed to Organized in
the description of this episode.
It's simplyconvivial.com/organized.
On the daily card, we write our top three
for the day, and it takes practice to be
able to choose that, and that's a whole,
like, lesson in itself, which is why
you should do that free training next.
But you choose your priorities for
the day, and they are only three,
and you have a morning and evening
routine that - don't take all day.
Your morning and evening routine are
each just 15 minutes, and you've picked
for your household those items that
really help keep your home functional.
Not where everything gets done
or stays done, but where you're
continuing to manage and upkeep your
house, keeping it functional and
moving along, not statically done
And then we also encourage you
to set up a stopping time for the
day, because there will always be
more on the list that we could do.
But just because there's more on the
list that we could do doesn't mean
that we should be doing it It's okay to
just relax in the evening and enjoy the
time in the home and with the family
that you have been working for all day
It's okay if we don't
get - everything done
But so often our actual problem is
that we make getting everything done
so complicated or so overwhelming, so
big that we don't ever get started.
We wait for the motivation or the
right mood or the right caffeine mix.
We wait for ideal conditions.
And in the meantime, until those
ideal conditions come to finally
knock it all out, clean everything,
organize everything, get all the
things done, we are browsing YouTube
Having ChatGPT make us new schedules
Just scrolling on our phones, distracted
and really avoiding the good work
that's in front of us to do, because
we don't even know how to get started.
But getting started isn't complicated,
and we don't have to wait to get
started until we know we can finish
something perfectly or even well.
We just get started.
This is why I really
recommend using a timer.
Just set a timer for 10 minutes
and do 10 minutes of something
that needs to be done in your home.
It will change your energy and your
mood and your approach to your day, to
your home, to your work, and it willâ¦
And once we are moving, more seems
possible than if we are sitting
and just thinking about all that
we could or should be doing.
We wanna move into action mode.
If we're going to use our time
well, we have to be in action mode.
So grab a timer, set it for 10
minutes Do something, anything that
will make a difference in your home.
Notice that difference that you are making
And when you recognize that you are
procrastinating, avoiding, distracted,
set the phone down and pick up that
timer and set it for 10 minutes.
That's the kind of self-management
that will increase the
effectiveness of our time management