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Unknown: You are listening to
the limitless podcast. I'm your
host. Deanna Herron, what if you
had no limitations keeping you
from your dream life in 2016 I
had a major tug on my heart to
write a book about my story, and
in the process, I learned that I
had been operating with a very
faulty belief system for the
majority of my life. I've had a
huge transformation since then,
and my life's passion and
mission is to teach you how to
live a limitless life. Join me
on this journey. Let's get
started.
Hello and welcome back to the
limitless podcast. This is
Deanna here, and I'm so glad
you're here. On today's episode,
we're doing something a little
different. I recently hosted a
workshop called unlocking the
keys to a better marriage. In
this workshop, I shared some
very vulnerable parts of my
marriage, and the things that I
was able to implement into my
marriage that not only changed
my marriage, but it absolutely
changed me. So this is a three
part series. Enjoy this first
part. Let's dive in.
So if you have questions as we
go through these processes,
because some of them are very
deep, some of them you may not
have ever heard before in your
life, and so you can go, oh,
rewind. Let me ask a question
about this to see if I can truly
understand. So put something in
the chat and and Kerrigan is
going to be following that. So
as I ask questions, she's also
going to be looking at the chat
to see if you have any concerns,
anything that you that is coming
through for you. So that chat is
for you, and I want you to to
use that, because the only way
that you're really going to get
answers is by asking the
questions. And when you ask a
question, there will be somebody
in this room that is going to
benefit from the answer that you
receive. So your questions are
going to benefit everybody. So
who am I? My name is Deanna
Herron. If you, if we haven't
met, I'm glad to virtually meet
you on Zoom. I am a former
physicians assistant. I'm in my
actual my third career between
physicians assistant and where I
am today. I was a network
marketing professional, I still
am a part of that business, but
now I have just pivoted into a
coaching position. So I'm a
breakthrough coach. I help women
break through the limiting
beliefs that are keeping them in
prison, keeping them small from
living their best life, and
everything that I coach through
it's backed by science,
spirituality and psychology,
sounds fun, doesn't it? You
know, when I was in college and
I was in psychology and all the
things, it was like, Oh my gosh,
what are even are they talking
about? And now it's such a love
and a passion. So I'm actually a
spiritual psychology coach. It
took me two, a little over two
years to get my certification,
to truly learn a lot of what I'm
teaching you today, but lots and
lots of experience, I've
expanded that knowledge as well.
So I want you to know that you
are in the right place and you
are in the right place. If your
marriage is feeling pretty
heavy, I can I can feel that for
you. If you feel like both of
you in your marriage or just
kind of going through the
motions. You're in the right
place. If you're feeling like
your arguments never get
resolved, and perhaps you are
now afraid to actually bring up
any of your concerns, because
there's a defensiveness behind
it, and you get shut down. I can
relate to that as well. You are
here and in the right place. If
intimacy right now feels like
it's just checking off your
list, it's just checking off
your list kind of thing, and
instead of it being mutual
pleasure, you feel like you have
lost yourself. You're in the
right place tonight. If you feel
like you are unseen, unheard,
not important and unappreciated,
you're in the right place.
You're going to learn some
things tonight. I've got you.
I've been there through all of
this, and actually, every single
thing that I just shared is
something that I actually
experienced in my marriage. So
what we're going to do together
this evening is I'm really going
to educate you. I'm really big
on education because in order
for you to understand the
processes that I am going to go
through, I think it's really
important for you to understand
the why. It's really hard to
understand something if you
don't really understand the why.
So I'm a huge why girl. I'm
always asking questions. Okay,
do this, but why behind it? So
I'm going to educate you. Going
to really expand your awareness.
I'm going to challenge you a
little bit. We will have some
question and answer time, like I
said. So feel free to fill up
that chat with questions, and
I'm happy to answer any
question. There are no dumb
questions at all, you guys,
we're all walking through this
process together as married
women. Maybe you aren't married,
maybe you have a partner, maybe
you don't have a partner, but
you are here because you have
some.
Things that you want to work
through. You're in the right
place. You're absolutely in the
right place. Because everything
I teach women and I help women
heal in marriage, it transfers
to every single area of your
life, including your business,
your spirituality, your wealth,
your health, all of the above.
It transfers to all of those
things. And then at towards the
end, we're going to do some live
coaching through resentments.
Resentments are huge.
Resentments build up.
Resentments tell a story, and
that is really my sweet spot.
You give me a resentment, and I
can actually tell you where you
need to heal. And later on in
this presentation, I have an
invitation, a special
invitation, just for you guys
who are on this call, and like I
said, if you have questions, put
them in the chat. Kerrigan is
going to be watching them, and
we will pause in between things
to see and answer your
questions. So just a brief story
about my marriage, our marriage
story. I'm going to go a little
bit deeper later, but I really
want you to get to know me first
before I give you all the down
and dirties, but my husband and
I have been married for 33 years
now. We had our 33 anniversary
in May. We have three adult
children and four grand boys.
I'm still waiting for that grand
girl. Anyone has any advice? I'd
love to know that the boys are
awesome, though I absolutely
love the boys, but I want you to
hear me when I say our marriage
is the best it's ever been, the
best it's ever been. After 33
years, we both feel safe with
each other. We both feel seen,
heard and cherished, and more
than anything, we're leaving a
legacy for our children, because
they've actually seen the
struggles that we have had, not
out loud, but we have shared
some of our struggles, and now
they see the difference in our
marriage, and it hasn't always
been like this. It hasn't it's
been a lot of work, but I was
the one actually in a
relationship that decided to do
something different and to heal
myself, and my husband shares
his testimony about this. If you
are not following the limitless
podcast, we just did a little
podcast, just off the cuff, and
he shares a little bit about his
testimony, and we're going to
share more and more of that too,
as he's feeling more comfortable
with where he is in the healing
that he decided to do at some
point. So I want you to know you
don't have to have a partner
that is willing to do the work
in order for you to heal you.
That's what this is all about.
We're all about healing
ourselves, and I'll share with
you why that was my decision in
my marriage. So let's get
started. Everybody ready? Okay,
the information I'm going to
share with you, it's gonna blow
your mind, especially if you
never if you've never heard of
it, it's deep, it's life
changing, and I've seen change
in 1000s of women with the
information I'm going to share
with you. So because of the
depth of what I'm going to
share, please feel free to watch
this. You will hear something
different every single time you
watch it. Here's another thing I
want you to do, share this
information with women you love.
I'm a huge proponent of helping
each other heal in a community.
And when you know of a friend
that is struggling in this way,
and you can help with this
information, it could change the
trajectory of their family, the
trajectory of their children, it
could actually change their
life. Okay, so feel free to
share this information. My
marriage changed when I changed
the view of my marriage. And
this was a concept that I
learned when I was going through
my spiritual psychology
certification. And I want you to
know it wasn't just any kind of
certification. We read over 50
books. We had processes that we
went through. We healed our
trauma while I was in this
program. It was a very, very
intense, intense program, and I
learned a lot, and I changed a
lot through that. But the
concept that I want you to
understand, and this is one that
I would recommend, that you
would write down, this was what
I learned when I was going
through the program, and it was
so eye opening to me that I was
in awe of what I was hearing.
And the concept is every
relationship, every relationship
in your life, is divinely placed
to help you heal, to heal, what
to heal, what to heal, the
stories of lack and limitation
within you. I want you to
understand how profound that is,
and so every relationship that
we have will trigger a story
within us of lack and
limitation. How many of us have
been around women that we feel
insecure, unworthy, comparison,
right? Those are our stories of
lack and limitation. Underneath
what you are feeling, there is a
story underneath the emotion,
there is a story. So your
parents are here to teach you
how to heal the stories of lack
and limitation. Your friendships
money is here to teach you about
lack and limitation. That is a.
Relationship. All of us have a
relationship with money. You
either feel good when you swipe
that debit card or you are
concerned every time you swipe
that debit, that debit card, and
so why? Why are you concerned?
What's the story behind that? So
it really wasn't until four
years ago I've been doing this
work, this deep inner work, for
about eight and a half years.
But it wasn't until about four
years ago did I start looking at
the healing that that I needed
in my marriage, and the healing
of the stories of the lack and
limitation. So the lack and
limitation are stories that
sound like this. I'm not enough,
and they're not anything that
you are, some you're not really
aware of. There's just a feeling
within your body that doesn't
feel right, and until you become
aware of the story that I am not
enough, it just continues to
play in your life over and over
and over and all of those
relationships, another story
would be, I'm not important, I'm
not loved, I'm not safe, I'm not
worthy. There's a bazillion of
them. They all come down to I am
not enough and I am not worthy.
But we say them in different
ways based on our childhood, our
situations, our programming, et
cetera. Where do these stories
come from? Well, most of them
are passed on to us from our
ancestors, you guys, it's in
your DNA. Harvard has actually
done studies where they show
that trauma is passed down to us
from 14 generations. And what I
mean by trauma, I'm not
necessarily talking about trauma
from physical abuse and so
forth, but trauma of lack and
limitation. Those thoughts are
brought down to you from your
ancestors. And then when we come
into this world, we start to see
those play out in our life, we
start to see those and we are
here to transcend those beliefs,
because they're not true. Even
though they feel true, they feel
so true in the moment, but
they're not true, and they're
holding you captive to a smaller
life than you are here to live.
So these stories will keep you
in prison, a prison of
suffering, because we are,
number one, not aware of the
stories, so we just keep
repeating them in every
relationship, every single
relationship. Number two, we
repeat the patterns in every
relationship, in our lives, in
our marriage, our money, our
career, our friends, our
spiritual life, our family, our
kids, etc. And what I have found
is when you heal those stories
that you have around your
marriage, you're going to heal
all of those other
relationships, and that, my
friend, is why I coach women in
marriage, the places that I see
the most limiting beliefs play
out that in life are women as an
entrepreneur and women in
marriage, but mostly women in
marriage. Most of all of our
lack and limitation stories are
going to play out in our
marriage. So we were attracted
to our husband, not just
physically and emotionally, but
spiritually. And what I'm
talking to you about tonight is
spiritual healing, spiritual
healing of the mind. Spiritual
healing there is a divine
component where you are here to
heal each other, and I'm going
to dive into that a little bit
in a minute, because I don't
want you to think it's us
pointing out their faults and
them pointing out our faults.
Okay, it's so much deeper than
that. Before we dive into that,
I want to ask you, how many of
you are aware of what the
subconscious mind actually does.
I'm going to go through this
briefly. I'm not doing a two and
a half year stint on
subconscious mind, but when I
became really interest,
intrigued in the subconscious
mind, I couldn't get enough of
it. And it has it was so
profound for me. I'd never heard
anything like this, and I just
remember going, oh my goodness,
this makes so much sense. And
with this information that I'm
going to share with you, I have
a passion for women who have
been addicted to drugs and
alcohol, and I have been going
to a sober house once a month
and coaching these women through
their subconscious beliefs. And
it is so incredibly profound.
You guys this work, they cannot
believe what they're hearing
when we actually uncover some of
their stories. And it starts
with the subconscious, and it's
becoming aware. So the
subconscious is actually we're
really not aware, because it
just runs on autopilot and we
seek out what we believe. The
subconscious will actually seek
out what we are telling it. It
only knows how to say yes to
what we tell it. So if we tell
our subconscious mind, I'm not
important, the subconscious mind
is going to seek those out in
the world, and for us, it's like
a check mark. See, I'm not
important. He's not making me
important. See, he doesn't
appreciate me. He sure doesn't,
he doesn't appreciate so we're
just checking them off. Checking
them off the belief that we
have, let's say I'm not
important. It's actually the
lens. So if you think about
having glasses on or.
You know, you're looking at
something. I think of one of
those Kaleidoscope type things,
where you're looking through
this lens, and the lens is, I'm
not important, or whatever your
story is, and so you see
everything in the world through
this lens, and the subconscious
will actually point you in the
direction of the beliefs,
proving that they are true to
you, but are they really no,
they're not. They're not really
true. If the stories are life
giving, if they're not life
giving, then they're not they're
not true. If the stories are
life giving, then that's your
truth. Here's an example. If I
were to tell you, Oh my gosh,
you are so beautiful, like
you're amazing, you're
beautiful. Most of us would have
a hard time accepting that. We
have a hard time accepting those
compliments. Why? Because
there's an underlying story of,
no, I'm not. I'm unworthy. And
doesn't it blow your mind that
we're easy to think, no, I'm
unworthy, and it's harder for us
to think I'm amazing, and it's
because 90% of those thoughts
that run through our mind are
actually negative. Only 10% are
positive and life giving. But I
want you to know that your truth
is you are limitless, boundless
soul with infinite
possibilities. That's who you
are. And the only limitations
that we actually have are those
that we choose to believe.
That's it, the ones that we
choose to believe. And so at
some point, you have chosen to
believe these to be true without
your awareness, no shame here,
no guilt here. We're totally
unaware. And there's not one
person in this world is that is
immune to this. We all have
these. This, I believe, is why
we're here on Earth, is to
transcend those to become the
full version of our soul's
essence to be expressed here. So
I'm on a mission, truly, to help
millions of women open up the
truth of who they are I am, and
I believe that when one woman
heals, she's going to impact so
many other women in their
healing. So I'm on a major
mission to help women open up to
the truth of who they are. I
want you to understand that you
are a masterpiece, like a true,
living masterpiece. And I think
of the story of Michelangelo and
David. So if you don't know the
story there, Michelangelo
actually picked out this, this
stone that all other artists
passed up like literally walked
by it and passed this piece of
stone, this marble. Passed it up
because everyone else thought it
was junk. But Michelangelo saw
something beautiful in this
stone, and slowly he began to
chip away, chip away at the
marble, getting rid of the
pieces that did not belong, all
the way around this piece of
marble. And what we see today is
the beautiful statue of David, a
beautiful statue that everyone
else saw as junk. That is what
you are. You don't have to
become something. You don't have
to do something to be a
masterpiece you already are.
Your job here is to chip away at
those stories of lack and
limitation that reveals the true
masterpiece underneath. And
sometimes we get it all wrong,
right. We believe we have to do
or be or become something in
order to be worthy you already
are. Our job is to release those
stories, and you need to first
understand the cascade of
creation. So I'm going to give
you the cast the cascade of
creation. So please write this
down, because I'm going to walk
you through a few things with
it. So the cascade of creation,
like, how do we create our
results in life? How do we
create our results in life, how
do we create situations and
circumstances in our life? How
do we create success in our
life? How do we have a
successful marriage in our life?
Okay, it starts with our
thoughts. So our thoughts I am
unworthy, or I am important, or
I am enough. It starts with our
thoughts. Our thoughts create
our feelings. Our feelings
create our actions. Our actions
create our results. Thoughts
create feelings. Feelings create
our actions. Actions, creators
results. That makes sense,
right? So what I think about is
going to give me a feeling, and
how I'm feeling is either going
to make me go into action or
inaction, and whatever that
action or inaction is, I'm going
to get the results based on
that. So that's the cascade of
how your mind works. And the
common misconception on this is,
my marriage is not good, so I
need to seek out some strategy
to get better results. And that
strategy, and this, this was
definitely me, that strategy
was, let's get some counseling.
Someone will tell us how we can
do better. For me, it was, let
me fix him. He needs to be
fixed. He needs to change his
behavior. He needs to change his
behavior. I'm going to help fix
him. We try and do more, we try
and do better, but actually
nothing changes. Anybody here
with me on that?
And you get what I'm saying so
but nothing changes. And the
reason why is because we
actually have to go back to the
root, the beginning of the
cascade to change the results.
You have to deal with the story.
You have to deal with the story,
the story of I'm not lovable,
the story of I'm not important,
the story that I'm dismissed,
the story that I'm not
appreciated. Whatever that is,
you have to go back to that
story. And so in every one of my
programs that I run, there is a
program on the mind, and in
limitless lounge, there isn't
program called Free your mind,
and it's profound, profound
changes in the way that you view
your thoughts, and it will help
start the process of you
uncovering and becoming aware of
those thoughts. And awareness is
everything. When we become aware
of what we are thinking about,
we can begin to make that
change.
That's part one of the workshop
series. Thank you for joining me
in the next episode. I'm walking
you through my seven steps to
freedom. These are the exact
steps that I walk through, not
just my coaching clients, but
what I walk through myself, my
personal life, and it has
absolutely transformed me. In
these seven steps I walk women
through how to release the
resentment and experience
freedom within themselves. This
is not just about marriage. This
is going to help you in every
relationship in your life,
including your money, your
business, as well as
spirituality and health. I'll
see you in the next episode.
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God Bless You. You.