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Where the sexual and spiritual come together. Sex and relationship coach and vaginal weight lifter Kim Anami gives you the sex education and orgasms you never had. www.kimanami.com
Podcast - Why I LOVE Period Sex
Ah, period sex.
I’ve had some of the best sex of my life during my period.
What makes this psychedelic portal so sexy and sacred to share with a partner?
Here are seven reasons why period sex is THE BEST.
1) It’s psychedelic baby!
During menstruation, the door between worlds opens.
The mighty cervix.
The gateway between life and death.
This happens during birth, menstruation and ovulation, making each of these moments a powerful opportunity to access this inter-dimensional portal.
The cervix is connected to the vagus nerve—consdiered to be the most spiritual nerve in the body, and the one everyone is trying to access when they’re talking aobu nervous system resets.
That’s on the physical level.
On the metaphysical level, this is an energy pathway traveling from the cervix through the heart, all the way up to the crown chakra.
Tapping into this energy leads women to have spiritual awakenings, massive emotional releases, clear trauma and “see God”.
All via your cervix.
If you’ve listened to me for any length of time, you’ve likely heard me wax poetic and profound about the power—and necessity—of cervical orgasms for women.
While other underfucked and sexually inexperienced so-called “sex experts” are whining about how women can only have clitoral orgasms wah wah wah, the rest of us are out here having the fuckings of our lives, and having our worlds changed—via our vaginas.
The clitoris is good for a laugh, and squirting is a great party trick, and a throat-gasm is great voice-finder before a public speaking gig, but really, the juice and the genius and your new religion is found in your cervix.
And guess what.
When you are menstruating, and that portal opens, and you are having sex with your partner, you’ve brought that interdimensional cosmic experience into bed with them.
It floods the space between you and now both of you are traveling together.
I will say, that just like any deep experience in Anami Land, if you aren’t feeling connected to each other, if you aren’t deeply open and surrendered, you won’t hit these places.
If you ARE open—heart and genitals—you’ll have the most psychedelic experiences of your lives.
2) It’s primal.
After one particularly wild and fierce, hours-long encounter, my white sheets painted and smeared with blood like an abstract painting, my lover turned to me and said “Whoa. It looks like there was a war here.”
It was one of my proudest sexual moments.
We fucked ourselves up and down the room and the bed and the universe and had the war stains to prove it.
“Nothing gonna stop us now.”
He was unstoppable.
A little—or a lotta—blood didn’t faze him.
It wouldn’t faze any true warrior.
Contrast that to someone I thought was a champion alpha man—and he was in many areas of his life, especially business—and he nearly fainted at the sight of my blood.
He lost his erection and I lost any desire to fuck him ever again.
Sayanara, ya bitch.
When you get lost in the total Zone of flow and full acceptance, all barriers are gone.
No hangups, no inhibitions, no fears.
It’s just you and me savagery and everything raw and real we’ve got laid out all on the table.
And the bed.
So get over here and fuck me and let’s do it again.
3) Tit for tat.
The ultimate male/female quid pro quo.
To be clear, the desire for any sex acts ought to become from deep within, rather than a scoreboard exchange.
The female equivalent to a man whose down for—and relishes—period sex, is a woman who loves to eat come.
Can’t get enough of the stuff.
It’s like manna from heaven for her.
She smears it all over her breasts, her face, she loves taking it into her pussy and her ass and her mouth.
She lives for this stuff.
Swallowing it whole-heartedly.
Licking every last drop of that manna from heaven and savouring it.
Because that’s how she feels about you.
She wants you in every crevice, every cell, every piece of bone marrow.
Nothing is off limits.
She wants it all.
How does that feel as a man?
How cherished and honoured and adored do you feel when your woman does that?
How much of a king do you feel that your very essence is like a mythical Holy Grail for her?
As opposed to her choking and making a face and God-fucking-forbid-does-anyone-actually-DO-this—spitting out your come???
Holy fuck is that a real thing?
You, in return, give her the same level of devotion and worship.
Every ounce of her is sacred and powerful and you immerse yourself in it.
And by extension, her.
4) Fuck the pain away.
I made a podcast about this a few weeks ago, about how cataclysmic sex will alchemize your emotional and physical pain.
Got trauma? Have an orgasm!
Got period cramps? Have an orgasm.
Or several.
The most effective cure for what ails you is some serious cock probing your innermost reaches.
The deeper your orgasm—as in, G-spot and especially cervical—you release more oxytocin, which creates an uptake of prostaglandins, which are responsible for your period cramps.
The endorphins you release have been shown to create a 70% pain reduction in everything from your cramps to even migraines.
Let sex by your medicine and your medicine be your sex.
5) Higher libido.
Some women have a higher libido during their periods.
Take advantage of her being a ravenous sex monster and ravage her.
She’ll likely be even more primal and wild.
Enjoy it.
Who knows, you may start to look forward to this time of the month when the beast comes out of her cage.
6) Total, unconditional acceptance. Total surrender. I love and accept all your fluids, your smells, your taste.
I want to eat it all up.
I often talk about how I LOVE the sweated up smell of my man.
Just come back from the gym?
Come and finish your workout on top of me.
I love my man’s natural smell. It’s a potent aphrodisiac.
I can’t STAND a freshly showered man.
They’ve been sanitized and sterilized. It’s a literal turn off.
I need him to run around the block a few times and then come back to me.
Blood, sweat, tears, ejaculate.
It’s all one big love mess of pheromones and the even deeper turn on of total acceptance of your partner.
They see, small and taste every ounce and millimeter of you—and love and accept it.
This is huge—and essential—nourishment for you in a gourmet sex relationship.
7) Taboo-busting is fun. And therapeutic.
For whatever reason, period sex is apparently taboo.
Not sure why, but I’m assuming it has something to do with the propaganda that somehow menstruation is scary and painful or dirty in some way.
it’s not.
But.
The fact that there is a concerted effort to make you think it is, and we’ve all inevitably absorbed some of that programming, makes it a great adventure to buck up against these notions and transcend them.
Every taboo portal you walk through is a step forward in your self-actualization journey.
You face a fear, conquer it and move on.
You become unstoppable.
“Nobody gonna break-a my stride
No itty bitty blood gonna slow me down.”
The blasphemy that’s taken place over the last decades—and likely centuries—is the deliberate obscuring about what menstruation really is.
The modern view is that it’s a torturous time for women, even called “the curse”.
There’s a lot of this mystery and tragedy surrounding women’s reporoucitve lives.
In Christian mythology, Eve was such a hoe and so women were punished forever, condemned to have painful childbirth.
And perhaps by extension, obliterating periods.
Both of these things are lies, of course.
The truth is, childbirth is meant to be the biggest, most pleasurable orgasm and self-actualizing moment of your life.
A woman’s menstruation is meant to be a window where a shamanic portal opens up, and she has access to inner, spiritual and higher dimensions of consciousness.
Somehow, both of these things, that connect women—and by association, humanity itself—to higher centres of aspiration and a blueprint for bliss and spiritual awakening, have been violently removed from them.
Women are brainwashed to think that birth is pain and menstruation is torture.
That birth is violence and menstruation is punishment.
This little sidestep into the history of the opening of a woman’s cervix is important.
Because both of these events represent connection to self and the divine, an opportunity for recalibration and rebirth.
One happens a few times in a lifetime.
The other happens every month.
By realizing the true power of these moments, you liberate yourself and partner, but also free yourself from the shackles of a society that seeks to remove your from your own source of inner wisdom and intelligence.
As inner as it gets.
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So there you go.
Period sex really IS all that.
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