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"Growing Pains" is a podcast about growing up and trying not to break down. Tune in weekly with Ginger, Kylie, Gianna, and Ashlee as they survive college life, relationships, and the chaos of adulthood during their first year at UNLV. There will be crying, ranting, potential punching, and lots of laughter. Growing pains - when it hurts, the best thing you can do is laugh!
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Welcome to Growing Pains. I'm your host ginger, join me and my best friends as we talk about growing up we try not to break down
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go that intro always hits by the way. It's
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always so good. So I love it.
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Hey, everyone, this is episode six of growing pains, right? Yes, I'm so lost count. I know I don't I don't know.
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It's like we would you start a school year every year. It's like this. It's only 100 days left of the school year and then by like the third week. It's like the semester is like almost over by the way. Halfway. Yeah.
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Also we're joined by West again guys.
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I don't know if I can make it through.
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West back in the Coast supposed of Kylie she back out again. The Christian Carly,
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Carly. Oh, I miss Carly. Where's Carly?
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Oh, which Yeah, it's ginger, Gianna and Ashley and the pod and West today. But what started off song of the week
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black rainbows. Bye. Was it a miracle musical or musical miracle? I get them.
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That's how Ashley sees rainbows too. Yeah.
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That's funny. Let me pull up my Spotify real quick. Make sure that
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I get it rightly kind of colorblind that like only men can be like, you have better more colorblind. Yeah,
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man. Um, no, it's like more common.
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I was gonna be like, Yeah,
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it's like rare for a girl to be colorblind. You have to have you have to have the colorblind gene on both parents to be colorblind as a girl man.
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Pause and personal
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shots actually my grandpa and my dad and my
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dad don't start talking to us about recessive genes like I don't want to hear it's a recessive
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trait.
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It is. You know, GG bear. Test biology 101. My song of the week is wake up alone by Amy Winehouse.
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Amy Winehouse. Nice.
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We're in a crazy mental state.
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I was right. It was miracle musical house right. Miracle musical. Yeah.
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Oh, wait. I know my song of the week to kick off our topic. For next stash. Okay, wait, no, because I don't know the name of it. It's okay.
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Oh, okay. Um, I'm gonna completely change I like chose three different songs but I think I'm gonna just go with steamroller by Phoebe Bridgers because that's how I feel right now.
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That's crazy. Really?
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Is that how you felt in when you were in the toasted teacup?
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No one even knows about that. Yeah, yeah, guys. I think I mentioned it last week before. Like Ashley finds her song just really quick. Went through crazy crazy. For the first time had the absolute craziest. Like an actual heartbreak. It happened during a Halloween party. I was in a twisted, like, sign up for therapy. And that night I yeah, she was
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in the corner of the party. Like, on the phone on the phone. Like something really crazy. Yeah. And people just kept like holding up their flashlights and be like, Yo, she good.
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Taking pictures that you walk by. It was like, literally like just so photography. Yeah. Had to get one for myself. It was so funny. Ginger. It was the funniest. It was so it was like crazy. It was in my song of the week for the official fall season is going to be Oh, I just had it. Where did it go? Oh. Here we go. Okay, it's Skinny Love by Bon Iver. Oh, oh, beautiful. I love him speaking. I've been watching a lot of Twilight, which is I think it's the only like, reasonable way for me to get into that artists because I was like, Rosalyn, when like Twilight came I was How old was I in 2008 for?
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Yeah, oh, don't make me feel so like
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I was like,
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when the second world a little bit old guys was a little bit old.
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You know one day you're in high school one day you're just like chillin and fine the next day back pain. That's how you know what's the no
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arm? No, that's
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like lumbar. Back pain right now. I was driving a car that was breaking down actively braking.
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Did you get for driving a Ford? Oh, maybe it was only one that had all of us in it.
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I'm even a car person. I know that. That's true. Yeah, Ford's cards,
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seven of us packed
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up in an overdrive in American
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American built car. Yeah. Anyone who drives a Ford.
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I said that on the radio.
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I'm happy here in my little Kia Rio and I drive you he is really a little I have a bright orange Kia. I've never seen it before. It's like metallic orange. That's great. Yeah,
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wait, speaking of all Ready to segue it's full time guys. Oh,
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I was like what is she gonna
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do you guys know the color of pumpkins?
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I don't Yeah, that was a good segue fall time guys fall season colorblind I get it. Oh I'm so sorry
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that's why it's one of my favorites
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she couldn't have seen it coming.
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It's okay. All right. Oh
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Ashley loves to read.
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But the album Correct. By Taylor Swift that's not my favorite color though.
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Is that your favorite house photo?
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That's my favorite Taylor Swift. Like oh my gosh, guys, we only have 30 minutes to cap this of podcast and I could go on for 30 years yeah about the That's all she skeleton of the red album by Taylor Swift. Okay, listen. What's your favorite Taylor Swift album was? Yeah. Of course.
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Yeah, that's such a solid choice. Yeah,
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no,
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I'm gonna have to say I'm gonna have to say that that is a really like
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unfortunately, that's a really basic choice but that's just
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if it wasn't folklore, I would have no, I would have to know I would have to say fearless
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Taylor Swift well, that version of 1989 is coming out tonight at midnight, so it's like 9pm for us cry.
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Are you guys excited?
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It's gonna be I'm gonna
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Yeah, we're gonna be crying a little bit.
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Oh, what's gonna be devastating? Guys listen, honestly, the song from 1989 like that always stuck.
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I just don't me What is it clean? Why did that one stick to it should be Wonderland that's the gay song. Oh, you're so nice the gay you barely said you
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are in love now.
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Do you are in love you dude, my song is how you get the girl.
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Oh, that's so real.
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Minus your love that was like the best song in the world your style. Oh, but that's like a like a I thought we weren't like talking about singles. Like oh she's like I'm really talking about we're doing like the our
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most popular one of most popular albums ever deep cuts.
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Yeah, no, it's really good. Guys. Let me tell you about my favorite song on thriller. No one's listening to it.
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No one's ever heard a favorite song by Taylor Swift shake it off. Indian underground.
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If we're talking about the singles that are my favorite I have to go with I have to go play space okay. Course is just too good. To fire.
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It's so good. Fall is very attractive. Oh, it's it's a it's a you know what? I'm going to use the word for it dangerous for teenage girls. Oh, like, like brutal like this is where you die in the Warriors. Oh, yeah. The IDI Yeah, for I can't spell. Um, first of all, it's cuffing season. So automatically everybody's either in a relationship or evil. And it's just harder
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or you find yourself what we talked about previously with the situation.
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Oh, yes. Currently all losing the IgG A F for epic li lose. All of us like are so chill lawns like none of us are nonchalant.
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I was like we weren't. None of us are. Everyone's overwhelmed or underwhelmed and no one's ever just Well, yeah.
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And then you've got you've got it's cuffing season. It's getting cold you just want someone to like watch scary movies with and then you've also got you know, seasonal depression, which is really hard when it's cold in the morning and you just want to go to bed and you can't no blanket burritos hitting too hard. And then and then you've got midterms. And you know, the holidays are coming up, which is a very stressful time. Halloween
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comes first. Halloween is fun, but Halloween is like only fun for your like younger years. I
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don't know what I would do if I was an adult. Yeah, for Halloween. I will be like 30 at a frat party. I'm like, what else? Is there?
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Someone who's 29 and it's not there's not like when I'm hanging out with some friends and that's it. Like,
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I think it'd be probably fun to just like no, I it would be fun to like hand kit, maybe
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scare candy you would you would definitely scare Yeah,
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I think like this is where my social anxiety started when I was trick or treating and like they would like make you say trick or treat I hate what do you say? Give me my candy. Like like, personally, like go go play shuffleboard and just give me my credit
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or like, and I had a speech impediment.
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Oh, that's so cute. Actually. Yeah, it's adorable. I'm just picturing until third grade. baby picture of ginger. I really wish this was the audiovisual podcast. We could show just like if you ever see me on campus and you need to see Get a picture of ginger as a child, don't hesitate to ask. So
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greatest pictures I've ever of ginger. Anyways,
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for me that's.
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But regardless of all of these obstacles falls still remains to be my favorite time of the year because I You're always sad. Yeah, but that's not seasonal. But you're more sad and false. No, that's because my birthday happens to also Yeah, it was Ashley's birthday. And it literally felt like doomsday. It was like a pawn. Yeah, like we were like going out for Ashley's birthday. And she was not having fun. Like, she'd be in the corner of the function being like, I've just like, and I couldn't days coming.
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It's like, just like, I can't describe it other than like brain rot. I think it's, I don't know. It's just like a teenage girls destiny. Maybe it's just a girl's destiny to hate their birthday. Yeah. Maybe I don't know. God, you're just a happy person. Where did it all the?
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I don't know. Oh, I've got some sadness. And there's a darkness. There's a part of me that hasn't been like at least Yeah.
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Yeah. Oh, you know, one arc coming.
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My villain arc. Yeah, really is covered guys.
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There was like a moment where we were out for my birthday. And everyone was like, smile. It was midnight. And I hate getting my photos. I hate getting my photos. But there's three photos of me in all of existence.
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I could not post a photo. People like
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trying to take a picture. Also, it was someone else's birthday. Yeah. And they have balloons and like, we're like Ashley pose with the Ashley Cole watch. parties took
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their birthday. And it was it lasted all of like eight seconds. But for me, it was like the longest time period of my entire life. And I felt like everybody was looking at me all of those flashing lights. I wanted to like pass out and die.
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She looks how she perceives me.
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Don't Exactly. Receive her real, real funny. But because like why would I like Christmas summers to hot girls.
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I hate Christmas. I hate Christmas. And I work a retail job. No, that's why retail to Christmas my whole life. Like I think it's because it's so much stress. I have family in the entire world. And my house has always been like the house that everybody comes to Oh, even worse. Yes. And so I've always been like up for like, yeah, it's like, yeah, I gotta clean my mom. Like you gotta clean your room and you gotta like dust your fan for like cousins you haven't seen in 30 years. And I'm like, what are they sewing? So?
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Yeah, so I understand that if I have to clean the entire house to be clean, including places that they're not going to be? Yeah, I understand.
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Do I like it? And am I ever gonna like it? No. We're gonna have Christmas at your apartment for the first week. I'm excited for our friends giving.
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Are your friends getting
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mad if I make a tofurkey
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you don't eat turkey? Fun just for fun. You eat turkey. Right? I'm telling you here right now you eat it.
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I want to get
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turkey. I'm gonna do it. You're gonna eat this turkey.
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Really strange pictures after the Friendsgiving happens. Look what happened to gingers.
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An era where she's like, I don't think I want to eat me. And you know what? That's
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cool. Yeah, let me tell you, me and Mr. D.
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I was vegetarian for
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nine years. And guess what that was? Yeah.
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I'm sorry. Guess what? That was an eating disorder. Like Ashley
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was Yeah. Once like Ashley was like, I think I'm gonna start eating meat again. I was like, I thought Oh, finally, it was like a big step getting better.
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supportive friends to like, let her go through that for years.
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Like, whoa, okay. Like when somebody makes a choice to like
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eating disorders before?
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Oh, no, I wasn't being sarcastic. I was like, no, no, no, no, no, no, I was like, I was like, well, you're like really patient.
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Like, there's really nothing you can do other than like, unfortunately, sometimes like, Well, no. Throw me at ya.
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The tricky apparently, Ashley will
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look in my mirror and I'm like, stop body checking.
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body checking. I do that every time I go into your room, but
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you also have the nice seat. You're the only one with the full body mirror. Sometimes that's what I do. Mom If you're listening, that was fake. I was doing it for health. I was going do you want in volleyball? It was it was I needed to
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veggies. God and we would have gone D What if it weren't for our injury? Yeah, if I didn't tear
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my ACL never tore my ACL. I just ruined your whole life. I quit that says the biggest nightmare is getting my ACL torn. That sounds horrible. I had shin splints. But like who that what is that? Shin splints? Yeah, so take the ligaments in your in split them. Oh,
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so basically I shouldn't split is when you split your
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break. I wonder when
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one day we went to Dutch Bros. Okay, it was a reg just normal day.
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All right, basically ginger asked what double blended means and they go it means they blend it twice. I didn't ask it wasn't me it was Kylie it was Carly it was Harley so ginger don't if you work a judge I'm so sorry if because ginger if she's in your lunch, she's a medicine. First of all, she asked for soft, top. provocative, soft Oh, can I get I need soft top right now? I'm not here. And then
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did you know it's a Dutch word the other day. And she like, she was like, there's a gay girl here that I need to talk to. And I'm not here. And then she was like, Oh, she's at the window. So when I pulled up to the window, she was like, let me talk to you. So I had to scoot my driver's seat back. Ginger could talk to her still too awkward so far that all ginger like had to do was be like, Yo, who's on drugs? Like I love this song. And they did not
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know when I was like, I like your tattoo. She's like, thank you so much. And then I was like, Oh, I feel like I said one thing I'm always gonna do is flirt with a gay girl. One thing I'm always gonna do
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that's like not true at all. One thing you're always gonna do is fall in love with the straight one.
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Oh, actually. But I'm behind boom. Well, the other day
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we passed by like a we were doing we were like when we saw like a girl that was like, pretty dress pretty edgy. And she like she was cute. She was like, and she was nice. And then ginger goes, Yo, I think that's my new type. Maybe I should start going for like edgier girls, and I said out loud. I said You mean gay? What? She was like, always that would that meet?
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A stranger loves history with the Mormon girls.
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It's true. Me too, but
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in a different way. They're
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finding God somehow. All right.
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Full time, guys. I love I love I love looking at Christmas lights. It's one of my favorite things to do every Oh, you're right. Okay, I'm stupid. Halloween decoration.
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I actually really love it when people like make haunted houses into from their houses. Like that's so so fun. That's like also like there's like a house in my parents neighborhood. They like made it all Stranger Things themed. Like Max is like hanging up from like their roof right now. Like
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literally there's a haunted house and like, I don't know what it was but there's a chainsaw guy at the end. And like he said, You have to come with me. What and all of my friends pushed me they pushed me and I was the sacrifice for chainsaw man.
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Oh is are you talking about what night you were? This was the de Costa?
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No, no, this is overtime. Middle School.
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Oh, okay. It was like this happened. No, we are also we went to a party and there was like a little like haunted house thing like before you go in there was a guy dressed out. Ginger was like screaming I don't like falling like I love how long like people celebrate like Christmas for but I guess like people do for that for Halloween too. Like
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the second that you mentioned the word Christmas Ashley's face just No, I saw this smirk was
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and I love like,
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I can't stand Christmas. My favorite movie of all time though, is the Grinch. But I think it's because I love Jim Carrey. Like a really good like, I love the mask. Like yeah, like that's like really? Yeah, you love the Halloween movie?
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That's a Halloween movie, isn't it? No, no, he's
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like, No, he's
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just super alien or some kind of superhero masks actually based on the comic book. Really?
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He's like the worst person ever. Yeah, that's the whole point.
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Like I could start like I could quote the whole movie of the Grinch right here right now. But like I don't that's the only thing I like about Christmas. That's it You don't and I hate I love I love it. I love
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the only Christmas music I can listen to wham on loop eighth true. Wham gets past but no Charlie Brown Christmas album
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Kelly Clarkson's Christmas album. Okay, but
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Clark's personally, I would love to watch Charlie Brown and the great big pumpkin if you're talking about. Yeah, like why would I pick the Christmas one when like the pumpkin is right there. Christmas is just not it's so stressful. It you have to spend so much money you have to spend so much time you
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have Elf on the shelves.
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No, that is like no, no. No. I used to. I used to set them up. My little cousins. I used to set them up for my little cousins. Like I used to set them up for my sisters. How are you still feeling the magic if I had a wake up
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like at the buck crack? Oh, wait up into like Raizy as the show was the craziest stuff with it though. Like she'd put them in the craziest position.
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She did what? What did you just say?
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What are they doing on the shelf though? Yeah, she felt like a big like plate of powdered sugar.
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Oh, yeah. I remember you sending us pictures of like, she'd
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be like, such cute stuff with that. Yeah, my
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parents didn't do that until like this little ones for Christmas. We
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had to talk about something different this year. This episode because we found out that none of our like conversations pass the Bechdel Test. Yeah. Had to do some news. Some fresh.
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Did this one pad we didn't pass it back to Christmas.
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Santa is a man. Yeah,
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but lame. Yeah, born talking about the same we talked about the worst the worst. I mean, the most direct thing you would have said was all man, we're gonna be in this haunted house line flirting with dudes like, the closest you came, which is like, not that bad.
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And that was me.
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And it's so hard for me not to talk about men right now, guys. So hard. I'm like, but right now, I've been like in such a slump lately, so I'll be honest, off the bench. I'm off the bat. Maybe unfortunately, this is like the most painful game of my life. Like I've never like been like in torment like this.
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Yeah, I think I'm going into retirement like tapped me out, bro. Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, tag you Alright, you got this from here?
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I'll take it from here. Yeah, thank you. Don't worry. I'm up.
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You're definitely like I've been waiting.
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10 years definitely awake.
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My therapist said that. I'm proud of you. Oh, thank
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you, Ginger spend on our house every single day for two you know it is because also
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during this time of year, I used to like self isolate so much. So now I've like I like I don't know now like
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we don't mind. We love it. The only
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part of it is like I love when ginger is over and then she just pulls out the
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pull up. I really I do do that.
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I kind of eat into it though.
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What do you what do you play? Literally
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everything.
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Mostly Phoebe? Bridgers
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Yes, I was gonna say
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like, Postal Service. I'm just ready. I'm just ready for any girl to walk into that living room. It'd be like, oh, like you want to hear someday you're gonna
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set the soundtrack and walk in the world
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friends. No one else is walking into that apartment to
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the apartments always full. We just cleaned our apartment guys. We cleaned it. It was getting pretty bad.
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And it's gonna get ruined again this weekend.
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Like, like it would have been like triple the workload. It
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wasn't like horrible. I wouldn't have been able to deal with it though. It's a lot of stress.
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Oh, I can't wait for the update after holiday weekend guys because we haven't even coming next episode.
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Everyone says that it's a very like it's fun to be here. I know what's gonna happen I'm gonna be so real with you guys. I
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know have it so I know what's gonna happen.
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Cuz you guys do you live like on campus or like off campus?
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Right behind my airport.
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Thanks for Daxing my bad
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dogs does it say right behind the airport like literally like a small little shack like behind the physical? Like it's hidden away. It's literally
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mister Hey, read. Love that guy.
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Oh, no. No, it was like evil. Oh.
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It used to be McCarron. Yeah. And then like everybody was everybody
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was like a big deal. Everyone
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was really mad. They made it here you read ask your mom. Your mom and I talked about it for a minute. Yeah, real life. Did they did you? Yeah, we did. Talk to my mom. I love talking to my mom. All right. I love your mom.
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I love your mom. Love. Shout out all the moms out there
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so yo shout out to all the moms if you need a babysitter for holiday weekend. Don't ask me because I'm Louise has a child. Do you know what you should give her a child? She got a baby.
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I think we need to bring in Anita DS back
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to walk I have plans that I can but I cannot share
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with none of us are gonna be Patrick Bateman for Halloween.
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Wait, hold on. I want to do that one to be Patrick Bateman. Yeah, what's that idea? Oh, just in general. Oh, no, no,
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we're gonna kill people and like become like it was a bit him.
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Yeah, for real. No, we're
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gonna walk in. Everybody we're gonna lock in to survive this fall season. I think
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yeah. What's gonna be dying? We're dead.
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Only on the inside. Amen. Jerry duty
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Joey dirty. Black Male pink slip. That's a quote from the Grinch. And that is Oh, you're right. Boom. Jenko Chico. We passed the Bechdel Test guy,
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Jake batiko. Hey, edit off and let us know if we pass it. But yeah, let me know. Mr.
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Oh, man. Oh, Mrs. Beck. Okay. Women didn't have access to education until like, 20 seconds ago. I'm
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still a genius.
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In your two seconds old. Yeah, it
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is a woman. Period. She's a lesbian.
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Oh, women in space. You still
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live see how that didn't pass the Bechdel Test though. Like you had to bring up her sexuality. Wow.
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To be fair, the Bechdel Test is strictly about the representation of women in film.
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It's two women talking about having a conversation with each other about something that isn't a man. Yeah.
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I've never passed that test in my entire life. I didn't even need to study. Jane Never gonna need to
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do none of the Marvel yeah Alison out American cartoonist Alison Bechdel. Oh, she's a cartoonist. Yeah. Oh, it's like we should worked on up to Tino. Probably. Oh, she wouldn't Tony Award.
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Well, who's the guy that's like, what's the? I know his name, guys. What's up? What would you like? I'd love with your parents. Oh, Froy
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Yeah, Sigmund Freud. Yeah,
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we could screw the Bechdel Test. That's what's gonna go down next episode. Next pod.
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You're talking you're in love with your parents? Yeah.
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No, I'm saying like I was. Oh, really? You don't love Aquarius is
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like, I've talked to a man who like has like the exact like, same like Zodiac chart as my father. Yeah. And God almost
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died. Yikes.
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Was it on purpose, though?
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I'm curious what this woman didn't know besides the Bechtel test thing, but I'm just also nothing I've heard.
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I love women. I know. They're smart.
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Thank you. She was like, let me just on behalf of all women, let me clear this up.
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clarification. Getting canceled today guys, the exercise not the people.
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So she worked on like graphic novels was
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another podcast in our podcasts and your true and true flips and run intercom and yeah, Andrew, if you ever ever come across this podcast, we're huge fans and I really need to beat you and I would love to collab.
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I have to ask a question about who those people are
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the funniest people in the entire world. It's just super silly. And yeah, I just want you to know from the bottom of my heart I kidding you. True I can you stop you're not drew stop saying you can. Oh my god.
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Dude, one second. One last thing we stopped.
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I went to a early screening of the finance race and people were in full cosplay. And people were crying and I felt bad or stunk everybody
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was a little stinky. Also, I was supposed to go Yeah. And God is the biggest loser. naff is like my nerd guys.
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I know everything about it.
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It is my special interest. I'm a little bit
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neurotic. Yeah. So I found out that I that like the little weird physical eccentricity as I've had in my whole life of being like just super like clumsy and like spatial awareness is bad and like basically every reason I was in physical therapy as a very small child is called moto dyspraxia. And it's 87% concurrent with being on the autism spectrum. So I found that out I'm a little special.
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Spice What about what do you like? You only like have boxes and you just throw random stuff in the boxes? Autism boxes? That's my life. That's how I organize my room. That's all
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ADHD boxes.
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Oh, is it ADHD?
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I don't think that's all the thing the fun thing about like everything with like, neuro divergence and things like that, so it can encompass shared traits all from like a giant pool. So you can imagine like stuff that you would attribute to like ADHD, autism, OCD, complex trauma, like so on and so forth. It's all a bunch of like, possibilities unnecessarily or like related traits so it can just be like handful I got a little bit this small bit that
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so it's about everything
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I Yeah, that makes us deadly. Yeah. It's a little God said beer before liquor autism before ADHD. I've never been sicker. That's a godsend for me.
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