It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People

It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People Trailer Bonus Episode 11 Season 5

Asked and Answered: Your Questions on High Conflict Personalities, Relationships, and Self-Improvement

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Megan Answers Your Questions About High Conflict Personalities
In this special "Asked and Answered" episode of It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter flies solo to address listener questions about dealing with high conflict personalities. She shares expert insights to help listeners navigate challenging relationships, from understanding and overcoming high conflict behaviors to minimizing damage in high conflict co-parenting situations. She also advises on navigating borderline personality disorder in relationships and the challenges of blending families and building bonds.
Questions we answer in this episode:
  • How can I change my high conflict behaviors?
  • What should I do to minimize damage to my child when co-parenting with a high conflict person?
  • How do I inform someone they have borderline personality disorder?
  • How can I navigate the challenges of blending families and building bonds?
Key Takeaways:
  • Self-awareness is crucial in recognizing and changing high conflict behaviors.
  • Seek professional help, such as therapy or coaching, to work on emotion regulation and flexible thinking.
  • Avoid informing someone they have a personality disorder, as this can escalate conflict.
  • Focus on self-improvement and role modeling healthy behaviors for children.
  • Building trust and bonds in blended families takes time and patience.
This episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice for anyone struggling with high conflict personalities in their lives. Megan's expert perspective and compassionate approach provide listeners with the tools and resources they need to navigate challenging relationships and work towards positive change.
Links & Other Notes
Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing general patterns of behavior.
  • (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
  • (00:41) - Asked and Answered
  • (02:42) - Question #1
  • (10:00) - Question #2
  • (18:04) - Question #3
  • (23:09) - Question #4
  • (28:23) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Co-Parenting By Design

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What is It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People?

Hosted by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Megan Hunter, MBA, It’s All Your Fault! High Conflict People explores the five types of people who can ruin your life—people with high conflict personalities and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else.

They are the most difficult of difficult people — some would say they’re toxic. Without them, tv shows, movies, and the news would be boring, but who wants to live that way in your own life!

Have you ever wanted to know what drives them to act this way?

In the It’s All Your Fault podcast, we’ll take you behind the scenes to understand what’s happening in the brain and illuminates why we pick HCPs as life partners, why we hire them, and how we can handle interactions and relationships with them. We break down everything you ever wanted to know about people with the 5 high conflict personality types: narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, antisocial/sociopath, and paranoid.

And we’ll give you tips on how to spot them and how to deal with them.