How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships Trailer Bonus Episode 28 Season 10

When Divorce Gets Appealing: Understanding Appeals Court with Ceci Berman • Your Divorce Case

When Divorce Gets Appealing: Understanding Appeals Court with Ceci Berman • Your Divorce CaseWhen Divorce Gets Appealing: Understanding Appeals Court with Ceci Berman • Your Divorce Case

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Navigating the Appeals Process in Divorce Cases
Continuing our season-long Your Divorce Case series, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright welcome appellate attorney Ceci Berman to discuss what happens when divorce cases move to the appeals court. As a board-certified appellate practice attorney with extensive experience arguing before state and federal courts, Ceci brings deep expertise in family law appeals and complex commercial litigation.
The appeals process works very differently from trial court, with strict timelines and procedures that must be followed. Seth and Pete explore with Ceci how appeals aren't simply "do-overs" of the original case, but rather reviews of whether the trial judge made legal errors in their decision. Through their conversation, they break down the machinery of appeals - from filing deadlines to oral arguments before a panel of judges - and discuss what clients should expect during what can be a lengthy process lasting anywhere from 9 months to 2 years.
Questions we answer in this episode:
  • What exactly is an appeal and how does it differ from the original trial?
  • How long does the appeals process typically take?
  • What happens if you win your appeal?
Key Takeaways:
  • You have just 30 days from the final judgment to file an appeal
  • Appeals are expensive and time-consuming - carefully consider if it's worth pursuing
  • Winning your appeal means starting over - potentially with the same judge who ruled against you initially
This episode provides an invaluable look at a complex but crucial part of the divorce process that many people misunderstand. Whether you're considering an appeal or just want to better understand how the system works, Ceci's expert insights combined with Seth and Pete's practical experience make this an essential listen for anyone navigating divorce proceedings.
Links & Notes
  • (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
  • (00:26) - The Appeal with Ceci Berman
  • (01:55) - How Is It Different?
  • (04:04) - Who Decides?
  • (07:21) - Finality
  • (08:21) - Triggers for an Appeal
  • (13:57) - Preservation of Error
  • (20:16) - Mechanics of an Appeal
  • (27:48) - Three Judges
  • (29:25) - Time to Get an Opinion
  • (32:06) - What Your Role Is
  • (35:21) - Juggling Relationships with Attorneys
  • (36:24) - Stays
  • (38:24) - Questioning Results
  • (39:51) - Hard to Win
  • (41:31) - Taking Time
  • (43:39) - Expensive
  • (45:24) - Wrap Up

Creators & Guests

Host
Pete Wright
Podcaster and co-host, Pete Wright brings years of marriage and a spirit of curiosity to the divorce process. He's spent the last two decades interviewing experts and thinkers in emotional healing and brings that with him to the law, divorce, and saving relationships in the process.
Host
Seth R. Nelson
Seth Nelson is the founding attorney and managing partner at NLG Divorce & Family Law. He is a Tampa-based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems.
Producer
Andy Nelson
Hailing from nearly 25 years in the world of film, television, and commercial production, Andy has always had a passion for storytelling, no matter the size of the package.

What is How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships?

Seth Nelson is a Tampa based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective — saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.