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A podcast for women doing a lot and craving more soul alignment — motherhood, business, healing, relationships, growth — trying to do it without running themselves into the ground.
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Your soul called - are you ready to answer?
Welcome to Your Soul Called. A podcast for those feeling like there's something more. More alignment, more purpose, more peace, more connection, more joy. I'm Nicole your host. Each week we explore the invisible things that shape our lives, our intuition, our energy, our emotions and the lessons we came here to learn.
Nicole:Through personal stories, meaningful conversations and practical tools my hope is that every episode helps you trust yourself a little bit more, love yourself a little deeper and remember something your soul has always known. So without further ado let's dive in! Hello everyone welcome back! I took a week off because my kids were home on fall break and they just finally got back into school thankfully but we had an amazing fall break and we took a little staycation which was really fun and now I'm back into the swing of things which I also love because when they're home it's like you know you can get nothing done but today I have a fun episode for you and it's kind of different because I have been spending a lot of time talking about self care self support self love and today I wanted to do something different because it's something I have been working on personally and I think it has the potential to really change your life if you apply it the right way. So today I'm going to talk to you about manifestation specifically one hack that you can use this week today whatever that can really shift things for you if there's something that you really really want but you haven't been able to get and this episode is called the I don't care manifestation hack So one thing you may not know about me because I don't think I've talked about it on here but I have been literally obsessed with manifestation for like my whole life Like, when the law of attraction first came out, I was like, oh my god.
Nicole:But I've I've read all the books, and I've always felt like on a soul level, I kind of knew that everything was connected and that we were all part of that connection and even though I couldn't exactly explain how that worked I've always had this feeling this knowing that we play a major role in creation in creating our lives, right? And whether that is money or your dream husband, dream job, or just a free coffee at Starbucks this week. I think I knew from a long time ago that this was something that we all had the potential to do and the problem was that the more that I learned about manifestation the more I tried to apply all the concepts that I read about the theories the practices the more confused I got and it wasn't for lack of trying because I would do the affirmations I would visualize I read all the books and the things still weren't happening. And I found myself frequently falling back into this, you know, attitude of okay, I'll just work hard. I'll just put in more effort.
Nicole:I'll just try harder and do this stuff on the side and hope for the best. And I think on a a soul level, I felt like something was missing. I knew there were parts missing. I just didn't know what they were. And I believed all this stuff was real.
Nicole:Like, I knew you could create whatever you wanted. I knew that there was, like, an endless amount of opportunity with creation, but I just didn't understand what I was missing and why it wasn't working and I didn't really get it or really start to understand how it all worked until I went all in on training my intuition. Now if you've you know me a little bit closely or if you've been listening to this for a while you may already know that I am a trained intuitive. I can talk to animals, I can you know talk to dead people, I can read energetic fields, explore past lives and a whole bunch of other woo woo things that probably sound a little nuts if this is the first episode you're listening to but one of the things that I've learned through training my intuition is that intuition isn't a gift that you know only I have we all have access to it and it's just something that we can develop It's something that we all can have and here's the reason why I'm telling you all of this because it's because training my intuition has taught me more about manifestation than the 300 plus law of attraction books that I have read and I have read a lot of them.
Nicole:I started understanding once I began training my intuition how energy fields work and how our thoughts and our feelings and our beliefs influence our energetic field how all of it is connected to the way we experience life and how there may be things happening beneath the surface that we don't even realize are pulling strings are influencing us. Most importantly, I began to learn how to use my intuition to uncover why I was struggling to create some of the things I really wanted. So that's kind of what I wanted to talk about today because I have this incredible little manifestation hack that I've been using a lot lately. I want to share it with you because it's super simple you can try it today and in my own experience it can shift things really quickly and no you don't need to buy anything I'm not selling you anything I'm literally just going give it to for free because it's that awesome and I want you to try it and see if it works for you and I think if you do implement this you are going to see an actual result and I want to keep it super simple because that's how I like things.
Nicole:I get overwhelmed and confused easily and I like my processes to be really simple and super applicable and I want this to be something that you can use in real time like this week today and see actual results so I'm calling it the I don't care manifestation hack and and yeah that's because it's all about getting to a place where you don't care but let me go into it First, I wanna talk about my car window. So here's how this works. Imagine you really, really, really, really, really want something to happen. And let's say you need your car window fixed because it fucking rolled down and it won't roll back up. K.
Nicole:This is my life for, like, the last month. Your car window is broken. It won't roll up. Every time it rains, water gets into your car, makes everything all smelly, so you have to put plastic up. You can't properly secure it at night.
Nicole:You can't even listen to music because when you have one window open, it's like makes this loud, annoying sound that messes with you. It sucks. And you can barely hear anything. And then if you roll both windows down, you can't hear the music at all. So you're annoyed.
Nicole:You're frustrated. You're trying to figure out why everything feels so hard because this feels like just one more hard thing that you have to deal with and so you're like alright fuck it I gotta take care of this I take it to the repair shop they tell you okay it's gonna cost $1,500 because it's a Volvo whatever and it's gonna take four days so you're like okay fine do it and you pay the deposit you drop off your car and you're waiting four days go by and then a week and then two weeks and then four weeks later and you're still driving around with a broken window, putting plastic over it at night so it doesn't get wet. And you can't go anywhere because you can't leave the car with an open window in random places because people might break into it or whatever. And it's just frustrating. And every time you call the auto repair shop, they're like, oh, we ordered the part.
Nicole:It's coming soon. And you're like how soon like four days has turned to four weeks I cannot live like this and you're annoyed frustrated irritated defeated you like that's kind of how I felt and yeah this is a true story this is definitely going on with me in my life over the last month and I wanted that car window fixed yesterday. I was thinking about it constantly I live in an area where it rains all the time so it's kind of a big problem and I was like why is this taking so long? Okay now enter the I don't care manifestation hack. This is the idea behind you know the idea behind this hack is that you end up putting so much attention emotion energy into needing something to happen that you actually block yourself from making that happen and you get stuck in this cycle of focusing on things you don't want.
Nicole:So you're thinking about the problem, you're feeling the frustration, you're imagining how much better things are going to be once the problem is gone and then that calls into the law of focus which is like the more you focus on it the bigger it becomes the more important it becomes and you can only get more of that in your life so this intense attachment to the outcome becomes the block. You just blocked yourself. I was blocking myself and this is one of the pieces that I was missing from all those manifestation books. It's not just about wanting something visualizing it and repeating affirmations about how happy you're going to be when you get it. Affirmations don't work by the way.
Nicole:We'll get into that in another podcast but this is about how you're holding on to this thing so tightly you're gripping onto it emotionally while you're trying to get it and so even if you're doing all of the perfect right physical actions you're probably still getting stuck in this cycle of waiting of wanting it so bad of worrying of being frustrated and so I noticed something interesting like every time that I've gotten something that I really really really wanted in my life there's always been a point where I just stopped giving a shit or I stopped caring about whether it happened or not and sometimes I did this intentionally once I learned about this manifestation hack but before that I was doing it unintentionally. It just was happening naturally and once I started paying attention to that I realized oh this is something I could apply that I could practice so this brings me to the I don't care manifestation hack It's simple, it's easy, and it will get you unstuck in three steps. But first, I want to give you a little context because I think this is where, you know, I before just wasn't it wasn't making sense to me where I was getting confused because I didn't fully understand universal laws.
Nicole:So when you're wanting something super badly, it keeps you stuck. And there are three universal laws you kinda need to understand to make sense of this. So the first is the law of focus. What you focus on, you get more of. So whatever you're focusing on is going to grow in your experience.
Nicole:If you're constantly focused on how hard life is, how nothing is working out, how you can't ever get what you want, then you're only gonna get more hard, more not what you want, you know more not working out and so with my car window I was so focused on the fact that it was broken and that they hadn't fixed it and that it needed to get fixed I wasn't exactly spending my days thinking about how it was okay or how great everything was so I was only calling into more hardship. The second universal law that was taking effect here is called the law of opposing focus. So the harder you push against the situation the more resistance it will push back at you. So when I'm trying to force that window to get fixed I was checking on it I was worrying on it I was calling them all the time trying to force it to happen the more it was going to push back at me at not happening. And the more I pushed, the more frustrated I became and then it was only pushing back just as hard.
Nicole:I needed to balance out my emotions around it. So the third, you know, universal law concept that you need to pay attention to before I go into the manifestation hack is called the law of balance. So this is where even in situations that feel entirely negative there always has to be the opposite. So in every situation and every person and everything in this earth there is an equal amount of good and bad. And if you're only seeing the bad, then you're very heavy leaning on the bad side, and you're only gonna get more of the bad.
Nicole:You need to also see equal parts good. I know that's hard, and I know that it can be very difficult to see the good in a shitty situation. I'm not saying you have to pretend that bad things are good or I'm not saying that every difficult experience is secretly wonderful. But what I am saying is if you're completely focused on one side of a situation then you're not seeing the big picture and you're probably getting consumed with that one side. So the goal is to get to a more balanced place where you can see the situation.
Nicole:You can see both sides of it without feeling so consumed by the one negative side and when you're no longer emotionally gripping the outcome so tightly opportunities will magically open up for you. So that's the foundation of this hack. Okay? So keep that in mind as I'm about to tell you it because it's three steps and it's simple. So you need to basically get to a place where you can want the thing without feeling like you need it to happen in order to be okay.
Nicole:Okay, the I don't care manifestation hack step one: Notice how badly you want the thing. Notice how much you want it. I want you to think about something you're trying to create in your life or something you really really really really want. How badly do you want it? Maybe it's money, maybe it's a new job, a new relationship, a new business opportunity, a house, a new place to live, a project getting finished.
Nicole:You've been trying. You've been taking action. You've been thinking about it all day long, and for some reason, it just isn't happening, and you don't fucking know why. Well, notice how badly you want it. If you had to put a number on it from zero to a 100, how much do you want this thing to happen?
Nicole:Not how important is it to happen in a practical sense, not whether you have a legitimate reason to want it. I'm talking about the emotional intensity, that feeling of like, I need this to happen. Like, that need that need to have it work out. I need this to change. So with my car window, I had an intuitive reading done for me about the car window issue thing because it was like, what the hell?
Nicole:This is going on for too long. I need the window fixed so I had an intuitive look in on the situation and read my level of want which came back at 9898% is how badly I wanted this car window to be fixed and honestly like I... Was true. I did fucking want that window fixed. I was so consumed by it that I couldn't stop thinking about it and in my intuitive work I use what I call scientifically precise intuition to explore things like this and when I am emotionally activated myself which I was in this situation I will always choose to have another trained intuitive read me because it's harder for me to get a clear read on myself if emotions are involved.
Nicole:So she immediately pointed out that this need was really really high and that my want was at a 98% which was something I completely missed. My attachment to the outcome was literally blocking it from coming in. I was so focused on the window being broken and wanting it fixed that I wasn't giving myself any room to feel okay with what was going on right now with the fact that it was still broken. There are plenty of other good things going on but I wasn't focused on that. So my goal at this point became really simple.
Nicole:I needed to get my want down not because I didn't deserve a working car window and not because I shouldn't want things to work out but because I wanted to stop feeling so consumed by something that I couldn't control. So this brings me to step two. So how do you get your want done... Down? That's step two.
Nicole:This is how you're gonna do it. You're gonna turn your worst case scenario into your best case scenario. And this is going to be a little difficult if you've never done it before. I want you to take whatever the thing is that you really, really, really, really, really want and come up with the worst case scenario. What's the worst possible thing that could happen?
Nicole:You might need to get creative here. Write that down. Journal it out. And then I want you to write out what is the best case scenario. How do you turn that worst case scenario into your best case scenario?
Nicole:So whatever you're trying to make to happen, write down your worst case scenario, what is the absolute worst thing that could happen, and then turn that into the best possible thing that could happen. And you're gonna have to get creative. It might take some time to actually get your brain out of the this is the worst thing ever' mode. So how could it lead you somewhere better? What could you possibly gain?
Nicole:What other possibilities might open up for you? What could you discover that you maybe would have never discovered otherwise? You're not trying to convince yourself that the worst scenario is definitely going to happen. You're trying to show yourself that even if it does, you're going to be okay. And that if you don't get the exact outcome that you've been so tightly grasping to, that other things could work out and it might even be better than you expected.
Nicole:So I'll give you the example with the car window. I literally journaled this out when my intuitive was like you know, you need to get your what down down. And I was like, okay. So I journaled this out. I said, what's the worst case scenario with the car window thing?
Nicole:And it's like, okay. Worst case scenario, the auto repair shop is going to straight up steal my thousand dollar deposit. They're gonna pretend like I never paid them and just like slip it under and be like, oh, what? We don't have any proof that you paid us. And then my other window is gonna break and I'm gonna be sitting here with two broken windows, a loss of a thousand dollars, and then at that point...
Nicole:So that's the worst case scenario that I could think of. Felt like pretty shitty. So then I was like, how do I turn this into the best case scenario? So at the point where I've lost a thousand dollars just lost it both my windows are broken I'm gonna hit this point where I'm so done with my Volvo that I start looking for another car and maybe I don't have the money for it which I obviously don't and but because I hit this point of being like fuck volvos and there's so much problems so I'm gonna go start looking for this other car start looking and I find low and behold a Lexus 700 luxury SUV that just happened to be listed on Facebook marketplace at that time for just $10,000 more than what I could sell my Volvo for. It's newer.
Nicole:It's more reliable. It's easier to maintain because it's like a Toyota, and it's easier to get serviced here in Hawaii because there are so many Toyota dealerships, is a serious problem that I have with the Volvo. So actually a friend of mine had this car and I was like, oh, that's a nice car. But... So I saw the car in my head and I was like was like, this could totally happen.
Nicole:I've had crazy things like this happen to me before. And with that car I like saw the color. I got in it. It felt so good and I never really loved the white Volvo color that you know I had. I always wanted the blue car.
Nicole:So I started seeing myself driving this car. I felt all the feelings. And if it were not for that broken window, I would have never even considered looking for a different car or found this amazing deal that popped up on Facebook. It suited me even better. And suddenly, my worst case scenario wasn't looking so bad.
Nicole:And truth be told, it was looking pretty fucking good. I was actually excited about the, you know, the blue Lexus that was like sitting there waiting for me just waiting to open up and here's the important part I wasn't just trying to come up with a happy ending I was trying to genuinely feel like I would be okay even if that window didn't get fixed there was a world where everything would be fine I could still have a good life I could still get around I could find another solution something else was going to open up for me and I didn't need this one particular outcome to happen in order for things to work out for me it just made me start thinking like wow you know this could be happening for a reason and when I really let myself imagine those other possibilities something shifted. My attachment to getting the car window fixed started to drop. I went from feeling like I absolutely needed that window to be fixed today to feeling like you know what I don't care I don't care if it gets fixed my Lexus is waiting for me and if something else happens you know even the worst case scenario happens things are going to be okay things are going to end up working out for me.
Nicole:I was going to be okay either way and that's the point of this exercise you need to create enough space between you and the outcome so that you can stop gripping onto it so tightly. So step three is practicing it practicing this story retelling it to yourself until you genuinely don't care. So this is where you need to pay attention to what you're actually feeling also where the name of the I don't care manifestation hack comes from you need to get to a place where you genuinely don't care about the old thing that you wanted you you can write out the most beautiful worst case to best case scenario story in the world, but if you're still sitting there thinking, yeah, but I really, really need this to happen, like, there's no other way, then you're not quite there yet. And your brain the human brain is naturally wired to repeat old patterns to keep you safe. Familiar patterns is what our human brain likes to do that's how they work.
Nicole:So if you've spent weeks or months or years or whatever thinking about how badly you need something to change you're probably not going to completely shift that feeling in five minutes and that's okay. Keep working with it. Journal about your worst case scenario and how it could lead to your best case scenario every day. Keep adding possibilities. Keep getting more and more creative.
Nicole:Keep thinking about how this could open up so many opportunities for you and keep reminding yourself that there are other things that are just waiting for you over the horizon that you just can't see it like what could they be? Maybe you can say, I'd love for this to happen, but if it doesn't, it'll be okay. I'll figure it out. This is exactly what I've been needing. So for me, with the car window, that shift, once I realized what was going on, it happened really really quickly like within two days of me applying this I don't care manifestation hack.
Nicole:My car was fixed. Like it's literally at the shop right now. I dropped it off this morning. I just started doing this on Sunday so it was like two days. But...
Nicole:And it felt like the change, like, just happened out of nowhere. They called me and were like, the parts in, bring it in this morning, and that was it. So now I can't tell you that this exercise was the reason that the repair was completed when it was because I could hear you saying this already. The repair shop was gonna do it anyways. Well, were they?
Nicole:I don't know. I mean, honestly, when I intuitively look in at it now I can see that had I not applied this you know manifestation hack of getting to a place where I don't care when I did it could have taken another two plus weeks for them to call me because they had many cars to work on and my part would have just been sitting there and they would have just not gotten to me but because I energetically cleared this stuff then you know I open that up for me to get what I want. So let's recap the I don't care manifestation hack has three steps. Step one Notice how badly you want the thing. How attached are you to getting that outcome step two write out your worst case scenario and turn it into the best case scenario get creative find ways that this could work out for the best for you step three keep practicing this story keep running it through your brain over and over until you generally feel like you don't need that one particular outcome you don't need that thing that you wanted so bad anymore you honestly just don't care and don't forget the physical part still matters because manifestation is half energetic half physical if you're not also doing the physical actions to make the thing happen it's not going to work so you have to combine both so if you need to call the repair shop call the repair shop if you need to apply for the job apply for the job if you need to put in applications for the house do that if you need to meet someone put yourself out there this isn't just about sitting on your couch and expecting the universe to do everything for you.
Nicole:You have to put in the work, the actual physical work, as well as shifting the energetic side. And there's one other thing that I want you to remember when you're in the middle of a situation that feels terrible see if you can start balancing out the negative with some positive. You need to be able to see both sides and everything always has an equal amount of good and bad. You don't have to love what's happening. You don't have to pretend you're happy about it, but ask yourself is there anything I'm not seeing?
Nicole:Is there another way this could work out? Is there something I could do for myself right now that might make this experience a little better? And simply getting to a more neutral place is a huge part of the manifestation and unblocking stuck energy that is keeping you from what you want. And I know this is taking a little bit longer than I was planning but I want to give you one more example because this wasn't just something I noticed with my car window and it happened with something much bigger and I couldn't exactly explain it at the time because I didn't know all these universal laws and how all of this stuff worked but here's another example that happened for me that was much bigger and basically how I stopped looking for my soulmate and met my husband. So before I met my husband I was in this place of really really really really really wanting to meet my person.
Nicole:I was getting old. I felt like I was getting old. I felt like I was running out of time. I felt like I tried all the things. I was doing everything that I could think of to make this happen.
Nicole:I was a good catch so I thought and I was on all the dating apps. I was going out to the bars, I was looking cute at the grocery store and the bank and at Borders. You guys remember Borders? I used to go there to try to see if I could find the guy because I was like well he's not at the bars so maybe he's at borders and I would dress all cute and go there and look for books and I didn't find him there either so I was putting myself out there and I was so focused on finding him and I just kept meeting all the wrong people All the guys that were players, that were cheaters, that were not even close to what I consider dateable let alone marry able and I was frustrated and I was disappointed and I wanted it so badly and I felt like pressure because I felt like I was getting old I was like I want to have kids so much pressure I need to meet him and it was just like wasn't happening and at some point I just decided to make this conscious decision to stop giving a fuck.
Nicole:Like I stopped caring completely about needing to find someone. I stopped going out. I stopped filling all my time with like looking cute when I went out. I didn't even care. I was just like what do I want to do with my day today?
Nicole:I decided to focus on myself. I would ask myself like what do you want this week Nicole? Do you wanna watch Felicity all weekend? Or do you wanna go for a hike? What would make you happy?
Nicole:You wanna go shopping at Forever twenty one? Like, what are the things we can do for you today? And I would do exactly what I wanted to, and I started really, really having fun with that. I started thinking about the hikes I wanna do with my dog. I would get a special drink and take it to the beach and read a good book.
Nicole:I would... I took... I signed up to do, like, Cuban salsa dancing with a bunch of old people, which was also really fun. I would go to yoga in the park. I started filling all my time with things I genuinely enjoyed and I stopped caring.
Nicole:Here's the hack right here. I stopped caring about finding the guy. I genuinely was only concerned with, like, what do I want for me today, this weekend, whatever. And I wasn't doing this to become more attractive to someone or to make myself a better catch or whatever. I, like, genuinely didn't care.
Nicole:I was only doing it because I made this choice that I just wanted to enjoy my life. And I stopped making meeting someone the most important thing before I could really enjoy myself. And then I kid you not, like, two months later, I meet my husband. And here's the part that's super interesting. So apparently...
Nicole:So we meet at this Halloween party. Right? I... I'm standing there. This guy comes up, and he's, like, standing next to me, and he's, like, looking at me, I was like, Hi.
Nicole:I look at him and he's got these green eyes. I was like, Oh my god. He's actually really hot. He starts talking to me and he's like, You don't remember me? I was like, No.
Nicole:He's like, we've met before. And I was like, no. We haven't. He was like, yeah. We have actually met four times.
Nicole:And he goes over all the places that we've met, and I remember being at those places, but I just don't remember meeting him at all. But on that night, when we really connected, he stopped me and started talking to me. And when I looked at him, I I was like, that's when I really saw him. And pretty much from that point on, I was like, inseparable from him. We were a perfect match, and I cannot believe I did not notice him the other times that we met because he's a very good looking guy.
Nicole:He's, like, totally... You know, I would have noticed him, but I didn't because I wasn't a match. So he was literally everything I was looking for. Checked all the boxes. He was athletic.
Nicole:He was smart. He was funny. He was, you know, good looking. He was kind. All the things.
Nicole:And I I wasn't a match to see him because my want was so high. I literally couldn't I couldn't be, you know, a match for him. And so even though we met four times before, I don't remember it because, you know, I wasn't... My... I was blocking myself from him.
Nicole:But when I stopped blocking myself, then he was right there really quickly. And, you know, we're happily married. We have three kids. We've basically been super... You know, he's the best thing.
Nicole:And I am so glad that I was able to get to a place where I could let him in to my life. And when I shifted my focus from what I didn't have to what I did and I started thinking about not wanting it so much, everything changed. And there he was. And it was easy. And it was natural.
Nicole:And I never felt like I had to chase him or force anything to happen. And he was like night and day compared to everybody else that I was coming across. And I can tell you that letting go of all that pressure to make it happen and shifting my focus from not having to how I actually had more than enough in that moment that changed everything for me really really quickly and that's why I love this little hack. It applies to the small things like getting your car window fixed and applies to big things like finding your soul mate or making a million dollars or, you know, creating this dream life that you wanna create. So the question becomes, like, can you want something without making your happiness depend on it?
Nicole:Can you work towards something without spending every day feeling frustrated that you don't have it yet? Can you open yourself up to possibilities that are available to you and that balance out the bad with the good? And these are the things that create the shift and open up the blocks. And when we want something so badly, we are actually blocking ourselves from getting it. And the I don't care hack, like, it works.
Nicole:It's the energetic shift you've been missing. Now that said, what if there's something deeper going on? Like, say you try this, you're all in on it, and you're still stuck. Maybe you just need to give it more time because, you know, your brain has a habit of rerunning the old pathways, and it's still not really believing. You still...
Nicole:The want is still high even though you're pretending that it's not. It could be that. Or, you know sometimes it's not as simple as changing your focus or writing a different story sometimes there's a deeper belief underneath the thing that you want that needs shifting so maybe you've told yourself that you're not good enough to have it or maybe you don't feel safe having it. Maybe a part of you believes that if you get what you want then something else is going to go wrong because something always goes wrong in your life Or maybe you've been carrying these same emotional patterns for so long that you don't even realize they're there. And this is where an intuitive read can be incredibly helpful.
Nicole:When I work with someone I use my intuition to explore what's happening under the surface. I look at the want and I do all that but I also look at the beliefs, the emotional roots, the energetic blocks that are contributing to what's going on with them. And yes, I give you actual tools to remove these blocks so that you can get to the thing you've been wanting, but more importantly, I give you a deeper understanding of why you were blocked to begin with and how you can step back into your power again. And implementing the I don't care manifestation hack, it will definitely work and does often do the trick. But if there's a deeper root that's, like, been going on for a really long time, you may need to uncover a little bit more.
Nicole:And in intuitive reading, you know, we can explore the patterns that are keeping you stuck, and I can channel exactly what you need to specifically shift it. Because each person is different, and there's always something specific that's going on with you. It's not just about thinking more positively or forcing yourself to think differently there's always something bigger going on that most times you can't see and there's going to be a specific tool that you need to shift it And a lot of times you're just unable to see these things for yourself so you need someone to go in and like look in for you. So if there's something you've been trying to create for a long time or something that feels like it should be working but it isn't or if there's unresolved trauma or a block that you can't quite pinpoint, intuitive readings can be magical. I, as an intuitive, still get intuitive readings for myself because they're that good and if you want one and you're curious about it you can always find me at nicholasalmoiragi dot com that's nicolesalmoiraghi.com and in the meantime I would love for you to try the I don't care hack with something in your life this week that you really want that try it with something simpler like it doesn't have to be a big thing like manifesting your soulmate It could just be something simple like getting your kid to go to sleep on time or whatever.
Nicole:And write out the worst case scenario, turn it into your best case scenario, keep working on it until you genuinely feel like you're gonna be okay either way. Get to a place where you don't care. You have to stop wanting what you want. You have to let go of your grip of holding on to it so tightly and see what happens when you stop kneading it so badly. And when we do this, we energetically open up so many opportunities that have been blocked and unavailable and everything changes.
Nicole:It's a little tricky, but trust me, it works. Okay guys thanks for sticking with me I know this was a long one but I hope you have a great weekend I hope you try it I hope it works and send me an email I'd love to see and hear like what's going on with you you can find me on Instagram and send me a DM also the links in the notes okay have a great great weekend and don't forget my website if you want to book a reading it's nicholasalmoyaragi.com bye for now