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It's called Luminous Life Force.
It's sacred. It's sexual. It's healing.
You’re here to be luminous. … To remember your magic.
We have the capacity to rise into our highest consciousness through intense times when we melt into a deeper version of love and acceptance, and follow the rules of nature.
I am the open door that no one can close, and I want to open doors that you never even knew existed. We will connect through meditation, spirituality and use our ancient sexual energy, to heal together.
Join me and let’s cultivate our most luminous life force together. ❤️
River Roaring co-organizes the Sacred Sexuality Austin Empowerment Circle Friday evening events, and facilitates weekend workshops and private muse-and-mentoring programs, all in-person in her temple in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas.
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Hello darling, this is River Roaring celebrating the luminous life force in us all. Hello, darling. I'm River Roaring and this episode is The Orgasm. Yes, The Orgasm. I am making this broadcast because the orgasm is basically completely misunderstood and I checked in with AI as I like to do sometimes to laugh because AI knows nothing about orgasm, very little about sex, and if you haven't heard me say it before there was a law that passed called SESTA FOSTA around 2018 that scraped the internet of sexual information.
Speaker 1:It is a long story there but that's what happened so AI knows nothing about this subject or sexuality or human intimacy in a real way. So I'm not going go on a big trail there. I want to simply give some real information, so today's broadcast is about just giving some real information kind of like skimming over a lot of the high points of an overview of orgasm in the human body. And for me I definitely have forty fifty years of forty five years of history with my own orgasm. And then I also want to say that it was 01/01/2012 when I enrolled myself into a very intentional, disciplined meditative program for Kundalini Tantra Yoga and I developed each chakra point through a very specific rarely used Indian tantra lineage.
Speaker 1:I developed every chakra methodically. And we did maybe four or five practices per chakra and we did one chakra per month. And so it was during that period in 2012 when my body, Kundalini, actually did awaken through very methodical, beautiful practices. By the end I would be sitting often for two hours in practice with Kundalini. Kundalini orgasmic energy.
Speaker 1:So I don't have the space in this broadcast to go deep into the kundalini experience. Story, it is orgasmic energy because I want to start out by saying the ancients know and it's true that orgasmic energy is flowing all the time through the universe. It's called life force. Orgasmic energy is the creative life force of the universe that animates everything. If you choose a path where you want to cultivate your orgasm and your orgasmic energy in your body, the tantric path is that ultimately through a lot of disciplined cultivation and growth, It's not like I can do this in an hour and I can achieve this.
Speaker 1:It's like the human body in our culture has been set back so far with illusions and limited beliefs that are false in our culture for thousands of years that we have been adopted in without asking questions about it. So we stunted ourselves so much that we are not usually awake and aware of the orgasmic energy that's flowing through, coursing through the universe at all times. So the tantra, the tantrika, the ancient history of tantra is a lifetime of cultivating orgasmic energy and weaving sound and light and matter into a life of ecstasy where you walk around in a form of orgasmic energy all of the time. And this will eventually be the path to us raising our own humanity consciousness up into the fourth and fifth dimensions because some of us will start cultivating our light body. And in my belief system, that's not possible without sexual orgasmic energy.
Speaker 1:That is actually what it is. So I guess there are spiritual paths. I could name a few names of institutions that teach spiritual path of cultivating the light body or astral body or energy body without adding sex, but to me that just doesn't make sense because orgasmic sexual energy is what powers my creativity and my light body in my body. Whether I'm with a partner or not, everything I'm talking about is not with a partner. It's just my orgasmic energy with me.
Speaker 1:Let me go over some really questions that I hear a lot about orgasm. I hear a lot of and then I just will also say that I've been a sexual guide for fifteen years professionally and before that I was a trial attorney and a lobbyist with my own office for over twenty years, which is not as relevant to today's show. Believe me! I'm not even gonna go down the road of trial court. These are questions that I hear a lot about orgasm.
Speaker 1:What is it? What is the orgasm? Okay, it's a lot things. The orgasm is in the physical body this rush of bliss and this rush of pleasure that rushes through the body in a very sensational way in that these are physical sensations rushing through the body. There's a physical orgasm and then there's also an energetic orgasm You and I have physical bodies and literally overlaid over your physical body is your energy body.
Speaker 1:Humanity is waking up more and more to the energy body every day. So your energy body can have orgasm. Your energetic body can orgasm and that's a little different feeling in the body on physical sensations and that is how people who are in wheelchair quadriplegic that the doctor has said you have no sensation below your neck in your body anymore that has been cut off in your physical body still a quadriplegic person without access to the physical sensations of the body can still have a full body orgasm, a very powerful one in their energy body and that is a beautiful thing. So I'm just going to keep moving along today because I want to hit all these questions that I get so often. If you hear me say something today that you want to know more about, then please let me know and we'll do a show about that too.
Speaker 1:So I'm just going to skim over with this overview. Let me know if something's like, Hey, I want to hear a lot more about that one, we'll do it. So the physical orgasm is a little bit different in the female and the male physical body. So in the female physical body I can have as many orgasms as I want and I'm not depleting my energy as much as in the male body. And in the physical female body a lot of my pelvic bowl and all the parts that are in my pelvic bowl are usually what people stimulate to get to orgasm, but that's not needed.
Speaker 1:It doesn't have to be that way. You can have an orgasm from someone touching your arm or you touching someone else's arm or any other small thing like the wind blowing through your hair and the sun shining on your skin. Orgasm is not confined in the physical body to the pelvic bowl and genital area of stimulation at all and at the same time the female body typically has a fast clitoral orgasm that some people call genital sneeze because it's like, Oh okay, that was fast and really cute. It's fun. It's nice.
Speaker 1:It's a little quick rush. It's good. It's a quick high. And then the female body also has the G spot which is an organ located inside the vaginal canal that when that is activated and stimulated deeper orgasmic activity can happen through the whole body as rolling multiple full body orgasm and that G spot is in my Indian tantra lineage the root. It's where the root is located so I work a lot in my meditations with my G spot to activate my root chakra and it is a nuclear powerhouse of energy.
Speaker 1:The male body has a similar apparatus on the physical body where through stroking the cock or lingam or jade stalk that's kind of like the female clitoral orgasm and some people also call that the genital sneeze because it's like, Oh, it happened really quickly and it's over. But the male body has the P spot or prostate which is an organ that is basically can be accessed most easily inside the anal canal of the male and when that organ is stimulated then there's a whole other thing that happens in the male physical body because you're tapping into the male root chakra of the energy system. Through male prostate stimulation usually is how it is the most common thing for males to have full body multiple rolling orgasms. So the physical body of the male can also have full body rolling multiple orgasm. In the male body, most people think ejaculation equals orgasm and that's false.
Speaker 1:That's false. Ejaculation is one response of the body where you emit fluid from your jade stalk and another separate type for the male body is to have multiple full body rolling orgasms which do not deplete your energy like the ejaculation does and there is no emission from your jade stalk or lingam. There's no fluid emitted unless they're combined and then they both happen at once. The full body multiple orgasm for men does not involve ejaculation at all and is a very longer term experience than a few seconds and a completely different carnival ride, my darlings. The energetic or light body female body and male body are a lot more similar and that's when if you focus on that part of your being as a male or female then you can start to work with the chakra system and run sexual kundalini energy through your body either very precisely and specifically using kundalini techniques or other microcosmic orbit is what they call it in the Tao.
Speaker 1:Different ancient traditions have named it different things but it's the same thing in the body from different countries where they learned about it separately but they learned the same thing. Orgasm excuse me it's called kundalini in tantra is the specific circuit of running sexual energy through your body in a really specific way and microcosmic orbit is the Taoist phrase for the same process. Or you can work with your energetic body sexually in a really general way and not know any of that and you can still play around with your sexual energy a lot in your light body or energy body. Is orgasm the holy grail? Well yes and no.
Speaker 1:Orgasm is awesome sauce. It's like a spectrum and orgasmic energy is in a way sort of at the top of the spectrum of current human experience of energetic bliss. So yeah, it's awesome and there are ancient practices and lots of people kind of circulated around orgasm and all about it. On the other hand, no it's not the Holy Grail because for me I do not like to have a sexual experience that is aiming at getting the orgasm. I do not like that at all.
Speaker 1:I don't want that at all. That is very boring to me. In my sexual experience, my goal is to heighten the pleasure in my entire body as high as possible for as long as possible. As high as possible for as long as possible. That's my goal.
Speaker 1:So I am not chasing the orgasm. In fact, once I pop off with an orgasm, sometimes it can deplete my energy just a little bit, So what I'd really love to do is ride the waves of sexual energy to where when I'm close to having an orgasm I cool myself down a little bit before I have it so I can ride the next wave up even higher in arousal and ecstasy and bliss and then when I almost reach orgasm then I also like to cool again so that my body can rise higher the next wave of pleasure And I like to ride the waves higher and higher and higher and higher. There can be orgasm during that process. So for me, orgasm usually flows through me as a surprise like, Woah, here it is! Here it is!
Speaker 1:Here it is! And at the same time, I'm cultivating something a little different so I'm not running toward the orgasm. Is it the goal of sexual experience? Frankly, that bores me personally. I think also for a lot of people they do try to get to the orgasm.
Speaker 1:And that results usually in goal oriented sexual experience, performative sexual experience, and scripted repetitive sexual experience. So when people try to chase the orgasm and try to get to orgasm in sex, it usually is a bit inauthentic and out of integrity because you start overriding what naturally wants to happen with this performative desire to get to this goal. And sexual experience is really not about goals in its highest form. So what about I F I love to give orgasms to other people? I hear this, especially from men.
Speaker 1:I like to give an orgasm to women and the truth is you are not giving anybody anything. You cannot make me cum, you cannot make me squirt, you cannot make me orgasm, and you're not giving me an orgasm. My body will decide and I will choose when and how I orgasm and will create that experience. You're not making me do it and you're not giving me anything. You might be stimulating me but my body is sovereign in my arousal and I'll decide how and when I have an orgasm or I'll decide when I open to that.
Speaker 1:So I feel like the language of me giving you an orgasm me making you squirt or cum is kind of harmful because that's not what's happening. You're not giving or making anybody do anything. So when I talk about squirting, a lot of people say, Oh, can you make me squirt? I can make you squirt. No!
Speaker 1:What I like to say is, Will you facilitate a squirting experience for me? May I facilitate an opportunity for you to squirt? That's how I like to phrase that one because let's be honest about who's in charge of arousal. That's similar with females. Then sometimes I hear a lot of stories where females get upset if the man doesn't ejaculate or doesn't have an orgasm in front of the woman and she's like, Oh, do you think I'm ugly?
Speaker 1:What's wrong with our situation here? That's the same kind of pressure on the man. That's performative, that's goal oriented, and your eye is not on the right ball so to speak. Your eye is not on the right ball. That is if you're just like, Woah, why didn't you orgasm?
Speaker 1:I invite you to reconsider what's happening in a different frame that's centered around pleasure and support of one another's bodies because I'll just stop it with that for now. So when some people say like, Oh there are 11 types of female orgasm. There's the clitoral, there's the g spot, there's the cervix, there's the breast nipple play, there's the I'm like, kind of turns me off also because there are certain organs in the body that are definitely high arousal areas and very intense spots to play with, but there are billions of type of orgasms. There are 8,000,000,000 people on earth. There are 8,000,000,000 kinds of orgasm.
Speaker 1:There's orgasm from looking at the sun. There's orgasm from watching a butterfly. There's orgasm from the butterfly landing on my hand. There's orgasm from all things in life can have orgasm. So when people try to say, Oh, there's 11 kinds or five kinds.
Speaker 1:I'm like, Just invite you to expand your frame of what's possible there. There's a lot more than eleven, five is billions. Everything that happens with us can be a support for orgasmic energy to flow. How long should it take me to orgasm? Again, I'm going to invite you to just expand your frame a little bit.
Speaker 1:That's the wrong frame to look at. There's not a right or wrong time. There's more the question of, Why are you timing things? And I've had men tell me, Oh, I orgasm too quickly. I need your help.
Speaker 1:And I had another man walk in once and say, I orgasm too slowly. I need your help. I look at the clock every single time and this is how many minutes I'm inside the woman and I orgasm way too slow. Sometimes it takes like ten minutes. I'm like, oh my, I've never heard this one before.
Speaker 1:So if you're looking at the clock, I'm going to invite you to elevate a little higher. Number one, throw the clock out of the room. If you need a timer to make sure that you're going to make your next appointment, that's different than a clock. Just set a timer. You don't need to know what happens inside that time frame at what minute.
Speaker 1:There's no right time to have an orgasm. It's when your body has had all the pleasure it can have. That's how I do it. And so my darling, I'm looking through. There is a recipe for more orgasmic energy in the body.
Speaker 1:So how would you bring more orgasmic energy into your body? I want to say one more thing before the erection. The female body also has erection. So basically the male lingam or jade stalk is a kind of tissue in the body and for the female body we have that same amount and kind of tissue. It's laid down and like a banana split and it is our labia, our outer labia and inner labia of our vulva.
Speaker 1:Labia and vulva, the outer and inner lips of the vagina, contain this same kind of erectile tissue. So when a woman is ready to be entered she's erect meaning she's puffy and juicy and so if you're penetrating without that that's going to detract from the concept of orgasm or getting orgasmic energy flowing because that's a lot of times why women complain of pain because actually the vulva, the vaginal labia, the vaginal canal they were not prepared for penetration and they were penetrated anyway and that's going to cause a lot of confusion if you don't understand what's happening there and sometimes pain. So if you are ready to have far better orgasms, my advice is turn off all your screens, turn off all the external sources of information around you. This is about you and it's an inside job inside you. Find quiet stillness and find your authentic desire.
Speaker 1:How would you do that? First, come to safety in your body by relaxing your nervous system. I know that these sentences are simple, not easy. Second, let your spreadsheet mind go to rest. Seriously, at rest.
Speaker 1:No sentences just being in the beauty of stillness and open to the unknown sensations or emotions that might come next. A lot of times when people say I can't orgasm there's a part of you that maybe doesn't want to open to the unknown. Allowing your body to orgasm can be really every single time for me it's opening to the unknown because I never know what one orgasm will feel like or show up like from the last one. So it's always opening bravely and courageously to unknown sensations and emotions. And in this open, relaxed container with the spreadsheet mind at rest, that's where desire shows stimulate your body with physical pleasure in every way you want to and that is the recipe for orgasmic energy and optional add your own imagination and fantasy.
Speaker 1:I believe that's really important to be able to run orgasmic energy with no fantasies at all. And I love sexual fantasies so I also love running energy inside my own imagination and fantasy, not something someone else showed me on a screen. That's always boring to me because my imagination is much much much wilder than what anyone's put on a screen in front of me. So my love, there is a path to orgasm. I know this has been a quick overview, but I am inviting you to let me know if there's something that you want to hear more about.
Speaker 1:More than anything else, my darling, I want to invite you to relax and be present with your own body. Let go of expectations of any kind and sail into the unknown. What is your relationship with orgasm? What do you want your relationship to be with orgasm? There are many sexuality experts available these days to support you in your relationship with your own pleasure so you can become sovereign over your own arousal and your own orgasm and your own pleasure.
Speaker 1:I decide how much pleasure is in my body at any given moment because I know how to open to the orgasmic flow of energy that's always flowing through me and always around me and so it's up to me to decide how much arousal, orgasm and pleasure to allow inside my body at any given moment. Nobody else decides that. That is sexual and arousal sovereignty and it's a powerful way of life. So if you're interested in this, there are hands off ways to do it like learning through DIY books and podcasts. There are hands off ways to learn with a helper like a sex therapist.
Speaker 1:They're not going to touch you, but they will work with you on these concepts and principles. And then there are hands on sexual healers like myself who offer actual body retraining through experiences together. So that's why I only work with people in person because we touch one another and we learn through touch and actually retraining the body through a beautiful process of touch. I have a method and a system so if this appeals to you we have weekend workshop. That's how you begin in my program is to come in person to Austin and the next one is July '26.
Speaker 1:It's really soon and we have space for you right now so come in person and join a weekend workshop. If you'd like to speak on the phone beforehand I'm happy to do that answer your questions and welcome you in on the phone before you purchase your ticket and make your travel plans. Probably more people travel in right now to the workshop from out of state than even attend from Austin. So you're welcome in. We would love to have you and that's the definite next step to learning what I have to show you which is a lot.
Speaker 1:And if you're excited about going even deeper I work with private clients in a very elite private container and I only have a few at a time of my private clients because we go very deep and we're usually in touch daily. So my darling, I exist on Earth to support everybody who's called to bring more maximum love and light into your life. If you're ready to liver liberate your self expression in all of the realms where all is sacred, connecting with you to create a cosmic web of love and light throughout the realms with our life force energy, with our orgasmic sexual energy, with our lit up light bodies and energy bodies, with our higher consciousness and multi dimensionality. And also please hop on my email list. If you're not on my email list, that's where I really, really share the most.
Speaker 1:So my email list is so easy to jump on. Come to my website at riverroaring.com. Click on Let's Connect. Subscribe to the email list, and then also that's where you could apply for the free call, and we can talk before you come over to a workshop. Or if you just want to talk about this stuff, go ahead.
Speaker 1:Let's do it. Because, my darling, together, we can step into a more harmonious vibration. We can fly higher together, shifting human consciousness forever for the highest good of all beings. And so my darlings, you know what's coming next. May the love be with you, and may the love be with us all.