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An exclusive, limited-time podcast series by Victoria Nielsen on mastering the art of breaking cycles, inspired by teachings in the Akashic Awakening Program.
Victoria [00:00:01]:
Welcome to Cycle Breakers, a special limited podcast series by Victoria Nielsen designed to support you in your journey of breaking cycles and creating a new path for yourself, your family and humanity. In honor of Akashic Awakening, my group program for women who want to rewrite negative narratives and get in touch with their own energy again. You ready? Let's dive on in. Hello loves. Welcome to another episode of the Cycle breakers podcast, a special limited podcast series in in honor of my group coaching program, Akashic Awakening, where you learn to open and access and heal in your Akashic records. So in this episode, I want to dive into something that I don't really talk about a lot, but that feels like it's super important to this cycle breaking work. And that is the role of the Divine Masculine in all of this. Because as you are learning to soften into your Divine Feminine, as you are learning to break those cycles of addiction, of the patriarchy, of people pleasing, of witch wounds, whatever it is that you're working on and why you're called to this podcast, I bet some of it stems from the Divine Masculine in your own life.
Victoria [00:01:22]:
And I was meditating this morning really thinking about how being able to truly soften into my Divine Feminine means that I am held by the Divine Masculine. And I had a recent experience that that made me really see some of the Divine Masculine energy in my life in a really beautiful way. I have two very different grandfathers. Their energy has helped me throughout my spiritual journey, but in very different ways. And I was reminded of that recently. And I think we need every single version of the Divine Masculine that has presented itself to you over your lifetime so that you can see what it is and what it isn' and what moving from a wounded Divine Masculine place can do for not just the men in your life, but for also you. How those men showed up in their lives is going to ripple to the next generation and the next generation and the next generation. They say that this work goes for seven generations forward and seven generations back.
Victoria [00:02:24]:
That anything that you are healing on earth right now, in this lifetime, that is of an ancestral nature can have that big of a ripple effect. So imagine like someone that's wounded that's in a not great place. That's how violence stays within families. That's how violence is passed on. That's how some of these bad learned behaviors, every behavior is learned. So it's, it's not anyone's fault, right, if that's the environment that you grew up in. But it is your responsibility to move out of that wounding and move into the healed masculine so that the feminine can feel safe to. To come out and to thrive and to hold her natural place in society.
Victoria [00:03:13]:
And as the. The co head household of the family. Like that can affect a lot both positively and negatively. Imagine a king, right, coming from a healed place. How much more love and compassion and empathy that those sons of his and daughters and. And grandchildren will all feel because of the shift in his energy to. To not being wounded. Like that's huge.
Victoria [00:03:43]:
Leaning into your divine feminine doesn't mean that no boys allowed. And you don't want anything masculine because you need that counterpoint. And so back to this idea of my grandfather's. I was really realizing that one grandfather showed me a very unhealed perspective of masculine. And he was with me very on at the very beginning of my spiritual awakening. He didn't want to be forgotten. And I actually channeled his energy. That was one of the very first spiritual experiences that I ever had was him channeling my energy because I was super wasted.
Victoria [00:04:20]:
I was drunk and I was way too open and he was able to come through and he was very angry and he had a lot of unhealed energy, A lot, a lot of just anger and sadness and unprocessed emotions. And when he left my body, I knew immediately who it was. Even though I had never met him in this lifetime. I knew that he had this big message of not wanting to be forgotten. But he also wanted to scare me a little bit because I was kind of going down a not so great path. And I think he was trying to help me break that karmic cycle. I was in a karmic loop where I was at that point in my life. And so I worked with him a lot at first when I first started my spiritual journey, just connecting to, to his guidance and his wisdom.
Victoria [00:05:09]:
And I thank Squeaky for that so much. But he left a lot of hurt in his wake. He left this earth in a very violent manner. He killed himself in front of my grandmother and my like one year old father. And he is working through some of that healing on the other side now. And I know that my work in being a cycle breaker is helping heal some of that for him. But very recently I had my other grandfather come through and he is also my dad's father. He adopted my dad after Squeaky passed.
Victoria [00:05:45]:
And my grandmother really believes that Squeaky sent him to our, you know, to her. And I believe that truly because now that he's passing on the other side, his energy feels like such a beautiful, healed masculine Energy. And it was that way on Earth as well. He was such a wise man. He and my grandmother had such a beautiful partnership. He was the example to me of what a man should be. And not a man in his ego and not a man in his machismo, but just a man in his heart who had a lot of heart and a lot of compassion for a lot of people and for the planet. And he was just a really good guy.
Victoria [00:06:28]:
And that's not to say that Squeaky wasn't a good guy. He just had a lot of wounding that he needed to heal. And, you know, papa came through very strongly recently in an experience that I had to remind me of. That healed energy, it's. It's kind of king energy almost, right? And so as the divine feminine, when the divine masculine is held in that king energy, again, not from a place of ego, but from a place of sovereignty, the queen is able to rise to meet it. And both king and queen, right, the rulers of your household need to be in that sovereignty. And the same could be said, right, of a king and a king and a queen and a queen. Both of you need to be in the truest expression of your energy.
Victoria [00:07:16]:
And that is only possible when you have the opposite energy helping hold that right. And so as you're working on softening, on breaking the cycles, on making big changes to reconnect with the goddess in, and reconnect to that feminine, I encourage you to maybe take stock in some of the male relationships that you have in your life and how they have showed up for you and what that has mirrored to you about masculine energy and how that energy should be held in the world because it's. It's held across the spectrum out there. And many times we may not have a good example of what it looks like, but that doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. And, you know, I think a lot of my wounding, in particular, I had a big abandonment wound from a young age, came from the divine masculine leaving my life and not doing so in a healed way. You know, my parents divorced when I was really young, and my dad left to go follow his dreams, which is beautiful. But then it really made me think, like, well, I'm gonna have to sacrifice my family to follow my dreams. And that's absolutely not true.
Victoria [00:08:34]:
Your goddess given right is to be able to have it all, to be able to go after what you want, to be able to have a family, to be able to feel good in your own life. Like the things that you desire are desiring you and it is your goddess given right to feel that way. And you're gonna have to work through different wounding, right. To be able to stand in that. And what I mean by stand in that is stand in your power. Yes, to be fully healed and whole. I feel like we need healed and balance counterpoints of masculine and feminine energy. But there's a big but coming.
Victoria [00:09:16]:
I don't think the masculine is going to be able to do it alone. The feminine has to hold the frequency first. We have to be the ones to cultivate the safety in our bodies that we. So that we can soften, so that we can heal the world with our love and with our compassion and with our amazing gifts that only women hold in our coding and in our DNA. And so we need to move through our wounding, we need to move through our shit so that we can rise. And it's okay if we rise first. We're going to have to rise first and then hopefully the men will follow suit. But we have to be the wayshowers because we can set the energetic tone of our households, we can set the energetic tone of our lives and it is actually our birthright to do so.
Victoria [00:10:09]:
And the most imperative thing that we can do on this earth. So for me, that's working through an abandonment wound big time, Big time. And then that made me very, I want to say distrustful, but also just like malfunctions, the words that come into mind. But essentially I had a not great relationship with the masculine and it showed up in serial boyfriends that I had in not being able to give myself the love that I deserved because I was looking for it in everything else and I was looking for that outside approval. And someone that's embodied truly in their divine feminine, someone that's truly breaking cycles, isn't doing that. You know that going inward is the answer that, that you have everything that you need inside of you and that you don't need to go searching in these things outside of you for it. And, and so, you know, the embodied and not embodied masculine energy can just teach you so many different lessons and can be tied to so many of your own behaviors because of your personal experiences. And that energy is not inherently good or inherently bad.
Victoria [00:11:33]:
We need to reprogram some of these stories of the, of the wounded men in our lives. And it's not because we need to heal them or we need to save them, but we need to rise for them to we can be holding the feminine frequency on earth again so that we can come back to our rightful place in this World as medicine, women as space holders, as the very needed nurturing, loving presence of the Goddess. And you know, it's, it's about holding that frequency with love and not again saying that any wounding is good or bad, but being with what is and taking it for what is and then learning those lessons from it. And so for me, I am really starting to heal that relationship with the divine masculine and realizing that a divine masculine relationship is not about father energy, like it's not about being babied, it's not about being in your wounded maiden energy. And the truly healed, like a truly healed relationship with the divine masculine feels like equals and, and does not feel like any one of the partnership has power over the other. So I hope I've given you just some information to chew on today to think about the male relationships in your life, the, the masculine relationships in your life. That energy is a really great indicator of how you're holding your feminine and whether or not you are. And it can really be a beautiful self study of the ways that you have contorted yourself or perhaps the stories that you have told yourself to fit in in this masculine world that is not coming from a healed masculine place.
Victoria [00:13:26]:
And so can you rewrite those stories and not make that masculine energy mean anything about you? And instead rising into that feminine energy and using it as information to show you the ways that you are giving your power, that you are not holding your feminine, that you are not in your healed feminine energy. Because again, masculine energy isn't always male energy. It is just an essence. It's often associated with males. But every person carries both energies within them. And, and part of this work of seeing the mirror of the divine masculine in those around you is showing you where you're playing in, into that wounding, right? Where maybe you're too in your masculine and you're not softening enough into your feminine. And both within you call for balance, just as it calls for balance in the natural world. And notice it, notice what it's trying to show you over these next couple of days and weeks and months and notice how you heal the relationship with one, it heals the relationship with the other.
Victoria [00:14:33]:
It's that symbiosis, it's that again, balance. I feel like I'm saying it until I'm blue in the face, but it is you. You heal both to become complete. There is no light mother and dark mother. There is only mother, right? So the same goes for this kind of energy. There's only one divine masculine, there's only one divine feminine. And you have to be able to play in the spectrum of that energy to then come back to neutrality. Come back to that place of pureness that is your own energy.
Victoria [00:15:05]:
All right. Look out for another Cycle Breaker episode soon. If you were interested in joining this upcoming round of Akashic Awakening, please join the wait list below in the Show Notes. It is six weeks of amazing group work where we learn to heal and access the Akashic records and move up the chakras, clearing and cleansing your energy so that you can be most in touch with your self and your goddess connection that is always within you, knowing that you are guided, you are supported, and that your spirit team is here to connect with you. To live an intentional life, to live a conscious life. So if you're interested in that, please click the Show Notes and I'll see you again real soon. Thanks for being here. Be good to one another.