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106: You're Totally Worth It And Confidently Beautiful - Here's Why
I celebrate my birthday on 3rd June 2021. Because of this, I'm doing a Money Mindset Series: Birthday Edition. A gift for you as your money mindset mentor to create an outrageously successful life and business. In this Money Mindset Series, I hope that it will help you create wealth and gain practical wisdom on releasing your money blocks. For Women Who Love The F-Word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and A Happy Family..... YOU HAVE A DIAMOND WITHIN YOU AND YOU DESERVE TO SHINE! Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset
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The podcast features business leaders, celebrities and inspirational figures with guests including Gary Vaynerchuk, Sheryl Sandberg, Elena Cardone, Mary Buffett, Neil Patel, Kim Kiyosaki, Pia Wurtzbac, Gerry Roberts, Grant Cardone, Denise Duffield Thomas, Sue B Zimmerman, Jay Abraham, Robert Kiyosaki, Anik Singal, Blair Singer, Nas Daily, Dame Wendy Tan, Jacy Wee, Freda Liu, Carrie Lee, Success Resources Veronica Tan & Richard Tan and many more.
Hear more about amazing role models from around the world share their inspirational stories and practical tools for personal and professional success. In each episode, creator and host Genecia Alluora draws out the stories and deconstructs the strategies of remarkable figures making an impact. To Own & Love The F-Word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and family.
Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, 𝑰𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑾𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 2019. She is the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F’ membership program. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and online academy, she mentors hundreds of thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online. With her coaching products, academy and membership, her vision is to support 1 million women to own and love the F-Word.
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Genecia Alluora: I celebrate my birthday on 3rd of June. Because of this, I'm doing a Money Mindset Series Birthday Edition. A gift for you as your Money Mindset Mentor to create an outrageously successful life and business. In this Money Mindset Series, I hope that it will help you to create wealth and gain practical wisdom on releasing your money blocks. For women who love the F-word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and a happy family. You have a diamond that is within you and you deserve to shine. Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly online course is available at shor.by/moneymindset.com.
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Genecia Alluora: Hello, gorgeous and welcome to today's episode. I'm Genecia Alluora, author of two best selling books, Make It Happen, and Personal Branding Secrets, a former Miss Singapore, Cafe retail chain owner, Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, International Progressive Women 2019, and the founder of Soul Rich Woman. Welcome. And today I'm going to share with you that you are totally worth it and confidently beautiful, like Miss Universe and Mr. Manhattan, or a clean shirt, or a new notebook, or a fabulous hair, whatever that you are totally worth it of or confidently beautiful of. Fabulous, freedom, financial independence, whatever that may be to you. You know what? It's entirely up to you.
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Genecia Alluora: Now, recently I read something that Oprah said that struck me. Apparently rich people will still smell their workout shirts to see if they can wear them again. She realized that she was doing it one day and said to herself, I deserve to wear a fresh, clean shirt and I'm worth it. This story struck me because for me, my towels is such an everyday thing. When I read this story about what Oprah said, it relates to my own towels because I always smell my towel after using it. And I ask myself, Is this smelly? And if it's smelly easily, then eventually I would change it. But then with that story, I told myself, I deserve to have fresh towels every single day, and I'm worth it. Now, I told this story at my recent workshop, Soul Rich Woman Blueprint, because I utterly believe that great success comes down to self worth.
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Genecia Alluora: You show other people how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. But also you will need to send a very, very strong message to the universe that you deserve more and are ready for more. So after I told my audience this story, I actually really just realized it myself. It was like a light bulb that goes off because I got the message myself. Imagine my towels. So I just want to say this, you are worth it and you deserve whatever you want to create in this world. You matter. I totally believe in not being wasteful, but many women take the whole self sacrificing way too far. I should know I once didn't wash my hair for weeks. That's right. So I mean, you stop using conventional shampoos and you let your hair naturally cleanse yourself because I was traveling.
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Genecia Alluora: And I didn't want to just keep washing because I didn't want my curls to go out and my blue color hair, the color to drop off because I was traveling, I was on the road. There's nobody who had the same blue that I needed. So I started using those dry shampoos or even baking soda, natural stuff like flax seeds and lemon. But it would take a while for your hair to get adjusted. So it was like gross. I mean, it started out just because I was traveling, but ultimately to me, it's just self denial. So I told myself that I really deserve to have an easy life, and I decided to really Google and find all those hair salons that could wash my hair and make sure my color didn't come off and really stick to it and upgrade my mindset and upgrade my life.
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Genecia Alluora: So I just want to tell you that there's some clues that you might be treating yourself like a poor thing or poor person. It's like a poor mindset. And you know, just one more thing before I move on is that nowadays I go to a salon to wash my hair. 10 bucks, 15 bucks to wash my hair because I know that I deserve to shine and take care of my hair. So whatever the amount maybe, I allow someone to wash my hair regularly and make effort to find the hair salon. Now, for those of you, there are some clues for you who is listening in right now, for example, you are only shopping in three stores or what we call the second and hand stores when other people in your family get newer and nicer clothes, or because you feel bad about spending money.
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Genecia Alluora: Your family get newer and nicer clothes and you always get hand me downs. Or sometimes you have this thing, like you try to do everything yourself to do something yourself, like, for example, dying your own hair or tinting your own eyelashes or eyebrows with disastrous results. Saving your own fancy beauty products for the best situation that's going to happen. Or never using your favorite things like your pretty cups, the pretty headbands, or the pretty clothes, or your very nice stationary. Keeping clothes, shoes, or bags that are old, that need repair, or out of date, not in fashion anymore, because it's better than nothing.
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Genecia Alluora: You know, all these things in themselves aren't bad, because for me, I really believe in conserving certain evergreen clothes. But it just makes you feel different. Perhaps you are already wildly successful in one area of your life, so you would feel guilty if you were great at everything. So would your friends think that if you not only had money but were super healthy as well. You can have it all or a great marriage and a successful business. We are supporting women to own and love the F word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and a happy family.
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Genecia Alluora: But a lot of women think that when they become the little miss perfect, they are being arrogant. They think they are bossy. They think that they become unrelatable. So they don't go all out. They just choose to function in one F word, for example, fabulous. And they are poor in financial independence. Their marriage is not really amazing as well. But I want to tell you here, you can have it all. No guilt, no sacrifice required. Just decide that you are worth living an amazing life to be confidently beautiful because you are worth it. However, this starts with you. The universe isn't going to treat you like a VV VIP until you do. So celebrate and anchor positive experiences. Tell yourself, Well done, babe. Well done, Genecia. Well done, insert your name.
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Genecia Alluora: So really, you see measurable results in the real world when you show self nourishing action. This is a sign to the universe that that you are ready. For example, putting on moisturizer or sunblock, or as big as booking a stylist for a makeover. Remember, it's how it makes you feel. Feel. The feeling is very important. Remember, good feelings attract good feelings, and that's how the law of attraction works. And like I said, if you do this, you might just attract a new opportunity that will push you to the new path. Well, it's not going to happen outside yourself. In fact, the first step is deciding whether you're worth it, whether you deserve to own your F word, whether you are confidently beautiful and then you'll be proved right every time.
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Genecia Alluora: So connect with me on social and tell me the three actions that you are going to take immediately to send the message loud and clear that you are worth more, deserving of the F word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence, and a happy family. Remember, we all have a part to play in this. This is your time and you are ready for the next step. When you grow outside of your limitations, fears and self doubts, when you grow out of needing other people's approval, when you grow out of living up to the expectations of others, when you finally give yourself permission to dream and to be happy, this will be your time.
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Genecia Alluora: Now, if you love today's episode, do rate, review and subscribe to our podcast on iTunes and Spotify or any apps that you are using to listen in because it helps us to get found. Someone might just need to hear this episode. As always, I love you, appreciate you and thank you for being here. You are the reason why I show up every day to work with you, not in front of you. I'm right here beside you, perfectly imperfect. Love and luck always. Thank you and I'll see you in the next episode and bye for now.
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Genecia Alluora: The key to unlock consistent success. The key to unlock that diamond within you. No other things involved. This is what you need to do and must do tonight. You can do it because I've done it. As long as you have a mentor who can take you from where you are now to where you want to be, you can shortcut your success. You can be different in order to make a difference. Turn your talent into your business. Turn your passion into a paycheck. By being you. By being you and only you. Give yourself a second chance. Never say no to your failures. As a woman, we have the power in our hands. Never let your fears hold you back. Quit thinking and start doing. Life is really short and keep pursuing what you truly ever wanted to achieve. Women come together. Alone, we are strong. Together, we are unstoppable. The Soul Rich Woman blueprint is going to be transforming your life today, yesterday, last year. Because you took action today, I'm going to say more power to you.