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108: How To Heal Your Relationship With Money
Most of us have seen what a bad relationship with money looks like, but we don't even really know what a good relationship looks like.
Most of us don’t know just how powerful our thoughts are. In relationship with your money, change your thoughts. When you identify the negative thoughts you have around money, it’s time to change them around and put a positive spin on them. In this episode, let’s talk about your relationship with money and how to heal them. Stay tuned to learn more!
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Hi I'm Genecia Alluora, Founder of the #1 Leading Female Entrepreneur Network in South East Asia supporting 1 Million women to Own & LOve The F-Word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and Family.
With a challenge to women everywhere to stop TALKING themselves out of their dreams, Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint identifies the excuses to let go of, the behaviours to adopt, and the skills to acquire on the path to growth, confidence, and believing in yourself to be recognised as a leader online. Get clients online and to have more impact on the world!
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Genecia Alluora: Hi, I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, supporting 1 million women to own and love the F word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and family. With a challenge to women everywhere to stop talking themselves out of their dreams. Soul why - Secrets of the Soul Rich Women's blueprint identifies the excuses to let go of the behaviors to adopt and the skills acquire on the path to growth, confidence and believing in yourself to be recognized as a leader online, with clients online, and to have more impact on the world. Stop believing the lies about who you.
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Genecia Alluora: So you can become who you are meant to be. You are just an F word away from the life you want. The marriage you want, the family that you want is going to be fueled by the business and life you build. Join me. Be a soul rich woman. Alone, we are strong. Together we are unstoppable. Welcome to the show.
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Genecia Alluora: Hello, gorgeous, and welcome to today's episode, I'm going to share with you how to heal your relationship with money. And my name is Genecia Alluora, and if you enjoy today's episode, remember to connect with me on LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram and tell me your thoughts on this really special one. Okay? So how do you heal your relationship with money? Now, a huge amount of work that comes with clearing money blocks has to do with your healing your money story. Money stories come in different shapes and sizes, but there are common themes that all lead back to who we are ourselves and the stories that allow us to be coming in true around money. Now, it's a very juicy topic, and that's why I say you must tell me. Okay. Connect with me on social media to tell me about how do you heal your relationship with money?
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Genecia Alluora: So the reality doesn't really matter. Over the years, I talked to a lot of women about money, and the one thing that always amazes me is how much money their parents had or didn't have just doesn't count when we get into the mindset work is their feelings about money growing up that matters most. When I ask people grew up rich, poor, or middle class, the belief is often different from the reality. There are people who say, I thought we are poor, but we weren't. I found out my parents were millionaires or we were poor, but I didn't know we were so happy and carefree all the time. So if you look at your childhood, what feelings did you have about money? Did your mother hide purchases of new clothes or shoes from your dad because she wasn't allowed to spend money? If so, you probably feel guilty spending money on yourself or even repeat the behavior by hiding expenses from your partner.
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Genecia Alluora: Did your family go through feast and famine periods where you have luxurious treats in one month and then all close the next? Maybe you're just repeating the same habits. One week you're buying champagne, and next you're going into debt for simple things like groceries and phone bills. Well, do you feel you have to work hard for your money, that only hard work pays off? Maybe you procrastinate and then burn midnight oil to justify making money. This is really common for this one to manifest as a feeling that earning money easily by doing something you love is lazy and unworthy. So if you have money stories from a childhood that you have not cleared, you are living with a legacy of guilt that you don't need, and that will be stopping the abundance that you're trying to manifest. The annoying thing I will say is that these stories might not even be what your parents or family believe themselves.
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Genecia Alluora: What matters is what you took away from those experiences, what you tell yourself because of those experiences. So my question to you today, my dear, will be how do you deal with it because the most powerful thing you can do is to embrace the power of forgiveness. When you are working with money stories from childhood, the first step is always to forgive your parents, forgive your guardians, forgive whoever who have made mistakes or make you feel the way you feel or influenced you around money. And when you forgive them for the money stories that play out around you when you're a child, it frees you to create a new money story for yourself, which is really powerful. You need to thank your parents for the lessons because this brings you into a space of gratitude, which is a really powerful, abundant state to be in.
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Genecia Alluora: Saying your story also takes you into self forgiveness for believing the money stories that you took on when you were a child. When you take responsibility for your own money story, you can deal with it and then move on in the direction you choose, rather than being led by unconscious money story script which will cause you to go round and round in circles and repeat the same patterns in your life without you even knowing. So you can also see where you decided to believe certain things about money, and you can forgive yourself for making those choices and creating the life you had so far. And finally, when you send love to those you are forgiving, you bring yourself to the highest vibration you can, which is incredibly abundant, incredibly diamond shining brightly. Okay? By coming back to love, self love forgiveness, you align yourself with the most powerful force in the universe.
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Genecia Alluora: And who doesn't want that? So remember, as always, it's your time and you are ready for the next step. If you enjoyed today's episode, remember to rate, review and subscribe today's podcast show so that we can reach out to more women and get our podcast easily found in itunes, on Spotify and the other platforms. Okay? So I love you and I appreciate you more power to you. Speak to you soon. Bye for now.
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