Morning Cereal

Start your day with inspirational quotes, followed by a fun journey through nostalgic facts from this day in history. Then, we dive into Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory. The Let Them Theory shows how letting go of control creates freedom, better connections, and peace of mind.
In This Episode:
  • Daily inspirational quote to spark your motivation
  • Fun historical facts from this day in history
  • A dive into Chapter 1, The Let Them Theory
Whether you're a leader, communicator, or just someone looking to improve your relationships, this episode is packed with actionable insights.
Tune in now and let’s grow together!
Resources:
Robbins, M. (2024). The Let Them Theory: A life-changing tool millions of people can’t stop talking about. Hay House.
 
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What is Morning Cereal?

Good morning, and welcome to Morning Cereal!
Pull up a stool, grab your favorite cereal, and let’s kick-start your day with a spoonful of inspiration, nostalgia and personal growth. Join your host, Shaen Inglis, as he highlights the music, movies, and moments that made the 80s, 90s, and 2000s unforgettable—kind of like digging for toy at the bottom of the cereal box. Each episode, Shaen also reviews a chapter or so from top wellness books, offering practical insights to help you set a positive tone for your day. Start your mornings right—no cartoons required!

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Good morning and

welcome to Morning Cereal.

Okay, good morning and

welcome to Wednesday.

Today is Heritage Day.

Well, it is in South America, but it can

be a moment for all of us

to honor our differences,

right?

The stories, the foods and the traditions

that have shaped our national culture.

So whether your roots are near or they're

far away, today is

about carrying them forward.

And speaking of looking forward, today we

start our next book in

our book review segment.

And in light of that, today's quote is

from the author of The Let

Them Theory, Mel Robbins,

who said, "You are never going to feel

ready, so stop waiting and start."

That is some real talk for you this

morning, to get up and get out there.

That first step is always the hardest.

So just take it.

All right, today's news facts and

birthdays are for September 24th.

Back in 1957 on this date, that's when

the song "Jailhouse

Rock" was released by Elvis

Presley and it became

the song of the year.

Then in 1968, the TV show "60 Minutes,"

well, it debuted on CBS on this date.

Then moving all the way up to 1988, you

might remember this, Ben Johnson.

He set the 100-meter dash Olympic record

in Seoul before being

disqualified a few days

later for steroid use.

Whoops.

And he handed the

gold over to Carl Lewis.

Well, happy birthday to you

if today is your birthday.

You share a birthday with

actor and singer Ben Platt.

He's 31 today.

And the late Phil Hartman was born on

this date in 1948, as was

the creator of the Muppets,

the late Jim Henson,

born on this date in 1936.

Now I know I had to push this band last

week for National

Country Music Day, but their

time in the spotlight is back.

The number one song on this date back in

1989 was "Hangin'

Tough" by the new kids on the

block.

Now, one of the first boy bands in the

modern era, and I say

modern with air quotes here,

but this song gave NKOTB their first

number one on the

Billboard Hot 100, which would

be their first of three, followed by

"I'll Be Loving You

Forever" and "Step by Step."

Now, did just hearing the names of those

songs just take anybody

else back to junior high

dances?

Well, here's one last interesting fact

I'll leave you with.

In the vocalist Donnie Wahlberg, he

stated that the song was a

blatant attempt to emulate

Queen's "We Will Rock You," with the hope

of it being adopted as a sports anthem.

All right, well, here we are.

We've been hanging tough over the last

few months as we made our

way through Kobe's seven

habits of highly effective people.

And today we are ready to rock you with

an introduction to our

new book for our book

review, Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory.

Now, I recently heard Mel on a podcast

and I thought that her

book sounded like it would

be a really great next book for us.

It's something that's much more

contemporary and it's from

a female with a great story

of perseverance.

So, Mel Robbins, she introduces The Let

Them Theory as a mindset

that helps people detach

from the exhausting need to control

others and worry about

what they are thinking about

us.

In her introduction, she speaks candidly

about how much time and

energy we all spend worrying

about how others behave or what they're

thinking or whether they approve of us.

Now, I know that hit home with me when I

heard her talking about it.

And Robbins writes with her trademark

directness, "Life is far

lighter when you stop rehearsing

other people's parts in your head.

Instead of spiraling when friends cancel

plans or colleagues act

unpredictably, or let's

say family members disappoint, that would

never happen," she

suggests, repeating two

words.

"Let them.

It's not about indifference.

It's about acceptance."

"Let them be who they are," she explains,

"and you be who you are."

So this shift, it allows you to reclaim

control over your energy.

When you stop wasting effort on things

you can't change, you

start freeing up resources

for what you can change.

And Robbins notes that this is also an

act of self-respect.

It affirms that your well-being isn't

tethered to someone else's choices.

And she also emphasizes boundaries.

Letting people be who they are doesn't

mean you allow mistreatment.

It means you enforce your standards

calmly while refusing to

carry the emotional baggage

of others' behaviors.

Her introduction reframes what control

really means, not

controlling others but controlling

yourself.

When you "let them," you gain clarity,

calmness, and confidence.

Okay, here's your first takeaway.

Life gets lighter when you stop

over-managing others and

instead put your energy where it

matters, your choices,

your growth, and your peace.

Alright, so today, honor where you've

come from, then give

yourself permission to let

others think whatever they want to think.

You just do you.

Hey, thanks for listening

to Morning Serial today.

We'll see you back here tomorrow and as

always, have a fantastic day.

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It will be a good time, I promise.

Thanks again for listening.

Have a fantastic day and

we'll see you tomorrow.