Take Your Meds

Season 3 IS HERE!

In this solo episode I share how our creator energy is impacted and influenced by our nervous system + stress responses, and a juicy 6-step (ish) framework that can support you to bring your ideas to life...

I love hearing about your visions, campaigns, ideas, dreams and creative projects. If you've got something on your heart, a gentle whisper nudging you to bring something into existence, drop me a DM via @the_gemma_rose on Instagram & let me know what you've committed to doing after hearing this podcast!

"The world needs you to share your gifts with the world, and doing so is an act of service" - Lukis Mac

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Gemma Rose is a mum, and a fully certified trauma-informed Breathwork Practitioner and coach. She loves supporting neurospicies to embrace their sensitivities, heal from the past and manifest their dreams.

Have you seen our FREE 3-day online training? This self-paced online coaching course connects you with your inner self—your most authentic expression. Across three days, you will receive grounded guidance on connecting with new and hidden aspects of yourself > https://www.gemmarose.nz/the-art-of-connection

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What is Take Your Meds?

This is your library of stories, hacks and tips to deepen your connection to the present moment, and grow your ability to connect with your authentic self. As a trauma-informed space, we explore healing in community, mindsets, the nervous system, energetics and embodiment for inner and outer leadership!

Gemma Rose:

Kia ora, and welcome to season 3 of the Take Your Meds podcast. I'm your host, Gemma Rose. And, yes, there is no fancy intro. There's no fancy Nancy jingle. It's just me in the podcast studio, and I'm not mad.

Gemma Rose:

I'm tired of my procrastination, people pleasing, and perfectionism tendencies. Hello, 4 p's. And I'm just getting into it. And so this season of the podcast is gonna be a bunch of solo episodes. I feel really inspired and lit up after finishing my 2 trainings and just wanna make a whole lot of the personal development, spiritual growth, emotional maturity work accessible and so this is gonna be, a place where we'll have shorter sharper episodes and just really go there.

Gemma Rose:

I really wanna just go there and so you can find a bunch of really powerful stories from the first two seasons of the podcast. There's 30 episodes, I think give or take from the first two seasons where I sit down and yarn with really freaking interesting human beings and explore their lived experience, explore golden nuggets, and wisdom and gems that have supported them through really tough things. And so there's there's so much gold there, and I feel like I'm so ready to share more of my own experience. I'm so ready to share what I've discovered through my trainings and also through the different initiations that I've been in in life. In particular, over the last couple of years is I've really decided to live a life of authenticity, and I have decided to upgrade my nervous system, and the 2 go hand in hand together.

Gemma Rose:

So today I wanted to start with a episode titled you are the creator. And I've had a lot of creator energy really kinda circling around me at the moment. Yesterday, I took some time to sit down and map out all of the different projects I'm involved with right now and to just really feel into the creative energy inside each of them and it was really exciting, but I was also thinking this is a lot, sweetie. And as a a mama with my son as my number one priority, I'm thinking you know what? How does this creator energy get to really be refined and focused?

Gemma Rose:

How do I get even more exceptional at saying no? How do I upgrade my boundaries? And how do I really feel in to, for me as a generator, what feels deeply satisfying to be involved with? Where am I getting that satisfaction? And, how do I focus in on just owning that that energy is what fuels my mission?

Gemma Rose:

And so, yeah, it's gonna be a beautiful process. And so I thought, alongside my own personal exploration, I'm also supporting some really freaking powerful creators inside of my coaching programs. So it just felt like this was the right episode. So for today, I wanted to focus in on our creative consciousness, on claiming our creativity, and tapping into that energy. And I wanted to start with a we oracle card reading from Rebecca Campbell's rose deck.

Gemma Rose:

I've been really sitting with these words this afternoon, and it's just hitting a note. And so if you are able to just give yourself a minute and to really notice inside of your body what feels true as I read these words out, there's an invitation there to jot down what resonates to take what resonates and leave the rest. But I'm gonna share some words from this beautiful card that I've I've pulled called whispers of mother earth, which is all about creativity, ideas, inspiration, the artist, the writer, the channel. So here goes. There are creations seeded within you planted before your birth.

Gemma Rose:

There are unborn possibilities yearning to be woven and creative solutions waiting to be realized, songs of the ancient earth humming through you, beckoning to be sung, new consciousness that longs to be written into matter. Surrender to the creations whispering you forth. Perhaps Perhaps they're calling you to reweave the web of life in some small way to stitch the soul in a little more. We came bearing keys for each other and as you share your song, it unlocks something in someone else. Creativity and intuition come from the same sacred place.

Gemma Rose:

They can't be reproduced. They occur when we find ourselves flowing with the rest of life. Earth is a planet of creativity, and yet so many of us have forgotten how truly how to truly be creative. So much of humanity has been raised to consume. We're so focused on more and more and more that we've forgotten how to grow sustainably.

Gemma Rose:

Our consumption is killing us. Trust the seeds that have been planted within you. Somewhere along the way, we stop seeing ourselves as artists, creatives poets singers yet to be human is to be creative. It doesn't matter what the result may be just carve out time to express your soul through creativity. The seeds planted within you will show you the way.

Gemma Rose:

They have intelligence within them, and all you need to do is tend to them through daily grounded creative action. What does your soul most yearn to create? This is gonna be the focus of this episode today. So keep listening, keep keep with me here if this feels like it's gonna be a bit of you. We're actually gonna drop in with a short breath work practice right at the end on this question.

Gemma Rose:

And so if you feel like, you know what? This gonna be a bit of me, then please keep listening. So, I guess I wanted to start with an acknowledgment of the fact that as, as we all have this nervous system inside of us, all of us have one. That nervous system is going to signal to us, when we are in the face of danger whether that is actual danger or whether or it is perceived danger and so when our stress responses come online they are fight flight freeze or fawn and most of us are familiar with the fight or flight. You know, fight looks like getting aggressive, bullying, controlling, big emotional outbursts when there is too much of that stress response inside of the body.

Gemma Rose:

We've also got flight which is my favorite which looks like overworking, perfectionism, literally going on a run, you're literally running away from the stress. Then we've got freeze which looks like the nervous system shutting down and so you can be social media scrolling, numbing out watching heaps of Netflix, and playing lots of video games or it can look like fawn and fawn is a also a shutdown response where we are people pleasing. Our access to anger is frozen and we are willing to keep the connection at all costs in order to keep us safe. And so the nervous system can move through all of those, some of those, one of those, depending on how well regulated it is and depending on, it's felt sense of safety. And so we can train the nervous system over time to be in a state of safety, through our breath, which is why I'm so passionate about breath work and about using breath work to support us with our creativity because it becomes a regulating tool for that energy to feel safe to move through the system.

Gemma Rose:

And so and and that energy, I mean, creative energy. Well, for me anyways and for the people that I work with, I'm not gonna say that this is, like, the way. I'm not gonna be that. I'm not gonna be like, oi. I found the way and here it is.

Gemma Rose:

I just wanna share what's working for me and working for my clients in the hope that it resonates with somebody else out there. And so what I was talking about before with the nervous system is that if we really wanna tap into our creative consciousness, if we really want to be able to create and to be in that energy where we are creative, those ideas are coming. We feel inspired. We know we're the artists. We channel what we're here to channel.

Gemma Rose:

We write the things we know we're here to write. It takes a regulated nervous system. It takes grounded energy to support us to feel into that place. Of course, like I can recall times where I've been really dysregulated running on cortisol and just totally stressed out in life. I can absolutely recall those times where I still felt creative, but it's not sustainable.

Gemma Rose:

So perhaps this, podcast episode is more about being able to tap into that energy from a more sustainable regenerative place, acknowledging the role of the nervous system and our stress responses. So, yeah, just really starting with that nervous system. I guess it's really important for us to just notice what state is my nervous system in. Am I in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn? So I just wanna invite you to notice that.

Gemma Rose:

Like, when you reflect on your own experience right now, what feels alive for you? And if you were to really connect with the levels of stress, the things that are feeling stressful inside your life right now and just even take some time to journal on that. Like, what's feeling stressful? What's feeling overwhelming? What's feeling hard?

Gemma Rose:

And to just really notice. Okay. Alright. There's a bit going on. I'm gonna give myself some grace and compassion.

Gemma Rose:

And I also know that when I choose to ground and break regulate my nervous system, I can feel into a different reality. And this it was something that I was just doing today with a private client inside of a breath work journey. Really presencing the enormity and complexity of their, chosen field, as a founder, as a creative, as an entrepreneur, and just noticing, okay, how how am I feeling in relationship to all of that? We did some breath work together and then noticed a full sense of presence, of safety, of calm at the same time as a bit of worry, which makes sense given the environment that my client's working in. But from a place of safety, from a place of grounded, from a place of connection and of peace and of ease, a different set of resources become available to us to problem solve, to ideate, to relate.

Gemma Rose:

And so it's just so freaking powerful to get curious about where your nervous system is at and to begin to as part of your creative practice, explore what a grounded and regulated nervous system feels like, sounds like, senses like, tastes like, feels like whatever it is, all the feels for you so that you know, am I creating from a place of chaos? Am I creating from a place of stress and cortisol? Or am I creating from a grounded authentic place? So I wanted to share a little bit in this episode about that, and take you through a bit of a framework on how I do this and how I share this process with, my clients and my closest friends who are, you know, neurospicy and very creative themselves. But what I have discovered is that once we are in relationship with our nervous system, once we are in a relationship with our stress responses, we can begin to create some of that space to respond instead of react.

Gemma Rose:

And the more that we choose to discharge the built up stress and tension that comes from being a human, that comes from, setting goals and going after them, that comes from being part of communities and supporting other people along in theirs, in their journey is, just that ability to be able to notice from which place do I wanna create and so yeah, just taking that time to really map out notice what your stress responses are and how your nervous system is feeling at the moment. What state are you in and what are some of those stresses that are influencing that. I feel like it's a really powerful place to start. We need grace, we need compassion, we need some acceptance and awareness before moving ahead. So, once you're in that place of awareness, I think it's really cool to really just tap in again and just notice, okay, am I moving from a place of fear or am I moving from a place of love?

Gemma Rose:

And for I know in my own journey and my own lived experience for a really long time, just believed at a core level that I was bad. That from my own childhood experiences and my sense making of those experiences, that I made it mean I was a bad person. So for a really long time, I had no idea that a lot of my own personal drive came from wanting to prove that I was a good person. And so I think when we can get really honest with ourselves about from which place is my creativity coming from, we just have we have a choice point. We have an opportunity to choose.

Gemma Rose:

Okay. If I notice that I am driven from a from a belief that I am a bad person or that I'm not good enough or that I'm unlovable or that my value is determined by my outputs or that I'm not pretty enough or smart enough or whatever it is. Insert the story. Insert the belief. Our creativity will have a bit of a kink in its expression and not the good kink.

Gemma Rose:

Well, not that there's good kinks, but you know what I mean. Not the fun kink, but a kink in its natural flow as it moves through you. And so getting really honest with ourselves about from which place do I wanna create from gives us a choice, gives us an opportunity to notice. And so creating from love might feel like deep service and an alignment with our core values, whatever they are. Creating from a place of love might be something that we don't necessarily know how to put the words to but is felt as truth in our bodies.

Gemma Rose:

It's like I don't know why but I know I'm being called to do this thing. It doesn't make sense but I just know it deep down that I'm here to do this thing. And so just getting really curious I think is really important in that place from which the creativity is driven from. I think another thing that's really important in that is then just using your breath or what ever tool supports you to feel grounded and regulated. Whatever tool supports you to feel at ease inside of your own nervous system.

Gemma Rose:

Whatever tool helps activate that parasympathetic state that says I am safe. It is okay to be at ease. I feel peaceful and present. Whatever the thing is that activates for that for you to be in that place in relationship with that creativity that wants to move through you from that place of love. I think that is just, you know, it's like an energy cleanup.

Gemma Rose:

It's just making sure, like, you know, just the place that this thing's coming through, it has a really nice clean channel and tunnel to to come, to come through. And so yeah. What's really beautiful about coming into this place then is like, okay. I've got this deep inner knowing that I'm meant to create this thing. There's no there's no doubt about it.

Gemma Rose:

And I know that I've examined that this is from a place of love and not fear. I'm not trying to prove anything to anyone. I just know, like, my deepest, most authentic calling is to do this thing and that I know that from a grounded and regulated place inside of myself. The next thing is to practice, the execution of that idea. And so that can look like, being so devoted and dedicated to a process of creativity.

Gemma Rose:

So for example, with this podcast, it's like, okay, I've had a deep inner knowing that I was meant to do this for some time, and I faffed around for ages at the start being like, oh, you know, who am I to have a podcast? And all the limiting stories came up and my victim consciousness was just like, woe is me. I can't do it. It's so hard and all the randy other things that pop up when you decide to do something different. And there's some work there and just noticing the stories, but acknowledging that there's a process that's now time to be executed and, like, executed on and to take action on.

Gemma Rose:

And so for me with the podcast, it's like, okay. Cool. What are the rhythms and rituals I'm gonna need to get get into in order for this creativity to come to life? Because it's one thing to have a goal of a podcast. It's another thing to sit down every week and record an episode.

Gemma Rose:

It's another thing to in season 1 and 2, you know, find the intro and outro song, to record an intro and out show, to get my head around Transistor which is a software platform I used to upload my podcast to all the channels, to really feel into the branding, the colors, the font, how the creativity wants to be visually expressed to then feel into the content inside each episode. I mean, there's rhythms and rituals that translate a big idea into actionable key steps that realize that creativity. And so I think what's really important and what I see a lot of people miss is really that habit building or habit forming of what is the process of bringing this thing to life. And so in my diary, for example, every Friday or Wednesday, every second week from now on, I've got a calendar invite, from myself to my mouth to, come and record one of these episodes. And I've booked a podcast studio to do that.

Gemma Rose:

So I've got a habit and a ritual to look ahead and make sure that that's booked in. I've also got a habit and ritual to give myself a bit of time before I need to record to really fill into the episode and to draw inspiration from my clients, from my son, from my own lived experience, from my intuition, from all of the signs that I had in driving to the podcast studio. It's all information I'm gathering for how this creativity wants to come through. And so there's habits, there's rituals and rhythms that are going to mean when I practice doing those things, the natural and normal consequence is that there will be a podcast episode coming through to your ears right now. And I think that's the thing that a lot of people miss.

Gemma Rose:

It's like, oh, I'm getting all these downloads and all these insights about things I wanna do. It's like, yeah, that's amazing. That is so lush. And integration is where we get to be a human and translate from the cosmos, from those higher realms into the 3 d. And to be a powerful creator is to know how to build those bridges, which is why I was so excited to create this podcast because it's something I'm so passionate about.

Gemma Rose:

And and I've just had the absolute privilege of hearing 100 of dreams and visions and ideas in my career over the last decade and working with my clients on, on these beautiful things that would create a world that I would feel so inspired for my son to live in that I would feel so happy to live in and that my friends of whanau would really benefit from. A world where we are caring more deeply for Papatuanuku, for our planet, for mother Gaia. A planet where we are more kind and compassionate with each other. It's like fuck yes. These are great ideas and the the real work is in a dedicated a dedicated devotion.

Gemma Rose:

I don't know if that's it, but it's like a devotion to a process. So if you have a whisper on your heart or just like a knowing, like, from that grounded and regulated place moving from love, I know that I'm here to create this thing. Let's fucking go with a process. Think about if that thing was done, what would have been the habits? Who would have been the people you would have spoken to?

Gemma Rose:

What would have been the rituals you would have engaged in to bring that thing to life, you know, and reverse engineer it. Put it in your diary. Put post it notes up on your wall. Set reminders on your phone. Go all in.

Gemma Rose:

And so as you begin to do that, this work, really around being creative becomes about rips in the gym. You grow that creativity inside of your body when you practice the process, when you show up regardless of how you're feeling, which brings me to my next point, which is like, you know, as I mentioned before, you start the process of like, okay. Cool. I wanna launch a podcast. Then it's like, oh, I'm not a podcaster, and who am I to do that?

Gemma Rose:

And I don't know if I can, and I'm not smart enough, and I don't know how to do this bit, and blah blah blah. These are all mechanisms from the body mind system trying to keep us safe because it doesn't have a reference point of success inside of this new reality that you believe you can do. And so some of the work becomes for us to really notice some of the stories we're telling ourselves and to examine them with a fine tooth comb and say, is this helpful? Is this helpful, sweetheart? Is this useful for supporting me to be the creator of my life?

Gemma Rose:

Is this useful? Is this helpful for me to begin to claim my creativity? And if not, what would be what would be helpful and useful? And so what I sit down and do with some of my clients is, encourage them to write a leadership mantra or a creativity mantra or an entrepreneurship mantra where they have sat down and decided the beliefs. They have decided the affirmations.

Gemma Rose:

They have decided the words that are gonna uplift them, empower them, and support them to practice the storytelling to themselves of the person who has done the thing. And so I really wanna encourage you to do that as well. Grab your journal and sit down and explore. Okay. For example, with the podcast, it's like, okay.

Gemma Rose:

Cool. I've got the podcast out, and I'm officially embodying the podcaster archetype, the podcaster identity. Just for example, what would have I have believed to be true about myself? Well, I would have had to believe that I can do it, that I am resourceful, that my voice matters, that there are really interesting people that I wanna talk to and that they are gonna be open and available to say yes. That I can feel and sense into the colours, the flavours, the taste, the textures, the experience of sharing this visually with the world.

Gemma Rose:

And that I can overcome any limitation that comes up. And so I really want to invite you to explore what that might look like, what that might sound like for you, and give it a go. Journal on that. Once it's done, sit down and record it as a voice memo and play it back to yourself once a day, once a week, and really begin to train yourself in the identity of the version of you that you are becoming. You're like reverse engineering it.

Gemma Rose:

It's like the coolest hack. And I think what's so important in this is that there are going to be so many days where you will just feel like you will feel so far removed from that identity. You will feel so sad or depressed or in grief or anger or frustration or things just aren't working out. And what I see some people doing is going up. This must mean that this path isn't for me.

Gemma Rose:

This must mean I've taken a wrong turn. This must mean I need to go back to my downloads, my insights, and to completely rewrite what it is that I am actually meant to be doing. No. That is self sabotage. That is self sabotage.

Gemma Rose:

What we are in as those big emotions begin to come up is character formation. We are being prepared emotionally, energetically, and spiritually and mentally for what is on its way. And it is not a wrong turn. It is a time to really honestly believe in everything that has come through you so far and to practice grounding and regulating your nervous system through discomfort. It's also during this time that we might lean into old tendencies or, self soothing strategies.

Gemma Rose:

Like, you know, for me, for many years, food was a really big self soothing strategy. And when I would get really stressed, I would just, like, binge eat and eat like really sugary, carb y foods. Or I might drink a lot of alcohol to just like, this is all just too much. I've gotta disconnect from it. Or I might just lose myself in taking on more projects, becoming more stressed out.

Gemma Rose:

Or I might just lose myself in having lots of fun with my friends and just socializing and spending too much time out and about. So just notice, okay, what might be my general tendency to self soothe discomfort when I begin to feel these big emotions? And just decide, like, okay, it's actually costing me too much to not commit to my creativity. It's actually costing me too much to not be in deep honesty and devotion to my authenticity, and I'm just not willing to pay that anymore. So I wonder if there might be a different self soothing strategy you might be able to discover for your nervous system to be with that discomfort as it arises, as it comes through you, as you begin to devote to your creative practice.

Gemma Rose:

I highly recommend breath work. It's so simple. It's so easy. It's free. You can do it anywhere.

Gemma Rose:

The hard part is that you are the tool. You are the one that practices breath work. And so sometimes it's about getting out of our own way. Getting out of the stories, getting through the discomfort, and just showing up and seeing what wants to happen. So, yeah, just a really important point on crafting that creativity mantra or entrepreneurship mantra or leadership mantra is that you can't just affirmation and belief your way into a new identity and reality.

Gemma Rose:

It is deep somatic work. It is emotional work. It's work inside of the nervous system because we are creating a new anchor in safety. The body mind system isn't yet fully familiar with what that is. And so it makes sense that it's feeling dysregulated as fuck.

Gemma Rose:

It's not a signal to stop. It's not a signal to turn around. It's a signal to, support yourself to sell suit the discomfort that's coming up as you navigate that. Okay. The next one the next one is about celebrating your wins along the way.

Gemma Rose:

This is so important to just take stock micro wins, macro wins, medium wins, whatever, extra small, small, medium, large wins. We're here for the wins because sometimes when we're in a creative process, when we have decided to go all in on that inner knowing, what happens is that we think it might take 3 months, 6 months, or a year, but what what might be unfolding is a much bigger story, a much bigger season of our life of character formation, a much bigger, weaving into community, into relationships, and we don't have the full picture. We're not given the full picture. It's our job to commit to the process and to let go of our attachment to the outcome, let go of our attachments to the timelines and to be in devotion to a process. So celebrating the wins is like, it feels like coming up for air sometimes.

Gemma Rose:

Like, okay. What are gonna be my success metrics and how will I train my reticular activating system to look for them so that I can feel that little sense of woo hoo along the way. And because we've got so much of our, like, modern culture, whether it's Tinder or Instagram or Facebook or I don't know whatever this the TikTok whatever all this instant dopamine it's it's a pretty radical act to commit to honoring a process, that will create something pretty remarkable at the end that you're not a 100% sure what it'll feel like, look like, sound like, what the impact will be, what it'll mean for you. And so being able to celebrate those wins is our way of getting a wee bit of dope dopamine a wee bit of dopamine along the way, and to really take stock. Because if we're, like, so addicted to the outcome, if we're so addicted to we're not addicted.

Gemma Rose:

I'm being dramatic. But, like, if our sense of identity or our sense of success or our sense of confidence or our sense of value or our sense of purpose is connected to the outcome of the creativity, that's a rocky fucking road. That's really rocky. But if it's rooted in a dedication to a process, that's very different. It's like, okay.

Gemma Rose:

Well, did I show up? For example, with my podcast example, it's like, did I show up and record that episode even when I didn't feel like it? Did I show up and book the studio ahead in advance even though I wasn't feeling super inspired? Like, if my feelings and my emotions are gonna dictate things, I'm gonna be in a really rough place. But if I can celebrate the wins along the way knowing that I'm gonna focus my reticular activating system, I'm looking for evidence to support the person that I'm becoming.

Gemma Rose:

I am going to really help myself along that journey. So decide some success metrics. What it get what's success gonna look like to you in process rather than the outcome? For me with the podcast, it's like, okay. Cool.

Gemma Rose:

Did I publish the episode? Did Did I put it on Instagram or did I hide it away? Did I, engage in some comments and some DMs around it? Did I celebrate when it made a difference in someone's life? Like, there are little success metrics that I can do along the way, and, they aren't necessarily rooted in the outcome.

Gemma Rose:

They're rooted in me showing up and being part of the process. So see what your success metrics can be, along the way. And then lastly, the last thing that I wanted to mention is putting accountability in place. It's so easy to play small. It is so easy to hide when you have no accountability in place around your creativity.

Gemma Rose:

It's easy to be at the whim of your emotions. It's easy to be at the whim of your nervous system. When you don't have accountability in place and we weren't meant to do this stuff alone. We weren't meant to do it alone. Being surrounded in community with support is one of the most loving things we can do for our creativity.

Gemma Rose:

And so I wanna know what accountability you have in place around your creativity, around your creative consciousness. Something I've been exploring with my friend, Haley, at the moment has been setting up a creator's dinner once a fortnight for us to come together and for us to sit and create and sit and make. And we're just gonna play music. There's gonna be no pressure to talk. There's going to be no expectation to wear a mask and perform and connect and whatever with each other.

Gemma Rose:

It's just like we're literally here to show up for our creativity. And we'll have some Kai whatever. But just that very act of being in community creating is exactly what I need for my creativity. And those things that, you know, like, I'd love to write a children's book. I would love to write a children's book, and that's as far as I've gotten.

Gemma Rose:

It just stays at the as this, like, oh, I'd love to write a children's book concept place. And it's like, no. I am going to, like, I know from the most grounded and regulated place moving from love, that that is, an honest nudge and an aligned nudge. And I need to put accountability in place that lets me get focused on a process to put rips in the gym, to upgrade my belief system, celebrate my wins, and be in a practice of creativity. And I wanna do that in community.

Gemma Rose:

I'm tired of doing shit alone. I'm over that. I'm over my hyper independent phase. So me and my girlfriend, Hailey, we're gonna set up the space for makers, for creators, and just come together and jam silently. I mean it it feels so soothing for my neurospicy nature to just know that I could sit in silence or, like, with some relaxing music and just make, just create, with other people who are kinda like that and get it and don't ask questions.

Gemma Rose:

It's like, fuck. Yes. That's how I'm gonna do this children's book. But, yeah, what are those accountability structures that you've got in place? Can you set up a maker circle with a few friends?

Gemma Rose:

Can you hire a coach, hire a mentor, get some support around you where you've got an accountability check-in each week? Can you let your sister know, your brother know, a family member know, one of your good friends know, and just say, hey. I I'm like it's I'm so dramatic, but it's like, it's killing me to not create this thing and I need to bring it into this world. And so could you check-in on me in a week, in a fortnight, in a month, and ask me how my progress is going specifically on this thing? And even when I come up with my bullshit ex excuses, can you hold me to account?

Gemma Rose:

Because I know that I'm meant to do this thing, and I'm tired of my excuses. I'm tired of my bullshit, and it's costing me too much to get in my own way. So, you know, full agency, full accountability, radical responsibility. What accountability structures do you need in place to support your creativity to come to life? Okay.

Gemma Rose:

I'm feeling really complete sharing all that. It seems like there's, I don't know, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 things to support you with your creativity, to support you with your creative consciousness. You are a creator. You came here to create. You came here to be that, to do that.

Gemma Rose:

And I hope this episode has reminded you of your ability to do all of the above. In summary, I want to actually just take a moment to guide you through a short breath work practice to really let this land. We're going to practice something called restorative breath work. Restorative breath work looks like breathing in through your nose for a can of 2 out through your mouth for a count of 2 with no pause in between. We're gonna draw the breath all the way down into the diaphragm.

Gemma Rose:

So if it feels good for you, you can hit pause now and go and find a really comfortable position. Close the door, put on do not disturb, whatever you got to do and give yourself a couple of minutes to breathe. Or you're still with me here now, just let yourself find a really comfortable position, sitting down. So please don't do this if you're driving. You can pull over and do it.

Gemma Rose:

That would be cool. Otherwise, yeah, grab your feet in front of you. Grab your feet. Can you even grab your feet, Jenna? Place your feet, I mean, down in front of you firmly on the ground.

Gemma Rose:

And as you do that, just see if you can notice the textures of the floor beneath you. See if you can notice the textures of your shoes as they connect or your feet as they connect with the floor beneath you. And see if you can notice your sitting bones, on the chair or on the floor beneath you. I want to see if you can pull your shoulders back and lift your head up into the sky and just notice how your head and your shoulders feel in, space. And I also want to invite you to turn your palms upwards and to place them on the tops of your knees And just really finding a place of comfort in this present moment.

Gemma Rose:

Just seeing if there's anything you can do to offer your body 5% more comfort. Making any adjustments. And as you do just notice your breath. Taking a moment to come into a place of breath awareness. Just noticing how your breath is organising.

Gemma Rose:

Is it deep? Is it shallow? Not making up a story about what anything means. Just connecting with your breath. And in a few moments I'm going to guide us through some breaths.

Gemma Rose:

We're going to do 22 breaths together. And then we're going to hold. And a hold is just going to look like letting all the air out of your lungs. And I'm gonna ask you a question right at the end there. So reminding you now, we're gonna breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth for a count of 2.

Gemma Rose:

Breathing together in 3, 2, 1, 2. 3. 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19. 20. 21.

Gemma Rose:

Final deep breath in, and all the way out. You're going to hold here. Just taking a moment to ask yourself the question what is my soul yearning to create? What is my soul yearning to create? What does my heart want me to know about my creativity?

Gemma Rose:

And when you feel ready, wriggling your fingers, wriggling your toes, letting your breath return to its own natural rhythm. It's taking a moment to notice how your body feels, how your heart feels, how your mind feels, giving yourself thanks for creating the space to breathe, and getting your journal and writing down any insights that came through for you. You are the creator. If you've enjoyed this episode, please shoot shoot me a DM on Instagram. I absolutely love hearing from you, and I would love to hear what your soul let you know inside that breath work practice.

Gemma Rose:

Shoot me a DM. Let me know. And if you've enjoyed this episode, please leave a review. Please share it to anyone else in your life that maybe has shared a creative idea with you but aren't yet in that place where they're taking action. Maybe they're gonna be your accountability buddy.

Gemma Rose:

Share it with them. Have a yard about it. And, yeah. It's time to combine inspiration with action. You've got this.

Gemma Rose:

Thanks so much for tuning in, and I can't wait to chat to you in our next episode.