Morning Cereal

Start your day with inspirational quotes, followed by a fun journey through nostalgic facts from this day in history. Then, we dive into Stephen R. Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People 
In Part 2, Chapter 1, we’ll explore Covey’s timeless advice on building authentic connections, the art of influence, and creating positive interactions in every area of life.
In This Episode:
  • Daily inspirational quotes to spark your motivation
  • Fun historical facts from this day in history
  • A dive into Part 2, Chapter 1 of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective
Whether you're a leader, communicator, or just someone looking to improve your relationships, this episode is packed with actionable insights.
Tune in now and let’s grow together!
Resources:
Covey, S. R. (1989). The 7 habits of highly effective people: Powerful lessons in personal change. Free Press. 
 
All photo’s utilized in this video are licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported by Wikimedia Commons license and are free to copy, distribute and transmit.  No photos have been altered.

What is Morning Cereal?

Good morning, and welcome to Morning Cereal!
Pull up a stool, grab your favorite cereal, and let’s kick-start your day with a spoonful of inspiration, nostalgia and personal growth. Join your host, Shaen Inglis, as he highlights the music, movies, and moments that made the 80s, 90s, and 2000s unforgettable—kind of like digging for toy at the bottom of the cereal box. Each episode, Shaen also reviews a chapter or so from top wellness books, offering practical insights to help you set a positive tone for your day. Start your mornings right—no cartoons required!

Follow and subscribe to the Morning Cereal podcast and visit our Life Happens, Live Balanced channel and our website at shaeninglis.com to check out and follow our other podcasts. You can also follow Shaen @ShaenInglis on Instagram, YouTube, etc. Feel free to share the Morning Cereal with someone who could use a little fun and motivation to start their day right.

Good morning.

And welcome to morning cereal

Okay, good morning and welcome to

Wednesday, the middle

child of the work week.

Well, today is the great American

grump-out, which means

you're officially encouraged

to put down the

grumbling and pick up a smile.

Or at least maybe a sarcastic smirk.

And it's also National Skilled Trades

Day, so shout out to the

folks who actually know

how to fix things

instead of just googling it.

And don't forget, it's

also school nurse day.

To the heroes armed with band-aids, ice

packs, and infinite

patient for the quote, "My

stomach hurts before math class"

complaints, we see you and we thank you.

So take a deep breath, shake off that

grump, but not

entirely, because today's quote

comes from someone who is absolutely

known for his cynicalness

and his grouchy personality.

Surprisingly, he also provided some great

insights, even some inspirational quotes.

Our quote today comes from Sesame Street

resident, Oscar the

Grouch, who said, "Be yourself.

Everyone else is already taken."

I bet you didn't see that one coming.

Well, today's news, facts, and birthdays

are for May 7th, and we're going to start

back in 1867, when on this day, Swedish

chemist, Alfred Nobel.

He patented dynamite in England, and it

was the first of his

three patents that he would

receive for the explosive material.

Now, you feel like you

should know his name?

Well, you do.

Alfred Nobel.

He established the Nobel Prize in his

will, stating that the

majority of his fortune should

be used to reward individuals who made

significant contributions to humanity.

The Nobel Prize was first awarded in

1901, following Nobel's death in 1896.

The more you know.

Then we're going to move up to 1946, when

on this date, the

company Sony was founded.

And thank goodness, we may never have had

those Sony Walkmans without this company.

Then lastly, in 2017, on this date,

Emmanuel Macron, he won France's

presidential election,

and oddly enough, he was inaugurated for

a second term on this same date in 2022.

Well, happy birthday to you

if today is your birthday.

You share a birthday with YouTuber and

someone you probably

only know if you're under 20

years old or you have

kids under 20 years old.

Mr. Beast.

He's 27 today.

And the number one song on this date back

in 1986 was "Addicted to Love" by Robert

Palmer.

Now, "Addicted to Love"

wasn't just a smash hit.

It became a full-blown Gen X anthem with

one of the most iconic

music videos of the decade.

Now the track was originally intended to

be a duet with Shaka Khan.

However, due to scheduling difficulties,

Robert Palmer ended up

singing the song by himself.

And maybe that was for the best, because

his deadpan delivery

paired perfectly with that

now famous army of identically dressed,

expressionless female models playing

instruments in the video?

Well, that video became a

symbol of the 80s cool, right?

Airplay royalty on MTV.

Plus, let's be honest, Gen Xers didn't

just love to dance to "Addicted to Love."

They probably played air guitar in front

of their bedroom mirrors,

well, in their acid wash jeans.

Well, whether you're addicted to love or

you're addicted to a

little bit of self-improvement,

you're in the right place because we're

reading through Stephen R.

Covey's "The Seven Habits

of Highly Effective People."

And we're in Covey's

second chapter today.

We're diving into a powerful section.

It's from part two, chapter one, and

we're focusing on two

sub-chapters, the social mirror

and between stimulus and response.

Now, these sections really lay the

foundation for the first

habit, which is be proactive.

And Covey kicks things off by talking

about how most of us

see ourselves through what

he calls the social mirror.

Basically, we believe what the world

tells us about who we are.

If people say we're bad at

something, we take it as truth.

If society defines success in a certain

way, we feel pressured to chase it.

Covey puts it like this, "We see the

world not as it is, but

as we are, or as we are

conditioned to see it."

Now that's a wake-up call.

If we don't recognize how much of our

identity is shaped by

outside voices, we risk living

someone else's version of our life.

Then he drops this beautiful truth bomb.

Between stimulus and response, man has

the freedom to choose.

Covey tells the story of Victor Frankl, a

psychiatrist and

Holocaust survivor who discovered

that even in the most horrific

conditions, no one could

take away his power to choose

his attitude.

That space between what happens to us and

how we respond, that's

where our power lives.

Covey says this space is where our

uniquely human gifts come in,

self-awareness, imagination,

conscience and independent will.

When we use those gifts, we stop reacting

out of habit or fear of what someone else

expects.

Then we start acting on values.

He says, "We are not our feelings.

We are not our moods.

We are not even our thoughts."

That line stops me every time.

Why?

Because of the takeaway.

You're not defined by your past, your

mistakes, your upbringing,

or what someone else says

about you.

You are defined by what

you choose to do next.

That's why this whole chapter sets the

stage for habit one.

Be proactive.

It's about owning your choices, breaking

free from old

patterns and deciding day by

day the kind of person you want to be.

Hey, thanks for joining us today.

Remember, don't be a grouch today.

Even Oscar the Grouch had

days where he could be positive.

Alright, we'll see you back here tomorrow

and have a fantastic day.

Don't forget to follow and subscribe to

the Morning Serial

podcast on the One Life

Live It channel.

You can find more episodes and videos by

visiting our YouTube channel and the

website at seaningless

and at seaningless.com, where you can

also follow our other

podcast, the Mr. and Mrs.

Inglis podcast and the

Life Happens podcast.

In these other podcasts, we'll dive

deeper into everyday issues,

self-improvement and

well-being, business and finance, and we

welcome special guests too.

So join us.

It'll be a good time, I promise.

Thanks again for listening.

Have a fantastic day and

we'll see you tomorrow.