Mr. & Mrs. Inglis

All aboard the chaos express! If you’ve got a ticket for this ride, you already know it. It’s the one where there’s never enough time in the day—kids’ schedules outpace yours, work demands keep piling up, and oh yeah, the laundry, dishes, mowing the lawn, and bills aren’t going to handle themselves. Let’s not forget staying connected with friends and family, even though you planned to be in bed by 9 pm…but it’s now 11 pm, and tomorrow starts before the sun does. Sound familiar?
 
We’re right there with you. Welcome to The Mr. & Mrs. Inglis Podcast, hosted by Shaen and Meghan Inglis—a weekly show where we dive into real and honest conversations about the wild ride of raising kids, growing careers, and managing family and friendships in the middle of life’s beautiful chaos. So, grab your ticket and join us for a weekly dose of camaraderie, connection, and a reminder that you’re never in this alone.
 
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What is Mr. & Mrs. Inglis?

All aboard the chaos express! If you’ve got a ticket for this ride, you already know it. It’s the one where there’s never enough time in the day—kids’ schedules outpace yours, work demands keep piling up, and oh yeah, the laundry, dishes, mowing the lawn, and bills aren’t going to handle themselves. Let’s not forget staying connected with friends and family, even though you planned to be in bed by 9 pm…but it’s now 11 pm, and tomorrow starts before the sun does. Sound familiar?

We’re right there with you. Welcome to The Mr. & Mrs. Inglis Podcast, hosted by Shaen and Meghan Inglis—a weekly show where we dive into real and honest conversations about the wild ride of raising kids, growing careers, and managing family and friendships in the middle of life’s beautiful chaos. So grab your ticket and join us for a weekly dose of camaraderie, connection, and a reminder that you’re never in this alone.

Follow and subscribe to the Mr. & Mrs. Inglis podcast and visit our channel and our website at shaeninglis.com to check out and follow our other podcasts. You can also follow Shaen and Meghan @ShaenInglis on Instagram, YouTube, etc. Feel free to share the Mr. & Mrs. Inglis podcast with someone who would enjoy and benefit from our weekly discussions.

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We're back.

Our highlights can

sometimes be very entertaining.

To us at least.

I literally thought,

am I the one throwing all

this bad juju out there?

But I go back to that

Robin Williams thing, you know,

you never know what

someone else is going through.

Well, you know what?

Karma's real.

I learned a long time ago,

I'm not doing to invest in people

that aren't worth investing in.

I mean, it's just one of

those things in human nature

where everybody thinks they're right.

Well, I'm right.

It's not me, it's not me.

You had it right the

first time, I was wrong.

Yeah, well, there is a

first time for everything.

Bortally wrong, you got it right.

I cried at senior night this year.

Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross,

in the crocodile hunter.

Talk about good karma and good juju.

Oh, I miss Mr. Rogers.

I don't, but he's nostalgic.

My homies pour a little

liquor for those guys.

(laughing)

Welcome to the Mr. and

Mrs. English podcast.

I'm Megan.

And I'm Sean.

We're here to talk about

the wild ride of raising kids

and growing careers,

keeping life together in

the middle of all the chaos.

So buckle up,

because we're all in

this crazy journey together.

All right, well, here we are.

We're back.

We're back.

Just when you thought you got rid of us.

I know, people are probably like,

"Woof, they're finally done."

Yeah, and Mr. Highlights.

Our highlights can

sometimes be very entertaining.

To us at least.

Oh yeah, yeah. Definitely for us.

You do a good job of cutting

them to make us sound funny.

I don't spend any time,

but when we first started doing it,

I actually spent a lot

of time trying to cut them

and get them right.

I'd rearrange them sometimes.

Yeah.

And it took way too long.

Now it's just, boom, here it is.

I mean, every now and

then I'll rearrange something

just because it has a better kick there.

Oh yeah, yeah.

Ah.

The comedic genius that is Mr. and Mrs.

That's right, that's right.

(laughing) I was laughing, I was

telling Megan about it,

I don't know, a couple days ago,

but I don't ever read comments ever

on either one of the

podcasts or anything social media.

Even personal, I don't very

rarely do I read comments.

Mainly because there's a

lot of time involved in that.

And secondly, sometimes, I mean,

I'm sure most comments are good, right?

Yes, if you're gonna-- Especially on the

personal side.

On the personal side, if you're gonna

take time to comment,

you comment something good.

Yeah, normally.

That's not how it

works in the real world,

like on YouTube and stuff like that.

Right, right.

I was telling Megan

that somebody had commented

on the Mr. and Mrs. podcast saying like,

"You guys have been

at this for a year now,

"it might be time to hang it up."

(laughing) And then we stopped doing

them for about three weeks, so.

Yeah.

Not because of that person in their--

No.

Negativity, just to throw it out there

for no good reason.

Right, right, we don't

know who this person is.

Yeah, yeah.

And I really wanted to just

reply back to that person,

but I would never do it,

because I'm not gonna

get in a tit for tat.

But just be like, you know what,

appreciate you just throwing negative,

negative juju out there

into the world, the cosmos.

We do this for our friends and family.

We don't do this

because we think we're gonna

get a million followers.

Right.

You know, if we did, I

would start spending money

on, you know, SES stuff,

and I would have to try to

push money into advertising.

I mean, I'd spend

money on trying to get it

in front of people.

Right, but we don't.

I've not spent a penny, no.

The people that want

to see this see this.

That's exactly right.

So I'm sorry this person

happened to come across it

in your feed, but I am happy to know

that there are just such

miserable people out there

that they couldn't just let it go.

You know what I mean?

I know, I don't know.

I have never, I'll be

interested to hear you.

Have you ever just

made a negative comment

or left a negative review just cause?

Like you took the time to

actually leave something negative?

No, but I was, that

happened, and then the next day,

two things happened like

in a row while I was out

where I was like, it

made me question like,

am I throwing out negative juju?

Where this negative

karma is coming back at me?

And I honestly don't think I am.

But let me tell you the two things that

happened real quick.

The first one was I went to Staples

cause I had to print out these big,

I had to print out big blueprints there.

And the second time I've done it,

and the lady there is just horrible.

I mean, I'm sure she's a nice person,

but she's terrible at her job.

She's so frustrated that I'm

there to pick something up.

I'm just ruining her

day cause she's so busy.

You know what I mean?

And it's like, well, and

then she couldn't find it,

of course, and she's

like, well, where's your,

we emailed you a confirmation number.

I'm like, no, you didn't,

you actually texted me one,

but I deleted the text

because it just said it was ready.

Maybe there was a confirmation.

I was like, can you not

look it up on my phone number

cause you texted me.

You wouldn't have texted you.

I promise you, you texted me.

I'm like, can you not just

look it up on my phone number

or my last name?

I was like, do you have a lot of

blueprints back there?

And she's like, yes.

Like I know she doesn't.

I can see her whole workspace.

There might've been

three blueprints in the back.

One of them being mine,

cause they're big rolled up papers.

You know what I mean?

You cannot miss this.

So I was like, well, would

you mind just checking again?

Because I noticed when I said my name,

you didn't ask how to spell it.

And if you didn't do that,

you probably looked under

ease and it's with an I.

And she did not like that.

She was so mad that I said that.

What?

Anyways, she went back.

She stormed back.

I didn't even say a word to me.

So I'm like, I don't

know if she's done with me.

I don't know if I'm, you

know, like what's going on?

Like, you know what I mean? Wow.

I don't know what's happening.

She comes back and she's like,

well, they buried it for me.

So I found it.

It was buried.

I'm like, really?

It was buried.

All this negativity just thrown at me.

Like, I'm sorry.

I'm literally just picking up something

I already picked for.

I just want to pick up

something I picked for.

Same way that when I dropped

it off and I had it on a thumb drive,

was so frustrated that I

had it on a thumb drive.

She's like, you can't

just email this to me?

I'm like, I have it on a thumb drive

because I was actually

hoping you might be able

to print it out for me.

And she's like, oh, it'll

be ready maybe tomorrow,

maybe tonight.

She was so mad at me.

The same lady.

Anyways, at the end, I was like,

you know what, this is my

second time here doing this.

I was like, and it's been very

frustrating both times.

Like, I probably won't come back.

In her mind, she's like, I don't care.

So I was thinking, that negative juju, A.

Then I'm walking out,

and then I'll let you

kind of get into this.

You can be my psychiatrist on this one,

but then I'm walking out of Staples.

And I literally am trying to be nice.

Somebody, some lady is driving.

So you step off, you

have to cross the street

to get to the parking spot.

They always are.

Some guy was ahead of me.

He was way ahead of

this lady in a BMW SUV.

So she didn't have to slow down for him.

But she was, I think maybe in her mind,

she's like, I'm gonna

slow down for the second guy.

Who's me?

But I'd already done all

the calculations in my head.

She could just keep on driving by,

and I'll just pivot a

little bit to the right,

and I'll walk behind her car.

So she doesn't have to stop for me.

I'm trying to not be

inconvenient for her.

In fact, so much so I

can see she's struggling

with the fact that I've

now pivoted towards her.

Still in the sidewalk, mind you.

She's coming towards me.

I could see she was a

little worried about that.

So I kind of just waved

on, like, go ahead, go ahead.

Yeah.

I don't know if she was mad at me,

but she was gesturing

and making mad faces at me

inside her car, so exasperated at me.

And I was like, well,

this is right after the lady

that had the problem with me picking up.

I think I'm like, I literally thought,

am I the one throwing all

this bad juju out there?

Like, I didn't throw attitude at,

where am I throwing this attitude that

I'm getting it back?

Oh my gosh.

That is insane, especially, I mean, we

all kind of do that.

Like, you know, someone even

did that to me today, right?

Like, they had the right of

way, but they wanted me to go.

And so they kind of just

motioned, and you're like, okay.

Like, that is a very

common thing if, you know,

just to communicate with

people kind of what your plan is.

If you're like, hey, you can go.

Okay, awesome, thank you.

It's not like I'm like flipping them off,

like, you go then, you know what I mean?

Right.

It could have really been

me, but it's usually just like,

oh, you go ahead, go ahead.

You smile at them,

like, go ahead, go ahead,

because that's what you do to people.

It's like, that's what you

do when you're in public.

That's what you do.

Now, the lady at

Staples, you know, I just,

I think that she is

very unhappy in her job,

and there's probably something going on

that is a lot bigger than

your order of blueprints.

It goes back to Robyn,

but she was like that,

I've seen her three times now.

So this is her natural state.

So she's been having a

tough month and a half.

But I go back to that

Robyn Williams thing, you know,

you never know what

someone else is going through.

Right.

So I try not to judge people

on that, but it just happened

like three or four times in one day,

I don't remember what the first thing

we were talking about is here,

but like this negative juju coming at me,

I'm like, whoa, I did not throw,

I don't, I honestly

don't think I'd go into life.

And maybe there's people that are like,

oh, that's not true, Sean,

you're like the most

negative person I know,

but I don't think I am.

Now within our family, I can

definitely complain, right?

You can, but so can I, I mean.

Well, I don't think people

that know me in the stands

or on the soccer fields, I

don't think they're like,

I don't think they're like, oh yeah,

Sean's always throwing

negative karma out there,

negative juju, like he's gonna get,

he's gonna get it coming to him.

Yeah, I don't think so.

I mean, and it just,

because the other one may have been,

and this, it still irks our daughter,

because she was riding

scooters with her friends

through a neighborhood

just at the end of our street,

and they got off the

path, they saw a turtle,

and so they got off the

path to like help this turtle

into this little stream, right?

There's this little stream going through,

and there was a lady who

started yelling at them,

you're trespassing,

you're on private property.

First of all, there is no

sign that says private property,

so I mean, keep in mind,

we have very young teenage,

you know, tween type

girls, like at 11 a.m.,

so this isn't like in the

evening, no spray paint,

like doing nothing

other than helping a turtle

into the water, which,

okay, who knows if the turtle

wanted to go in the

water, but in their minds,

that turtle needed help.

Anyway, she just

started screaming at them,

and they're like, "Yes ma'am, yes ma'am,"

and they got on their scooters and

started scootering away,

and they were in such a hurry

that actually one of the girls fell and

really hurt herself,

and this woman has her

camera on on her phone,

and is like, "You're on camera,"

and starts yelling at

them and chasing them,

and I was like, "Wow."

Like, these three young

girls are not vandalizing

your property, like

they probably didn't know,

like why wouldn't you just give them

the benefit of the doubt?

Like, why is this

person so angry and so upset?

I didn't get it, but I

did tell our daughter,

I was like, "Well, you

know what, karma's real."

Like, I have no idea what's

going on in that woman's life

that she needed to be a Karen and

completely chase them.

Literally chase after

three young girls on a scooter.

Yeah, no, I'm glad you told that one,

because that was one of

the ones that happened too,

and I was like, "Are you kidding me?"

So I did throw some shade on that,

because I think I

know where the lady was,

because I run that way.

I don't run the way they were,

but I kind of connect with

it at the very end of that,

and there was a lady right there,

which is where I think it happened,

who was outside of her gate,

and there's a little

bit more to that story,

because the way this, so

picture a neighborhood,

all the houses back

to one another, right?

So backyard to backyard, okay?

However, between those backyards

is a drainage like river, right?

It might get, at the biggest point,

it's like 10 feet wide, some

places it's five feet wide.

We had just done some work on it to like,

because it was eroding, so

they were doing some work,

but those backyards go together in there,

so it's a big green area there, right?

So really, most of them have fences

that stop well before

that, like 20 feet before that.

And then there's a

sidewalk, a walking, jogging path,

a wide five foot sidewalk,

that goes all the way between there.

Yep.

Off of the public sidewalks.

Now, the only caveat I

would have given that lady

was the fact that that

sidewalk that they were on

right there, it does say post it,

it's for HOA residents only.

And I don't know the locks,

I know I believe

regular sidewalks are public,

but because that was not a sidewalk

that was next to a

street, a public street,

you know what I mean?

That might've been private.

How she didn't know, how she knew

they weren't in that,

from that neighborhood,

I don't know that.

I mean, we're in that

neighborhood all the time.

All the time.

Because we live right next to them.

People in the neighborhood all the time,

the guy that walks there,

because I run there every day, almost,

every other day at least.

I know all the people that are there.

And there's people

there fishing all the time

in their pond that aren't from there,

because I see them literally

drive into the neighborhood

in their car, park it, get

out with all their stuff.

Now, if you lived in that neighborhood,

you just walked down there.

You just walked there, yeah.

So the fact that she

attacked our children that way,

with them not doing anything,

I mean, they look

like little girls still.

They do.

It'd be one thing if they were like,

and I saw how they were dressed that day

and stuff like that.

It's not like they had

chains and baggy pants

and had goth makeup

on and stuff like that.

They were just little

girls riding scooters.

With helmets, by the way.

So clearly they are responsible enough

to be wearing helmets.

I didn't run by that lady later that day,

because I was kind of

on the lookout for her.

And she smiled at me kind of, I think.

She's getting into wave at me,

and I looked away kind of

just as she was starting to wave.

And it took a lot in me to do it,

and I give this smile,

because I think I'm a friendly person.

Now, rub me the wrong way,

and I'm happy to label

you and leave you behind.

I'm not gonna be mean,

I'm not gonna be angry,

I'm not gonna do what

I can to destroy you.

But I learned a long time ago,

I'm not doing to invest in people

that aren't worth investing in.

Right, right, they're not

gonna invest anything in you,

and yeah, only put

negativity in your life.

Like, okay, you're in your spot.

And so that lady was like that, I think.

But even today on my run, I was like,

I was thinking of what I

would say to that lady.

Did you happen to

chase three little girls

on their scooters down last week?

Right.

I was like, one of those was my daughter.

One of them actually fell and

actually injured their knee.

Pretty badly.

Pretty badly, because you were chasing

three 13-year-old

children who were just looking

at a turtle off of sidewalk,

really which is a green

space in your neighborhood.

Right, and I mean,

they would have no idea.

They don't know how to property.

Yeah, let me give you a--

I mean, they didn't hop a

fence into someone's yard.

They know better than that,

but it's an open green space that,

if you know, you know,

I guess that it's owned.

Right.

But a young--

Good point.

At that age, I remember

hopping people's fences,

and they'd be like,

get out of my backyard,

because I'd be like hopping here.

There were times where

I would walk, you know--

You would hop over

fences into people's yard?

To get through their yard

to another one sometimes,

I would do that, yeah.

There was times I would hop a fence

and I wouldn't even get

one in their backyard.

I would walk on the top plank,

like a, what's the, like a bounce beam.

You know how they had that top wood plank

all the way across the wood fences?

I would just walk the

whole length on top of that.

So it's like I wasn't even in their,

I wasn't even in their yard,

but you know, those

fences weren't very strong,

so sometimes they

would sway a little bit.

I didn't do that all the time,

but when I was a kid,

fifth grade, sixth grade,

I didn't think twice about that.

Like, oh, I'm sorry,

you didn't want me in your backyard?

News to me.

Right, like I'm just doing me,

and this, you know,

I'm smart enough to know

that the fastest point,

or the fastest direction

between two things is this

direct line in between them.

Fifth grader had no

idea you would be upset

that I was on your grass.

Right, right.

In your fenced in backyard.

Now I totally get it.

Like I got a kid running

through my backyard right now.

I'd be like, dude, what are you doing?

Right, right.

You know?

Exactly, but I mean, as a child,

like are you really paying attention?

And again, they weren't in

someone's fenced in yard.

That's the whole point.

She would actually know better than that.

Yeah.

Because even still, like, you know,

if a ball goes over

the fence, our children,

and I like to think this is because

they're good human beings,

but like to them, they're like,

I still feel like I should

knock on my neighbor's door.

Even though the neighbor has said,

if you put a ball over the fence,

just go in the backyard and get it.

It's okay.

But our kids are still

like, I still feel bad.

I feel like I should

knock and let them know.

Yeah.

Right, it's the responsible thing.

Yeah, I think, yeah, I agree with that.

And I think just like that point,

and I think it's ingrained in people,

and I feel like for me,

that's one reason why I feel like

I don't think I'm a bad person at heart,

which I mean, I'd

like to say, no, I'm not.

I'm old enough to know I don't think I'm

a bad person at heart.

But when I have those like

uncomfortable interactions

with other humans, it bothers me.

I still remember pulling

out of our driveway one time

in one of our bigger cars.

Yeah.

And I had to take it wide

and then kind of come back,

but on the right side of the road,

and there was a lady walking

on the right side of the road,

and our road's thin, so

there's not sidewalks there.

You can't ride it on a sidewalk.

There's barely even room, honestly,

for two cars to go by side by side.

You can't go by regular speed.

Yeah, so you actually had to slow down

and really get close to

the side for people to go by.

It's just, we just have a

skinny road that we live on,

and a lady was walking on

it, like three feet into it.

And you know, if

you're three feet into it,

you're two feet from the middle of it.

Right, right.

On our street, right?

It's a small road, yeah.

And so I just pulled out.

I had just pulled out,

which I had to take a wide turn

because it's a wide van.

Right, right.

And I'm pulling back

towards the middle there,

and she is yelling at me from the street,

like I'm gonna hit her.

And I'm like motioning to her, like,

I didn't hit you, lady, and

I'm still 20 feet from you.

What are you mad about?

And I'm still actively moving over.

She was so mad at me.

I've not seen her walk

on our street since then.

Maybe she does.

But I felt bad because it was like,

she immediately was so mad at me.

Right.

And I was gesturing at her, like,

I didn't hit you, and

I'm 20 feet from you still.

And you're like cussing me out,

and you just saw where I came out of,

so you know where I live.

Right.

Which makes it even more comfortable

because it's like, now you think the guy

that lives in that house is a jerk.

Jerk, right.

You know, it's like,

I'm not you overreacted.

Right, right.

I saw you, I was being safe, like.

I mean, it's just one of

those things in human nature

where everybody thinks they're right.

Yes.

You know what I mean?

And that's where I

don't want to be the person

that's naive like

other people are sometimes,

thinking all the time,

like, well, I'm right.

Because there's been plenty

of times I have been wrong.

And like, if I am, I

usually try to apologize

in a situation like that, but I rarely,

am I trying to be offensive to somebody.

Right.

No, you don't look for

reasons to be offended at people.

Yeah.

And you actually, honestly, if you're,

this is not you.

If humans, maybe this is

just me, are in the right mood,

you can be easily offended

by just about everything.

Like, I could look

for offenses everywhere.

For sure.

I don't.

For sure.

That really is against my nature.

Yeah.

But I truly think

that I could be offended

100% of the time.

And those are the worst days.

Yeah.

Because it's like, you

know you're in that mood

and it's like, I'm

just, everything's downhill.

Yeah.

And I'm just getting upset perspective.

Even then though, I

wouldn't take it out on the person,

other on the highway, right?

I'll yell at people in the

car in front of me and whatnot.

You can't, they can't hear you.

Yeah, but I'm not like,

I'm not the guy rolling down

my window, you know, giving

them a thumbs up, you know,

as I drive by.

Right, right.

You know, I just, you

know, I'm doing it all

in the privacy of my car

and for my family to hear me.

(laughing)

You're just teaching your

kids how to yell at other kids.

But I think I brought it

up once before on this,

but I'll never, I mean,

you know, other people,

I know are the same way,

like Will Arnett brought up

on his podcast that

if he's in a good mood

when he's driving, everything's great.

Right.

Like people can cut him off

and he's like, no big deal,

go ahead, you got

somewhere to be, I'm all good.

But if he gets in

that car behind the wheel

and he's in a bad mood,

same exact thing happens.

And he's like, he loses his stuff.

Yeah.

Because he approached it

from a negative perspective.

Right.

And now everything's negative.

So true, it's so true.

I was tested this morning even,

6.30 in the morning I'm driving

and there is someone driving

anywhere from 10 to 15 miles

below the speed limit.

And I'm like, and

it's kind of a hilly road

so I can't really go

around them or anything.

I was just like, what?

Oh, you're stuck behind.

What are you doing?

Yeah, and you're just stuck behind him

and now the line of cars,

even at 6.30 in the morning

was like on my butt, obviously,

and you kind of want to be like,

hey guys, it's not me, it's really the

person in front of me

and you want to tell them

all, it's not me, it's not me.

I do tell people.

I swerve a little bit, like slowly,

just so people can see the car.

Just so they can see that

there's someone in front of you.

Well, once it opened up to an extra lane,

they could see, because I passed them

going the speed limit.

I was like flying past

them, going 30 miles an hour.

That person probably had no idea.

Probably no idea.

Even though 15 cars just passed them.

I'm pointing to every stop sign

like they can actually see me.

This person is aware

enough to see the person

in the car behind them.

I'm pointing to the sign like,

and I am not a super fast driver.

You know this.

Everyone can say this, if

you are going the speed limit,

I am not going to get mad at you.

I'm not.

I am.

You might, but you know what?

That's not something I get mad at.

That's my threshold of

you're at least going

the speed limit, whatever.

I want to go faster, but it's fine.

But this, I was like, dude,

you're going 15 for a long time.

But that got you mad though off the bat.

Were you able to recover from that?

Because that's the other part of it.

You got to be able to

recover from things,

especially driving.

I was, I was.

It was still too early that I

didn't let that set my mood.

Didn't help that it was

your first back to work day.

Back in the office day.

After we've all been home

for COVID for five years.

Yeah, so it's like, it

just set the tone for the day.

I was like, but whatever.

Yes, you can always

look, I guess to that point,

like you just, you can

always look for the offense there.

Yeah.

It's too easy and I wish it wasn't.

Well, it's like I said

to the kids this weekend,

like we just, we are go-go family.

Everybody knows that we're high strong.

We just constantly have somewhere to be.

There's never downtime

and when there is, we crash.

You know, we don't do anything.

We crash and the family crashes.

But because of that,

there's a lot of times,

there's just a lot of

intensity in the house.

Oh yeah.

We had this discussion

this week where it was like,

kids, I know we're intense in this house.

I know we have got, I know

we have no time in this house.

We just go, go, go.

I know that, but the way

you guys are all interacting

right now is just creating more stress.

I was like, and I get it.

Mom and I have taught

you that way, apparently.

Right, right.

So what we need to do now

is bring down the stress.

Everybody has to bring down the stress.

It's something that I

need to try to do more

in everyday life.

But it's sad when it

hits our household sometimes

because it's like, man,

have we taught the kids

to be that way?

Yeah, and part of it is

yes, I think we probably have.

Part of it is that they're siblings

and they argue like

siblings and they get annoyed

with each other like siblings.

I mean, they are really close, I think.

They truly do enjoy being with each other

and laughing with each

other, but they get annoyed

and it doesn't take much.

And then all of a sudden,

it's just downhill, quickly.

Well, I think where I was going with that

was initially that sometimes

you have to just call it out.

Like, hey, you're just

adding stress to the situation.

If you're stressed out,

maybe that should be something

you're just working out on your own

instead of bringing us all down.

And my point to that is like, I'm okay.

I am at a point in my life

where somebody on the sidelines

like, hey, Shawn, you're

kind of just adding stress

to our situation.

If someone were to say

that to me, I'd be like, okay,

that's good to know, I'll change that

because that's not ever my intent.

Or rarely is it my intent.

Right.

You know, like I'm okay with that.

Some people might not be okay with that.

And it depends, if I

come in in a bad mood,

I guess I probably

wouldn't be okay with it.

Really?

It's all in the delivery.

You actually did it

really well this weekend.

At one point you looked at our daughter

and you're like, do you

want me to tell you something?

I think she said no, but you were about,

you wanted to give her

feedback and you're like,

you asked if she'd be open

to hearing it at that moment.

Yeah, she said no, yeah.

Yeah, yeah, so you're like, okay.

Because it is, I think that's part of it.

You have to be receptive.

I parented her long

enough that I think she knew

exactly what I was gonna say.

I didn't even have to say it.

I didn't even have to be a part of this

to know what you were gonna say.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, that was just a funny,

it was a funny situation

from where I was sitting

because I could like see it, but I

couldn't hear any of it.

I was down the line a little bit.

I was like, oh, I know what's going on.

Yeah, well, we've

skipped a couple of weeks

because we've just

been on the crazy train,

going, going, going.

We haven't had time to do it.

Yeah.

And I know we're

disappointing that one guy.

I can't remember what his handle was.

By keeping it going.

You're right, buddy,

we should hang it up.

And for you, just consider it hung up.

Just consider it hung

up and scroll on by.

Yeah, I'm just gonna let you do that.

Yep.

Let him.

Let them, such a great book.

Yep, I love it.

We've had a lot, I mean,

it's one of the reasons why

it's nice to do it on a

weekly basis, for me at least,

is because most of the

time there is so much going on

in a week that we have

stuff to kind of cover.

Right.

You know, and I know we try

not to be redundant with it.

Redundive, I almost said redundive.

Try not to be redundant with it.

Yeah.

But man, you give us three weeks.

So much is going on.

So much.

I mean, we've flown

through state playoffs,

Dallas Cup, a couple

different track meets.

I mean, it has been--

Meet of champs.

Meet of champs.

Like, it has been,

like, I don't even know.

We say busy, but I mean, it's flown by.

And these weeks are tough

because so much just required

juggling with work and all

the things with the kids.

And I mean, there's

always some of that juggling,

but it's, there was just

more overlap, I feel like,

between kids sports and like,

what would traditionally be work time.

And it's like, it's exhausting.

Well, and the Dallas,

like the Dallas Cup for once,

even for me, I have a

very flexible schedule

because I know my boss very well.

It's me.

I have a flexible

schedule. He's a great boss.

But we're still out,

we're out of office so much,

even for me, I'm like, my gosh,

I actually have tons of work to do.

Right.

And Dallas Cup, oh, by the way,

our kids have school to do too,

but Dallas Cup is a

whole week of soccer games

during the school week

because there's teams from,

50 different countries that have flown in

and they're all on vacation.

Sure.

Playing in a soccer

tournament in the United States.

Just happens to be in

Dallas, this Dallas Cup.

Funny how that works.

And our kids, they'll go

to school in the morning

and then to a game in the

afternoon or half the school

or take a test in the morning and then

we're going to a game.

But for us, we got to go pick them up

and we got to take

them to the game an hour

or at least take them to warm up.

And it's just, it's a half

day or if not a whole day off.

Or one or two hours and one or two hours

and the jobs that we do, that's not

enough to do anything.

That's like a weekend where it's like,

I'm going to catch up

on emails for an hour.

That's like nothing,

it's just a chip away.

Right, right.

So that's all the time, that's just lost

and that's difficult.

It is difficult to get back.

It's difficult for the kids too.

It is, oh yeah, now we have

kids that are buying in school

and that is hard to make up.

When their schedules

are as busy as they are

on a regular basis to then

find that time for extra homework.

And that's club ball for the younger one.

The older one, he was missing school

because of high school athletics, right?

So they're traveling to,

they went to Lubbock on a Monday

Tuesday.

Or Tuesday for a Wednesday game.

Sorry, no, no, no, they went to Lubbock

on a Monday for a Tuesday game.

You had it right the

first time, I was wrong.

Yeah, wow, there is a

first time for everything.

Orderly wrong, you got it right.

Yeah, but that's a lot of

time off to play in a game.

Yeah.

They won, which was

awesome and then they went,

I think they made it to the

regional semi-finals maybe.

They did.

Which is two games out of state.

It was a heart breaker

because the game was close,

went into overtime, zero, zero.

Yep.

Two overtimes, two 10

minute overtimes, no golden goal.

And the other team

scored in the first overtime.

So we had like eight, we

had like, I don't know,

we had like 13

minutes left in that total.

So they had some time

to try to tie it up.

Unfortunately we couldn't do it,

really kind of took the air out of our,

the wind out of our

sails when that happened.

But the sad part was any

team could have won that.

It was a toss up game.

And they just happened to be

the ones that put the magic,

the one shot in.

The one shot in.

Even though I think we

outshot them in the game.

I think so.

We out-possessed them in the game.

They were a great

team, don't get me wrong.

Absolutely, yeah.

It's just such a heart

breaker to win a game

that you could have won.

Yep.

You know, and I don't

know how many people

that have played sports feel that way,

but you know, in a game like that,

you almost wish you got blown out.

Yeah.

Because then your

heart doesn't hurt as much.

Yeah.

It was just like, it came

down to that last few minutes,

you know, and it just,

I mean any game that's tied

zero zero at end of regulation,

like you know it was a good game.

It was a hard fought game.

Oh, my heart breaks for them.

But you get this, we're,

our oldest is halfway

done with his high school

soccer career now.

He'll be a junior and senior now.

He's done freshman and sophomore.

He's halfway through, it's crazy.

Crazy.

Yeah.

It hurts my heart to be

like, this is going so fast.

Well, and we were thinking

about the seniors, right?

Oh, yeah.

Because on the varsity team,

it's nine seniors, a sophomore,

which is our son, and a freshman.

Yeah.

And that's it.

So like when these guys,

when that final whistle blew,

I mean, they all fell to the ground.

I mean, that was it for them.

You know, that's the last

of their high school careers.

Now some are going to play college.

Yeah.

It's great, but.

I will not, I'm just

forewarning everybody,

particularly you, I will be

an absolute mess senior year.

I will.

Like I cried at senior night this year.

Yeah, you did.

I was like, okay.

I don't have any, I

don't even personally know

many of these kids, but I

do know that they've had

a big impact on our son's life.

Yeah.

And we've gotten to

know a couple of parents

and stuff like that,

but I mean, it was just,

I just, I was proud and I was sad,

and I was like all the

emotions for these parents.

Yeah, yeah.

Because I know that it's

something we're going to go

through and it's going to be hard.

I just remember that little baby.

It will be hard, but

right now we're proud.

We're proud parents because,

and all the awards haven't come out yet.

I think there's more to

come because they're waiting

on the state finals to

happen before they name like

all state, all region,

all that kind of stuff.

However, our oldest

did get one of the few

that they have already

named, and he was named

all region defensive

newcomer of the year.

Yeah.

Which is cool.

Which is really cool.

Yeah, so congratulations.

Yeah, it was so good.

It was well deserved.

I mean, they only let in

maybe four or five goals

the whole season he was center back.

Yeah.

And the other thing that he did too,

and this is, I'm trying not

to be bag of doshas about it,

but it's cool, but as

a sophomore on a team

that started all seniors

plus the other freshmen,

they keep all their stats

and everything obviously,

and they keep minutes as one of those.

Our son had the most

minutes out of anybody

played in the entire team.

Almost by a hundred

minutes, I think it was in the end.

I don't remember, but he was

significantly in the lead.

So, I mean, he never came off.

He didn't.

He came off twice, I

think, because he had injury

and then went back on.

Yep, yep.

But he almost never subbed out.

Yep.

And he did not start senior night,

which is absolutely appropriate.

Oh yeah, he lost like

23 minutes on that night.

Yeah, yeah.

Someone gained 23 minutes on him.

I know, I know.

And that, I mean.

Rightfully so.

Rightfully so.

Which was a really cool night

because they started

with all the seniors.

Yeah, so cool. And then

at the end of the game,

the coach, coach

Bates did it really well.

I'm sure he did it on purpose.

Yep, I'm sure. At the end of the game,

all the seniors were sitting.

They all got clap outs, kind of.

And then basically the team on the field

was the next generation, next year team.

Next year team.

It was really, this is

maybe a little bit of overkill

or whatever, but it

was beautiful in my mind

to just kind of see

that arc and that change

happen throughout the game.

Like I just, it was very metaphorical

for what is happening then and overall.

It was cool.

The sad part is, and I know that's why

our oldest is sad too,

because that was a really good team.

Really good.

It's just when teams,

I hesitate to say it was a special team.

I mean, they made it way

further than last year.

Yep.

And they actually tied for the furthest

that any teams made it, I think.

I think so.

That's what I remember.

So if they would have won that game,

they would have gotten

further than any boys team had.

And shout out to the girls team

who was actually in

the state championship.

Yes they are.

That's awesome, way to go Keller Girls.

Keller Girls, way to go.

That's really neat.

Oh, it's a special team, right?

And you hate to say

it was a special team,

but it was a special team to somebody.

I mean, you start going through

some of those seniors individually.

Like I could say their names.

Those guys are hard to replace.

I know that's why this was

a year that they could have.

Like I said, they

could have won that game,

which means they could

have gone to that next one.

You never know how

far you could have gone

when you're that good.

And it's tough to get back to that level.

A year if we're gonna

have a team that good.

That's what you start

thinking right after it's over.

I know that's where our son's at.

It would just be a

little nervous about that.

But again, it's like, sorry

I'm talking a lot right now,

but I told him when I

played sports at least,

I mean, the level you

get better every year

is exponential at that

age for the good players.

Like the player I was as a sophomore

was nothing compared to

what I was as a junior.

That was probably one

of my biggest jumps.

And then junior to senior year was even,

it was a huge jump too.

Maybe not as big as

my sophomore to junior.

I mean, that was like a

baby to like, I understand.

Yeah, yeah.

You know what I mean?

Yeah, yeah.

I mean, it's a big, I

mean, yeah, you're a man.

You're a young man.

I feel like a junior, you know?

Yeah, but it's just, it's, you know,

you're maturing in your mind,

you're understanding the game more,

you're confidence in the game.

I don't think there's

anything to do with manliness

other than just that

confidence and maturing

and just being awake

to, oh, I can do this.

Right.

And having confidence to do it.

And that's, confidence is half of it.

Oh yeah.

Maybe even more than half of it, so.

But like last year, I think our oldest

got so much confidence

playing on this team.

Totally.

And he's lucky too,

because there's a lot of his players

playing high school teams.

Yeah.

But they're not as competitive.

Right.

Right, so he's actually

playing a very competitive team.

Obviously biggest, they're six eight.

They're actually the biggest.

Biggest of the bigs.

Because the way they

changed it was weird this year,

I'm getting too much in the weeds here,

but six eight is the

biggest here in Texas.

And they changed it just this last year,

because there's so

many six eight schools,

that now there's two

six eight championships.

And the way they split it is by

attendance of the schools.

And Keller is in the biggest one.

Biggest one.

So we were playing

against all the biggest schools,

which is, I mean, that's cool.

I mean, that's tough to compete in.

Totally, and they are so competitive.

So it was, shout out to the boys.

It was really fun.

It was fun to watch them.

They had a great season.

They did, they should be really proud.

Yeah, I'll miss them in the seniors too.

I know, I know.

I really got connected

with watching the team.

It was awesome.

I know, I know.

Oh my gosh, but the thing that,

so Senior Night cried, I

was super sad after the game.

The seniors sign out, 100% made me cry.

Like tears actually

rolling down my cheeks.

I don't know how they do it,

but there's like a piece of glass

or something in front of the camera

and each one of the

seniors comes and takes a Sharpie

and signs their name.

And so you just get a

picture of them signing it

and it's called the senior sign out.

Yeah, it's really cool.

It made me cry.

It's about to make you cry again.

It is, just thinking about it.

Like they're just

signing off for the last time.

Yeah, yeah.

And it was really sad.

It was.

Someone who's not

signing out is our daughter.

She's got a lot of time left on this.

She's been nursing this thing,

if you followed it on Instagram at all.

Oh my gosh, we haven't

talked about it much on here.

I won't go long

because we're already getting

to where we don't

need to go much further,

but she's had a quad strain

that has just been a nightmare.

She can't get it healthy

because she's in the

middle of track season.

And she has track

practice every day for school

and then clubs.

And then clubs every night.

She has club every week obviously,

but club season

actually starts up about now.

Right after--

Like really hot and

heavy after high school.

I mean, by after junior high

is kind of just finishing up.

But she was in the middle

of her junior high season,

which is kind of her time to shine.

And she had to sit out a couple of them

because she was in so much pain with it.

She ran a couple of them,

not even close to her best time.

Most of them, she won all

of them until she got to,

oh no, she lost to the same girl

and one that she lost

to in the meet of champs.

Yeah.

Where she got third place,

where she was somewhat more healthy,

but she wasn't healthy yet though.

I hate having that asterisk

because I feel like when

I'm putting these things out,

I want people to know

like, hey, I'm proud of Island.

I'm proud of our daughter

no matter what she does.

Whether it's 55th place,

third place or first place.

Proud of her no matter what.

But when I know she's not healthy

and she's not putting out her best times

and she's a foot behind the

person that probably is healthy

thinking she's beating my daughter,

the competitive juices in

me, I don't like excuses.

But I do just want to point out,

like stay ready,

she's gonna come for you.

You get her on a healthy

day, she's gonna come for you.

Right, right.

You know what I mean?

So hopefully she gets healthy

because you re-qualified

for Nike Outdoor again.

Yep, that's exciting.

Such a huge, 100, we

gotta get her qualified

for the 200 hopefully.

Again, you have to have

a time that's fast enough

to even qualify to get there.

Because they only take

100 or something like that

across the nation.

Yeah.

And if your time's not

fast enough, you don't get in.

So hopefully, so she's

already in on the 100,

which is awesome, that'll be fun.

And then, but again, it's

nice to spend all that money

and go all the way up to Oregon

for more than just 10 seconds of running.

Right.

Or 12 seconds of

running, whatever it may be.

Right.

If we could add another 25 seconds to it.

If you could add the 25, it'll be--

Make it 35 seconds of

running, that'd be great.

He's so worth it.

It's like $100 a minute.

Yeah.

Wait, did I do that right?

I don't--

Something like that.

I don't--

Or no, $100 a second.

Yeah.

There we go.

I was like, I don't know your math,

but $100 a second makes more sense, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

(laughs)

You're like, it's good.

No, I, and it's so frustrating for her

because she's so competitive.

And she doesn't like

to compete, not 100%.

Nobody would who's competitive, right?

And it's like, I wanna compete,

I wanna go show everybody what I can do,

but I can't do what I know

I can do because I'm hurt.

And it's new in our household too,

because to your point, she's competitive,

but she also has never

really had to deal with an injury.

No.

Like this, or pain of an injury.

So she doesn't know what's hurting pain,

what's nagging pain,

what, you know what I mean?

Yep.

And she's trying to stay healthy

because she knows she wants,

some races are more

important than other ones,

and some she's forced to do

because the team needs her.

Yep.

And so she's pulled a lot

of different directions,

and it was frustrating everybody,

including in our family,

just trying to get her to figure out,

well, what's important?

Like someone had her do the high jump,

which I think started the whole thing.

And it was like, she was still doing it.

Well, is this important?

We're having tearful conversations

around these kinds of things,

and it's like, well,

you're not healthy though.

Yeah.

And we're not mad at

you for not being healthy,

but I don't know that

we're doing the right things

to get healthy now.

And it's just added so many more layers.

And I've never been

the one who'd been like,

oh, my parents were

terrible at raising me,

they had no idea what they were doing.

There's different

reasons, why am I saying?

I struggled growing up potentially.

But my point here is, I

know nobody's given a booklet.

No.

And it's hard for everybody.

And like right now we're just in this

seven layer bean dip

of just more and more layers.

Yeah.

Of bean dip that we're

trying to figure out.

I know, and it's, every

child is so different.

And so like what works with

one doesn't work with the other

and they have different struggles.

And it's just like, man, you guys,

like I'm mentally exhausted from trying

to be a good parent.

And they agreed, agreed, agreed.

Because you're just

trying to be so tactical

about the discussions.

Yes.

I'm gonna have them.

But also these last couple of weeks,

because we've had all these

huge state qualifying games,

regional qualifying championship games,

I mean, they raised

trophies for our sons things.

We had the Dallas Cup,

which is an invitational only.

So only the best teams are there.

I mean, it's a very competitive.

We didn't brag on

that one because we got,

we played terrible and got

wiped off the face of the earth.

So nothing to brag about there.

Just, we didn't show.

The team didn't show.

But that was stressful

because we were trying to show,

we were hoping to show.

Hoping to, yeah.

And then we had the meet a champs,

which is the champion.

So you qualify for it and

then it's all the best sprinters

are at the meet a champs

and from the whole

district at that point.

So we have all these things,

like all the, you know, like the finals.

My point is that was stressful.

That in and of itself was stressful.

As a parent. Yeah.

Because it wasn't just

like we were just enjoying

watching our children.

And it's not like we have

expectations for them to win

or else to burn or throw.

It was just, I wanted, you

want success for them so badly.

It worked so hard and you

want them to feel that success.

And you want them to

feel the joy of victory.

Like.

When they're used to, I

shouldn't say used to,

but when history has suggested that you

can get first place.

You can.

You can win that game.

You can score the winning goal.

Yeah.

You know, like they've all done that.

Right.

You know?

Right.

I mean, our daughters

never come in worse than third

in a race really.

And that was just this last track meet.

Right.

When she wasn't healthy.

Right, right.

It's always first or second.

And it's just that one girl who is fast

and she's her nemesis right now.

She needs, she's in her head.

She's got to get past that girl.

But when you're used to winning.

Yeah.

And you're going out there hurt

and you know it's going to crush her

if she can't go out there

instead of personal best and whatnot.

Like that's stressful.

It is.

And we have to parent to that.

Yeah.

I mean, we have to

parent and find that balance

between encouraging your

child to do their best,

but not putting that

crown on them, right?

The heavy is the head.

That's always my joke in the house.

Crown, right?

Like because that weight is so much

and they want it so bad,

but at the same time

it's okay if you fail.

Like try your best.

I mean, but yet we all

know you're competitive enough

to know you want to

eat up the competition.

I mean, we had to have

the conversation with her.

I did.

You ended up getting in on it

because I wasn't getting through.

He was so mad because he

was catching up on homework

and he's like, I'm not going

to get a 100 in this class.

I was like, about 100?

You know, and oh wait, this is serious.

Like you're not kidding.

That's his overall grade.

That's his overall grade.

The overall grade, 100.

So, and he was so mad

because he was trying to make up.

He had gotten like a 94 on one assignment

of all the

assignments so far in the term.

And he is like, and

then he ended up turning

in some homework and he got

like a 91% on this homework.

And he's like, I can't even

get my grade back up to 100%

from this 94.

Now it's never going

to get back up to 100%.

Great for the class.

And he's like, look at this.

And he's going through his

grades and it was 100, 100,

100, 100, 194, 100, 100, 100, 191.

I was like, son, it is okay.

Yeah.

Like you're getting a fantastic grade.

You clearly understand it, but it's like,

we have to parent to, it

is okay to not get 100.

Yeah, yeah.

And that's the

pressure he's put on himself.

Our expectations are A's and B's, right?

Yes.

That's his expectation, which is good.

I'm glad we have high expectations,

but that's still a maturing

emotion, emotions with him.

So I mean, he'll get there, but yeah,

that's why we had to have

a conversation with him.

Yeah, but that

pressure can be debilitating

if we don't parent to that right.

And that's where it gets hard.

Cause you're like, what's that balance?

Like you want them to

strive for the best,

but it's okay if they

fall short of the mark.

Well, they're all like that though,

with we talk about

sports all the time on here,

but oh, by the way, they're all in school

and they're all A and B or

straight A's, kids, right?

National Honor

Society, A role, A, B role,

honors, glasses.

I mean, we try not to

make this a brag fest.

We're proud of our children,

just like everybody's

proud of their children.

That's not the type,

that's not the side of this

that we always choose to talk about here,

which we probably should

talk about that more often.

But it is, that's just

so much pressure for them

to produce results academically,

athletically, socially.

I mean, there's just

so much stress there.

And that's part of them,

that stress to them feeds out to us,

and then it just becomes a stress loop.

And that's where, even

when I was saying it earlier,

like, all right,

everybody, stress time out.

Stress time out.

I know we have high

expectations in the house.

I know we're strung out.

I know we're busy, but

we need to take a breath.

You know what I mean?

Life is good.

Let's all have a smile.

If you're adding to the stress, stop.

Right.

(laughing)

Just stop.

Yeah.

And life will go on.

Exactly.

It'll go on after

that 91 and we'll learn.

It'll go on after, we got

knocked out of the state,

you know, tournament, and it'll go on

after a third place.

It will.

Yeah.

It will.

Well.

And it'll go on even

though you had to go back

to work today.

It will.

Behind somebody driving slow.

Yes.

Yes, it will.

And I'll be going somewhere else.

It'll go on when I go get my plans

printed somewhere else.

But not at Stables.

That's what I mean by somewhere else.

Yeah.

Just not Stables.

Oh my gosh.

Oh, all right.

Well, we are running long.

Yeah, I know.

So much for, well, that's what happens

when we're three weeks behind.

I always say, we got

plenty to talk about.

Plenty to talk about.

So you can either get

us for 40 minutes weekly,

or you can get us for an

hour every three weeks.

The math would suggest

the hour every three weeks

is still a better use of your time.

Yeah, that's easier for me too.

So I'm on board.

Choo choo.

Choo choo.

Pun intended, right?

Yeah, that's true.

Mm-hmm.

That was good.

You're so quick-witted.

No, no, no, no, no, no.

All right, well, we will be back.

When the day is new.

When the week is new.

We'll have more to talk about.

Nope.

And so will you.

Yeah.

No, really, it doesn't work.

Yeah, so how did Mr. Rogers say that?

He didn't talk to people.

Was it his neighbors that

came by that he's talking about?

I think so.

Yeah.

In the land of make believe

with the trolley that went?

Yeah.

Oh, I miss Mr. Rogers.

I don't, but he's nostalgic.

(laughing)

If we had more Mr. Rogers,

maybe there would be

less people like the lady

at the Staples.

I'll leave you with this.

That t-shirt that I took a picture of,

someone put it on Instagram.

I don't even think it's

real, I think it was AI'd,

but it was Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross,

and the crocodile hunter.

(laughing)

The three best people, you know,

just to give you a chill vibe.

Yep.

Talk about good karma and good juju.

Yeah, we're gonna make that t-shirt.

Yeah.

Go see their faces, we can't.

Crikey.

Crikey.

Crikey, that's a beautiful little tree.

Happy little tree.

It's a happy tree, happy tree.

Well, we'll see you tomorrow, neighbors.

I actually loved going

to my orthopedic surgeon

because they always had

Bob Ross in the waiting room.

Oh, on the TV?

On the TV.

Funny.

Or actually Bob Ross.

(laughing)

Bob Ross is on the TV.

I don't think he was sitting in there.

That would be so funny.

That would have popped into my head.

Bob Ross is just some

random orthodontic waiting room.

He has his easels set up and he's like,

happy tree, there are no mistakes,

just happy little accidents.

Yeah.

And nobody can paint as well as him.

No, the guy is really good.

Yeah, it's like

Jackson Pollock's on this one

and like a Bob Ross on this one.

Right.

Shout out to Bob Ross.

Shout out to all three of those guys.

Yep.

My homies pour a little

liquor for those guys.

(laughing)

I'm trying to picture Mr. Rogers,

or Bob Ross for that

matter, drinking liquor.

I can see Bob, no, I can see Mr. Rogers

wearing his death row records here.

Snoop hooked him up with.

Oh yeah, for sure with his sweater vest

or with his sweater cardigan.

Yeah.

I see it.

Wearing his untied Jordans.

Yeah.

Now I can see Bob Ross smoking a joint,

I just can't see him drinking liquor.

Yeah.

I totally see that man.

I can see all of that.

(laughing)

Yeah, I see Bob Ross

doing a lot of things.

We might have to unpack that next week

because that actually surprised me.

All right, well we've

extended by another five minutes.

Oh, you can tell it's been a long day.

Yeah, yeah.

All right.

So we'll say adios.

That's not what you say.

No, that's not what I say.

I say cha-cha.

That's what you say, or

you just try it again.

Okay.

All right, well, we'll

catch you on the flip side.

Cha-cha.

Wait, let me do it one more time.

Let me do it this way.

All right, we're gonna

pour a little liquor.

Peace, my brothers.

Cha-cha.

All right, we'll see you.

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We're back.

Our highlights can

sometimes be very entertaining.

To us at least.

I literally thought,

am I the one throwing all

this bad juju out there?

But I go back to that

Robin Williams thing, you know,

you never know what

someone else is going through.

Well, you know what, karma's real.

I learned a long time ago,

I'm not going to invest in people

that aren't worth investing in.

I mean, it's just one of

those things in human nature

where everybody thinks they're right.

Well, I'm right.

It's not me, it's not me.

And you had it right the

first time, I was wrong.

Yeah, well, there is a

first time for everything.

Totally wrong, you got it right.

I cried at senior night this year.

Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross,

in the crocodile hunter.

Talk about good karma and good juju.

Oh, I miss Mr. Rogers.

I don't, but he's nostalgic.

My homies pour a little

liquor for those guys.

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