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You know that feeling. Right? It's January 1 maybe or just, you know, any Monday. And you've got these huge goals. You gotta change everything.
Speaker 2:Oh, yeah. Run a marathon. Learn Mandarin.
Speaker 1:Exactly. Write the great novel. And then
Speaker 2:Oh, yeah.
Speaker 1:Well, reality kicks in. And it's just it feels like too much. You get overwhelmed before you even, you know, start.
Speaker 2:Totally. That big ambition can feel like a ton of bricks.
Speaker 1:Right. So what if we flip that? Instead of thinking massive, we thought really small, like tiny. Today, we're doing a deep dive into James Clear's Atomic Habits. It's a book that kind of turns that whole go big or go home idea on its head.
Speaker 2:It really does.
Speaker 1:What if the key to, like, monumental change isn't thinking big at all, but thinking catomic?
Speaker 2:It's such a refreshing way to look at it, isn't it? Clare's book Atomic Habits, it's become this huge international bestseller because I think it offers a real antidote to that feeling you described. The whole core idea is about the compound effect. Yeah. How hundreds of these tiny seemingly insignificant decisions add up over time.
Speaker 1:Like what sort of decisions?
Speaker 2:Well, he gives examples like doing just two push ups a day or waking up five minutes earlier, maybe making one short phone call you've been putting off.
Speaker 1:Okay. Two push ups. That seems almost nothing.
Speaker 2:Exactly. He calls them atomic habits because, like atoms, they're the sort of fundamental building blocks of a much larger system. Small but powerful when they combine.
Speaker 1:Atomic habits. Okay. Like that. It's not just a catchy name. He's saying these are the actual nuts and bolts for, like, real life change.
Speaker 1:How does he actually promise this works?
Speaker 2:Yeah. The book basically promises to show you how. How these tiny little shifts, these atomic habits make progress almost inevitable. How they systematically improve things like your career. Maybe through adding one small skill consistently.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:Or your relationships, you know, tiny interactions that build trust over time. And just your life overall. Accumulating small wins boosts your confidence, your momentum.
Speaker 1:Mhmm.
Speaker 2:And it's not just like his opinion. He grounds it all in psychology and neuroscience. Plus, he uses these really inspiring stories.
Speaker 1:Right. So they're like Olympian CEOs.
Speaker 2:Yeah. Exactly. Olympic gold medalists, top CEOs, scientists, showing how these principles actually work in the real world, how they help people stay productive, motivated, even happy. It's about the mechanics, you know, how tiny shifts backed by science can genuinely reshape your life.
Speaker 1:That's a really compelling way to frame it. Definitely challenges how we usually think about setting goals. Okay. Let's, let's really dig into some of the key takeaways here, starting with that main idea, the power of tiny habits. The atomic principle.
Speaker 2:Oh, right.
Speaker 1:Still feels a bit weird, know, we're always told aim high. But Clear's like, aim tiny. What's the actual logic there?
Speaker 2:Well, the logic is that real lasting change doesn't come from these huge, like, occasional bursts of effort. It comes from consistency and small actions, day after day.
Speaker 1:So the two push ups example.
Speaker 2:Exactly. Doing two push ups today feels negligible. Right. But the insight isn't about today's push ups. It's about the accumulated effect of doing it every day for a year or five years.
Speaker 2:If we connect that to the bigger picture, it challenges what we think effective change even looks like. It's like compound interest in a bank account. Those tiny deposits, they don't look like much at first, but over time, they grow exponentially. It's about shifting focus from the big event to the daily system.
Speaker 1:That compound interest analogy really clicks. Yeah. Are there common ways people mess this up though? When they try to apply it?
Speaker 2:Oh, absolutely. I think the biggest one is probably impatience. We want results now.
Speaker 1:Yeah, instant gratification.
Speaker 2:Right. So you do your two push ups for a week, maybe two, and you don't suddenly look like a bodybuilder and you think, this isn't working. Uh-huh. Clear talks about this valley of disappointment. Progress is often invisible for a while.
Speaker 2:It's happening, but you can't see it yet. People give up right before they hit the breakthrough. The plateau of latent potential, he calls it.
Speaker 1:The valley of disappointment.
Speaker 2:Okay. So you need a bit of faith in the process, trusting that those small actions are adding up even if you can't see the big results immediately.
Speaker 1:That makes a lot of sense. So knowing that, how does CLEAR help people actually do this? Like translate it into practical steps? One thing you mentioned was habit stacking.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:Sounds efficient.
Speaker 2:It's super practical. It basically taps into behaviors you already have. We all have dozens of automatic habits, right? Things we do without thinking.
Speaker 1:Like brushing your teeth, making coffee.
Speaker 2:Exactly. Habit stacking just sort of hijacks those existing pathways. Yeah. You link a new habit you want to build onto an existing one. You anchor the new thing to something you already do automatically.
Speaker 1:Okay. So give me an example.
Speaker 2:Like, say you wanna meditate for a minute each day, and you always have a cup of coffee in the morning.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:The habit stack would be, after I pour my morning coffee, I will meditate for one minute. You're not trying to find a new time slot, you're just latching it onto the coffee habit.
Speaker 1:Got it. So it sort of bypasses that decision making fatigue. Like, should I meditate now when it just happens after coffee.
Speaker 2:Precisely. You piggyback on the existing routine, it lowers the, the activation energy, that friction you feel when starting something new. It's subtle but really effective.
Speaker 1:Okay. I like that. And speaking of lowering friction, there's the two minute rule. This one sounds almost too easy, like ridiculously simple. What's the power there?
Speaker 2:Yeah. It does seem too simple, but it attacks the biggest hurdle, just getting started. That initial resistance. Uh-huh. Clear's advice is when you start a new habit, scale it down so it takes less than two minutes, make it so easy you basically can't say no.
Speaker 2:Like instead of read a chapter before bed, your goal is read one page. Instead of go for a thirty minute run, the goal is on my running shoes.
Speaker 1:Put on your running shoes. That's
Speaker 2:it. The point isn't to do the full workout immediately. The point is to master the art of showing up. To build the habit of starting.
Speaker 1:Mhmm.
Speaker 2:Because how often do we bail before we even begin just because step one feels too big?
Speaker 1:All the time.
Speaker 2:Right. So you make step one tiny. Put on the shoes, write one sentence, do two push ups. You overcome that first psychological barrier. Even if you just put on your shoes and sit on the couch, you technically started.
Speaker 1:Okay, that's actually brilliant. It's not about the immediate result, it's about building the routine of starting. Then you can build on it later.
Speaker 2:Exactly. Once you're there, once you've started, it's much easier to do a little more.
Speaker 1:Okay. And then there's this idea of the Goldilocks Zone, getting it just right. How does that work for habits and motivation?
Speaker 2:Yeah, the Goldilocks zone. This is all about keeping yourself engaged long term. Clear argues that for a habit to stick around, it needs to hit the sweet spot.
Speaker 1:Not too hard, not too easy.
Speaker 2:Precisely. If it's too easy, you get bored. There's no challenge, no satisfaction. If it's too hard, you get frustrated, feel defeated, and you're likely to quit.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:So the task needs to be just right. Challenging enough to keep you interested, to feel like you're making progress, but manageable enough that you can actually succeed most of the time.
Speaker 1:So you feel capable but also stretched a little bit.
Speaker 2:Exactly. It's that zone of optimal challenge. It keeps you engaged, prevents burnout, and makes you want to keep coming back. That's crucial for making it stick long
Speaker 1:That makes perfect sense. Yeah. Keeping things interesting but achievable. Yeah. Okay.
Speaker 1:So it definitely sounds like Atomic Habits has a lot going for it. Let's do our deep dive book club thing. Yeah. What are the big highlights people talk about? And are there any, you know, criticisms or limitations?
Speaker 2:Well, the praise is pretty overwhelming based on what we've seen. Mark Manson, you know, author of The Subtle Art, he called it a supremely practical and useful book, really hits on how applicable it is.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:Adam Grant, the organizational psychologist, he said Clear has spent years honing the art and studying the science of habits. He called the book engaging hands on and the guide you need to break bad routines and make good ones.
Speaker 1:Wow. Hands on is good. People want tools.
Speaker 2:Definitely. And the Financial Times review called it a step by step manual for changing routines. That speaks volumes about its clarity and structure.
Speaker 1:Yeah. And Ryan Holiday.
Speaker 2:Ryan Holiday said it's a special book that will change how you approach your day and live your life. Big words. So, yeah, people seem to really value its practicality, the science backing, the clear steps, and those real world stories that make it relatable.
Speaker 1:It sounds incredibly well received. Any downsides mentioned in the reviews we looked at? Any critiques?
Speaker 2:You know, it's interesting. In the specific source material we reviewed for this deep dive, the focus is entirely positive. It's all about the acclaim, the usefulness. There aren't actually any explicit criticisms or limitations mentioned in these particular excerpts, which suggests, at least among these reviewers, a really strong endorsement. Now, you could maybe speculate, perhaps the simplicity, which is its strength, could sometimes feel too simple for issues, or maybe that, you know, no system works if the person doesn't really want to change.
Speaker 1:Sure, that's always true.
Speaker 2:But yeah, based purely on the provided reviews, it's overwhelmingly positive. No formal critiques listed there.
Speaker 1:Okay, so highly recommended them. That's great context. Now, let's get practical for everyone listening. We love giving you something you can try, like, right now. Based on these ideas, what are a couple of practices listeners can implement immediately?
Speaker 2:Absolutely. First one, let's apply that two minute rule. Pick one habit, just one thing you've been wanting to start. Maybe it's meditating, maybe it's tidying up, maybe learning an instrument.
Speaker 1:Okay. I got one in mind.
Speaker 2:Now scale it way, way down. What's the absolute simplest version that takes less than two minutes? If it's meditating, maybe it's just sit quietly and take three deep breaths. If it's tiding, put one thing away. If it's guitar, take the guitar out of its case.
Speaker 1:Literally just take it out.
Speaker 2:Literally. Remember, the goal isn't the full task. It's just making starting ridiculously easy. Build the habit of showing up. That's practice one.
Speaker 1:Okay. I love that. Making starting the habit itself. What's number two?
Speaker 2:Number two. Let's try habit stacking. Think about your day. Identify one habit that's totally solid, totally automatic. Brushing your teeth, making that coffee, locking the door when you leave.
Speaker 1:Got it. Yeah.
Speaker 2:Okay. Now choose a tiny new habit you wanna build, really small, and decide to do it immediately after your existing solid habit.
Speaker 1:So like
Speaker 2:Like after I brush my teeth, I will drink a glass of water. Or after I pour my coffee, I will think of one thing I'm grateful for. Or after I lock the door, I will put my keys in the same spot every time. Anchor the new tiny action to something that already happens without fail. Just try linking them together.
Speaker 2:Feel how that existing habit can pull the new one along. It's all about using those existing brain pathways, you know, making the good stuff feel more automatic.
Speaker 1:Fantastic. Really actionable stuff. Okay. So usually at this point in our deep dive, we do a thematic pairing. Like Yeah.
Speaker 1:If you loved atomic habits, you should check out this other book.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:But looking at the source material we had, which listed atomic habits alongside things like, Ultimate Slow Cooker, a thriller called The Lie, and some other cookbooks.
Speaker 2:Uh-huh.
Speaker 1:Well, there wasn't really another book on that list with similar themes.
Speaker 2:Yeah. That's a fair point. The context we had was quite varied. It actually kind of highlights how Atomic Habit stands out in its specific niche, at least within that particular collection of bestsellers.
Speaker 1:Deep down the reservation.
Speaker 2:There wasn't an obvious companion book focused on habit formation or systematic personal development right there on that list. It really underscores its unique position in the self improvement world.
Speaker 1:Fair enough. Sounds like it really owns its space. Well, we start to wrap up, here's a little something to reflect on inspired by our chat today. A haiku. Small seeds softly sown, gardens flourish, strong and green, new paths clearly shown.
Speaker 2:Oh, that's lovely. Really captures it, doesn't it? That idea that big things grow from small beginnings. And it ties back so well to the whole message of the book. True change, real transformation.
Speaker 2:Yeah. It usually doesn't happen in giant leaps. It's more about that steady, often unseen accumulation of small positive choices day in day out. These atomic habits, they might seem insignificant in the moment, but over weeks, months, years, they genuinely shape your future. They impact your work, your connections with people, just your whole life experience.
Speaker 1:It makes you think.
Speaker 2:It does. And maybe it also makes you wonder about the flip side, right? What tiny seemingly harmless negative habits might we be doing consistently that are slowly shaping a future we don't actually want? It works both ways.
Speaker 1:That's a powerful thought to end on. So for everyone listening, what tiny atomic change will you begin today to start building the like you truly want? Yep.