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What is even too much in 2025? I was just aiming for all the glitz and glam if I'm being honest. Yeah, I absolutely agree. And everyone just went crazy when they were talking about that 300k resource. I mean, she looks like it. Have you seen her? If it looks that good online, is it really that good for something to even look good online? Believe me, it's even more beautiful in reality. Whenever you are looking at somebody who is putting out like very beautiful videos and photos and your if deep down your mind is telling you n fake n fake somehow maybe you are a w he's a cheat right we know he's a cheat next after you cheat if you if you're even a smart woman right you should think of what benefits you in your life don't trust that because when that get money That's when you really know when he knows that whatever she I don't worry I can handle anything. I'm in control. I mean when by the time he's feeling like that quickly quickly he will show you his true color is she's the it face body all the contours every single thing starts to finish. Look at the silhouette of all of her dresses. Where do you think she will get it? But do you really think that there's something like soulmates in this current time? people's marriages. There are so many cases where people are divorcing. Seems like the case with Jama and Davido. They are both absolutely amazing together. She doesn't hold on to his, you know, shortcomings or his and then he too, he knows that he needs to make it up to her a lot of times just to create a balance. [Music] Hey guys, you're welcome to just my POV and this is your favorite table where two generations sit, sip, and spill. And today things are about to get even better. better because drum roll you get to join us. Yes, you watching from your screen. So, here's how it works. You leave a comment and the best comment gets to argue with us face to face. But Kelvin, argue, please, I beg. It's a healthy conversation. Sure, queen. Healthy, spicy, and just maybe a little messy. Let's go. Oh yeah, let's go. So now before we get into like the main topic of today, how about we talk about what's been trending for the week? Like it was crazy out there. A lot of people saw it, maybe commented. I commented sh I can't even lie. Yeah, it was actually took some screenshots for their own WhatsApp group, but I'm not there. I Okay, so me I actually just think it was really glamorous. It looked expensive. It was it was just I was just aiming for all the glitz and glam if I'm being honest. Yeah, I absolutely agree. And everyone just went crazy when they were talking about that 300k research actually cuz it was really expensive and you know and I mean she looks like it. Have you seen her? Exactly. Let me not even speak about I don't want to talk about how much work but girl she looks really good. Beautiful. She looks so beautiful your size. I love her skin tone. I love the outfit, the hair, the look, the makeup, even her dance. Like, come on. Like, everything just gave. I love it. I love it. Give it to us. We're taking it 100 1,000% over and over again. So, now that brings me to the question that I'm just wondering like what is even too much in 2025? And I mean, if it looks that good online, is it really that good? Because the comments are crazy, right? So, I feel like for something to even look good online, believe me, it's even more beautiful in reality because there's as much as you can, you know, when you're showing something online is really just a perspective, right? But for them to capture every angle of that wedding and it looked as beautiful as it looked, it is real. The money that they spent on only that wristwatch is very real. the people sitting there very real. All the work she got done on that body because I must say honestly it is real. She looks like a dream come true. And I know that some people might want to look at probably the rough things that's happened between her and David and think that that's a reason why probably she's unhappy or something. But believe me, if you had as much money as she has, you'll be happy. M you'll be happy because you are the only one who is hungry because they will still cheat on you. That's the funniest part. Your own boyfriend will cheat on you. And the thing with relationships is people don't understand these days that if you're getting married for better, for worse, for richer, for poor. I mean, I don't want if it's for the poor, you can run. Forgive me. But you know, for better, for worse. The main thing there is that debt should be the only thing that do you guys apart. And then she's married to David. What do you guys expect her to do? Leave all the money that she's enjoying and allow you so that you you will now sit there is a liar. At least she's going to she's going to look beautiful. She's going to eat enough money. If she has any business ideas, she's going to take it out. They are friends before they even started to be ticking all of these relationship boxes. So, you know, I only think is it's real. Very real. The thing is the thing is I feel like people are very insecure. People's lives have finished them so much. They are so depressed with their own real life that they cannot see reality that is so glamorous and beautiful and say oh that this is real. They always like to tell themselves that oh he's fake. He's not real. Whereas if she's unhappy you're the only person who is going through your own problems. I mean you only know about your own issues. You can't really tell about someone else's. As much as, oh, there are different baby mammas and whatnot. You with your broke husband or boyfriend going to mess your meal, you with your broke boyfriend or husband, he'll still cheat on you. He'll still mess with you. He'll still try and bully you. But you will just be crying and be hungry inside, no lights, and inside hungry ble. But you see like Chobu. You can already see her skin. You can already see her skin. You can see her hair. You can see everything. Please let me finish this talk because I let you speak your own speaking. Don't be jumping into my conversations. Okay. Okay. So, you can see how glamorous, how happy, how beautiful she looks. You can see that her veneers, how the thing is sparkling from a distance. So, your will still be brown. It will still be green or whatever color it is. So you just know that whenever you're looking at somebody who is putting out like very beautiful videos and photos and you if deep down your mind is telling you n fake n fake somehow maybe you are a winch or you just depressed you need to just accept it because I also feel that while a lot of people always say that you know when something really looks so good online then it means that it's not really good in reality it's just a story that you're trying to tell lie look at for instance Vicky James who got married and wore like how many outfits and gave us the most even performed oh Jesus I don't know the song sh but you guys know what I say she even gave us oh she's a choir mistress did everything and everybody had their own opinion to say oh that the guy is sad the guy is depressing you tell you you say the guy this sad look at how long they've been together when they start to have their own kids now all of you just bojukuro you remove your face as if oh you didn't know that what it takes for you to even have kids and have a happy home you'd actually need love and it's actually happening and years are passing and months are passing. So don't carry that bitterness and go and put on top of Chiido. We're very very happy for them and it doesn't matter what has happened in the past. We're moving forward forward. Yeah. And I know that somebody there in their porous mind will be thinking that we're trying to justify a cheating man or whatever. The point here is he's a cheat, right? We know he's a cheat. Next, after you cheat, if you if you're even a smart woman, right, you should think of what benefits you in your life. Because I'll keep repeating the fact that the poorer he is, e, the more unfaithful he is. He's just as unfaithful. The only thing now is that you don't fast cuz there's nothing to gain. Think about it. Wait, wait, wait, wait. Sometimes, sometimes these men, these men that think that they are wise, I think that they have too much sense, they will know that they are broken and they know that they don't have much to offer you. So, they will sit down and they'll be doing, "Oh, my wife. Oh, especially when she's the one that has the money." So, that's why, like I've said in one of our episodes before, I said that you can never ever trust a broke man. Don't trust that. You can't trust him. He doesn't really love you that much. That's when you really know when he knows that whatever she I don't worry I can handle anything. I'm in control. I mean when by the time he's feeling like that quickly quickly he will show you his true color. So forget all those ones whether the guy is broke. Oh and then the guy is now still cheating. Yeah. Guys still do that because they'll take your money and go and meet that girl that's on their own level. The dynamics are just crazy because truly truly Yeah. I know that it's it's a fact that men love to cheat. It's not embedded in them. They can let go of it, but they just refuse to. But it's just better that you have somebody who is rich. Yeah. Like lots of At least that's the only thing that you use to clean your eyes. I'm so happy for her because I mean she has always been such a beautiful woman, but the woman she is, she's the it face, body, all the contours, every single thing starts to finish. Look at the silhouette of all of her dresses. Where do you think she will get it? With a loyal man. Hey, I don't know. I really don't know. We have to set our priorities right. I'm not saying let's not bash. Let's not bash all the men in the whole world because there are some who are loyal and rich still. I don't think so. I don't really know about I don't know because there's none of them. There's actually no man. No man is loyal. No man is loyal. I feel like human beings are just generally not loyal because at at some point in everybody's life, they're going to cheat. You know, a man will cheat, a woman will cheat. It just depends on what you consider cheating because, you know, sometimes it's not even like it doesn't always have to be a sexual thing. You know, they will cheat on you. The only thing there is that marriage goes beyond just like sexual loyalty. There's more to it than that. You want a partner who you can be able to share ideas with, who you can be able to grow with, who you can run back to when you're feeling down. You need more of a soulmate and a life partner as against somebody who you are just sleeping with. So, he cheated on you. If you know that you can deal with it, deal with it. Use protection, drink some drugs, you know, and take money. Hang on. But do you really think that there's something like soulmates when there's no hair cream? Temporary soulmate that's not that your hair cream that is yellow that yellow or the white one. Do you really think that in marriage in marriage people who get married believe me all they really just hate themselves if you notice and that's why in in this current time people's marriages there are so many cases where people are divorcing because they've lost the sole reason why people get married and that's the reason why they will keep divorcing tomorrow you guys should when you guys are married right I feel like for married people you should look towards amending whatever the problem is as against divorcing because you're so woke and then it's 2025. You know, if he does this to you, dump him. If she does that to you, dump her. That's not how it works. You guys should be able to look for a way to save the situation over breaking the situation. We see business partners, business partners, even if they fight, they still have to come together. They still have to have that meeting. So, for that reason, you settle your differences. And have you ever wondered why when you have a fight with someone and you settle your differences, you guys, your bond gets even tighter? The fact that you guys were able to come past that thing, it gets tighter. And now you people will keep divorcing yourself until you learn how to save such situations. So big congratulations to Chama and David do and many more years of enjoying herself looking curvier and richer. Did you see the glass dress? That was my favorite. like please. Everything was great. It really was my favorite. Even their even their pre-wedding photos. It was very very nice. Who's now the person that's going to say, "Oh, she does not look." Some people didn't like David's suit, though. She looks really happy. So, the thing is a lot of people complained about it. The brown. Everybody Everybody should just mind their business. Truly, whatever picture or idea they wanted, they got it with everything. With the photos, with the wedding, with the look, with the videos, with everything. just enjoy it and celebrate for them. So, I was going to ask you, does looking good online necessarily mean you're faking it? No. Hell no. So, the thing is, I find that a lot of people always like to say that when it looks good online, then it's like a fake thing. Oh, then it's like you're trying to sell us this idea, but that's a lie. It can also be like at the time when I'm even posting that photo, maybe I'm not even feeling at my best, but it's still me in that image. It's still my outfit. It's still my makeup. I'm still killing it. And maybe I even took that photo a long time ago. So if I now decide to post it today, there's it not be my picture. I can post it at any time. Also, also another thing is when something looks good, it can actually be better in reality. Why do people always like to downplay somebody's happiness or good looks or something so beautiful? Like naturally, some of us are just hot whether you like it or not. any day, any time. I might be feeling shitty inside, but I just look hot. And what are you going to do about it? Try and drag the shittiness from inside of me. It can't come out. You get me? I just don't like that people like to always downplay anything that is out there that people do. Yeah. Anything. It does not matter what level, what style, what type. As long as it looks good, people want to downplay it. And that's just BS because it can even be better than your own imagination actually where you you think to reach another person just they start from there you understand right I generally think that I generally think that when people post things online you should take it for what it is I don't know why you are so bothered about whether it is better in real life or is worse in real life. I feel like you trying to know whether it's better or not is is definitely from a bad place, right? And and is deeply rooted in your insecurities. Believe me, it has a lot to do with you because when you post things online, sometimes it's better, sometimes is bad. And I'm saying so from a personal point of view, right? There are sometimes that I post things online and it's an idea of what I want. But guess what? One thing it is, one thing that it would always be is a version of me is my picture. No be your papa. If you can be able to look like that, maybe you should do it with your own photos. Let's see if because I'm saying this because like girls, boys, cuz if it's a video is real, right? But if it's a video, it's also fake because you can be the narrowest girl on earth and you are the ciest online. There's this particular girl, right? And if I call her name, you cuss me now. But if I call her name is a way to shade her, which is not even what I'm trying to do. But I'm sure you know her name pretty girl like this. She's just not the ciest online. But in reality, she's the cubiest online, but in reality, it didn't. And you guys would now see such a girl and then you want to have a discussion about it is because you are insecure about it. You don't like the idea that there's a version of this person that can actually be like this, you know? So, I think that you should just take whatever you see online as what it is. That's the finished product. Work with it or hang. Exactly. Or just leave the person. Like some people can't help it. They will always just look why are they so bothered like there's nothing or somebody makes use of a Snapchat filter they are telling you that oh my god no he doesn't actually look as good is because of the filter use the filter you to use the filter let's see how good you will look and let's now put those two person Shrek weather is weather is the same anyway so annoying but then that now makes me start to think about it so is it a matter of like is it an African thing or is it like personality that people that people try to project on other people? Is a thing that affects the whole world Africa and abroad they are all you just need to be a hateful person to look at something and not appreciate what you see. You are looking for more than what you've seen. You're the problem. Now I understand why people may want to feel like that because because let's not lie, social media is crazy. There are lots of fake on social media. I can't even lie. So I get it. But the thing is you don't have to always pick the negative side of it. How about you think of the positive side and let that positive side inspire you? Because inspiration can come from anywhere and it can actually motivate you to want to do better, be better, look better. So, how about you just try to be positive? I think that this comes from a lot of negativity in a lot of people's minds just because life has maybe beat them down over the years and they've tried certain things that they failed at. So, they kind of always have this outlook of negativity or failure or you know something bad. So because they have that look in their mindset when they look at a photo or video of someone who tends to look so amazing, they want to be like uh it's not really so that they can also make themselves feel okay. But the photo is not about you and how you feel. It's about the photo and the person there. Clocked. Don't be a hater. Clocked. She has said it all for real. That's it. Game time. So here's what happened. We picked five random comments from different blogs about the wedding. Yes. So, we read them out and then we determine in one word if it's genuine clout or just hate. So, let's go. So, Ramsey B Stitches from Instagram said call um Chai Nada money on the floor. I will be eyeing and be picking small small. So, she's saying that money for the floor. She go I they pick small small but I like it kind of but I like it because honestly I'll pick it genuine. So it's genuine. I'd actually pick it too. Very genuine. That's a genuine comment. So I have this one but it's just so long. I'm like ah okay. So this one is like good day dosa. This is on his wedding day. I hope this message meets you well. I believe God uses people to change lives and if he touches your life today please help me and my family relocate abroad for a better future. We are hardworking and ready to make you proud. Your kindness would mean the world to us and change our story forever. Thank you, sir. And may God bless you abundantly. I think that one is just so dramatic. That is so dramatic. Yeah, it's very cloud chasing, but it's very dramatic. It's those type of things that make my only God know if they're from here, my blessing go. No, it's unacceptable. Not on the guy's wedding day. I bet people have no shame. People have no shame. It's clout definitely. But that's what a lot of these people, their artists, these artists, that's what their fans normally do on their wedding day. Well, please. Yeah. What's the next one? Someone said, "I wanted I wanted asking if that was POS machine in her hand before I noticed it was hand fan." So, basically, I wanted to ask I think that's cloud. I thought it was a POS machine on her hand before I figured out that it's a handband. Why would she be holding POS? At least if you're going to write rubbish, type correctly for real. I wanted asking. I saw that. I wanted asking. Okay, so I have this one. Marrying a loaded dude like David in this hard economy. Ah, period. I'm with that, too. Genuine girl. I'm with Actually, it makes mad brain. I love that one. Okay. So, do you have another? I love it. Okay. So, there's another one that was like, "Oh, I tap from your blessing." Why they tap from? You know, they tap into. I know they use English, but let me know. I'm not encyclopedia. I'm not like Google that's going to be correcting you guys. But anyways, yeah, I think pretty much most of the comments here aren't that bad. But, okay. Somebody now wrote, "Good. Can't find Android phone here. Congrat They can't. They are not there. Rich people. No, but I'm not trying to shade anybody who is like android. Do I'm not the one. It's Kelvin that said it. I'm not the one. Just saying. Not me. No, but like I'm not shading anybody. But why isn't she's just trying to say that everybody who's there is like rich rich. I feel like that person that wrote that comment, but you know, Samsung phones are Androids. That person that wrote that comment is a hater. In my own opinion, that is a hate comment because even if nobody is No, it's a hate comment because even if nobody is using an Android phone, why is it important for you to point it out? What relevance is it in this situation? And will people now go to all the videos and start to be looking, oh, who what phone? What phone? That's a hate comment. I see you, bro. I catch you. I think this just goes to show that, you know, for all the men out there, I think that you should just pick a piece of advice. Just humbly don't raise your shoulder because I know you like to raise it. So for all the men out there who like to use muzzle and use power and shout for you to get a submissive woman, here's the trick. Women are quite easy and you can also see it with Chama and David O. They've been through so much. They've been through so many issues and then all of those things even became public just because they are celebrities. If not, you won't even know about it. And never for once have you ever seen Chama come out to speak about it whatsoever. even when it was really really bad, even when it was terrible, she never came out to talk about anything or to address it. And that's because the homeboy has been at least taking care of her. When you take care of a woman and leave her in her softness, she would naturally submit to you. She would naturally even overlook all of your shortcomings and longcomings and your overdue and maybe even your cheating sometimes. But it doesn't go to say that you you are free to cheat as long as you're taking care of your No, no, no. That's not what I'm saying. What I'm just trying to say is in the process of getting a submissive woman, you also need to keep her in it by taking care of her. It's by, you know, making her enjoy, making her look beautiful, spending money on her, taking your time with her. So that way, she can be able to just, let me just overlook this one. Let me just leave that one. And that pretty much seems like the case with Jama and Davido. They are both absolutely amazing together. She doesn't hold on to his you know shortcomings or his and then he too he knows that he needs to make it up to her a lot of times just to create a balance. And this is also very similar to a whole lot of marriages or a whole lot of couples in the world. People always have issues but you don't have to come public to speak about it. A woman only come public when you're not doing what you are supposed to do at home. Just know that. M so let's take a piece of advice for my men out there that are very maturing and be doing it's not by muscle sir it's not by muscle sir you calm down yeah I think at this point it's by actually at this point I think on this show we've stressed it more than enough that you know masculinity and femininity you should just let this thing flow organically If you are a man, do what you know that is required of a man. Do the necessary things. Take charge. Be responsible for the things you're going to be responsible for. Take charge of your woman. You know, you know the way to get to her heart. Get to her in those ways. If you up, you should have a more, you know, in charge way of going about it. I don't know. You understand? The way you're saying this. Yeah. It's like just do your thing. Like he's not the one that No, no, no, no, no. You know, is so for a man who maybe has like all of these feminine attributes when it comes to the way he manages situation, you figure out that he would be more of like a small boyish when he's managing all these situations. And if you're a man who is in charge, uh, if you're in charge, your man, your woman would actually conform because you've already guided her in a path that is making sense. It's as simple as that. And that's it, guys, on today's episode of Just My POV. And remember that whether your life looks picture perfect online or not, happiness is not for the comment section to decide. Exactly. But still make sure you're looking fresh. I mean, no one's posting your bad angles for free. Remember guys to follow us. Also, drop your thoughts in the comment section and you just might be our next guest on the show. For now, guys, it's real, it's raw, it's just our POV. [Music]