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So I have used planners for 25 years.
I've used expensive planners.
I've used cheap planners.
I've used spiral notebooks.
I've used my own printables on a
clipboard I've used digital planners.
I've made myself spreadsheets
I've done the bullet journal thing
I've set up detailed layouts
in disc bound binders
After all this experimenting for
over two decades, I can tell you
the feature that matters most in any
planner is not the layout, or the
paper quality, or the binding type,
or the size, or whether the planner
page has the exact right little boxes.
The one thing that matters
most is actually looking at it.
I know that sounds ridiculously obvious
But how easy is it to put all of our time
and effort into setting up the spread
and then not look at it, and not use
it to inform our day-to-day decisions?
I know m- many, many times I
would sit down, think through
the week, write everything out
beautifully, close the planner.
Maybe I would look at it Monday
morning, but not Tuesday morning.
I would think about it on Thursday,
but I really didn't open it up again
till it was time to plan the next week.
I was really running entirely from
memory, and maybe making the plan
improved my memory a little bit.
But what really improved my planning
system, my efficiency, my effectiveness in
my life, is when I built three intentional
habits for looking at my planner.
When I have these three habits running,
it doesn't matter what planner I use.
I can go to whichever one feels the
most doable in my current season.
I know that it will work Because I know
that I will look at that plan that I made.
So often my failed plans didn't
really fail, I just didn't look
at those plans in the first place
The three little short, quick
check-ins that I'm gonna tell you
about today have mattered more than
any planner that I actually ever used
So the reality is that your planner
is not the system in and of itself.
When we think of the planner as the
thing that matters most, then we spend a
bunch of time researching or creating the
perfect spread, doing the things that need
to be done Figuring out the right boxes
that are on our page where if we fill them
all out, then we get an A+ on our plan.
No.
Really, planning has two distinct parts.
We make the plan, and
then we look at the plan.
And most of the planner videos out there,
and most of our time spent figuring out a
plan focuses entirely on that first part
without investing in the second part.
But it's the second part that
will make your planner work
Now, if practical planning that
works in ordinary family life without
turning homemaking into a perfectionist
project is what you need, then
subscribe to this show, the Christian
Homemaking Podcast, Simply Convivial.
I'm Misty Winkler, wife, homeschooling
mom, grandma, and author of the book How
to Use a Planner Without Wasting Time.
Every week, I have bite-sized practical
encouragement for busy moms who
want to love their lives at home and
invest intentionally in their families
If that's you, give this video a
like, then grab a basket of laundry
to fold, and let's talk planners
So the three intentional times
where I look at my planner
that really make my plan work
It's the third one that's going to
be most surprising, but first, we
have to start with the weekly review.
We have to look at that plan once a week.
And so the weekly review is the
time that we spend setting up our
planner for the week to come, but
we don't wanna start that plan
from scratch, from the blank page.
Our weekly review should
have some review in it.
We actually need to go back and
look at the plan we made for the
week that's just ended before we
make the plan for the next week.
So often our planning is based on
wishful thinking for the future,
but we need to get tethered to the
reality of how our weeks actually
go and what's still on our plate.
Maybe the things that didn't get done
this last week need to move over to
the future week, and that will fill
most of the slots, and that is real
life, and that's a real workable
plan that's in touch with reality.
Sometimes we look at our plan for this
last week and the things that did not
get done, and we say, "You know what?
It didn't get done 'cause those things
are not important, and I'm not gonna
move them forward to the next week."
But we're making that decision
intentionally with reflection and wisdom
rather than just ignoring what has
happened and pretending the future's going
to be so much different, so much better.
A weekly review should really
take about 30 minutes tops.
Even 15 minutes is enough to do the trick.
You wanna look at the calendar
for the last week and just think
about how it went, and then look
at the calendar for the upcoming
week and see what's on your docket.
What, where is your time spoken
for this coming week, and what
themes or responsibilities do you
already see taking up your time?
Where do you need a quick meal?
Where do you need a Crock-Pot meal?
Where do you have some more time to
have a bit more fun in the kitchen?
You can meal plan accordingly after
you have a sense of your week The point
of the weekly review and of making any
plan at all, what we write down for
ourselves for the week, isn't filling
out every blank on our template.
The point is being prepared for
our own real life this coming week.
And so starting with looking back
and looking at the calendar is
where making a plan becomes helpful
Now, of course, making that weekly plan
is key to having a plan, but it's only
going to be a useful plan if I bring
it back into view and look at it on
a day-to-day basis and not just that
weekly basis So the second important
time to look at your plan, not just
your calendar, but your planner, your
notes to self about what needs to be
happening this week, is in the morning.
In the morning, you wanna
ask, "What matters today?"
You want to remind yourself
of what's on your to-do list.
What food are you making today?
Where does your time need to go today?
So in the morning, you wanna do a
quick calen- So in the morning, you
wanna do a quick planner checkup.
You're gonna look at your calendar.
You wanna look at your weekly plan that
you made, and then you wanna write a
daily card based on those realities.
And your daily card goes on your planner.
Some planners have a spot
for a daily top three.
I like to use a Post-It Note
and put it on the front cover
so that it's way more visible.
I don't have to open it up to
see my daily card on my planner
The calendar and the planner give us
the context for what's going on and
what our reasonable options are, and
then the daily card gives us focus
Now, if narrowing down the whole plan into
a daily top three sounds impossible, if
that's something you struggle with, then
that's exactly what I teach in my free
Overwhelmed to Organized workshop.
I'll link that in the
episode description below
But for sure, the morning me is not
always a reliable predictor of what, of
how the day is actually going to unfold.
And so the third And so
it's really this third time.
And so it's really this third
key time for looking at the plan
that makes all the difference
The plan that we have written
down, the notes that we have made
to self are the most useful after
something has gone wrong in our day.
We should just acknowledge that
things will go wrong in our day.
Having made a plan does not mean that
we have accurately predicted the future.
And if we have not accurately predicted
the future, that doesn't mean that
our plan is broken or messed up.
The plan is there to help us adapt
and be prepared for real life
The planner is not a tool
of control for the day.
The planner reminds us of important things
on our plate so that we don't let those
important things, so we don't let those
imp- uh, so we don't let those important
balls drop when the day gets eventful.
So really, the most valuable
time to look at that plan page is
probably when you don't want to.
It's right after the interruption, right
after you've spent too much time on your
phone, and now you have to face reality.
It's when
The children have made a huge mess
you didn't expect, and now your time,
and now that schedule you had in
your head is just off for the day.
Maybe something comes up and
you have to run errands, but
that wasn't part of your plan.
These are the moments where we
feel like we would be defeated
if we looked at our plan and then
tried to match it up with reality.
But this is a key practice
of effective women.
We're not afraid to mesh the plan with
reality and adapt the plan as we go.
We're not judged by how
accurately we predicted the future
We are effective if we can keep our
balls juggling and let the n- less
important ones drop when need be when
important ones come into the picture.
And we're better able to make those
judgment calls when we refer to our
written sen- our written tasks and
priorities and things to remember
When we look at our plan right after
things have gone off the rails, then
we actually release a lot of the
mental and emotional load of feeling
like something's broken in our day.
Instead of refiltering everything and
trying to remember, we just glance
at our plan and say, "All right.
Based on where we're at now, which of
these things here matters most right now?"
Maybe you even cross some things off.
I check things off when I get things done,
but I cross things out with a little curly
cue at the end when I say, "You know what?
This is not happening, and that's okay."
Just remind, like I am
in charge of my plan.
I can do that.
You can do that.
Pick the best next thing, but
let the planner hold your options
so that you don't have to mentally
rehearse those options on the fly
Anytime you realize that you've lost
the plot for the day or even the week,
glance at your planner and let it
bring you back to center That's its job
now the reality is that your
planner choice matters far less than
establishing these basic habits of
looking at whatever plan you've made.
You- the plan that you make will
improve over time as you actually look
at it and use it, so that you don't
spin your wheels on the front end
over-planning and over-engineering, but
you end up making notes to self that
you actually do need in the moment.
No planner layout automatically creates
effectiveness or attention or focus.
And constantly changing the planner
that we use, I have been guilty of
this, interrupts that whole practice.
One rule that I made for myself about
10 years into homemaking was that I
was not allowed to change my planner
until I had used one For six weeks.
Six weeks minimum before I made changes
I had spent years trying to figure
out a planner that would ⦠where
the planner would keep me organized,
but what I actually needed was just
the habit of looking at what I wrote
down to help me stay on track and make
more, and make better judgments about
what to do next So look at your planner
weekly or and assess where you're at.
Look at it every morning and choose your
top three for your daily card, and look at
it during the day when you feel off track
Don't buy another planner because
your current one isn't working until
you've established these habits
of actually looking at whatever
planner it is you have right now.
Use what you already have, use what
you wrote down, but actually use
it by looking at it Keep that plan
in conversation with your real life
now, don't forget to check out my
free workshop on using a daily card,
which will help you keep that focus
going day over day You can find that
at simplyconvivial.com/organized,
or the link is in the description
with all our plans, we want
to repent, rejoice, repeat