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WAHBL Podcast (When All Hell Breaks Loose) is your go-to source for real, raw, and uplifting conversations about overcoming life’s toughest challenges. Hosted by Chris King and Monique LaRue, this podcast dives deep into the personal stories of resilience, faith, and growth, providing practical advice on how to thrive when everything feels like it’s falling apart. Whether you’re navigating loss, career setbacks, or personal struggles, each episode offers inspiration, actionable steps, and a reminder that even in the darkest moments, there’s hope on the horizon. Tune in for empowering discussions, audience engagement, and thought-provoking interviews that will help you take life’s toughest blows and turn them into victories. For more information, please visit our website at https://wahblpodcast.com and follow us across social media @wahblpodcast
What's up? What's up? What's up? Welcome to the winner on Hell Breaks Loose podcast. I'm your boy, Chris King.
Chris King:We about to have a good time tonight. Yeah. We have a great show for you tonight. I'm here
Chris King:with my lovely sister. Oh my god. I'm excited about this one. All the way from h town, baby. Yeah.
Chris King:From Houston, Texas. That's my whole town. I should have my Astros hat, but I ain't got it today because we lost going to playoffs, but that's okay. Baby, I'm excited to see my sister, miss Adrienne Rowe. Yes.
Chris King:Pastor, businesswoman, coach, prophetess, everything, butcher, baker, candlestick maker. Tell me what's going on. Hey. I'm so happy you are here. She know I'm a act a fool, and y'all gonna see a whole another side because this is my dog.
Chris King:Adrian, tell the people a little bit about yourself.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Oh, wow. Hey, y'all. Yeah. Chris, we go back. We go way back.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:That's my dude.
Chris King:Way back.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I don't think I could love you more if you were my brother from the same mother. I'm from Houston, like you said. Came in today, and I've enjoyed myself here in Atlanta. Yeah. Y'all
Chris King:be waiting, ATS. Yeah. You have some love. There we go. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:You've been real good to me. Real good to me. So I'm excited to jump in and have this discussion and see what comes up today.
Chris King:Now this is what I told her. I said, I ain't talking to you before the show. I said, I ain't talking to you. So she don't know what's going on. We just it's what you're gonna see is just real authentic.
Chris King:Now real talk. This is not my blood sister. Matter of fact, I think we're cousins.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Yeah.
Chris King:Right? Because our family was slaves on the same same plantation. Right? No. Real talk.
Chris King:From the McLaurin Plantation in Mississippi. So, so it's like we go really, really way back, but we have so much. But I right now, you have on a shirt that's called that that says purpose coach. Yeah. Now you are a real coach.
Chris King:You know, some folks just be out here faking a funk and just be talking about, okay. I'm a coach somebody today, and they ain't got their life together. They don't know nothing. They ain't studied. They ain't done nothing.
Chris King:Yeah. But you are a real coach. You coach real people, professionals, athletes, everything. Businesswoman, tell us about the purpose coach, how you got there, and what it's all about.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Wow. So you're right. I'm a real coach.
Chris King:Yeah. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And and I say that because there's so many people right now that throw the title coach around. However, to a real coach, it's like surgery. So we don't ever when you're coaching a person, you open them up.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And you never wanna open a person up and just leave them hanging. Because now you're what? You're slaughtering. So I'm not
Chris King:a butcher. Yeah. Yeah. I'm a coach. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:A coach may open you up, but once we locate the cancer, then we lightly take it out, close you back up and send you back on that pathway. Whatever that may be. So for me, years ago, I've been going to church all my life. I've been in church since I was with my mom. And I was on a plane coming back from a dance engagement.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And I was in that place in my life where I was like, what do I do with myself? You know, I'm grown. I have my degree. I'm working. Everything looks right, but there's got to be more to life than this.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:There's got to be. Long and short, ran into this guy in a book. A stewardess sat by me. She had a book in her lap. And I looked at her lap, plane was jam packed y'all.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I was in the back by the restroom.
Chris King:Rosa Parks section.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And she that part. And, she got up to help serve on the plane. Said you wanna read this book? Read the whole book. Fast forward, I wound up being coached by Bob Proctor.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And I don't mean being coached by Bob Proctor like watching his YouTube videos, even though they're great. He was my coach coach. Changed my life. And one of the things I learned was, even though I've been going to church, even though I had a pastor because the thing that everyone kept saying to me was, well, you don't need a coach, you got a pastor. I did need a coach.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And from there, when the coaching changed my life the way it did, it was tremendous. I said, okay. You know what? This is what I wanna do. So I went back after being coached for 13 months.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I turned around and got my license the right way to coach, and I've been doing it ever since.
Chris King:Man.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:That's what we do.
Chris King:Man, that's what I'm talking. So you got offended when I was when you when you started talking about real coaches and and and folks that just talk about coaching. Right? I mean, I saw it on your face. You got the stank face.
Chris King:You was just like, okay. But, you know, why purpose? What's what I mean, because I we have a mastermind group that this is birth out of the mastermind group. So this is not just something that we're talking about. We live.
Chris King:And you're here in Atlanta because of a big event that took place that was birthed out of our mastermind group. Correct. So we're holding people account each other accountable. We're coaching one another, and we're standing by supporting one another. So why purpose though?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Because I feel like so many people you do all the right things, Chris. You do all the right things. You you you try to live right. You you go to school, you get the right degree, you get the right job, you marry the right person, you have the right kids and you're still unfulfilled.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:But the thing is, we were created and designed by God with a purpose in mind. So if you never touch that, if you're not pursuing that, if you're not doing that, then there's a piece of you that will remain incomplete. It will be incomplete and there's nothing that can fix it. You hear people say, oh, well, he or she married the perfect person, but that's not gonna make you happy. No.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Because a person doesn't fulfill purpose in your life.
Chris King:Exactly.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Yeah. You had to know that whatever it is that God created you to be, watch this. That's what you are gonna be judged on. That's what you're held accountable for. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:You're you're I think people mix up your gifts and talents and your purpose.
Chris King:Yeah. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Those are 3 total
Chris King:different things. Yeah. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:But because we've watered down the importance of purpose in the society that we live in and because we've watered down how to get there because most people don't know how to get there. We just gonna brush it under the rug and just go ahead and get your degree and do what you're supposed
Chris King:to do. No. So so you you say that though, like, what is the difference? What is what what is purpose? Because I hear so many people forties, fifties, thirties, everybody searching for purpose.
Chris King:It becomes a buzzword.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Yes.
Chris King:Right? And that's the best that it can become. I'm I'm on purpose. I'm on purpose. You ain't doing nothing.
Chris King:Right? You're still unfulfilled. Right? So what is purpose? And then when we put it in the context, I mean, you when you're talking about purpose, you have to put it in the context of God and him him creating you.
Chris King:Right? We cannot sit here and acknowledge that God is creator without going to the creator to find out the purpose of for creation. Right? So it's like, what is what is purpose, you know, when we talk about purpose and god created me for purpose and why did he create me? What is that in comparison to gifts, talents, and and the like?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Let's talk about it.
Chris King:Come on.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:So when you look at your gifts and your talents, we all have heard the scripture. Your gifts and talents will make room
Chris King:for you Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And bring you amongst great men. Think about it. How many people in this speakers go in this room alone because we're looking each other in the face. You know, you have a gift or a talent. Raise your hand.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I'm raising my hand. Put your hand down and be honest. You only have to raise your hand because I don't want you to lie. Your gift of talent has brought you before somebody great. Very few people can say that.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And the reason why is because it was not attached to purpose. See, purpose is the anointing. Purpose is the glue. Purpose is the the key component that carries the gift and the talent to where it's supposed to be. You have people that are extremely talented.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:People that are extremely talented. So if you're a really good cook and you cook really well, but your purpose, however, is to produce fruit.
Chris King:Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Before you start down this path, because I want everybody to hear this.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:You know
Chris King:right now. Come up. I want you to eat the microphone and tell them so everybody can come up close and just say what because I want everybody to hear what you are about to say because you about because we just sitting here rapping, and this is why I told you I ain't wanna talk to you yesterday. Right? So yeah.
Chris King:Come on. Yeah. Come on. Come on. You know?
Chris King:Yeah. I ain't talked to you because this is what I want. Yeah. Yeah. Hey.
Chris King:I ain't playing. Let's do it. You know how we do.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Just because you're good at a thing does not make your purpose. What you're good at is your talent. You do it naturally. It's just what you do. Purpose is the peace that causes it to go.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Okay? And I'm a use this example because I use it today. I was a drum major in high school. I was a drum major in college.
Chris King:I was
Coach Adrienne Rowe:the first Tell them. Female drum major History, baby.
Chris King:History. Tell them again. Tell them. Tell them. This is history.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:However
Chris King:Tell them again. I was I interrupted.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:1st female drum major in the swag
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Which is a major accomplishment. Yes. But I wasn't called to be a drum major. That's a talent. What I am is a leader.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Leadership is a part of the core of who I am. It's it's what I do. I I train leaders, I produce leaders, I coach leaders, it's what I do. That's what I am. If you ask me any given day, who are you?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I am a purpose coach. I coach your purpose, not your potential. Everybody has potential. Everybody got potential to do something. That's not what I coach.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I don't care about your potential because I know it's in there. What I coach is your purpose. What did God put you here to do that would change a legacy
Chris King:Thank you.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And lead it.
Chris King:Thank you.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:There's a whole generation of people Thank you. That are clueless about why God put them here. Well, I make really good cakes.
Chris King:Well, my purpose is to play football.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:No. It's not. That's a talent. Mhmm. That is a part of what is used in the vehicle.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Purpose is the car you get in that takes you there. Right? The steering wheel is a talent. The tires on the car is a talent. The seats in the car is a talent.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:The the the the gas you put in it. These are all talents that help get the car there. Because once you know where the car is, the destination is, you can get there. That's what we miss is how to get it there.
Chris King:You know, a lot of people are not even they talk about purpose, that they're searching for purpose, but what they're really searching for is a platform.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:A platform.
Chris King:Right? It's like especially now. It's like everybody wants to be seen. Everybody wants a platform, wanna be heard. Yeah.
Chris King:Right? It's like, give me look at my followers, my likes, and all this. They really want a platform. But even when they get the platform, they're still not fulfilled.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Because it's not serving.
Chris King:Thank you.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:See, purpose is attached to servanthood. See, whatever your purpose is, when you do that, it becomes a blessing to somebody else because God designed it that way. And I'm gonna give you a perfect example.
Chris King:Let's just go right back. Let's talk about Jesus, if
Coach Adrienne Rowe:you don't mind. Jesus knew his purpose was to come here
Chris King:and die. Flat flat out. Point blank period. Yep.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Even when he was in the garden, praying about it, trying to switch it up, God did not respond.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Crickets. Yep. He's steady praying, is there any way this cup of compassion he got? And God did not respond. He didn't respond to his self.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Think about that. Right? He didn't respond to his self because we've already talked about this. This is a part of your purpose.
Chris King:Yep.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:So when he okay. Let's go. From that point on, because he understood he had to complete the destination, but no problems. Like one person that people tend to not recognize when we talk about that Calvary journey is Mary. Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Think about what it had to be like to watch your first born son terrorized, bullied, mistreated, abused, and he keeps telling you, mama, is that right? Because he understood purpose.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:He understood he had to get there. He understood that until he got there, got on the cross, and was done with the task, that what the people would not be blessed. Mhmm. Purpose has nothing to do with you. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It has nothing to do with you. It has to do with who can be blessed by what God put in you to produce that which is needed in the earth realm at this time.
Chris King:And it's funny you say that because one of the things I tell people is that one of the big inhibitors of your purpose or you fulfilling purpose is personal preference. That oh. You know, it's like what's keeping you from fulfilling purpose is what you wanna do. Right? It's like, god, I don't wanna do that.
Chris King:Right? Because, you know, so many people wanna be happy. I wanna be happy. Oh, you know, happiness over everything. Well, if you're trying to be happy 247, you cannot walk in purpose.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Absolutely not.
Chris King:Right? Because at some point, purpose is going to collide. You will come to the cross work crossroads to say, well, do I do what god is calling me to do, or do I do what I want to do?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Right. Right.
Chris King:Scripture is full of examples.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Full.
Chris King:Right? So it 1, it has to do with, you know, doing the will of God to where God is glorified.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Right.
Chris King:And then it also has to do with benefiting others. Right? So it has nothing to do with you, but so many people, they they that's why it's become a buzzword, and it irritates me because when you go through purpose, you get hit. You do? This is why this podcast is here.
Chris King:When all hell breaks loose. I'm fulfilling purpose and all hell Absolutely. Was on on hell on top of hell
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Oh my gosh.
Chris King:Was breaking loose and still breaking loose.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Still breaking.
Chris King:Right? But you know what? Still gotta go.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Gotta go.
Chris King:Because it's the assignment.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Bad part.
Chris King:See? See, we don't talk about this. Oh my god.
Chris King:Talk about it.
Chris King:Come on.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:We've been hoodwinked. So before I was coached, I thought that purpose was a position.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:So if purpose are the cards on this table, once I identify that, I'm done. Mhmm. I know what purpose is. Now that's a lie. Purpose unfolds in dispensations just like the world does.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Yep. Your purpose unfold it it it unfolds in seasons, in the periods of time in your life where God has need of that thing. You see what I'm saying? So you may have this part of your purpose unfold here and the best way that I can explain it. Think about a Rubik's cube.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:When you're playing with a Rubik's cube, all of a sudden you get the red side together. That's the season that you focus on for this period of time in your life. And you know, because guess what? That particular gift or talent is no longer being pulled on. So it means that season is up.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:So people can't tell me jack of all trades, master none. That's a lie. I do a whole lot
Chris King:of stuff. Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It's which one of my trades you gonna use at that time.
Chris King:Right. Right.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Which one of my talents do you need at that time? So now, we threw with the red side, Chris. Right? So we take that Rubik's cube, begin to play with it again. All of a sudden, the blue side comes together.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:That's the next season of purpose in your life. They don't look the same. 1 was red, 1 was blue, but it's still your purpose because it's your Rubik's cube. That Rubik's cube has your name on it. So now that talent is no longer needed, that gift is no longer needed.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:So we start playing that Rubik's cube again. Now the white side comes up. That's the one that we see, that's how purpose unfolds. It don't fall.
Chris King:To make me either shout or curse. I don't even know which one to do. It's right. I mean, we talking about god, and I just be
Chris King:like, hell yeah. You know, I don't
Chris King:I don't know what you wanna do.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:But you when you understand purpose like that, it frees you up.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Yeah. So many people don't get a life coach. They don't try to even figure it out because it's like, this is just it's too much. It's too much. I don't wanna do this.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It's too much.
Chris King:So what's the difference between purpose and call? Your purpose and your call.
Chris King:Very
Chris King:good. I'm I'm saying that knowing that there's a difference. Right? And and knowing that you know that there's a difference. And, you know, I'm just asking you because a lot of people don't know the difference, right, and don't even know that there is a difference.
Chris King:So help us understand what is the difference between my purpose and my call?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Well, that's good. You know, I'm a go back to the bible.
Chris King:Come on.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I gotta do something we all know. So let's talk about Jesus. Mhmm. He was put on earth. His purpose was to be the sacrifice for mankind.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Mhmm. That's it. That was his whole purpose. His call was to be a fisher of men. He was called to begin to disciple and evangelize and bring people to Christ.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:That was his active calling. That was the thing he was actively doing that people could see. But when you look inside of that call, if you split him open and look they literally did. And look inside of him, this was all for one purpose.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:To be the substitute for mankind. Both are profound. 1 is the act. 1 is the culmination. Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:You see what I'm saying? Yeah. The call is the act of doing purpose. Mhmm. It's the act of what you do in fulfilling purpose.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It's the way we handle fulfilling purpose. Purpose itself is the culmination of all those gifts and talents and then the blessing that it leaves in the earth realm.
Chris King:Yeah. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:See what
Chris King:I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. So that's why
Coach Adrienne Rowe:you it's why you can't look at people and say, oh, well, he's a great director, so he's a field purpose. Shoot. No. He might direct this then turn around and do 4, 5 major films and turn around. And you look around and he's not not only directing the films or not what?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:He's doing major shows. He's okay, well, now he don't wanna do this no more. So he done trained about 12 other people to do it. And then guess what? It's a whole company when he is dead and gone and his great great great grandchildren have picked that sucker up and still going with it.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Yep. Yep. Because it's it's a part of purpose.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And watch this. How about this? We hear people say all the time, and I and I don't know why we give so much credit to
Chris King:the devil. You're right. I don't know. Come on.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I don't I don't know. Come on. But people say all the time, oh, that family is cursed. Let me tell you something. Every family has a family inheritance.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:There is an inheritance that you inherit in your family line that is a part of the purpose that has been dropped on your family. Mhmm. Your last name means something.
Chris King:I know. Y'all better recognize, put some respect on my name. Yeah. I'm talking about my whole name means something. Christopher Christberry.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Christberry.
Chris King:And my middle name means the man. You see?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And it's the truth.
Chris King:That's what I'm telling everybody.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It's the truth though. When we really understand the power of words and the power Yes. Of purpose and the power of what we're equipped to be and how we've been created to just radicalize change in the earth realm with just our gifts and talents. And I say just because whatever your gift and talent is is easy to you.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It's not hard. It's not hard. For me, I love German chocolate cake. I bake them from scratch, but I don't do it often because that take a long time. Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:That's a 3 hour cake. Yep. Yep. And it's gone
Chris King:like that. For real. It's good. It's good.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:But a person that is truly a baker is nothing to them. Mhmm. People that truly I let me tell you something. If you've ever been around someone who's a baker by trade, but their purpose is compassion. They food just taste different.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Mhmm. It's not angry food.
Chris King:Yeah. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It just taste right.
Chris King:Yeah. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It's something about it. Yeah. That's why y'all always thought your grandmama cooking.
Chris King:Yeah. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Even if she burn it.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It just still taste right. Yeah. Because her gift towards you is compassion. That's how purpose is. Whatever it is, when it serves its purpose to mankind, that's what they get from it.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It does something to your inside. Mhmm. That's why your purpose can't be about who sees you or who knows your name or how much money you make because it has nothing to do with the outside. It does something on the inside of a person that changes them forever, and the outside is just the oozing of that
Chris King:that comes
Coach Adrienne Rowe:out of them.
Chris King:You know? Absolutely. Man. Oh my goodness, man. This is the type of conversations we have.
Chris King:And our mastermind group is supposed to be, like, an hour long call, and it's always, like, way long way into the night. Right? But I I want people to understand, like, how do they find their purpose?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Good.
Chris King:Right? So what do I do if I don't know what my purpose is?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I'm a give you the quick the quick version. There's a series of questions that you can ask yourself. But the one question that I always ask people right off the bat, what is it? If there was no amount of money that if it didn't matter, your money was limitless. Your time was limitless.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And you could just do what you really love. What is that?
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And a lot of people won't say what that is because they feel like it's not big enough. Let me tell you something. Whoever created toilet tissue didn't think it was gonna be around this long.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Chris King:I thank them.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:They were good with newspaper.
Chris King:Yeah. I thank them.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Leaves. Whatever they were using.
Chris King:And whoever made it better with 2 ply
Coach Adrienne Rowe:But think about it. You talking about frustrated. You getting that bathroom with no tissue paper now. Mhmm.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It's like the whole house just blew up.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:You feeling some kind of way, I know they knew it wasn't no tissue on this road when they Mhmm. But it's tissue paper Mhmm. But it has a purpose and it matters. Mhmm. That's just how simple and when I say simple, not to be little purpose, but it's so common to you that you take it for granted until it's
Chris King:gone. Yeah. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Like, what we're do well, you know me. What we're doing right now, I do this everywhere.
Chris King:Yes.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:We can be in the restaurant and gotta talk to me about a person and I'm like, hold on a minute, Chris. I'll be right back. And I'll go right over to your table and say, I just get can I tell you what God told me to tell you? And they're looking at me like, what? But by the time it's over Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I've answered. God has allowed me to give them the answer that they have been waiting for, praying for, hoping for. But it was simply out of my obedience to hear and to do because that's what I'm putting the earth realm
Chris King:to do. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:So I wound up at that restaurant at that time to be used to be a blessing to somebody else to unlock what's on the inside of them to be great.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Because Because that's what I do. Your purpose is the same way. Mhmm. So ask yourself, like, really sit with yourself, and that's something that we don't do now, Chris. We don't really take the time anymore to sit with ourself.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Most of us scared ourself.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Because you don't wanna hear your own thoughts. You don't wanna deal with your own core values. You don't wanna deal with your own paradigm. You don't wanna deal with the ugly that's inside of you, but let me tell you something about that oozing egg. Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:It could still boil.
Chris King:Yeah. Yep. Yep. You gonna be alright.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Mhmm. But you gotta stick with that thing and you gotta ask yourself, who am I? What do I really like? And then once you identify that, those are your tools. And then from there, you look at what do I do without thinking?
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Me, I do this without thinking about it. That's your purpose. Yep. Because you put those in your toolbox. And when you carry your toolbox, that's what you begin to use.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And you do with coaching, helps you to fine tune it.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And to chop it up into what side of the Rubik's cube we're using. You see what I'm saying? Because watch this. Some people out of fear will overstay the season.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:When it's over, it's over. If it ain't summer, it ain't summer, baby. It's winter.
Chris King:Everybody's like,
Coach Adrienne Rowe:You know?
Chris King:Like, I'm there right now.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Yes. Yes.
Chris King:Because you know
Chris King:I need
Chris King:to be young. Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Comfortable and you don't wanna move. It's like, uh-uh. I gotta start all over, figure this out again. I'm good. I'm just there right here.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And everything in that season starts to die. Yeah. And that now you're mad at God. You didn't switch seasons. Oh.
Chris King:You you know what? I'm so thankful for you. We gotta have you back again because this is ridiculous. Y'all don't know, Mitch. Like I said, she's true to it, not new to it.
Chris King:Right? This is how we talk all the time. Right? It's just like we first start off acting a fool, and it's like, alright. Let's let's chop it up.
Chris King:And this is this is this is the type of accountability that people need. And so I want you to quickly just address, you know, 1, the importance of coaching and just accountability, the type of people that you need just real quick because we're gonna break, and we're gonna close this out. But I want people to ask a couple of questions. Okay. You here in the audience.
Chris King:Yeah. And that's the point of being here live. So if you local come to the win all hell breaks loose podcast, live tape it. Alright. Now alright.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Let me address coaching. I mean, address purpose. Oh, Chris. I can't look because, you know, I'll start talking. Give me a direct quote or a direct So angle you want me to take.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Let's do it like that.
Chris King:I want you to take the angle of the people that you put around you and the importance of the accountability and purpose.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Let me tell you something. That's the oh, man. You hear people say that the 5 closest people to you are who you become. That's the truth. And the reason why is because it's energy.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Okay. Let me We can't see it with our natural eye, but everything that's sitting around us is simply quickly reacting molecules that have formed a solid. Mhmm. If the molecules of this microphone slow down, it's gonna crumble. Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:So the stuff we saw in the matrix was stuff would just dissolve. That's that's how that works. Right? The people around you in your circle give off an energy. If that energy is below your energy level.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:In other words, they're sad, they're depressed, They're angry. They're full of unforgiveness. They're combative. Everything out of their mouth is negative. Doubt, disbelief, unbelief, those things become a part of the energy pool that you pull from.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:If their energy pool is here and your energy pool is here, you have nothing to pull you up. It's pulling you down. And so if they ain't going nowhere, you ain't going nowhere. Now watch this. This is why I'm very careful about 2 things.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:I don't eat with everybody. Mhmm. I don't care if you did buy it. If we sit down to the table and your energy is off, I will not eat with you because I cannot come into agreement with that.
Chris King:Yeah. And
Coach Adrienne Rowe:you've seen me do it. Yeah. Yeah. I would sit there the whole time and drink my good iced tea like it's a whole chicken soup dinner. Because once I break bread with you, I'm coming into agreement with you.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Now that's not to say if I have a friend that's going through something, we can't break bread. That's different because now there is an exchange of energy. So if you going through it and my energy is okay that day, you have a right as my friend for me to loan my energy to you, but I gotta make sure that I keep myself in the right space to be able to give you what you need to be okay.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:We can't both have no pity party.
Chris King:Right. Right. Right.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:And that's gonna be a problem.
Chris King:Right. Right.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:But now watch this. Some of some people I ain't gonna say some of us because I don't play that game. Some people are in a circle to where they're always the one giving. Yeah. So when they need to pull on someone for that energy back, that person is depleted or don't have nothing to give because they never do.
Chris King:Mhmm.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:That's not the right energy circle. And we are so concerned about what people think and how they feel about us. You will mess around and spend your whole life trying to make everybody else happy, and then you look at wonder why you in a a hot mess.
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:Well, because you've been around hot mess
Chris King:Yeah.
Coach Adrienne Rowe:For the last 15, 20 years. Talking about that's my best friend. No. That's your best cancer.
Chris King:There will be. No. And on that, no, we gonna drop it out. No. Now if you're watching if you're here live in our audience, you have the link to the QR code to ask questions because you we you can ask questions.
Chris King:But if you're watching us online, there's a QR code that you can scan and ask questions, and we will continue to answer these questions. This is an important topic. This is a very important topic that we wanna continue going. It is so much, a part of who God is creating us to be to really understand your purpose, your call, and to have the right people around you to achieve that. And I promise you, your life will never ever be the same.
Chris King:So I wanna invite you to continue to ask questions. Use the QR code. If you're watching online, make sure you subscribe. Hit the like button. Continue to watch the When All Hell Breaks Loose podcast.
Chris King:I'm gonna thank my live studio audience. I'm gonna thank our partners here. I wanna thank my guest, miss Adrienne Rowe. You had an exciting time. And I just wanna invite you to go tell your neighbors, tell your friends, even tell your enemies, but tell them with love to check out the When All Hell Breaks Loose podcast because life is worth living and so are you.
Chris King:Y'all be blessed.