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Money & Me: Get anything you desire this year 5 Day Audio Program: https://www.soulrichwoman.com/money
I believe we can change the world. But first, we’ve got to stop living in fear of being judged for who we are.
Hi I'm Genecia Alluora, Founder of the #1 Leading Female Entrepreneur Network in South East Asia supporting 1 Million women to Own & LOve The F-Word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and Family.
With a challenge to women everywhere to stop TALKING themselves out of their dreams, Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint identifies the excuses to let go of, the behaviours to adopt, and the skills to acquire on the path to growth, confidence, and believing in yourself to be recognised as a leader online. Get clients online and to have more impact on the world!
Stop Believing THE Lies ABOUT Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be. You're Just an "F-Word" Away from The Life You Want, The Marriage You Want... The Family That You Want, Is Going To Be Fueled By The Business & Life You Build ... Join me, become a Soul Rich Woman. Alone we are strong, Together we are unstoppable!
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[00:00:00]
Hello, gorgeous. Welcome to today's episode. In today's episode, I want to talk about my money language. How your money language? My money language can impact your finances, the F-word that you want, fabulous freedom, financial independence, and a happy family. So language does matter. You need to be really vigilant about it and what you are saying out loud, because it reflects what you really think about money. Now, there is an earlier episode that I talk deep more about language and how it can create influence in your life.
[00:00:43]
Genecia Alluora: So do check that episode out and then come back to this episode. Now, language is largely a habit. So are negative beliefs about money. Don't wait for the reality to change before you shift your language. It happens the other way around.
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Genecia Alluora: The good news is that we can change our habits over time. So here are a couple of steps I want to run through distinctively, okay? Step one, notice how you talk about money. Start listening carefully. Some might be old stories about money family. Some cliches idioms or cultural beliefs around money.
[00:01:24]
Genecia Alluora: Here are some examples. How do you describe your current situation with money? Let's say if I were to ask you this question, how will you describe your current situation with money? And then you will say something like, I am desperate. I'm broke. I'm confused. Little laugh with little or no money. Need to find ways to make money. I'm so broke right now. Then you will continue to feel you helpless. So you have to be super vigilant. And also, how do you say or what do you say about rich people? For example, oh, she must be a kept woman. She must be a third party in a relationship. Therefore, she got the monthly allowance from the married men.
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Genecia Alluora: Oh, she must be money face. She probably have a lavish lifestyle. She's money hungry. She's money face. When she charged people premium prizes. She's obscenely wealthy. She's obscenely rich. She's snobbish bitch. She is fancy. She is fancy, she's living the high life. Those greedy bastards. She's ruthless. What the rich bitch? Oh, my God. She's the one percenter. Money hungry elitist. Nobody needs to make over a million dollars. Nobody needs to make over X number of dollars, because that's just greedy.
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Genecia Alluora: All right, for some people. If she makes the money, she charged premium pricing, she's successful. That means it's not okay for me. Oh, those bloody people. Greedy, bloody rich people. Those rich wankers bond with a silver spoon in her mouth. Filthy rich, dirt poor, or most likely a gold digger. Listen to the language that I've just shared with you. Some of it sound really obscene. No, it's not your fault. It's just part of sometimes the culture and the things that have been said to you, right? And then how do you speak about other people who make money? So this is some examples of how do you speak about other people who make money.
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Genecia Alluora: For example, I can't believe she's charging debt. Oh, my God. Her programs are too much. She's not worth that. I don't understand how some people charge $30,000 for coaching and mentoring. I don't understand how some people charge $500 an hour. Oh, obscene amounts of money. She's a daylight robber. Is completely a daylight robbery. I don't know how she leaves with herself. What the rip off. I can't believe she charged people for speaking. I can't believe she charged people for a program like that.
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Genecia Alluora: I can't believe that she charged when she say she's helping people. Hear those language again. How do you speak about other people who make money? Does it sound familiar? Next. What do you say about work? Here are some examples. What do you say about work? Here's the example. Another day, another dollar. Oh, I'm just working my butt off. Well, if I can drive grab, I'll just drive five days of the day Sunday and earn some money. I just be a grab driver or Uber driver. Slave my time away. It's easiest for me to see money because so easy to just spend my time, work hours, long hours to make sure I clock the incentives to earn as a grab driver, as a Wooba driver.
[00:05:46]
Genecia Alluora: Bust my ass. I have to sell my soul. I need to bring home the bacon. I need to put food on the table. Oh, money. The best things in life are free. No such thing as easy money or time is money. You are making a quick buck. Rolling in the door. Play money. Notice what you say about work. Does it sound familiar? Some of these languages. So just be aware of that.
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Genecia Alluora: Next. What do you say about money itself? What kind of comments or words do you say about money? Here are some examples. What do you say about money itself? For example money isn't everything. Cold, hard cash, bloody money. Whoever has the money makes the rules. The rich get richer, the poor gets poorer. Oh, that money is filthy money. Too rich for my blood. Sounds familiar? Any of the language that you say about money itself? Just to be aware of that.
[00:07:12]
Genecia Alluora: Next. How do you talk to your kids about money? How do you talk to your children about money? For example, I'm not a money printer. I'm not made of money. I don't print money. Money doesn't grow on trees. Don't touch that. It's dirty. Money burns a hole in your pocket. Money cannot buy you happiness. Money is the root of all evil. Money makes the world go round. Put your money where your mouth is. Sounds familiar? Well, you could add in more. Just be aware.
[00:07:58]
Genecia Alluora: Now, step two. Choose more empowering words. Start with the basic and obvious things you need to ban sentences like we can't afford that or we don't have any money. And find more empowering ways and words to describe your situation. For example, we choose not to spend our money on that. So here are more examples I don't need money, I just want to help people. Okay, you can change this sentence into the more people I help, the more money I make. Or you can change into, I deserve to be rich when I add value into other people's lives. So that I don't need money, I just want to help people can be switched into something positive and empowering for your brain, for your mind, so that it goes in and your words will kind of train your mind, and then it will translate eventually into actions.
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Genecia Alluora:Here's another one I would rather be happy than rich. Then you can change it into I choose to be both happy and rich. I choose to be both happy and wealthy. Another sentence will be my family and children comes before money. My husband and my children comes before money.
[00:09:33]
Genecia Alluora: And change this sentence into I am a great moral model for my family. So it's like changing any habit. It's hard and difficult at first, but when you change your words you change your thoughts, and your thoughts impact the actions you are going to take. And most importantly, this is free. Changing words to something empowering is free. Step number three. Count your blessings. Now, gratitude is the fastest way to change your mental state. Turn your negative thoughts into gratitude before you go to bed at night, say I am so grateful for, and then start listing things. So here's an example of the list of the things that you can be grateful for. And it's free.
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Genecia Alluora: Count your blessings, okay? Here we go. I'm really grateful for the air I breathe. I'm really grateful for my health. I'm really grateful for our relationship. I'm really grateful for my growing business. I'm really grateful for my persistence, even when things are difficult and tough. I am so grateful for my healthy family. I'm so grateful that I live in this country.
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Genecia Alluora: Step four, shut down the negative thoughts. Here's the last tip. When you find yourself saying, oh, shitty stuff, give yourself a shock and say, shut that shit down. It's an amazing pattern interrupter. And you tell yourself, thank you very much for the thought. Thank you. And then kind of put that thought one side. Self awareness around your words is going to change your reality. Your words have power, so use them wisely. So it's important to take note of that.
[00:11:35]
Genecia Alluora: Remember, there are so many things that you can say to yourself 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. And when that happens, all these casual remarks becomes your reality. So it's your time and you are ready for the next step. Here are some questions I would like to answer because there are some Q and A part and I want to address these questions. Some questions came in and one of which is I feel stupid thing affirmations, what should I do?
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Genecia Alluora: You don't have to, but you need to be aware of what you're saying. You do have to do affirmations if you don't like it. But just be aware of what you're saying. Like normal everyday language is so much more powerful than affirmations because it's really embedded into your daily life. As I've said, you do only affirmations like once a day, 21 times in the morning, but you say negative stuff, 24 hours a day maybe -8 hours of sleeping time but then again you see what my point is.
[00:12:53]
Genecia Alluora: You can say affirmations for 21 times in five minutes, but the rest of the day you see all the negative stuff. So if you don't like to say affirmations, you can also try listening to subliminal meditation, mantras, positive music, try out Healing. I use lossing bowl as well. I also use Crystal Healing and of course podcast, videos and other inspirational messages you are taking in. So you can try these as well.
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Genecia Alluora: Okay, so another question that I get is I don't want to be seen as a super positive person. I'm not a positive person all the time, it's just not me. Okay? So you don't have to be super positive all the time to say things that feel fake to you. I want you to just start by eliminating your negative language and aim to use a more neutral one about money.
[00:13:58]
Genecia Alluora: Because whatever you say becomes your reality, right? So first use neutral language, okay? Just be aware of that. Next question. How does changing my language help my income? I'm already broke, I'm already desperate, I'm already running out of money for the end of the month, I have bills to pay. How does this changing language thing actually help me in my income? There's no real action to that. Okay? Chill.
[00:14:27]
Genecia Alluora: Language mirrors your inner beliefs. So when you change your inner beliefs, you act in different ways. So if your language reflects or triggers any old money memories, you can clear them. So I want you to take note that, yes, changing a language does not bring in the money immediately but by starting the first step, by taking the first baby step to change your language. Eventually your mind and whatever you attract, whatever you put out there to the universe attracts come to you. Maybe new opportunities, new things for you and maybe you see things differently.
[00:15:10]
Genecia Alluora: So just by taking a baby step forward will help you to grow your income or help you with your income. Next question is I really don't like what you said about using like the rubber band or I wear something on my wrist and give myself a patent interrupter or do something called a patent interrupter. Okay, if you don't like the thing that I ask you to do, I mean the example of like using a rubber band and hit yourself or give yourself a pinch, then don't use it. It is just an example, right? It's just to illustrate to you what is a pattern interrupter.
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Genecia Alluora: It's just a reminder to keep your thoughts to be as positive as possible. Just remember, any kind of pattern interrupter works. Pattern interruption works. You could snap your fingers or you could clap your hands or you say a mantra to yourself. Doesn't matter what may be, you just need to create a pattern interrupt.
[00:16:12]
Genecia Alluora: Do you smell popcorn? That's a pattern interrupt. Okay. All right, so this chapter, remember this is your time and you are ready for your next step. Don't be afraid of your dreams or of owning and living your effort because by changing and watching your language you will make a difference and the quickest way to change how you feel about money and therefore attracting more abundance into your life. Sending you my love and I'll speak to you soon. Bye for now.