Inspiring Courageous Faith with Dennis Rainey

In this episode of Inspiring Courageous Faith, Dennis Raney shares his experience interviewing the legendary Coach John Wooden. Known for his incredible coaching success and character, Wooden's teachings on teamwork, faith, and personal integrity resonate deeply. Join us as we explore the principles that guided his life and coaching philosophy. Don't miss this inspiring conversation!

Timestamped overview
00:00 John Wooden's Guiding Principles
05:48 "Father's Gifts: Wisdom and Wealth"
07:30 "Life's Preparations and Gratitude"
12:19 Boycott Over Racial Discrimination
14:50 "Memories of Nellie and Basketball"
18:16 From Civil Engineer to English Teacher
22:04 Understanding Gray Areas
26:07 Redefining Success in Education
26:50 "Personal Growth and True Success"
32:38 Interview With Legendary Coach Wooden
36:14 "John Wooden's Humble Integrity"
37:13 "Inspiring Courageous Faith Interview"

  1. Introduction to the Podcast
    • Dennis Raney introduces the podcast and its origin.
    • Mention of the radio program "Family Life Today" and its connection to the podcast.
  2. Background on John Wooden
    • Dennis shares his admiration for John Wooden as a coach.
    • Discussion on Wooden's achievements and reputation in basketball history.
  3. Interview with John Wooden
    • Dennis describes the experience of interviewing John Wooden.
    • Mention of Wooden's age and presence during the interview.
  4. Wooden's Philosophy and Beliefs
    • Overview of John Wooden's principles and beliefs beyond basketball.
    • Mention of Wooden's book and his self-description as a man true to his beliefs.
    • Signing of Wooden's book and what he wrote as a keepsake.
  5. Wooden's Childhood and Influence of His Father
    • Wooden shares stories about his childhood and his father's influence.
    • Explanation of his father's creed and a poem by Henry Van Dyke.
  6. Life Lessons and Core Convictions
    • Discussion on the Seven Point Creed given by Wooden's father.
    • Dennis and Bob address how these values appear old-fashioned yet impactful.
  7. Wooden's Early Life and Personal Experiences
    • Wooden’s youth, shyness, and interest in his now-wife Nellie.
    • Transition to college and eventual marriage to Nellie.
  8. Turning Down an NAIA Tournament Invitation
    • Wooden's story about refusing a tournament spot due to racial discrimination.
    • Wooden standing firm on team equality despite player requests.
  9. Balancing Family and Career
    • Wooden talks about balancing his family life, marriage, and career.
    • Dennis and Bob discuss Nellie’s role in Wooden’s life and career.
  10. Wooden's Coaching Journey
    • The decision to pursue coaching over other professions.
    • His love for teaching and staying true to his chosen path.
  11. Wooden’s Teaching Methods
    • Importance of fundamentals in coaching.
    • Wooden’s method of teaching players to put on socks to avoid blisters.
  12. Unique Challenges with Players
    • Working with notable players like Bill Walton and handling discipline.
    • Exploring Wooden’s adaptability in rules and discipline over time.
  13. Honoring His Late Wife Nellie
    • Wooden's tradition of writing letters to Nellie after her passing.
    • His enduring love and commitment to her memory.
  14. Definition of Success
    • Wooden’s philosophy on success, character, and reputation.
    • Explanation of his Pyramid of Success and its building blocks.
  15. Reflections on Life and Career
    • Dennis reflects upon the interview experience with Wooden.
    • Discussion on the impact of Wooden’s teachings and legacy.
  16. Conclusion
    • Dennis wraps up with thoughts on Wooden’s character and faith.
    • Encouragement for listeners to pursue courageous faith and possibly their own ‘championship.’

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Hi, I'm Dennis Raney, and this is another episode of

Inspiring Courageous Faith. And I can't wait for you to watch

and listen to this podcast. Back

when I led a national ministry called Family Life, we had a

radio program called Family Life Today. And in it

we would interview certain people. One of my dreams

was during this time of year called March Madness,

was to interview the

NCAA championship

coach. I say that because he won 10 national

championships in 12 years. He won five in a

row. And many of you don't know this,

but I was a decent basketball player in high school.

My dream back then would have been to play for this guy. His name

was John Wooden, but of course, he had

the best of the best to play for UCLA in those days.

And I never made the. I never made the team.

As I mentioned, Wooden was outstanding in

basketball. He was called the wizard of Westwood,

California. Many consider him to be the greatest coach

of all time in any sport. And I have to tell you, as

I interviewed him, I understood why. Those

days are long past, and a growing number of people today have not

even heard of John Wooden. But I'll tell you who

hasn't forgot about him. In addition to my generation, that's the

players that he coached. He was much more than a

coach. He was a role model, a man of

character, a follower of Christ. Yes,

A family man. And I think one of the most

important things about him, he was a teacher.

Wooden died in 2010, only four months

before he turned 100 years old. Back then,

when my co host and I, Bob Lapine, had the privilege of

interviewing him, if you can believe this, Coach Wooden

was a mere 91 years old. He walked into

the studio with a bit of a cane, didn't have a stitch of

notes, and we pounded him with questions, and he

handled them like the master that he was. I've

done over 6,000 interviews, and this

one is one of my top 10. In fact,

his daughter Nan was out in the engineer's room

watching us interview him.

And she said after it was over that

this was one of her favorite interviews that her daddy

ever did. Because you know why? We didn't talk much about basketball

at all. Instead, we focused on family and his

beliefs. And I want

you to know that John Wooden is an outstanding man. In fact, he wrote a

book called A

Lifetime of Observations and Reflections

on and off the Court. And I think who

John Wooden is is reflected in this quote at the beginning of

the book where he makes a statement about himself that gives you

an idea of the principles that guided him and how

he coached the players that played for him. He said,

I am just a common man who is

true to his beliefs, how we

need more men like him today. At the end of the

interview, he gave me the book and I

thanked him for that and I said, coach Wooden, would you

mind signing this book and I'd like to tell you what to write in

it. And he got a grin on his face and

he said, give me the book and a pen,

which I did. And I'll tell you at the end of this

podcast what he wrote in the front of the book. It's a

keepsake that I'll have for as long as I live. Now

let's listen to Coach as he talks about the

principles of teamwork, cooperation, training that make him

the great coach that he was.

Tell us about life in the Wooden household when you were growing up. As

a young lad, we had a. Small farm and I

learned a lot. I think of things that helped me later on. You had to

work hard. Dad thought there was time for play, but

always after the chores and the studies were done and dad

would read to us every night from the scriptures and allow poetry. And I think

that created love of poetry, which I've always had. Like to

dabble in a little bit. My dad was a wonderful person.

I never hear him say. I never heard him speak an ill word of

anybody, never blamed anybody for anything. I never heard him

use the word profanity. I think that his reading

to us of a night later caused all four

sons to get through college, although he had no

financial means to help and there were no athletic scholarships. All four

sons graduated from college and all majored or minored in English and

all got advanced degrees. And I think

dad had a lot to do with that. Your dad had, as you've already

mentioned, a profound impact on your life. In fact, I was

so looking forward to this interview with you because I've quoted you

about something that you said you carried around in your pocket.

Or it first of all was carried around in your father's pocket. Is that right?

And then you started carrying it around. It was your dad's creed. And then

a poem by a pastor by the name of Henry

Van Dyke. My father gave to me

when I graduated from high school, excuse me, from grade school,

from the eighth grade. He gave me a two dollar

bill, one of those large two dollar bills, and said,

son, as long as you keep this, you'll never be broke.

Then he also gave me a card. On one side

was a verse by Reverend Van Dyke

that said Four things a man must learn to do if he would

make his life more true. To think without confusion

clearly. To love his fellow man sincerely. To act from

honest motives purely to. To trust in God and heaven

securely. And on the other side was a Seven Point

Creed. And the Seven Point creed

consisted of. First of all, I think it was be true to

yourself. And I think we know if we're true to ourselves,

we'll be being true to others. And the second was help others.

And there's no greater joy that a person can have than do something for

someone else, especially when you do it with no thought of something in

return. Another one was make friendship a

fine art. Work at it, don't take it for granted. Work at making friends

and making friendship flourish. And then

was one that I think stood out to

me a great deal, was make each day your masterpiece. And I tried

to teach from that as time went by to my players and my English

students, just try and do the best you can each day.

Just make each day your masterpiece. It's the only,

only thing over which you have control. You have no control over yesterday. That'll

never change. The only way you can affect tomorrow is today.

And then another one was to

drink deeply from good books, especially the Bible.

And then was build a shelter

against a rainy day. And he wasn't thinking about a

physical shelter, he was thinking about a more lasting shelter. When I think

about that, I often think of when Socrates was

unjustly imprisoned and was facing imminent

death. And the jailers who were mean people, they couldn't understand his

serenity. And they said, why aren't you preparing for death? And his

statement was, I've been preparing for death all my life, but the life I've

led. And when I think of building a shelter against a rainy day, I think

that's what dad had in mind. And then the last was,

the seventh was give thanks for your blessings and pray

for guidance every day. I've carried that with

me in one form or another since those days.

Yes, those core convictions are so

bedrock with you. That's a part of how your

mom and dad raised you. I think some people, we hear those

things here in the 21st century. And some people go, that sounds kind of old

fashioned, kind of corny, but that's so

ingrained into who you are and who you've been. And. And you

would say that's been a part of what has made you successful as a coach,

right? Well, I would hope so. But I know too, as someone

said, I'm not what I Ought to be. Not what I want to be, not

what I'm going to be. But I think those things have made me better than

I would have been. You said of

yourself in your book, they call me Coach. That as you

moved into your high school years, you were

shy, you were reserved, especially

with the opposite sex. Yes, I

suppose not being exposed much. No

sisters and on the farm. And

I suppose that's the reason. I don't know, but I was a little

shy. But here you were this star basketball

player on the high school team. I mean, the girls, the cheerleaders

had to notice Johnny Wooden, didn't they? Did they call you Johnny back there,

or was it John? They called me lots of things.

It'd be surprising more than you think. It was John. Bob. John, Bob.

John. Bob. And Nellie and I had been married for many

years when her sister came to. Out here to

California. And her sister came out here one time and she said, don't you think

you and John have been married long enough that you should quit calling John

Bob?

Didn't the girl start to notice you as you were draining

those jump shots on the basketball? Yeah, he kind of skirted your answer there.

I was watching him about that. Well, I'll tell you. My

freshman year, I was still living on the

farm. We didn't lose the farm until after my freshman year. Now, we

commuted from this little town of center, and we lived about a half mile

out of that to Martinsville. And

I noticed this one little galaxy. And

I didn't know, but she had noticed me too. But I didn't know that.

And that summer she

got a brother of her closest friend

who became very dear to me to drive up.

The brother had a car. And they drove up and I was working in the

field, plowing corn with the team. And

they parked on the road and motioned for me to come over. I wouldn't go

over. I just kept on and, well, why. Wouldn'T you

go over? Here's this cute girl on the side of the road. And you even

liked her, too. Oh, yeah. But, well, I just. I was dirty.

And somehow on the first day of

classes, we happened to be in the same class. Said,

why didn't you. Why didn't you come over and see us up there? And I

said, well, I was dirty, impressed by. And you just made fun of me.

And Nellie said, it's still Seer. She

said, I would never make fun of you. And I knew right

then there was. A spark in her eyes. Yep. And this is the only

girl I ever really went With. So

by your junior year in high school, did you think, this is the girl I'll

marry? I did. And you all started going

together? We did. So you waited to marry

until you got to college? Yes, until I

graduated. We planned to be married. Dad graduated and

got my first job. Yes. A story that you tell

that I want you to share with our listeners came at the conclusion of your

first year at Indiana State University, where you won the conference

title and you, you received an invitation to play in the

NAIA tournament, but you

turned them down. Why? We had a pretty good year the first

year and the NAIA tournaments played in Kansas City. Is

here 32 teams then, and I had

one black player on my team

and they wouldn't let them play in the tournament.

So even though this was I, of the 12 men on the team

he played the least of all. He didn't get to play very much and

I wouldn't go without him because he was a part of the team. So I

refused the invitation and wouldn't go. Now,

the next year I had everybody back on this team, exactly the same team.

No one came in and beat anybody else out. And

so the next year we had a good year and

we're invited again. And I refused again. And finally

they reluctantly said that he could come,

but he couldn't stay in the Mubach Hotel where the teams were staying.

He'd have to stay someplace else. He could have his meals there, providing

we would take him in a private room. I said, no,

no, we'll do that. But anything. I was persuaded by

the NCAA and his parents

that we should go. It might help. So

we went and he stayed with the minister and his wife and came into the

hotel for the game. He didn't get to play very much at all, but

that was the first black player that had ever played in that tournament. And I

think a few years later, an all black team won it. So we sort

of opened the door a little bit. You undoubtedly had some

players when you came back and told the team, we've been invited to the tournament,

but we're not going to go because they, they won't accept this

one player. There were. There had to be some guys going, coach,

I want to go to Kansas City, I want to play in the team. I

mean, let's just go along with their rules. Didn't anybody raise their hand in

protest? I don't think anyone protested. Someone

would have liked to have gone, yes, but they didn't. I knew these young men,

most of them I'd had in high school before And. And they knew how I

felt about things, and there was no problem. It caused me no problem at all.

As your career was taking off, you were also in the process of

beginning your family. You had a daughter and a son.

And what I wonder is, I wonder how did you

juggle the tension of your marriage,

your family, your faith and a demanding

profession? What value in your

core as a man was your measurement? How

did you juggle it all? I wish Nellie were here to answer that question for

you. Well, Nan,

of course, was born in Dayton, Kentucky, when I was down there, and then

Jim was born in South Bend two years later.

But I tried, definitely

tried. Nellie always went to games with me,

and I wouldn't leave her to go scout or anything of that sort.

She couldn't go and not bring

basketball home. I tried not to do that. Now, can you do

that 100%? Probably not, but I try not. And

Nellie, when she was interviewed, at times, I've heard her say

that John never brought the games home. I could

never tell after a game, after a practice, because she was a

practical at all the games, but never after practice. I could not tell by his

demeanor whether he'd had a good practice or bad practice or any

problems at all. And I. Maybe she

stretched the truth a little bit there, but I certainly, I tried not

to. I wanted. I wanted. Next to faith, I wanted

family first. How did Nelly keep your family

on the track and help John Wooden as a man keep

his priorities? I mean, you undoubtedly had your moments when.

When you would. You'd work too hard, too long and be a little too consumed

with it all. How did she come alongside you? How was she

a good helpmate and counterpart to the coach?

Well, she was just a good mother, a good wife.

And we had a little disagreement. I remember one

time, many, many, many years ago, many years before I lost

her, we had a little disagreement and

I left as I should in the house, to go and work without.

I didn't leave in the manner I should have. But when I

went to bed that night, there was a little note on my

pillow with a card still there. It says,

don't try to understand me, just love me.

That's it. I think we had a great

relationship more than anything else. And I've said

that when we talked about this, and we're

done. Gracious. We're going to disagree on a lot of things, but let's try

not to be disagreeable. You, you had a little

tradition that you and Nelly enjoyed

right before the game started. Now, now, now, Bob, I

Remember watching Coach Wooden on TV when college

basketball games started being televised? But there was something

I missed as an observer, a little tradition that he

had with Mellie before the game started. Back when I was

playing in high school, she played in the band, and

I tried to position myself where I could look up and see

her in the band. And she'd always give me a. I'd give her a wink

or nod, and that continued in all

my teaching days, that before every game, I'd find her,

and I'd give her a wink or nod, and.

So that's probably what you're thinking of.

And superstition. No, it wasn't superstition.

It just made me feel good. Just a little wink.

That's right. That's right. I want to know, Coach, why you chose

coaching? I mean, you. You said you love to teach English. You

were a teacher at heart. You could have done a lot of things.

Why did you do it? I went to Purdue to become a civil engineer. That's

what I wanted to do, but I didn't know. High school

counseling obviously wasn't as good in those days, and I didn't know now to

get your degree in civil engineering, you had to go to civil camp every

summer. Well, I knew I couldn't go to civil camp every summer.

I had to work in the summers, so I couldn't do that. And so

I changed to a liberal arts course, majored in English. And I knew from

that time, I'm going to teach, and I enjoyed

teaching as time went by, and I enjoyed it. I taught English in high

school, and I wanted to be a good English teacher, and I enjoyed it.

And once I got into it, I had opportunities to

get out in other areas where financially would have been better.

But I enjoyed teaching. And. Well, who was it said

that you find a job that you enjoy, you'll never work a day in your

life. And you view coaching as

teaching? Of course it is. That's all it is. Teaching sports.

You've heard some of my players, particularly some of the talkative ones, like Bill

Walton, will often say in his interviews that coach was

teacher. Coach, as you taught, you believed in

teaching about the fundamentals? Oh, absolutely. In

fact, in coming into the studio, the one thing I regret

that I didn't bring in here, I brought you a banana, because I know you

like a banana, but I should have brought a pair

of socks, athletic socks, into the

studio. Because you took high school

stars, you began with a very simple point

of instruction. That's correct. I taught them how to put on their socks and their

shoes. I wanted no wrinkles in the socks and I'd show them how to

put it on and smooth out around the little toe. Your

blisters usually come from around the little toe or the heel area,

and I wanted to show them how to do that because I know if you

don't, they just pull them up. To me, I think it was just

as important thing, a little detail. But little details is what make big

things happen. You had some players who obviously became

players of note not only in college, but on into the. Into the

NBA. Some of them seem to be

outside of the. The Wooden paradigm, if I

can call it that. You know, Bill Walton does not strike me as the

prototypical John Wooden basketball player. It almost seems

like here's a guy who can play the game, but here's a

disciplined coach and a player who. Well,

discipline was not high on his list of virtues, was

it? In certain areas, you might say that. But

Bill's very dear to me for many, many years. He calls me three or four

times a week from all over. But at the time he played for

me, it was the time of the anti establishment. And he was anti

establishment very much at that particular time. I

was concerned about money and things, but I have no right to determine

the. The politics of my players, nor actually the

religion. That's them. But he's a good student. He's an honor

student. He's in the academic hall of fame. When he came on the basketball

floor, you couldn't ask. No one could ask for a player to be more

cooperative, set a great example. No one worked harder,

never problem in any way. But he had his little quirks, as we all

have. And what about his facial hair? Though he did show up one

time. Well, he decided I didn't have the right to tell him how to wear

his hair. And I said, you're absolutely right, Bill. I don't have. All I have

the right is to determine who plays and we're going to miss you.

You said, see, if you want to keep the beard, you're off the team. That's

right. This is an all American you're talking to. That's right. But you, you drew

a line in the sand over the facial hair. I did, I did. And,

and what did Bill do? He hurried and got fixed up there.

Shaved his beard off, didn't he? And he's been asked, do you think coach would

have gone through with. And he said, well, you know what? I did and most

of that. So if I have a rule, I'm going to stand

by it now. But always remember, there can

be a gray area at times. There was a time in my

teaching that I had no gray area. It was either black or white with me,

but there can be a gray area. And I made

two mistakes and I made many, but I knew

two that I recall. And I regret very much because I didn't see the gray

area. What are those two? Well, I had a rule in

high school that smoking. It was automatic dismissal from the

squad for the year. And right in my

finest player, my only center, I had. I caught him smoking verbally,

and I dismissed him for the crime. I had the rule and

I. And you think it's a mistake now, looking back. Well, he

quit school, never finished school, and he would

have gone on to college. I think I was wrong.

I should have handled it in a different way. What was the second thing you

said that you regretted? I had a player that

didn't qualify for his letter. This was in high school. But he

was a fine person that worked very, very hard.

But anyway, his dad came in one day and called me and

wanted to come out and talk to my dad. And he said, is Joe going

to get a letter? And I said, you know, tact.

I said, well, I haven't really decided yet. And he said, I'll tell you this.

Remember, I'm just young, then. This is real, very young. And he said, I'll tell

you, if he doesn't, I'm going to have your job.

He threatened you? Yes, he did. No, I didn't like that. And I

ended up by not giving the boy's letter. And I feel down deep in my

heart that I would have given him the letter if the dad. So I

did something for the youngster because of the dad. That's wrong. That's

wrong. You were married for 53 years before

Nellie's death. Correct. It's my understanding that

you have a tradition on the anniversary

of her death, something that you're doing on a regular

basis in honor of her. Oh, I write her a

letter. And we, Nan

and Jim, we go symmetry.

And I write her a letter, just. A

letter expressing your heart, your love, your appreciation

for the 53 years you shared with her. No more than that.

You're several years before, you know, and still.

Still she was.

She was a soulmate. Indeed. Indeed. How

so? Well,

it would be kind of hard to explain just from the first time that

there was something there, almost from the first time we ever got. We'd say

acquainted, and

she was the one for me. She was the one for me. She was the

one for me. Mr. Did she love basketball like

you love basketball? She loved what I

loved. So if you love

basketball. She loved basketball. That's right. My main

regrets that I didn't do the things that she liked. She

always did the things that I did. She liked to dance and I

didn't. I regret that I didn't

learn to do more of the things, maybe go to operas and learn to dance

and things of that sort, but those are things I regret. What was your

favorite quality about her?

I don't know how to answer the favorites. Just love, just love something about

her. I just loved her. As you

have been a coach over the years and a teacher, you have developed

a definition of success and what you call the pyramid

of success. Could you just explain just briefly to our listeners

the definition of success and what you've created here in this pyramid of

success? Well, first of all, as an English

teacher, I became a little bit

disappointed, disillusioned somewhat. The parents

of youngsters in my English classes, many if their

youngster did not receive an A or B in one way or another, I found

that many parents would make the youngster or the teacher feel that they had

failed. Now our good Lord, in his infinite wisdom, Creator, is all

alike as far as intelligence is concerned. And whether we're not alike as far as

a person, appearance or size or anything else, not everybody could earn an A or

B. And I had youngsters that didn't that I thought

did very well. I'd be proud of them if I were the parent. But I

didn't like that way of judging. And I wanted to come up with my own

definition of success. And it came from three

things. One, my father

tried to teach us to never try to be better than somebody

else, always learn from others and

never cease trying to be the best you can be. That's under your

control and the other isn't. And if you get too involved and gross and

concerned in regard to the things over which you have no control, it will

adversely affect the things over which you have control.

And I also recalled a discussion in class that we'd had many years

before, which success was discussed. And most everyone

went along with Mr. Webster's definition of an

accumulation of material possession or the attainment of possession

of power or prestige or something of that sort. And then I

ran across a verse, and as you indicated, I like verse. And I ran

across a simple verse that said, at God's footstool

to confess a poor soul knelt and bowed his Head

I failed. He cried. The master said, thou didst thy

best. That is success. And I believe that's true.

And from those three things I coined my own definition

of success. Success is peace of mind attained

only through self satisfaction in knowing you made the

effort to become the best of which you're capable. And you're the

only one who will know that. You know you can fool everybody else. It's like

character and reputation. Your character, you're the only one

that knows, knows, and your reputation is what

you're perceived to be by others, but your character is what you

really are. So that was what I

wanted to use to help me become a better teacher and to give the

youngsters under my supervision something to which to aspire other than

just a higher mark or more points in some athletic endeavor.

But he didn't seem to be serving the purpose for which

I had hoped. And I tried to analyze it

and I came to the conclusion that it would be much better if I come

up with something you could see. But it gave me an

idea of a pyramid. And I started working on that. And I

worked on it for the next 14 years. But somehow

the first two blocks I selected were the cornerstones. And

if any structure is to have any real strength and solidity, it must have

a strong foundation. And the cornerstones anchor

it. And I used industrious enthusiasm. And I believe

that today, and from those two, and I think

they're strong, you have to enjoy what you're doing, you have to work hard. And

you can't work near your own particular ability level unless you

enjoy what you're doing. You may think you are, but you can't unless you really

enjoy it. And along the foundation I wanted blocks

that included others. So I chose, found friendship, loyalty and

cooperation. And it gradually moved up to the second tier when they had

self control, alertness, initiative and intentness. And then going up

to the heart, which I call as being in condition for whatever you're

doing, whether you're an athlete, whether you're a surgeon, whether you're a deep sea

diver, whatever you are being conditioned for, whatever you're doing can be attained by

facts of moderation. And

then you have to have the skills you know have. You must know how to

do things, you must be able to do it, and you must be able to

do them quickly, oftentimes. And then team

spirit, that's consideration for others. I could talk

on that for a long time. Consideration for others. And all these blocks

below will help you become confident.

You can't have confidence Unless you're prepared. Failure to prepare is

preparing to fail. And you can't have confidence without being

prepared. And you can't have that. And that went out the blocks

below. You must have confidence and then you must have

poise. And I also coined my own definition of poise. And

poise to me is just being yourself. The person who has poise is not

acting. They're not pretending. They're not trying to be something they're not. They are

themselves. Therefore, they're going to function at whatever they're

doing near their own particular level of company. There'll be no fear, no

trepidation at all. They'll function near their own particular level of

company because they're not pretending, they're not trying to be something they're not.

And all these blocks will make you competitive. Competitive.

You'll enjoy it. You'll enjoy it. There's joy

in being involved in something difficult. There's no great joy in

doing things anybody else can do, although they must be done to

their best of ability, regardless of whether difficult or easy. But

the joy comes in being involved in a difficult situation.

And these blocks below will bring that up. And then

leading up to the. To the apex on which success rest.

I put on one side, patience and faith. Good things

take time and should. We don't want them to, but this should.

Good things should take time. And we must have faith. We must have faith that

things will work out as they should. Which doesn't mean that.

That they'll work out exactly as we want them to. But if we have faith

and we do what we should. Too often we want things

to happen a certain way, but we don't do the things that would

necessarily help that become reality. We just want it to happen right.

But you have to have faith. If you do what you should, things will work

out as they should. So that's a very brief synopsis of the

pyramid. I just want to say, coach, to you,

thank you for living an exemplary life. Life for

being a man who has taught many of us over your

lifetime. And I just appreciate you joining Bob and

me and cheering on some moms and dads and

husbands and wives who are in the throes of raising the next generation of

young people.

Boy, that was a fun interview. I mean, how many people get to

spend two, two and a half hours with the greatest coach

in history? What a treat. As I

mentioned, 91 years old, sharp as

attack. At times in the interview, Bob

Lapine and I'd look at each other and we'd smile it was like we were

thinking, can you believe we're actually talking with Coach Wooden?

Proverbs chapter three tells us, blessed is the one

who finds wisdom and the one who gets

understanding, for the gain from her

is better than the gain from silver, and her

profit is better than gold. Proverbs

1:7 says, the fear of the Lord is the beginning of understanding.

Fools despise wisdom and understanding.

So when you hear John Wooden talk about seeing himself

not just as a coach, but as a teacher. And

when you hear him talking about the pyramid of Success, you realize

he was taking those words to heart. He was passing

on wisdom, which is skill in everyday living,

to the next generation of young men that God gave him to

coach. Except he coached them about life. Preparing

them for success on the basketball court was

just a little of what he did. Think about that for

a moment. Because he was a basketball coach

during a time of huge change and upheaval

on America's campuses. Drugs and the sexual

revolution, protest about the Vietnam War.

Not all of his players were excited about hearing this

older man talk about the pyramid of success,

but he did anyway, because he had his eyes on a

bigger prize that took courage. When Wooden

died, one of his top players, Marcus Johnson, made

a great comment about how he didn't appreciate Wooden's

teaching as a player, but changed his mind

years later. He said this. At the

time, it was like, pyramid,

shmiramid, where's the party at were the

girls. I didn't want to hear anything about principles

and living a life of integrity at that time.

But he said, as you get older, you have

kids, you try to pass something on to the next

generation. Wooden stayed in touch with a

huge number of his former players. They found him to

be a mentor for life for decades. As they grew older,

they loved him. They taught his principles like

the Pyramid of Success to others. And that may

be his greatest legacy, even more than the championships

he won. At the end of the interview, I told you

about this. Wooden gave me a book about

leadership. And I said to him, I said,

coach, you don't know this about me, but I was a. A pretty

good high school basketball player. I was too short,

too slow, but nonetheless, I've got the school record for

most number of points at Ozark High School in southwest Missouri,

44 points. He kind of nodded a bit.

And I said to him, I says, coach, would you mind signing

in the front of the book to Dennis, you could

have played for me at ucla.

Now there, forget these. He looked up at me and a little grin,

a mischievous grin work his way its way across his his

lips and he said Dennis we just talked about

integrity didn't we? I can't do that.

But he did sign the book and write something down and now

I have this book in my office to share with my my children and

grandchildren. Let me read to you what he said.

He said thank you Dennis for your interest.

Since I never contacted any out of state

players why didn't you contact me?

John Wooden August 12,

2002 John Wooden

was a great man. The reason was he knew his God

and he was a humble man because of that. He had all that

success yet it never went to his head because he knew he was

there because God had raised him up. Hope you

got something out of this interview and

it will inspire you to courageous faith. Who

knows, maybe even a national championship.

Thanks for joining us. Hope you'll be back again for

another edition of Inspiring Courageous Faith.