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Saturday Brunch Unfiltered with Miracle OP is where chaos meets conversation! Miracle dives headfirst into the latest entertainment buzz, pop culture drama, and whatever’s trending—raw, unfiltered, and completely unscripted. No sugarcoating, no holding back—just hot takes, reckless opinions, and the kind of wild discussions that keep you coming back for more. If it’s happening, Miracle’s breaking it down his way—real, raw, and unfiltered.
Miracle just have this idea that oh you know I would never marry a poor man or a man that is not doing well for you wouldn't but I would not because I'm not doing batu I want to marry someone that is either above me or even the same level with me. You don't believe in potential. I don't know what you're saying. You're not giving women good advice. A woman died recently because her husband couldn't pay hospital bill of 500,000 naira and you're telling me women put their risk to marry someone that is not doing well for themselves. Do you really think a wealthy man wants to marry a woman that is going to be talking back to him all the time that is not going to treat him like a king? Are you saying women are only submissive when there is finance in the home? Yes. The men that were wealthy, their women did not stress them. Most of those men they used to cheat and their wives knew. Our mothers were traditional women. Women today are not traditional women. Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, we are back. Season three, back hotter than ever, better than ever, lighter than ever. And I'm still your boy, the host for the most miracle OP. Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, she's been off camera, but now she's on camera officially. Madame EP and no city girl. Okay. What a good intro. Miracle. I'm excited to be on a part podcast because 2020 I started my own YouTube channel. Really? Yeah, I did. What's your name? You know the city girl. City girl. You be doing like vlogs. Welcome back. Yeah. Yeah. I was doing like those vlog [ __ ] So, there's this video we're going to be reacting to, right? It's still the same thing we're talking about and Mi is going to be giving his opinion on it. and trust Miracle to have one opinion to give. Anyways, I'm also going to give my opinion that Miracle doesn't like, but just fact. I mean, I don't know what your opinion is. So, okay. So, let's see. Um, so there's this there's this video that was trending over the week. A girl came out and she was talking about how men are for what what what was the word she used? I think that video will be playing on the screen. Talk is going to put that video there so you can hear what she was saying. If you don't feel comfortable with the idea of using men, you're not going to last very long in this economy. You're not going to last very long in this misogynistic world we're living in. You're not going to last very long in this patriarchy as long as it's men you're choosing to primarily partner with. Get used to the idea of using men. But it was just talking about how men are just like bank wallets. They're just like the bank. You need to be with a man that if a man is not providing for you, why are you with a man? You know, a man has to meet set your certain needs. You shouldn't be with a man because you like him or you like the way it makes you feel when you're together with him. It should just be about the money. And she also quotes that was what the girl said though. She said that that a man is only a provider only when he's providing. If he's not providing, he's just forgotten the word she used. If he's not providing, he's not a provider. He's a resource waiting to be used. I want I would love to hear your opinion. Okay. See, this is what I think and I had this conversation with you off camera and I said something. I said see let me tell you women are with certain men for different reason, right? There are women that with men because they make the men make them feel some kind of way and that's what they like and that's what they want. But there are certain women that with men because of what they provide for them. If a man is not giving me money, I'm not there. I'm not part of it. He has to be speaking the money language for me to understand what he's saying. Right? So this is my two cent. I'm like okay there are men this women let me tell this sometime these women even have men they are there because of love. But there are certain men that they just want to collect, collect, collect, collect. So this is my take on it. I think it's a wrong thing to say that men are just there to just give financial support. That does not mean that a man shouldn't give financial financial support. But it's wrong because men have other good qualities they bring into a man's life. Good men that is beyond money. I'm telling you, I'm telling you from experience. the amazing men out there that you know you know. Hold on. Hold on. What? Do you support what she's saying? No, I don't support what she said. You don't support what she said? You liar. You just said you did. No. No. That's not what I said. You just said you didn't say that you didn't. No, I said this is my opinion. Speaking out of two sides of your mouth. Miracle. You should listen to me. This is what I said. I said this is my opinion on it. I said it's wrong for you to think that men should just be subjected to just financial benefits cuz men bring more than that to a woman's life. That is what I said, right? That's what I said. Honestly, that is what I said. Miracle, don't get me wrong. I used to say it. I keep saying it. Maybe miracle just have this idea that, oh, you know, I would never marry a poor man or a man that is not doing well for you. But I would not because I'm not doing bad too. I want to marry someone that is either above me or even the same level with me. I don't mind because marry someone because I'm not doing bad. If I have if I'm you, hold on. If I have a man that has my hustling drive, why won't I marry that man? You don't believe in potential. You don't believe in potential. Miracle. Anyways, you don't believe in potential. You said it on this podcast before. We're saying miracle. We're saying the same thing. I don't know why you're doing you're not that you don't believe in potential. That what I said. I said I'm going to marry a rich man. A man that is well to do. How is that a problem? Not well to do already doing. Yes. That is doing well because am I that is doing well? Miracle. So you support what she's saying? I'm not. She's saying, hold on. Deli is saying that you should be with Okay. So, if I'm saying I'm going to marry a man that is well to do, do you think I will just go into the street and marry any man that has money? I won't do that miracle. Honestly, I'm beginning to even get pissed now cuz I won't do that. I won't do that. I don't What's the percentage of men that are wealthy? Miracle. There are men that doing well for themselves. What is the percentage of men? There are men that are doing well for themselves. Let me tell you, see, when they talk about promising young man, what is a promising young man? Miracle. Define what a promising young man is. Let's start from there. someone that has potential. He's not there yet. But you can see that he's heading somewhere, right? It's he can head there if if he if if faith allows him to and he cannot. Wait, but you see the potential. Hold on now. We're saying the same thing, right? He's heading there, right? That is a promising young man. No, no, no, no. Is that not a promising young man? Promising is he can get there, he cannot get there. It's a chance. 50/50 chance. Miracle. That's why it's promising. Miracle. Hold on. What I'm saying is that honestly there are men that you marry that are doing well but they've not gotten a pick of where they going to. I'm telling you. I'm telling you Miracle if if Miracle is saying that for a woman to to prove that she's a good woman for you to go and date a man that is not even is not doing well for himself at all. Then I don't know what you're saying. You're not giving women good advice. Recently somebody died because a woman died recently because her husband couldn't pay hospital bill of 500,000 naira. And you're telling me women put their at risk to marry someone that is not doing well for themselves. Come on now. What are you telling women to if you have to prove that point that I'm not proving that point with you? I'm not. If it's that point you want me to prove, I'm not going to prove to you prove that to you. I never I never because that's what I never I never said that women should not take financial situations because that's what that's what you're making. Look, I'm talking about finance. You're making I like the money. A lot of women in today just focus on the wallet, the highest bidder. That's what they go to. Miracle. That is what they that is their priority. And that's what I'm trying to tell you that in as much as I'm saying I want to marry someone that is doing well for himself, that does not mean I will go into the street and pick any dumb dick and harry because he's rich. I I wouldn't do that. We're saying the same thing. See, the funny thing about it is that yeah, I don't mind all these women that say, "Oh, I want a wallet." That's fine. That's you. That's what you want. Me, I want Beyonce. I'm not going to get her. But it's all good. Keep wanting what you want. But at the same time, know what you're going to have to get. Know what you're going to have to give up. Because those type of men, the 1% that you want to use as wallets, that's fine. But they want traditional women. They want women that are going to shut the [ __ ] up when they need to shut the [ __ ] up. They want women that are going to uphold their name. They want women that are going to deal with a lot of [ __ ] that they're going to bring to that marriage. They want a woman that's going to cook, clean, take care of the house. They want a woman that's not going to talk back. Are you ready for all that miracle? So you're saying now that you're saying that most of the men that doing well for themselves that ladies want these are the requirements. I'm telling you that's what the 1% of men want. You think so? There was a meeting that men gathered and said, "Oh, these are the requirements cuz I want Oh my god. Do you do you really think? Do you really think a a a wealthy man, a billionaire wants to marry a woman that is going to be talking back to him all the time? That is going to be making his life difficult? that is going to be embarrassing him in public, that is not going to carry herself and him to a certain standard, that is not going to treat him like a king. Miracle, no poor man want that either. No, no, but they can deal with that. They can they poor men they they they they settle for whatever they get. No, that's not true. Yes, they do. That's not true. Poor men pick up the scraps. Wealthy men pick what they want. Miracle. I'm telling you that that is what all men need. No. Poor men pick after wealthy men have picked. Remember that. And that's just life. Poor men pick after the wealthy men have already picked. They they they they take what the wealthy men did not. No, I'm not I'm not even arguing with what I'm saying is that this is what all men want and need in their relationship. But all women do not do it. Not all men get it. A lot of men don't get it. Reason being because women are only Are you saying women are only subjective? They only submissive when there is finance in the home. Even some I'm saying back in the days, yes, the men that were wealthy, their women did not stress them. Their women sometimes Yeah. most of those men, they used to cheat and their wife knew, as long as the man was doing what he had to do, they shut the [ __ ] up. So that means those men marry hungry women. Huh? Hungry women that won't talk back at them. You can discourage those women all you want because I already know your opinion on on on housewives, but it's fine. But what I'm trying to tell you is, and that is an outside case. What I'm trying to tell you is that our mothers were traditional women. Yeah. They were traditional women. Women today are not traditional women. They don't have they don't have the cast our mothers had. They don't they don't have the mentality our mothers had. Miracle. I'm not saying that they don't have the patience. Miracle. Yes. That traditional What is the definition of a traditional woman? A woman that knows how to cook. A woman that can sacrifice. That's a traditional a woman that has no no reason to think of sacrificing. That's a traditional woman. A traditional woman of her family before she thinks of her own self. That's a traditional I'm telling you what that's your mother. That is all our mothers. All our mothers thought of the kid, thought of the father and thought of the house. Even thought of the house helpers before she even thought of herself. That's a traditional woman. Think of the whole community before you think of yourself. That's a traditional woman. Am I wrong, Destiny? Am I wrong? I'm not wrong. A traditional woman thinks of the whole village before she thinks of herself. America. I think that's your own definition. Okay. Maybe that's what was your mother like that? My mom was like that. Was she a traditional woman? Like that? Was she a traditional woman? Yes, she is a traditional woman. Let me tell But so I'm wrong. Bam. I'm wrong. Miracle. Let me tell you the truth. The truth is this traditional women are shouting traditional traditional. If they could go back to the hands of time, there are some things they will not do. Okay. But you want a traditional man though. You want you see why you are selfish. No. No miracle. No, but you're selfish. You want a traditional man, but you don't want to be traditional. Okay. Miracle. Let me tell you. And I think um this is a conversation we should have. I don't think I want to have this conversation again. No, no, no, no. But we're having it. We are having I'm going to have this conversation with you. What I'm saying is that you people who think that I think you don't know the generation we are in now. Things are better than how it used to be and it's going to it's just going to get better more. Okay. When you're talking about a traditional woman and I get the whole point of you have to sacrifice. My mom sacrificed. I can you know when you're going you know what goes on in your home. So I know how many sacrifices she had made for the family and for us to be where we are today. So yeah I gave it to her. Yeah. That's what even when you're saying when any man that is maring now is going to marry a woman that he knows that it's not just a liability. Yeah. Yes. Nobody want a liability. And that's what I was talking to someone today. We're having a conversation. She was talking about how you know talking about a particular um couples and how it is and we realize that this man loves this girl but this girl has a value she's playing in his life. It's obvious you're seeing it and he also have some values playing in the girl's life. But you can tell that there's love between them, right? What I'm saying is that miracle there are some sacrifices women shouldn't make in marriage. Hold on. I'm not saying women shouldn't make sacrifices. There are some sacrifices women should shouldn't make in marriage. That's why I think I'm not mar married yet. But that's why I think you know a woman should I'm not saying a woman shouldn't be a traditional woman. She shouldn't, you know, cook for the husband. She shouldn't she shouldn't look out for the best interest of her family. What I'm saying, I'm just saying something simple that a woman should still be in the home and still chase herself. Honestly, I don't want a situation whereby I I don't want to be in a situation whereby I think that because I'm married now, I have to leave whatever is going on concigning me, you know, and just settle and just be doing certain things I'm supposed to do. I still want to do certain things and still be who God have called me to be. And and let me just you you you mentioned today's generation and that is what we're saying. We're saying the same thing. Today's generation of women a lot of them not all not all but most are selfish because you guys understand today's generation. You understand everything but you're still selfish. You don't want to be traditional women but you want a traditional man. You cannot eat your cake and have it. All this explanation you did, you still want a traditional man. You want a man that is going to give you money when you want. You want a man that is going to protect you. You want a man that's going to take care of your kids. You want a man that's going to give you a very beautiful Cinderella lifestyle. But you don't want to be traditional. What make you I'm of course I'm a traditional wife. No, you're not. I am. No, you're not. You know, I I think it's even subjective to how we see it. You You're having It's not subjective at all. Miracle. Miracle. It is. You said it. You think of yourself. You think of yourself. You and this lady in the video, you guys are selfish and and and not or not not all but you're most of the generation of women today. You only think of yourselves and and and and the only time you think of the man is when you want something. No, Miracle, that is not true. That is true. Well, Miracle, I think we're just going to keep arguing, arguing, arguing. You don't you don't want to listen to me. And I No, you you don't want to listen to me. And I think you're just head bent on this particular thing. You're saying that I'm selfish. But it's fine. You know there's no much convincing to do to you right now. So tell me what do you think about what is Lisa? I I know what you already she's she's very much selfish and shame on her. Shame on her and shame on whoever thinks this way as well because you are you are you are the reason why this world is so backwards and cano and so dark especially when it comes to the relationship circles because men don't mind men don't mind giving to their woman. Men don't mind endowing their women with gifts, with pearls, with all these type of amazing things in life, the best things in life. Mhm. But sometimes men don't want to be made, they don't want to feel like [ __ ] They don't want to feel like [ __ ] They don't want it to be They don't want it to feel like it is a it's a chore. It's a must. It must happen. These are the type of things back in the days that were used as courting. Like you use it to court a girl, make a a girl feel special, make a girl like you know all these type like make a girl just feel special to you. Mhm. But now every babe feels like every guy must do that. It's an entitlement. That's why people need to move with people that thinks like them. No. No. You should not feel and even if you're a woman, you should not feel entitled to gifts. You should not feel entitled to to to to a guy buying everything for you. You shouldn't even have that mentality. You shouldn't even have that mentality so that when it comes, you even appreciate it more because when you always expect it and it just comes, you're like, it's casual. You don't see the the beauty in it, the value. Yeah. You don't, bro. If I'm eating cake every day and on my birthday you buy me cake, it's like every other day that No, no, think about it. Facts. If I eat cake every day for 365 days and when it comes to my birthday when I'm actually supposed to eat cake, blow candles, all this type of stuff, but I've been doing it every day of the year, it's like every other day. Do you agree? What you're saying is any man say this, it makes sense. So I'm not the you know it makes sense but you don't No no no but you don't want to you don't want to agree to the sense I want to say something because you are so you're so negatively driven. No, it's not about Why would I be negatively driven? You're negatively driven. You're negatively driven. I'm not. If you're wait, if you're saying that a woman should a woman shouldn't ask a man, men don't want to feel like is is their responsibility to provide certain things to women. Okay? You don't want to feel that way. A woman has to wait till when the man feels like gifting her, she will gift her to be appreciated. Do you still know that there are still many women that have been have been married for nearly 30 years and never been gifted by their spouse? And guess what? Guess what? That man still provides. That man still protects. And that man still takes care of her. And do you know what it is? They are a beautiful word that women and a lot of people need to learn. Both men, both women, both children. It's called content. They are content. Miracle. See, let me tell you something. Do you know the the killer of joy? Do you know the killer of joy? Comparison. When you compare your situation or where you compare what you have with someone else's is the killer of joy. You don't enjoy what you have because you are too overly thinking of somebody else's joy. You're not appreciating your own joy. What I'm saying? I'm going to say and that's a lot a lot of women do. Oh, let me tell you. You get a Chanel bag, you see your friend with a Birkin bag, you're like, "Oh, a man can buy me a Birkin." Be content. What I'm going to say is that I'm They take you to Black Bel and take you to Snow. They're both restaurants. You're going to [ __ ] at the end of the day in the in in the toilet. Be content. What I'm saying is there there are two type of men in this life. The men that thinks like you, Miracle, and the one that thinks that there's no problem in spending money on the woman. Those guys are simps. They're simps. They're simps. And women don't even respect men like that. They don't even respect They don't They don't. Let me tell you something. Do you want to know why they don't respect men like that? Because every woman deep down knows all those men that just want to spend money, spend money, spend money on you. When he finds a girl that is prettier than you, he's going to spend money on her and you're going to move. That is the truth. And every woman knows it. Miracle. Hold on. Miracle. Hold on. In this in this we can we can oh no you can see people getting married to men doing men that are doing well and they still enjoying their relationship. What I would just tell you is that see everybody is going to be so wrong for us to sit down and and and say oh people should think think a certain way. That does not mean we shouldn't give our opinion on on our own view on what they are saying and how it aligns with Can I ask you a question? But what I want to say is miracle what I want to say is that people are entitled to what they want. And when people are saying this is what I want and that's how I want it to be. They have their reasons. You entitled to what you want but do you know what you have to give up to get it? Yes. I think they well everybody wants to be a billionaire but do you know what you have to do to become a billionaire? It's easy to say every man, every woman wants a rich man. Do you know what you have to do? Do you know what you have to give up? Do you know the lifestyle you have to live? Miracle. Let me tell you something now. Would you love to be a a wife of an NBA player? No. Like would you think about that lifestyle? Your your husband is playing the NBA. He's 68 star player playing for a a team like the Lakers. Yeah, that's that's cool. It sounds like a good lifestyle, right? Okay. What if you knew every night your husband cheats on you and he doesn't respect you? You're just basically a woman in his you're just his wife but he cheats on you every night and you know but he pays for everything. He gives you money. Are you okay with that? I'm not okay with that. But there are some women that are okay with that. But but but but you want to be a basketball player as well. No, you just asked me a question. So the lifestyle is not bad. I know that I've sat down and said, "Oh, but but but you see you but you see why you said but initially you said yes." Yes, I did. Because but when you now thought about it, you said no. No. Yeah. But do you know the funny thing? If this situation comes, you will still enter to be a basketball player. Let me tell you something. I promise you. And and in your head, you now start trying to convince yourself and be like, "Oh, he would change. I will change him. I will change him." M what I'm saying is that I I think we need to get we need to we need to establish a factor. The fact I might establish that women that say they want a man to spend on them does not make them a bad woman or they will not make a good wife. It's not making a bad woman but do they believe that that man is going to be 100% theirs? Miracle who cares like who cares? Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. Oh you tell me that women don't care about that. Miracle people have their deal breakers. Some people cheating is not a deal breaker to them. And that is what I'm saying. Does that that is why I'm trying to say those women know what they signed up for. But a lot of women say these things don't know what they are signing up for. Maybe that maybe that you know but miracle. What I still want to say is that I'm not in support of what this girl said. I said it earlier on because I I obviously men have other values apart from being you know. Do you believe that's their number one value? Finance. Yeah. No, I don't think that's What do you think? What do you think a man's number one value is? How he treats a woman. Yes. That's what I think. I feel like you're capping, but okay. I'm not capping. It's how you treat a woman. I'm saying I told you is how miracle. Maybe I've always dated people that have treated me nice. Honestly, you've always treated me really good. Honestly. So, you're the one that always ended your relationship. No. No. Like things happen, you you know. Were you always the one that ended it though? Um, yeah, some cases. So, they were always a problem. Some Yeah, they were always a problem. Not always, but they're part of the problem. You're so selfish. That is so selfish. They start they part of the problem. What I'm saying, I'm very particular about a man's treat. A man treats me. Honestly, I am. I'm very particular. It's a man I want to date. I see longterm with. You want to You want a man to treat you like a queen? Do you treat a man like a king? Yeah, I do. I do. In my best knowledge, I do. You treat a man like a king? How you How can you How does someone does not sacrifice for their king? I'm not I'm I'm talking about their healthy sacrifice. They healthy sacrifice. I don't know how that they are healthy sacrifice. So you can't sacrifice your life for your husband. God forbid. Why would I sacrifice my life for my husband? I don't understand. I cannot sacrifice my Is there anyone that can sacrifice their life for their husband? I can't do that. Do you want your husband to sacrifice his life for you? Miracle is depending on him if you want to. Do you for real? For real. Do you want Do you want your old man to sacrifice that for you? Nobody should sacrifice. Stop. You would not avoid this question. Do you want Do you want Do you want your husband Do you want your husband sacrifice for you? Nobody should sacrifice that. Please can you answer the question? Do you want No. It doesn't have to be a yes or no miracle. Yes, it is. It doesn't have to be. Honestly, it doesn't have to be a yes or no. When you get married to somebody, I swear you say in sickness and in health. In sickness and health to dead do apart. I can't I could come on. Stop it, Jerry. Stop saying that. I don't like it. I'm angry with this guy. Why you ask me that? It's an annoying question. Why will you ask me that if I will sacrifice my life? Why would I do that? Don't I have kids to take care of? The kids even need their mother more. You don't know. I'm I'm shook. I am I'm I'm flabbergasted. Miracle, you sacrifice your your life for your wife. Yes. You easier said than done. I don't think twice about that. Miracle just lied on camera. Will you sacrifice? Would you sacrifice your life for your mother? My mom. My mom want my mom want that. I swear on my mom want that. Why you not said anything here? Would you sacrifice your life for your child? Yes, I will. Mhm. I will cuz she has longer years to live than me. Why won't I do that? I'll do that. Will you sacrifice your life for your sibling? Miracle. Oh my. It depends. It miracle. Miracle. Miracle. Hold on. You're just miracle. Just saying. Oh my god. Miracle. Hold on. Please. You're even cold. I'm cold. You even feel cold? Oh my god. Is instigator. Oh my god. What's the problem? Nobody should sacrifice their life for anybody. Honestly, that's the truth. Nobody should. It's not very a good position. We're talking we can't we can't till we get there. You know that it's not as easy as we're saying. Oh no. I know you know I know you're far gone. No, I'm not. I'm far gone. You're far gone. How? I'm telling you. You you people come on TV and that's what I that's what I don't like about the whole television stuff. People people come on national TV and talk about how I would do this, I will do that. Well, do you know it is to sacrifice your life for somebody? I know you're so wrong. Miracle that question is not it's not a question that you should just answer like that. I know. I swear you're so wrong. So I should sacrifice myself for my husband as what? I don't understand who would take care of the kids. Who would you want your husband sacrifice that for you? I won't even ask him to honestly nobody should. Nobody will ask sacrifice their life for theirs. No, nobody will should. Would you sacrifice? Would you want him to give you his kidney? I would want that. Would you expect him to give you his kidney? Look, I don't understand. You [ __ ] [ __ ] You [ __ ] You know how you couldn't answer that? You're [ __ ] selfish and you know the answer is yes. I will expect him to give me his kidney. Oh my god. Eno you are far gone. You need help. You need Jesus. Let me pray for you. Father Lord. Father in heaven we are gathered here today to pray for Eno. Um um um um viewers, please just close your eyes while we pray for her. No. God, please teach her the solitude of selflessness to be selfless especially not just for the people around her. I'm lost. What's happening? But for her partner in the future, I'm I'm lost. Please Lord, guide her. Okay. Give her the wisdom. Amen. In Jesus name we have prayed. Amen. Amen. Miracle, you need help. Miracle is easier said than done. Trust me, it is. It's easier said than done. So, you won't take a bullet for your mother. Miracle. You won't take a bullet for your mother. Miracle is easier said than done. That's what I'm telling you. It's easier said than done, honestly. Wow. It is. It is easier said than done. Ladies and gentlemen, I I think we need to just end the podcast there. What a way to end episode one. introduced our new co-host. I'm still lo I'm just I'm really lost. She she honestly I'm really really lost. She she did her introduction which was she told us about herself and we found out how selfish she was as far as that she would not take a bullet for the woman that gave her life. Never said that. I didn't just answer you. And for the person that is going to be the father of her children. Miracle. Ladies and gentlemen, I've been Miracle OP. This is the person that we've been talking about. You're not the city girl. People don't like Make sure you like. Make sure you subscribe. Don't listen to Miracle. The House Chronicles. Miracle. Shout out to the House Chronicles for giving me this amazing platform to push my P. Push our P and talk our [ __ ] I think I should say that. Like, subscribe, follow us on all social media platforms, X, Tik Tok, YouTube. Make sure you subscribe. Make sure you leave a comment down below. Make sure you follow us on Spotify and on Apple Podcast and all streaming platforms. 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