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102: 10 Ways You're Showing The Universe You're Not Confident And Not Worthy Of Living An Abundant Life
I celebrate my birthday on 3rd June 2021. Because of this, I'm doing a Money Mindset Series: Birthday Edition. A gift for you as your money mindset mentor to create an outrageously successful life and business. In this Money Mindset Series, I hope that it will help you create wealth and gain practical wisdom on releasing your money blocks. For Women Who Love The F-Word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and A Happy Family..... YOU HAVE A DIAMOND WITHIN YOU AND YOU DESERVE TO SHINE! Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset
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The podcast features business leaders, celebrities and inspirational figures with guests including Gary Vaynerchuk, Sheryl Sandberg, Elena Cardone, Mary Buffett, Neil Patel, Kim Kiyosaki, Pia Wurtzbac, Gerry Roberts, Grant Cardone, Denise Duffield Thomas, Sue B Zimmerman, Jay Abraham, Robert Kiyosaki, Anik Singal, Blair Singer, Nas Daily, Dame Wendy Tan, Jacy Wee, Freda Liu, Carrie Lee, Success Resources Veronica Tan & Richard Tan and many more.
Hear more about amazing role models from around the world share their inspirational stories and practical tools for personal and professional success. In each episode, creator and host Genecia Alluora draws out the stories and deconstructs the strategies of remarkable figures making an impact. To Own & Love The F-Word: Being Fabulous, Having Freedom, Financial Independence and family.
Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, 𝑰𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑾𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 2019. She is the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F’ membership program. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and online academy, she mentors hundreds of thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online. With her coaching products, academy and membership, her vision is to support 1 million women to own and love the F-Word.
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Genecia Alluora: I celebrate my birthday on 3rd of June. Because of this, I'm doing a Money Mindset Series Birthday Edition. A gift for you as your Money Mindset Mentor to create an outrageously successful life and business. In this Money Mindset Series, I hope that it will help you to create wealth and gain practical wisdom on releasing your money blocks. For women who love the F-word, being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and a happy family. You have a diamond that is within you and you deserve to shine. Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly online course is available at shor.by/moneymindset.com.
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Genecia Alluora: Hello, gorgeous, and welcome to today's episode. My name is Genecia Alluora. I'm your host for today. I'm also the founder of Soul Rich Woman, author of two best selling books. And that's why I want to share with you ten ways you're showing the universe you're not worthy of living an abundant life. Now, do you feel like you're not worthy having abundance or a happy life? Are there ways you're showing the universe that you're not confident and unworthy? Now, just over the weekend, something happened to my studio. There were a lot of flies in the studio because there was the heater, our heater container with a water tank above our ceiling burst. And then there was a lot of water that was flooding.
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Genecia Alluora: And eventually that led to manifestation or infestation of the flies, and they were all flying around in the room. It's those very small flies. And these are flies that when you find the toilet. So we tried to clean it ourselves, right? We brought in the humidifier, we brought in the dryer. We brought in the insecticides to spray at the top of the false ceiling. There were so many things that we did ourselves. And after the cleaning it did not get better. There were still some, I would say quite a number of flights still flying around. And then there were baby flies as well. Oh my God. Literally as I'm speaking, the flies were all flying all in front of me so it can get really quite scary.
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Genecia Alluora: And finally, after many days of staring at those flies, I finally called a cleaning company or a pest company who specialize in getting rid of pest to help us as opposed to us cleaning challenged amateurs who try to clean our fault ceilings, get the dehumidifier and many things. And they came around with their giant machine and it took less than 15 minutes and declared everything. And that cost us $200, now $200 to solve the problem. In fact, remove the problem immediately and completely. thus saving me the torture of having flies flying around me during my recordings, looking at those flights and worrying it or fly into my mouth as I'm doing my podcast recording. But I have to admit I was first reluctant to pay it because I thought I could do it myself and get my partner to do it myself.
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Genecia Alluora: You see, as I was coaching with clients this week, I told this story repeatedly because as women entrepreneurs we often look for the make do solution. We feel like we should know how to do it alone. We not only try to do the thing ourselves and we try to do it for good measure. Now, these might be trivial things, everyday thing trivial, small, tiny. But trust me, if every time you choose the cheaper option or what we call the economy class option rather than the VIP version, you are telling the universe that you are not ready for more then you're not confident to receive more. You're just trying to find ways so called for value or trying to save your money. Nothing wrong with that.
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Genecia Alluora: But I'm coming in the context of the unworthiness subconsciously or the low confidence that is within you, then you could just pay that $200 and get that sorted out in 15 minutes rather than trying to figure it out, right? So we try to make things difficult for ourselves because we are reluctant to pay the money for the right solution that can solve in minutes and we think that we should do it ourselves or deep down we don't believe that we deserve the very best yet. You know how much I enjoy stretching and analogy and mining my everyday life for inspiration. So let me just give you just ten examples of where I see this showing up in my own, my clients and friends life.
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Genecia Alluora: In your business and career try to do everything yourself from websites to praying bits and pieces of money for piecemealing solutions together that don't quite work. Being reluctant to hire help or outsource or delegate because we are just too busy. And besides, nobody can do it like me. Sticking with a web designer or graphic designer that doesn't work for you anymore because you feel bad about leaving or asking for what you really want. Waiting to get new laptop, iPad, iPhone because you can't justify the expenses yet or you don't feel ready for the best equipment. Or maybe someone is telling you you shouldn't spend your money on an Imac 2020 latest version because the earlier version just before the new version is released is going to be way much cheaper.
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Genecia Alluora: Having substandard headshots, business cards, website and being too embarrassed to send them to potential clients. Not having a dedicated space for your business for the fear of inconveniencing other people. Using a very lousy chair that doesn't help you with your posture, doesn't allow you to sit longer hours in comfort and then pay and spend a fortune in going to chiropractic or going for twina or Tieta. Life in general. Skipping lunch or feeding yourself with leftovers. Feeling terrible as a mother for putting your kids in daycare just to get some me time to work on your business.
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Genecia Alluora: Feeling guilty about getting a babysitter or a part time cleaner in, but getting frustrated with a messy house and spending your Saturdays and Sundays cleaning or fighting with a partner about whose turn is it to clean the toilet. Being loyal to a hair or beauty person, even if you aren't happy with the service anymore. Resenting your partner because they always seem to buy new clothes, new shoes when they need them without feeling guilty about it. Putting off health maintenance like dental or optical because you're scared of the cost. Wearing outdated clothes or glasses, or feel like laser is something that other people do, but not you.
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Genecia Alluora: So all these things I've just mentioned, where in your life and business are you trying or are you at today? Honestly, I mean, the good news is every time you choose the VIP option, every time you choose to honor yourself, to love yourself, to take care of yourself first, and you'll take care of your time first. And let's face it, your mental health, the universe rewards you. Sometimes that costs money, sometimes it's inconvenient, and yes, sometimes you will feel guilty. But you know what, my dear, take action. Pick one thing in your day to day life that is causing you unnecessary wasted energy and immediately upgrade it. I was having a lot of back pain because I was sitting in the wrong chair and I wanted to save money. I just wanted to save money because that chair has been with me for the last seven years.
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Genecia Alluora: I wouldn't bear to let it go. But you know what? Eventually, I decided to give myself an upgrade, upgrade to really good and expensive, about $600 chair, and then let myself feel that ease and feel that I know that I love myself and I set myself free. And this is my time and I'm ready for the next step. And for you, if you're feeling tired, you're feeling frustrated with your not enough time, not enough freedom, now book in the virtual assistant. Delegate, outsource. Go to instant tribe leader, instanttribeleader.com. Go to instanttribeleader.com. Go grab those project kits and how to hire virtual assistant. What is the systems and process you can set up? What are the things you can do with your VA?
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Genecia Alluora: All the project kits and workbooks are there ready for you. 25 questions to ask your virtual assistant when you want to interview them or hire them, they are all there. So go get it done. And for you who's not even thinking about updating your branding shots. You just want to save money, you know what? Log in the new date for those new headshots. Go for it. Go through your closet and really put away or give away those things that is really economy. That will have a huge impact in your manifesting ability, your ability to receive because you are subconsciously telling yourself that, yes, this is my time and I'm ready for the next step. And you are showing the universe that you are worth more than that, and you will be rewarded for it.
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Genecia Alluora: So remember, we all have a part to play in this. This is your time and you are ready for the next step. The more you take action in a consistent way, the faster you build momentum and really grow your business. If you love today's episode, do rate, review and subscribe to our podcast on iTunes and Spotify, or any apps that you are using to listen in because it helps us to get found. Someone might just need to hear this episode today. As always, I love you, appreciate you, and thank you for being here. You are the reason why I show up every day to walk with you, not in front of you. I'm right here beside you. Perfectly imperfect. Thank you and I'll see you in the next episode. And bye for now.
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Genecia Alluora: The key to unlock consistent success. The key to unlock that diamond within you. No other things involved. This is what you need to do and must do tonight. You can do it because I've done it. As long as you have a mentor who can take you from where you are now to where you want to be, you can shortcut your success. You can be different in order to make a difference. Turn your talent into your business. Turn your passion into a paycheck by being you, by being you and owning you. Give yourself a second chance. Never say no to your failures. As a woman, we have the power in our hands. Never let your fears hold you back. Quit thinking and start doing. Life is really short and keep pursuing what you truly ever wanted to achieve. Women come together. Alone, we are strong. Together, we are unstoppable. The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint is going to be transforming your life today, yesterday, last year. Because you took action today, I'm going to say more power to you.