Monica Lim: I think part of me like, wow,
it's, it's not like I suddenly have ADHD.
I think what, like with school,
with work, it was not so bad, but
like with parenting, oh my god.
I think I had this idea of myself, as
you know, like, I want to be this like
Montessori kind of mom, like and then
all of those things just, just really
fell apart with me, like with parenting
Jesse: Hey, my name is Jesse J.
Anderson, host of the ADHD Nerds podcast.
The show where we talk about living with
ADHD, and have some fun along the way.
This is episode 11, and today I'm
talking with my friend, Monica Lim.
Monica is a project manager and
creator based in Seoul who currently
leads business development in Korea
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Monica.
It is great to have you here.
Monica Lim: Thank you for
having me and for your patience.
Jesse: Yeah, we finally,
finally figure out the schedule.
Yeah, so I always love to start the show
kind of hearing your background with ADHD.
What did you maybe notice growing
up that maybe you thought there was
something, or maybe you didn't know?
And then how did you eventually kind of
find out that, oh, this is ADHD and what,
yeah, what has that meant for your life?
Monica Lim: So I had heard about ADHD
and like, just by definition and I never
saw myself even close to that, like
territory, cuz like I think growing up,
I was a really, really good student.
I loved studying.
Like nobody told me I
had to do my homework.
I would just be studying a lot or like
into books and I could like really focus.
I could be like five hours straight,
you know, like doing something
homework or like studying for tests?
Um, so like growing up, I
really don't remember like
any hint of oh, Monica's ADHD.
Or, uh, like, I, I, like, I associated
ADHD with like fidgeting or like
just not being able to stay still.
And I was a pretty kind of like quiet, uh,
girl, just, you know, onto to my things.
So yeah, growing up, it was
pretty, um, like no signs of
anything out the typical path.
Jesse: Right.
So when, when did that change?
Monica Lim: I think for me, like,
it really was, pretty recently,
like a huge breakthrough for me was
I just kept getting bored at work.
Like I just switching
jobs, like, you know.
Oh, this is not for me.
Like I would just have, sudden sort of
new career aspirations or interests.
And I think that was like,
I just always felt restless.
Which I didn't, which I didn't
notice going through like school.
I did like my Bachelors, I did my
Masters and maybe, uh, you have like
the, the semesters you have like classes.
So, you know, like before you're
about to get bored, there's a new
semester, new students, new classmates.
But that, that's kind of like
how I interpret, like, why
didn't I notice this before?
So I think it was always there, but like
there were, uh, I was kind of motivated.
Always, too cuz I, there was a lot
of new and new challenges, newness
to my academic sort of career.
But, um, my background
is in civil engineering.
I, I studied civil engineering
and I worked as a project
manager in construction.
So I did like large commercial projects.
And some of these can go
for like over 18 months.
It could be three years long.
And it was it just after about
like six months or about a year.
Like I would just get that itch.
Oh, like this is kinda like, you
know, boring or like it's very
repetitive and I would not find
sort of like new challenges.
And I had this like, opportunity to
teach at a university and I was like,
oh, this like, it's like, like the,
the, the checks, you know, like, oh,
super interesting, exciting, new.
Jesse: Mm-hmm mm-hmm
Monica Lim: So I was okay.
I'm in.
And whenever, like I had those kind of
opportunities come up, um, quite often.
So, you know, I was
teaching about after a year.
Oh.
Like, I don't like my coworkers.
Like, I don't know if this is for me,
like, and then going back to corporate.
And that's how I worked in the
States after like, I, I studied in
the, in the States, I worked, in
Chicago for, for about two years.
I went back to my school
in Urbana-Champagne.
And then I got bored and
I was looking for a job.
And that's how sort of, I kind of like
landed back in South Korea, which is like,
you know, where I'm from, uh, originally.
So, yeah, like just,
just jumping off career.
And I went back, it was going
back and forth from like my,
my actual professional career.
And then like, something very
different from my career.
So I was like, construction, like
project management, and then teaching,
and then back to project management.
And after I got married about
like, I don't know, 10 years
ago, I just felt like I had more.
, you know, I was just getting bored
at my job at my corporate job.
And I was like, oh, you
know, like I'm still young.
And like, I just played that
like repertoire, like I'm
young, I should figure out what
I want to do now, not later.
You know, I can take a job.
I could always go back to work.
And that's how, like, I just really,
yeah, like I just quit my job and, and
I was like, okay, what should I do?
What should I do?
And back then, it was very popular
to like, you know, for somebody
coming from abroad, uh, a very
easy sort of side job was to teach
English this was like back in 2013.
So, oh, again, like, oh,
like sounds interesting.
Like I love meeting people like, and
like, you know, that, that cycle.
So I was teaching and then
like getting bored and.
Maybe about three years
ago, I was like, okay.
There's there's like
something strange here.
Like my husband was
like, oh, Monica, again.
You're like bored again.
Like you're switching jobs again.
And there was this, this one, uh, in 2000
back in 2019, this is like pre COVID.
One of my, uh, my, and I was coaching,
uh, adults for like English and one of
my clients worked at a modeling agency.
So I had this like really super
random opportunity to work, uh,
for a fashion week in Korea.
So my job was to like, basically,
okay, we have like a lot of editors
from like Vogue magazine, like all
these big names that I like I had
heard, um, you know, like we have to
make sure that they go to their shows.
They go in time, we check attendance,
we make sure we usher them.
And like, it was like the first
time I'm doing this, but it just
sounded super exciting, super new.
And I was like, okay, I'm in.
And this is like March of 2019.
And like fashion shows can be
a whole like, it's so they can
be so intense and so crazy.
But, um, I was so good at it.
Like, there are a million parts.
There are like million things moving.
There're like, there's
so many things going on.
Like again, like, I, I could see
people panicking, but, uh, somehow
it was like my first time doing it.
Like, I just, just, just kind of like knew
exactly like what I was supposed to do,
how to control all those million parts.
Like I was just like,
kind of killing it, right?
Like I'm like I'm really good at this.
Jesse: Was it almost
like crisis management?
Like things were kind
of a little bit chaotic?
Monica Lim: Kind of, but like almost,
yeah, like super chaotic, but like,
I was kind of like really flowing
in the middle of the chaos and,
Jesse: I love the chaos.
Monica Lim: Um, yeah, and
like, I, I knew like maybe it's
because those are my background.
Like I.
I'm a project manager,
like I was in construction.
So just like all this like sequence of
things that need to happen and like,
you know, like a sense of what needs to
get done before, like what could happen,
like predicting and acting upon that.
And, um, so.
Like, it was like, they gave me this
very, very tiny job, but I could, like,
I just really, really took ownership.
And like, I came up with like
systems on like how to create
attendance, know, plans.
Like I just went all out and I was
like, I could, I was like until like
2:00 AM in the morning, like planning
sheets, and like, like nobody told
me what to do, but I knew what to do.
And after that show.
I was like, wow, this
was like really awesome.
Like I love this type of work and I had
like other opportunities to do that.
Right.
But, um, and that's when I noticed, like,
you know, like, I love this like really
intense, like so many things going on.
I love figuring things out
and then I'll get bored right.
Of other, you know, like, so for fashion
shows, um, I, I didn't get bored yet,
cuz like they're like so crazy, right?
Like every time is crazy thing.
And then it ends in like
two weeks max it's over.
Uh, it's not like a two year thing.
Like, so there's really
no time to get bored.
And that's, that's why,
like, I love fashion shows,
but they're also so intense.
And, um, so that's when, like I
experienced something so intense that I,
around me, nobody else I felt like could
do very well, or like I was really kind
of uniquely designed or shaped for this.
Uh, and I would just get really bored.
So I noticed that like, oh,
I'm, I'm a little bit different.
Like there there's something here
that I can handle that other people
don't seem to do just as well.
and that combination, like back in two
19, and then like, just again, like
hopping from jobs and getting bored.
And, and I think it was like
2000, like 20, like last year.
Like I, uh, I discovered this crazy
world of like courses of learning
of like connecting with people.
Like it was so stimulating for me, like
meeting people, like, uh, reaching out
to some people like having those people
reach back to me like, uh, and it was so.
I don't know, just, just very, very
like high dopamine, high energy,
like just, just very intense.
And I think that's when, um, yeah,
there were like the there's like, okay,
like this is, and then I'm looking
at my husband super neurotypical.
Like it's like kind of typical guy.
And I like none of the things that
I was experiencing, I felt like he
could sort of relay, like we were
not on the same page in terms of like
experiences and our brains were working.
and then like people that I follow, like
Marie Poulin, even like you, just talking
about ADHD and, uh, Marie Poulin she
back into like, probably I learned about
her through YouTube in 2000, like maybe
20, like right at start of like COVID,
And like, I'm like, she's my twin sister.
She's like my, I was like, how can this
person total stranger, like everything
she says, like how she, like, she was
like speaking out loud, explaining what
her, like, how her brain was, was working.
And it was exactly how, like,
I, like my brand was working.
so I like, I really followed her.
uh, just, just the things that she was
doing and how she was doing it, like
really resonated with me, like really
applied to me and really worked for me.
So, um, you know, like I, I took
her course notion mastery, which
is like a super great course.
Lots of people that I feel
like have ADHD in that course.
And even like notion, like I love notion
so much, um, just how I was like instantly
connected and instantly loving notion.
I felt, And again, like some other
people, like this is so easy, like
I'm like, this is like so intuitive.
It's like, you know, how
can like people not get it?
But I saw a lot of people that...
I just look at there's something
different about me, right.
so a couple clues, but again, I'm
still like resisting, like me ADHD.
Like I can work on something
for like eight hours.
Like, I don't need food, I don't need
water, like I can, I can go straight.
Like I don't, I don't, I
don't struggle with focus.
Jesse: I did the exact same thing when
my wife was talking with her friend about
ADHD and she sort of brought it to me.
I basically said like, there's
no way that I can have ADHD.
Cause I can spend hours focusing
on the things I'm interested in.
And it's like, yeah.
Then I found out about hyperfocus
and I was like, oh, oh, that
really kind of fits my situation.
Monica Lim: And I, I think I, I,
I may have learned about hyper
focused from you, like, from like
your, like you had the five pillars
You know, like I can really focus,
in a way, like, it makes me proud.
Like I was like, wow,
like I, like, I did this.
And, uh, I didn't realize that it
was a trait sort of like specific or
like common in, in people with ADHD.
So I'm like gathering clues.
And I think the biggest thing was
I was so stimulated that like, my
brain just became so loud, like, I
think like my brain just did, like,
it was just really loud all day long.
And.
Of course I'm like, oh, you
know, like everybody, like, yeah.
You know, like I I'm, I'm on Twitter.
Like I'm learning a lot of things.
This is totally normal.
Probably a lot of people like
are going through the same thing.
And, uh, it was just getting really bad.
Like just, I just wanted my
brain quiet a little bit, but
it just like like a faucet.
Like, it was just, just.
waterfall of stuff like ideas,
connections, like it was just,
just talking to me like nonstop.
and just somebody like has to just,
oh Monica, like, you know, like
maybe you should look into this and
like, you know, I have ADHD, like
a friend of mine that had ADHD.
I was like, you know, uh, I didn't wanna,
I didn't wanna tell you, but like, I
think I always knew that you had ADHD.
I'm what?
Um, And I, I that's when, around the
same time, like, you know, I teach like
even Marie Poulin was like, oh, I was
recently diagnosed and blah, blah, blah.
And I'm like, oh, maybe I, I.
That is it, it felt like a natural step
to, to like, see if like, what kind
of, you know, like, do I have ADHD?
Like, what does look like for me?
And finally went to see a doctor and
like the doctor also in like going
through like childhood and like, I was
like, oh miss, I don't you have ADHD.
And I'm um, yeah, cuz I, and I think it's
because I was a student, like, Almost a
straight a student, like I love studying.
And, um, and I have my
sort of ideas of that.
Like I think getting good grades
was sort of a game for me.
Like, I don't remember anything I studied.
Like I don't, remember.
I don't remember anything from my classes.
It's so sad.
Like I have A's and, but I think for me
was like the, the game and the rush of.
Of getting that difficult problem.
Nobody can get, but me, like,
know, like solving that thing.
And then that was very, very
kind of motivating for me,
think.
Um,
Jesse: I, I love that
feeling solving something.
No one else can solve that is, oh yeah.
Gimme that problem.
That's what I
Monica Lim: exactly.
So like there would be exams where
like, oh, there's one person in
this class who solved this problem.
oh, Monica, like, you Like I mean,
I don't even know that problem.
I don't even know like how I solved it,
but like just, I think I had like the,
the, the, like the good goals to have, get
good grades, but so much to really learn.
Um, at least like, you know, for me,
so long story and like wrapping it up.
Like, I finally get my like
noses, like probably earlier
this year, LA end of last year.
And, uh, it's been like, oh, my god.
Like, it's been a whole lot of, uh, wow.
Like, you know, because I've been
reading or like studying or, and
just really understanding how there
are like so many ramifications.
There are like so many things that I do.
And I see a lot of like these traits,
just like little signs and clues, and
bread crumbs, right, of like ADHD signs.
And, I don't know, like so many
mistakes, I've made so many bad decisions
I've made so many things that like,
could have been so different today,
had I known I had ADHD.
And like, oh, you know, Monica,
like you, this is like, you're,
you're rushing into this.
Or, um, I could have . Saved a lot of
heartache and a lot of bad decisions.
Had I known, I think.
That I
had ADHD.
Jesse: Yeah.
I think when a lot of people,
when they get diagnosed, uh,
I know I went through this.
There's almost like a period of mourning
you're kind like looking, kind of looking
back on your life and just seeing like,
oh, That's why, that's why there's like
the, a reason behind all these things that
kinda went wrong or went sideways and you
didn't didn't really know why at the time.
So you're just kind of like going with the
flow, but then looking back, you're just.
it seems like my entire life would've
been different if I had known this
and maybe that's not true, but like,
looking back, it's just so hard
to just knowing that there's that.
Yeah.
Like you're learning, the more you learn
about ADHD, the more you just see like,
oh, it's in like everything in my Like
all the decisions and actions I make.
It's present in all of those places.
And so not knowing about this huge
piece of how my brain works for,
for me, it was, you know, 35 years.
Like that's a long time to live life
and not know why your brain is doing
things the way it's doing it Yeah.
Monica Lim: For, yeah, it
was, it was, uh, it's huge.
It's huge.
And like, I, I almost kind of want to.
become like an advocate of like,
just, just helping people that, almost
like give them clarity, like sooner.
Like, you know, because I, I notice a
lot of people, I have, you know, some
clients that I notice those traits and
I'm like, I'm not gonna tell them I
could get diagnosed, but, uh, I think
they're, they're like they're things
so worthwhile to explore to even,
even if you don't have ADHD, but to
really understand how you operate.
it would be a huge thing,
especially with parenting, right?
Like they say for, for people, with ADHD,
their kids, like most likely may have
also like ADHD traits and learning that
I have ADHD noticing my kids have ADHD or
like seeing those, those traits has really
changed the way parent and, um, like
have, have more compassion for my kids.
Right.
And,
uh,
Jesse: Yeah.
Cause it's hard.
There's so many things with ADHD and.
With just the kind of expectations of
what you think parenting is gonna be like.
I mean, those expectations are out the
window for everybody, but particularly
when they have ADHD, there's just
so many unique struggles to kind of,
because like their world, like with
school and everything, like they have
there's schedules, they have to follow
there's work that needs to be done.
And just sort of like navigating that.
And there's also like the
emotional dysregulation, which can.
raising a kid really difficult.
um, just sort of like
learning how to handle that
Monica Lim: Yeah, I think part
of me like, wow, it's, it's
not like I suddenly have ADHD.
I think what, like with school,
with work, it was not so bad, but
like with parenting, oh my god.
I think I, I think I had this idea
of myself, as you know, like, I want
to be this like Montessori kind of
mom, like homeschool, like I'm gonna,
like, I want to teach my kids about
like all these books that are awesome.
And, and then like all of those things
just, just really fell apart with me,
like with parenting, like, you know, kids
don't don't do what you think will do,
or they they're kind of like, and, and
dealing with that sort of like rejection,
like feeling rejected as a mom and like,
feeling like, crappy about like, so
parenting and relationship was like the,
the huge kind of, um, I think with ADHD,
like I always feel that certain things
are like the, the lucky
things all your attention.
then the, there are things
that, just because of X, Y,
Z just don't get attention.
Right.
I'm sure, like, there are lots of ADHD,
moms who like, love parenting, like
are really good and maybe that's their.
There's zone of genius.
Where like, that's where, like they
they'll spend like eight hours,
like researching recipes or like,
you know, like looking for crafts
and like all of these things.
But for me, I realized that, oh my god,
like parenting is really, really hard.
It's like the, the thing that I
procrastinate it's the thing that
I just really don't want to do.
And like, having that feeling
made me really shameful.
Like I'm like, oh, like, you know,
I'm their mom and like, so I think
parenting and like my relationship
with parenting was like, a huge kind
of like coming to accept myself.
Like, you know, this is an area
where it's just hard for me.
Like I need to make this more interesting.
I need to, uh, I need
to make this more new.
I need to make, so I could have like,
Smaller wins, not having this, this
really high expectations of parenting
and that has really helped, but, like
I'm so forgetful about all the important
things about parenting, like, you know,
like vaccination, like there, there's
so many things that you need to keep
track of that are really important.
Like signing them up for school,
signing them up for daycare,
like signing up for this and.
All of those things were like,
ah, like I don't wanna do that.
know, it's like taxes and like filing
taxes, doing your insurance stuff.
That was for me, like
doing stuff for, parenting
um,
Jesse: I I found, especially
with like pandemic stuff, it
just got all even more difficult.
There was more paperwork, more schedules.
You know, our, our kids were having
to do school from home, which was
just absolute chaos at our house.
Um, cause I, I work from home too.
Luckily I have like an office it's sort
of, it's like built in the garage, so
it's a little bit separated from the
house, but it was still, I had to.
You know, I was still like taking time
from work to get inside, to help things
happen because yeah, it was just chaos.
And so there's so much with parenting
and schooling in particular that
requires all the stuff that people
with ADHD really hate to do.
just like all the schedules and the
paperwork and all that, like busy work.
And I, I find myself like
all the time, just thinking.
Like I'm problem solving in my head.
Like, oh, the school
should do it this way.
This would be so much easier, there's
actually do to make that happen.
Monica Lim: My god.
Jesse: The way it is.
Yeah.
Monica Lim: Oh, I, can totally relate
on, like, it's almost like you, you, you
think of how to make the system better
instead of doing like the 1% that matters.
I'm
Jesse: yeah.
Yep.
Monica Lim: and I mean, scheduling I'm.
Like my work, I see myself as a
project manager and I'm actually
a pretty good project manager.
Um, I love scheduling, like just figuring
out like, what are some of the areas that
could go wrong and like scaffolding those
things and like, I'm so good at that.
I just, just need to figure out a way to,
to make parenting like, uh, a project.
So it's, it's, it's almost like I need
to find little things that I can do
to project like my life with the kids.
Uh, and, and I, and I have small wins.
Like, I'll think of like, oh, how can I
make this like less friction for the kids?
And I'll come up with
things that work and.
Jesse: Like
Monica Lim: They feel like a
huge win for me as a parent.
so it's, it's just really, like, you're
not terrible Monica, like, you know,
there are things that you need to
work on, but there are all these other
things that you're really great at.
So I, I, I'm trying to practice
more grace and self-compassion
like, Monica, you know, you you're
really good at these things.
how can we make.
This similar environment for like the
kid, the things that are difficult
for you, like parenting like meal
planning is like so stressful.
Oh my god.
Like, um, just, just those decisions,
like even like, okay, what should,
where should we go eat out?
Like that decision is really hard for me.
And I think my, my husband, like he
does not understand why that's hard.
So I had to like, it's hard, please.
decide like,
Yeah,
Jesse: right.
Yeah, I totally, I, I
relate with that feeling.
Um, I, I think sometimes I feel like the
success that shows up when, for example,
my daughter is like having a hard time
getting, like, she has homework, she has
a hard time getting going on it at all.
I like, like my, I can
jump to like creativity.
Like how more novel or creative?
And that's the sort of thing that
like, you know, for us, like my.
She struggles with that.
She's really good with all the
other stuff that I'm terrible at.
But in that scenario, like that's
when I can shine a little bit of like
becoming like injecting creativity
to help make homework happen.
And it doesn't always work.
And it's like, it's so frustrating
when I think I have like a
clever plan, that's gonna work.
That's going to help motivate my daughter.
And then it just like falls flat.
It's like, oh, that did not work at all.
But a lot of the time.
I'm I think because I understand
how her mind works, you know, a
little bit more because I know that
I understand the ADHD aspect of it.
I feel like a lot of times
that motivation will feel.
Impossible to my wife or
someone who's neurotypical.
Like they can't understand how to
get through, you know, it's the,
like the wall of awful concept.
Like how do you break through
this wall when it's there?
And I think I'm able to, at times,
you know, lean into my strengths
with ADHD and figure out creative
solutions for stuff like that.
Um, and that's, I, I try to, I try to
remind myself of those moments when I
fail at the like, oh, sorry I got the kid.
I, you know, supposedly got the kids
ready, but I forgot they're not wearing
socks or whatever sort of thing like that.
It's like, those things are gonna happen.
And I just try to remind myself of
the things that go well, because like
that's, what's gonna motivate me to be
better at the end of the day, leaning
into and like appreciating my own
strengths is like, that's what helps
me be a better person and be a better
father and all those sorts of things
Monica Lim: Um, yeah, same here.
Like I, because I know
how, like it works for me.
I can see now.
when they're blocked or like how to
unblock them or like, if, especially with
homework and like my daughter, like, I'll
try to understand, they're like very small
reasons why they don't want to do things.
So for example, a very specific thing
that happened this past weekend,
she has to write like a diary,
like a journal entry once a week.
And.
she had ran out of space in her notebook.
So she has like a new notebook and
she had to do, we used like an old
notebook and she like was like, oh,
like she's crying, she's crying.
Like, oh, like I don't wanna do that.
And it turned out to be because like
the first few pages had like old stuff
and she did not want to reveal that.
And like I had no clue.
Jesse: Right.
Monica Lim: Like, her brother is
like, oh, I think she doesn't want to
show her like bad, like mistakes from
like last year it was like, my god.
And then like, so we taped that part
from the beginning and, you know, like,
and then she started doing it again.
So like, it's, it's really the
little things that you notice
to, unblock them, to, to started.
Jesse: awesome.
Well, I think that's a great time to
wrap that up and move onto shiny objects.
So shiny objects is a part of the where
just sort of share some sort of shiny
object that is, you know, grabbing our
interest lately, something you wanna
recommend and share with other people.
So what is, what is your shiny.
Monica Lim: I'm really
getting into like writing on.
So just even like different notebooks,
like different like hundred grams, like
80 grams, like different paper, like
I'm getting obsessed with paper and pen.
so just, just fountain pens
or like different pens that
like how it feels writing.
Um, I'm really into kind of like tip, I
don't know what that those are called,
but like they're, they're Japanese.
Brand that I really like
is Le Pen by Marvin.
and some Pentel pens that work really
nice on, uh, like Hobonichi, you
know, planners that I'm really into.
So,
Jesse: as you were talking I was gonna
ask if you use the Hobonichi cuz I I've
bought several of them and I love them,
but I also end up forgetting about 'em
Monica Lim: Oh, so I bought two, like
I bought a daily one and a weekly one
and the weekly one is, is awesome.
Like it's, it's so compact, but
you can, you can fit in so much
stuff like, I'm amazed at all
the things I can fit in there.
Jesse: Cool.
And I'm gonna go ahead and share
my shiny object real quick.
Uh, so I feel like I'm, I've been
hogging, shiny objects with video
game related stuff, which just shows
why the show is called ADHD nerds.
Cuz I'm a bit of a nerd, but I have
to talk about, I just got the steam
deck, which is a video game console.
It's basically.
Like a whole PC, but like handheld.
So it's kinda like a Switch, Nintendo
Switch, but like a beefier one that
can play pretty much any PC game.
And it is amazing.
It's quickly become like
my favorite gaming console.
and I kind of basically forgot
about my Nintendo Switch.
It's just sitting in the drawer now.
but yeah, so if you.
If you're a big gamer and you're not
sure, I mean, there's a wait list for it.
Like most things are these days, but
I absolutely love, uh, my Steam Deck.
It is a super fun console.
They've just really made
everything work so well on it.
The screen's gorgeous.
It feels great to use and yeah,
highly recommend the steam deck.
If you're for anyone that is a video game
nerd that I, uh, like I am so awesome.
Thank you so much for being here, Monica.
This was great.
Monica Lim: Thank you Jesse.
Thank you for having me.
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