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Dr. Rev. Kevin M. Dougherty
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Day 13,777(2) - Living with the Consequences.mp3
Transcript
00:00:01 Kevin
Living with the consequences.
00:00:03 Kevin
So it's something you have to get over.
00:00:06 Kevin
We've talked about it in previous videos.
00:00:07 Kevin
The actions have consequences.
00:00:09 Kevin
We've talked about people's resentment and you're going to have to deal with people's resentment long-term and that resentment is going to build.
00:00:18 Kevin
And so what's going to happen with people's resentment is in addition to just building, they're going to hold it.
00:00:25 Kevin
They're going to build it.
00:00:26 Kevin
They're going to hold it.
00:00:27 Kevin
And then just like revenge, they're going to apply this anytime.
00:00:33 Kevin
If they see that somebody gave, bought you a free latte or, you know, you were being nice and somebody was, you know, paying, you know, you lent them some money and they paid you back, they're going to make up stuff.
00:00:44 Kevin
They're going to lie.
00:00:45 Kevin
They're going to exaggerate.
00:00:46 Kevin
They're going to assume the worst because you're a terrible person in their mind.
00:00:49 Kevin
And they're going to do what they can to dismantle you because
00:00:54 Kevin
And this isn't true of all people, but this is going to be true of that select few that have built resentment towards you.
00:01:00 Kevin
And then it is going to be true for a few of those people.
00:01:04 Kevin
And all it takes is 1 bad actor to, you know, somebody who just couldn't handle the truth, to just take that and go against you and to build an army of people that they've lied about.
00:01:17 Kevin
they've lied to about you.
00:01:19 Kevin
And now all of a sudden it's like, hey, this guy is doing this, girl is doing that, this person's doing this, blah, blah, blah.
00:01:25 Kevin
They're a terrible human being.
00:01:27 Kevin
We need to stop them at everything that they do.
00:01:30 Kevin
And it may come to maybe you're a small business owner, maybe they want to harm your business.
00:01:34 Kevin
Maybe you, know, you work at a place that is, you know, like maybe you're a retail clerk and they just say, hey, that person did this, they make something up.
00:01:44 Kevin
Maybe they see you taking your smoke break and they exaggerate what you were doing.
00:01:47 Kevin
Well, he was smoking inside the building.
00:01:49 Kevin
Well, like inside the property line, which is kind of inside the building.
00:01:51 Kevin
You know what I mean?
00:01:52 Kevin
Just a lot of different things like that and people are going to do it.
00:01:54 Kevin
And you just have to live with it.
00:01:56 Kevin
You have to start strengthening your armor to be able to handle the excessive amount of stuff that people are going to throw at you because you are honest and truthful.
00:02:06 Kevin
But it's better to be honest and truthful and deal with the slings and arrows that people are going to, the slings of arrows that people are going to attack
00:02:14 Kevin
with than it is to just continue your life being a liar.