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Business is a spiritual path, and this is true if you are, and I know you are. In fact, you wouldn't be listening to this. Somebody who runs business because they have something to share with the boat, something that is related to your purpose, Right? How spiritual can I get? Like, if you know that you have a purpose, that you have something which many people need to know, which you can help your clients with, which you can help your audience with, then it is because you are here to live your purpose, to embody your purpose and share that with people.
Relinde:That first of all already makes it a very spiritual path. So if you are in a in a business, you're a coach or an expert, you're inspiring many people out there, you really have something to share with the world. You feel a drive behind that. You feel that you and your most authentic self want to touch more lives and help more people and be of service and be wealthy and call in abundance at the same time, you know your business is a spiritual path. And that is really good news.
Relinde:That is really beautiful because that means that what I believe is anyway the most important thing in this lifetime is to actualize most of your potential to really step and embody in this body in this lifetime doing what you are meant to do most and that you are using your business pathway to even grow more in that. And as much as it is amazing news it is also quite intimidating and this is where I feel we can allow ourselves to be very compassionate with ourselves and it is very likely that you are in many ways different ways are looking for guides and support on how to do this. And I'm gonna talk to you today about a way of working that I have embraced in the past 10 years where I go really deep with myself and with my clients in what I now call the embodied vision method. The embodied vision method is where I really look at what are those personal, those spiritual, those energetic parts of you that need to grow, that need to shift, that need to release the old and bring in the new for you to be able to embody your vision.
Relinde:How are you gonna embody your vision with ease and grace and joy and energy and all the good things if you don't do that deeper work? I like the image of if you wanna grow, if you want to really grow and expand, like the sky is the limit. You have to grow into the depth as well. You can't choose. You can't say I just want to go up and up and up and never look into the depth of myself.
Relinde:It is both so gorgeous and beautiful, and it wants to grow simultaneously. And you can only do that when you have the tools, when you have the support, when you know how to look into the depth of you as well. And what do I mean by that? Let me give you a couple of examples. So first of all, if you're running a business, sometimes everything is going great and amazing and you are happy and feeling successful and fantastic and there's moments where things get tough, right?
Relinde:We have all had this. I work with clients that are running a $1,000,000 business, a €1,000,000 business that are running that are just starting out, that have run a business, that run amazingly for many years, and then had this huge pivot or a huge change in their business, and they go through a huge transformation to build a new or transformed way of working with their clients. All these moments, all these clients, all these people have one thing in common, which is there's moments where you get triggered. There's moments where you get discouraged, tired, afraid, insecure all the things. And the question is: do you have the tools to deal with that and how how deep can you go so that you can grow even higher?
Relinde:Right? And the embodied vision method is what I use for myself and with my clients. That is where we, in a very safe way, a very health way, can go really deep so that we can grow really high. And the main point that we look at there's a couple of things: there's this somatic experience, there's the way that you feel, there's connecting to your intuition and the language of your body and learning to really listen to yourself and include that whole intuitive, somatic wisdom into running a business. And then there's the other part which is the beliefs.
Relinde:So really the beliefs that are living in your subconscious mind. Now, beliefs are nothing else but energy. Everything is energy in the end. So a belief is also energy. Just like an emotion is energy or a physical injury is energy.
Relinde:Like, everything is energy and all these, what I was just mentioning is those are the energy blockages. So for example, if you say I have back pain, there's an energetic blockage in your body, in your back, or maybe even in your belly, which is causing the back pain or but there's an energetic blockage that wants to flow again. Right? You can imagine if you go to an acupuncturist, what they will do is restore the flow even if you go to an osteopath or to a massage, they will say, okay. We we loosen up the tension so that there's a smoother energy flow again.
Relinde:Energy flow again. Energy flow and and blood flow and the fluids and all the things. Right? Now if you think of a limiting belief, it is also an energetic blockage. It is literally something that is being held in place for most probably many years that creates a blockage.
Relinde:Now, that's the more abstract way of explaining it. If I make this very tangible, I could say that if you experience something in your outer reality, so you experience something in your business, and the easy examples are things around money. So for example, you have been making, €5,000 a month quite easily or that's just happened, but now you wanna get to 10, 20,000 a month. But you've noticed that there's a ceiling. It feels like a blockage.
Relinde:And by the way, I'm just giving examples of numbers. If there's very different numbers present for you at this moment, feel free to fill in your own numbers. Yeah? So let's say you've been making money at a certain amount, 5,000 a month, and you wanna wanna get to 10 or 20 or 30,000 a month, then there might be an energetic blockage on getting to that next level. And where can that blockage be?
Relinde:In the beliefs. In the limiting beliefs. Because if you would have all the beliefs that support that you can make €10, €20, €100,000 a month, if they would all already be there, it would be very easy for you that when you implement the strategies that your coach, for example, is telling you to do, that when you do that and you actually make that amount. It's it would go very easily because what you are embodying, what your subconscious mind so this is important. This is can be different than what you consciously think is true, but your subconscious mind fully supports might be will be the thing that is very easy to manifest.
Relinde:Okay? So now let's say we take that example. You have hit an incompeteau for a while now and you want to raise to the next level. You wanna double, triple, 10 x that. What needs to happen is that the subconscious beliefs are aligned.
Relinde:Now in the embodied vision method, what is so beautiful is that we do not then just look at money beliefs because a lot of people say, oh, so I need to look at my money blocks and I need to shift them. I need to find out that I I don't believe that I could make 20,000 a month while still having a spacious schedule and being really amazing mother for my children, for example. And that is true. Those beliefs are very important because if you believe that if you would make 30,000 a month, you are always working and you're away from your family, subconsciously you're not gonna wanna go there. Right?
Relinde:And, there might be other beliefs that are more hidden that are not allowing you to get there. So, again, we started this conversation with saying business is a spiritual journey. So, already, when you look at it this way, we are doing something that is extremely powerful which is looking at that external reality. It's like, okay, I've been making 5,000 a month, I really wanna get to 20,000 and it's not happening. Even though I know the strategies, even though in my mind I know what to do, I'm not I'm not doing it or I really don't see what to do.
Relinde:I don't see the pathway there. That is a sign that there's something deeper going on. So again, we could look around the beliefs around money and I'm happy to talk about those, but very often I find that there's other beliefs that are really in the way of that growth and they can be hidden. Here is something important to understand is that the moment we go into the subconscious mind nothing is logical anymore. Nothing is rational anymore.
Relinde:Because it's not the rational part of the brain, is it? This is the part of the brain where you, work with symbols and where you are going into places where there's more feelings, weird associations. It is the part of the brain where things are per definition not logical. So when you're listening to this podcast some of the things might sound like really, but it is because when you go into your subconscious mind, which you can access when you go into a deeper meditative state in a slower brainwave, that is where it is. So from your conscious mind, sometimes it might sound a little bit out there, but bear with me.
Relinde:So let's say you wanna make more money. You've been at it and you're like: I wanna make more money through my coaching business. I wanna quadruple what I'm making right now and I wanna do it in the coming six months. Then what might be happening in your subconscious mind that a part of you is not on board with that and that is why it isn't happening with ease. Why you don't see the pathway or why you do the strategies but they don't work for you.
Relinde:Why you have the sales goals but they don't convert. Why you have the you name it. So you go into that part and you have to look for what is it that it is not coming that easily to me. So the first thing I would like you to ask yourself is okay, I have this external reality. I'm making 5,000, I wanna make 20, and I'm not getting there.
Relinde:What is that situation saying about me or about life to be true? What is it confirming? What is that reality showing me or teaching me? And then when you close your eyes, and if you're driving right now, don't do that. If you're sitting somewhere you can close your eyes, you can close your eyes with me and go deep and say, okay, this thing, just imagine your thing, if that is revenue growth or something else, that I wanna achieve, what isn't happening, what is it saying about me?
Relinde:And here's why you might get a surprising answer maybe you get an answer like I am not good enough yet or I'm not ready yet or I always want too much. I'm greedy. I am not worthy. If I would get there, that's another way, I would lose myself. Other people wouldn't like me anymore.
Relinde:So just think of what is it saying about you? What could happen if you would have it? What What could break in your life if you would have that good thing? And write that down, really being with, that is what I can see that this situation is confirming and the things that you come up with that feel rather emotional. So for example, if it's like, okay, I've been trying to get to €20,000 a month right now, it's just just an, you know, beautiful, healthy business goal, if we look at it logically, and it hasn't happened or it hasn't happened easily, and that says about you that you see: I can't do this, I'm not good enough, I'm a failure, I'm not worthy, I always want too much.
Relinde:Whatever that is for you, that is the deeper layer. That's why we go into the depth that wants to shift so that you can have that external reality. So now, back to this business is a spiritual practice if you take that external event and you go inward and see what do I believe to be true about myself or about life, looking at this external event, that's where the real growth can happen. I say never waste a good trigger. Right?
Relinde:So because business is such a courageous and exciting and really wonderful journey, it's gonna give you moments like this. You're not always just comfortable. You're not always just being like, I'm safe and comfortable where I am and nothing is changing. Nothing in me gets triggered so I'm not really growing. All good.
Relinde:Yeah? You're gonna grow because you're going to face yourself here. Now, some people will take what they see, so the external event of, I'm not at €20,000 a month, and then looking at their person and then saying, yeah, you see it's also I shouldn't want that much. I shouldn't think that big, For example, and if you take that as the truth then guess what's gonna happen? You're gonna not, not do it.
Relinde:You're gonna not get to those 20,000 €100,000 a month, whatever it is that you want, yeah? Again, I don't wanna get hung up on numbers here. But what if you would see that those things that the external reality is mirroring to you aren't necessarily the truth. They are beliefs. Right?
Relinde:And the beliefs are either expansive and empowering or they are limiting. Limiting already says it. It is an energetic blockage. It blocks a part of you that can grow. Because now I gave the example of money.
Relinde:I'm not really talking about the topic of money today but I am in a way because I gave that example. Money isn't right or wrong. It is a beautiful energy. It's an amplifier of you. Everybody that I ask is like, what if would what would happen if you were quadruple or 10 x your revenue?
Relinde:What will come out of you? Oh my gosh. I would go, oh, be able to serve my clients on an even deeper level. I'll be able to see my family in Australia every other every other month. I don't know.
Relinde:I will be able to build that beautiful retreat center where I can invite people to go through their transformations. There's only good coming from you making more money. Like, really, let's get money in the hands of the people that are here for positive transformation, and money is energy, it flows to you, and then it flows to somebody else, and then, you know, it's this beautiful energy that's flowing around the earth all the time. Why not get into the stream of it and why not release the mental blockages that are holding you back from it? And why not go so deep that you can really see what the real blockage is that now you can not only make more money, which is fantastic, and again, it's gonna open up so many doors, but you're gonna be more you.
Relinde:Because if the real blockage is, but I always want too much, I shouldn't be asking for more, I'm not worthy of, like, having that much, that's gonna manifest in other places in your life that's not around money only I always want too much time for myself I always want too much you know, what about I'm allowed and it's my birthright to have lots of time for myself, to be in connection with my body and in my energy, energy, to be in connection with my spiritual practice, to be in connection with the loved ones around me, with my family, with the earth around me, to be able to make choices from my heart and not by the limitations of money. I'm allowed to have that space. I'm allowed to be in a place where I'm really, really nourished and from there give with so much love to my clients. What if that is your reality? It's gonna benefit you, your clients, your loved ones, your clients' children.
Relinde:It's gonna it's a positive ripple effect and just by you removing that deep seated limiting belief in your mind, that's what's gonna happen and rebel through on so many levels. You see, business is a spiritual practice if you choose to see it that way and if you have the tools to go deep. So I wanna tell you a little bit more about that embodied vision method because this is a method that I've been implementing since about 2018 for my clients. I actually built a whole business around this before I help clients grow their business. I would just help them to get into the embodying their vision.
Relinde:I didn't have those words for it back then. Yeah. That developed over time, the whole method and the system developed over time, but I already did that and that is what I still do with my clients today. Now what happened in my programs is that when I was helping people building their business, I also helped them to get into an energetic alignment with the embodied vision method. They asked me, woah, this is so powerful how can I do this with myself for myself?
Relinde:So they're not dependent of, like, you know, us having sessions in the group, but how can I actually do this for myself? And how can I do this for my clients? In groups, 1 on 1. So about 3 years ago I started to teach people how to do this and I now have a certification program for coaches that can learn how to go this deep and grow at the same time for themselves and for their clients. And it's called the Embodied Vision Certification Program.
Relinde:And I am inviting you if you listen to this and you're like I'm interest I'm interested. If you're even just feeling, if you're on an intuitive level like, oh, wow. This is something that I would really need. I'm inviting you to message me on Instagram, embodied vision and I'm gonna get back to you because I would love to share with you about that program and see if it is a fit for you to join. Because when you have tools, when you have your tools to go deep and grow into the heights and into the depth at the same time, you really become more and more you.
Relinde:I like to say inside, outside, same same. Your beliefs, your embodiment, every cell of your being matches that outer reality and that is what feels as peaceful. It feels as joy and peace and bliss and happiness. It's that place from where what you really want, you source that from your intuition, you exactly know what that is for you, what you want, and you can embody it. You can manifest it.
Relinde:It's going to happen for you, and you have that calm and that certainty inside of you because every part of you is on board. Not just your rational mind. Not just a strategy. Not what somebody else thinks. You.
Relinde:And it is merely about releasing what wasn't you in the first place and therefore, you need to know how to do that. Because even if you know the limiting belief, you're like, oh, I think I do believe that I am not worthy of, making a €1,000,000 a year in my business. Right? Even if you know that you believe that, now how are you gonna release that? In the embodied vision we then dive deep.
Relinde:We don't only look at, okay, great, so let's not think that anymore, let's think I am worthy of making a €1,000,000 a year. It is that wouldn't be the whole story, and that would actually, if you try to do that, you are ignoring the part that really needs healing and that wants healing and that's why in the embodied vision method, we dive deep, we go and look at where does this come from, this belief, what is it really like is it society, parents, upbringing, families family lines, even past lives? What has happened to you so that you are now really, you know, having that belief, embodying that limiting belief. If we know that, we can do the work around it, energetic and subconscious work, to release that, so that there's place to install a beautiful new belief. There's more reasons around a belief than you might think why it stays in place, why your subconscious mind actually thinks it needs it, that it is beneficial, that you can't do without.
Relinde:And in the embodied vision, that is exactly what we do. I get you deep into your theta brainwave, where you can access that information, where you can see why your brain is literally wired that way, why your body mind believes that. And if we go there just by seeing it, and with so much compassion and love, we can release it. That is when the energy can start to flow again. And that is where you can restore yourself to your original self.
Relinde:And your original self is always worthy, deserving, successful, loved, accepted, rich, abundant, all these things. That's who you've come to be. That's what the healthy, natural flow of life is. Anything that is not on board with that is a mental blockage, is an energetic blockage, is a karmic blockage, an emotional blockage. So business is a spiritual practice if you see it that way, if you can get into the wisdom of knowing that everything is energy and that we can look at the things that don't flow, that we can look at the things that are there but actually are already old, aren't yours anymore, are ready to go, And with care and compassion and the right tools, you can actually really shift them in an instant and replace the natural flow that will bring you to this beautiful, abundant, loving, worthy, belonging, purposeful, peaceful, inner peace state of being.
Relinde:So I thank you for listening to this podcast. I would love to hear if anything if you have anything to share after listening to all this. And again, if you are interested in really mastering that method of embodying your vision for yourself and for your clients, then just send me a message on Instagram embodied vision and you can send me, you can also go to my website, but come to Instagram, which would be the easiest. Send me a message, embodied vision. I'll I'll get back to you, and I can share more about how I could help you do this for yourself and also integrate this in the work that you already do for your clients.
Relinde:I wish you a beautiful rest of your day inside, outside, same same. Take a moment today to place your hand on your heart and take some deep breaths and really sensing into how you are doing and if there's anything ready to let go And again, if you'd like some more support on that, reach out to me. I'd love to hear from you. Thank you for joining us today on the choosing ease podcast. Remember to subscribe so you never miss an opportunity to connect.
Relinde:And I'd be so grateful if you could share your thoughts in a review. Join me next time, as I continue to explore the powerful skills and strategies that will help you to let go of everything that keeps you from fully sharing your genius. You are destined for greatness, and through the Choosing Ease podcast, I'm here to help you own your unique wisdom and share it with the world. Until next time, keep choosing ease.