The Few Will Hunt Show

‘You should be selfish to be selfless.’ In this episode, Joey and Drew sit down with Talia Nierman, the face of Few Will Hunt, entrepreneur, jiu-jitsu practitioner, and podcast host. Talia opens up about how jiu-jitsu transformed her confidence, helped her regain control after trauma, and became a driving force in her personal and professional life. From competing on the mats to starting a wedding content creation business, Talia shares the lessons she’s learned about mindset, community, and embracing challenges. Tune in for a conversation about self-defense, emotional intelligence, and finding purpose through hard work and growth.

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Creators and Guests

Host
Drew Beech
Drew Beech is an entrepreneur and cofounder of Few Will Hunt. He spent several years in the sales and marketing industry, grossing over several million dollars in sales. But his love for the entrepreneurial journey and desire to escape the rate race started with his personal training business in college. Today, Drew leads the Few Will Hunt community alongside his cousin and cofounder, Joey in their mission to restore the dignity of hard work through the highest-quality American-made apparel.
Host
Joey Bowen
Joey Bowen is co-founder of Few Will Hunt.

What is The Few Will Hunt Show?

The official podcast of Few Will Hunt, the world’s largest community of hard workers and 100% Made in the USA apparel brand. We’re on a mission to restore the dignity of hard work and help others live The Rules of The Few to strengthen ourselves and strengthen society. No entitlement or excuses are allowed here.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I think it's just about like doing your inner work and becoming like emotionally intelligent Mhmm. And like realizing that, yes, you need to be selfish to a certain extent, but anything in extreme is like not good.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. I mean like you should be self you should be selfish to be selfless.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Right? I mean, that's the

Speaker 2:

goal. Yeah. You know what

Speaker 3:

I mean? So fill your cup till it overflows, and then give it away to everybody

Speaker 2:

else. Mhmm. Welcome to the Fuel Hunt Show. What's going on, Eagles? Welcome to the Fuel Hunt Show.

Speaker 2:

I'm Joey. I'm Drew.

Speaker 3:

There we go.

Speaker 2:

I was waiting for you to come in. Was like, we're gonna have fun today. Well, I just I have Natalia thinks I don't do any work.

Speaker 1:

If you didn't true. I know you do work. He's just like he's the he's like a character. Character. Like he's just like

Speaker 2:

You are

Speaker 3:

a character.

Speaker 2:

I can do that. I can do that. I wonder

Speaker 3:

what your impression of me is. I got it.

Speaker 2:

What was he saying? You're the the work or is that I

Speaker 3:

am like a You're just like Noble steed.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Just like a work.

Speaker 1:

You're just like I

Speaker 2:

don't think you can call yourself

Speaker 1:

a You're locked in.

Speaker 2:

I am locked in.

Speaker 1:

And Drew's just like, what the fuck, man? Yeah. What's up, bro?

Speaker 2:

Yeah. That's so true.

Speaker 3:

That is true.

Speaker 2:

Well, at the old office, we were in a single, like, room and we had a shared a shared. Yeah. It was like, literally me, Brianna and Joey in this room for like It very, good.

Speaker 3:

It was almost like clock.

Speaker 2:

Joey would come in Joey would come in locked in. Yeah. Right? And I'm like, Joey, you're kinda killing the vibe, dude.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. Like So this is

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Like

Speaker 1:

I'm like, you're you're no fun.

Speaker 2:

Exactly. Where is the fun? And I'm I'm walking in and I'm like, wait

Speaker 3:

a second. Like, there's work to be done. Like, we're having fun? Like, fuck that. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

You know

Speaker 2:

what I mean? My opinion is life is short. It should be fun.

Speaker 1:

I agree.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Even the hard work is fun.

Speaker 1:

I agree. Think has to be.

Speaker 3:

I've I've aged in reverse

Speaker 2:

since we started doing Especially if we're gonna grind our balls off twenty four seven, like, might as well be fun.

Speaker 1:

He's ever evolving.

Speaker 2:

Exact he is.

Speaker 1:

He's adapting to

Speaker 2:

size Yeah. The work has gotten harder, but Joey's gotten fun.

Speaker 1:

Uh-huh. He's a chameleon.

Speaker 3:

That's hard work

Speaker 2:

makes you happy.

Speaker 3:

Hard work makes you Who

Speaker 2:

are we speaking with today? Only halfway in the are here today we are here today with the face of the few.

Speaker 3:

Right? If you've never heard Talia's voice, right, you've definitely at least seen her because she's been in probably every shoot that we've done for the past.

Speaker 2:

And she does the Fu Hua Hunt's Hot Girls guy for Jiu Jitsu. Oh, okay.

Speaker 3:

She does do that. Fu Hua

Speaker 2:

Hunt athlete.

Speaker 3:

Also a podcast host.

Speaker 2:

I

Speaker 3:

am. Also an entrepreneur. I am. Also a Jiu Jitsu practitioner. Blue Bell Blue Bell?

Speaker 2:

Right? Blue bell. Yep.

Speaker 1:

Okay. I don't rush it.

Speaker 2:

But some people will say I'm a higher belt, but identifies as a blue bell. Oh, yeah. I got you. I've been using that joke a lot. I

Speaker 1:

I think it's It's really a touchy joke. You gotta be careful with

Speaker 2:

that one. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Mean, it kinda hits.

Speaker 1:

I love it.

Speaker 2:

But would some people at your school argue that Talia is not, like, get get her ass get their ass beat by Talia and be like, yeah. She's not a blue belt. Like Oh, yes. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Is she is she like a brown belt? Yeah. She's and I'm like,

Speaker 1:

And then you see some of these girls out there that are like blue belts and they're black belts. Yeah. They're competing at blue belt. Yeah. So like you have to be.

Speaker 3:

Locked in?

Speaker 1:

You have to be locked in.

Speaker 2:

Locked in. It's me.

Speaker 1:

That's where I'm like, I'm not I'm not there yet. I will be and I don't think you ever feel like you're there.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I I have too much that I wanna achieve where I'm where I'm at before I'm ever even thinking of myself as a verbal.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You're enjoying the enjoying the journey. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

We're not rushing the process.

Speaker 3:

The journey.

Speaker 2:

Was fun.

Speaker 3:

Before we started the show, you said something that you find, like, completely refreshing about Talia.

Speaker 2:

Oh, I said

Speaker 3:

Re recap if

Speaker 2:

you The refreshing thing about Talia is the energy you get from her on Instagram or TikTok, where wherever you're finding your Talia content, you're getting the same version of Talia when you see meet her in person. Yeah. Whereas a number of these

Speaker 1:

He's wording it so much nicer.

Speaker 2:

Answers. They're they're just weird. Growing. They're just weird. Instagram growing are weird.

Speaker 2:

Are weird and weird. Just fucking weird. Yeah. But it allows them to Instagram kinda gives them an avenue or a vehicle to express themselves better because there's no one around. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

But it's really hard to express yourself that way when you're actually with

Speaker 3:

With other people.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. I would I would agree. Yeah. I would agree.

Speaker 2:

Is that a weird way to think of it? It's like No. On social media, you're with millions of people, but you're actually by yourself.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. It's kinda sad.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

It's super it's super accurate. It's like a conversation that a lot of people have, actually. Yeah. You know? And that's like you're saying, like, it's just you and your phone and the person that you are at that time, you can't, unless you're completely congruent like Talia, you can't be that person when you're with other

Speaker 1:

people because

Speaker 3:

there's influence and energy.

Speaker 1:

There's people that are also extroverted when they're alone, can be super extroverted on camera. Mhmm. But like as soon as they're in front of people, they just like, it's not like they can't open up.

Speaker 3:

Yep. Yeah, I would agree.

Speaker 2:

I would agree. That's a really good assessment.

Speaker 1:

I feel like I've I feel like actually, jujitsu made me find the extroverted version of myself again. I feel like she was lost at one point, and she was like, could you imagine me being like meek? Never. Yeah. I was.

Speaker 1:

I kind of got like lost myself, and then when I found jiu jitsu, I was like, oh, okay, this is me, feel, I can vibe with this.

Speaker 3:

Ju jitsu.

Speaker 1:

And I definitely became way more of a personality in general.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. How long ago was that?

Speaker 1:

I started training in 2021. The August. '3 and a

Speaker 2:

half BC. Years. Before COVID, BC. No. No.

Speaker 2:

That's DC during COVID. Twenty one.

Speaker 1:

Twenty twenty one is the was like it was like kinda not COVID. Was it? Oh, no.

Speaker 2:

My life's flashing me from my eyes, so I have no idea.

Speaker 3:

We had we had enforcers coming to our school in '21. We started

Speaker 2:

you were were in training when

Speaker 3:

August 21. Right? Or did I start August 22?

Speaker 2:

We definitely started after COVID.

Speaker 1:

I'm was like

Speaker 3:

We had enforcers, man. We had enforcers coming on Common Ave. And tell us I feel

Speaker 2:

I was after COVID.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. It wasn't, like, scary.

Speaker 3:

Like Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. Wasn't, like, too too bad.

Speaker 3:

Right. Okay.

Speaker 1:

So it was like safe to like be in public.

Speaker 2:

What do you think what do you think

Speaker 3:

it is about Jiu Jitsu that helped you find that part of you that was like you say kinda lost? Or maybe deep down,

Speaker 1:

you I think it was because I started Jiu Jitsu as an individual. I went into this new place alone with no friends, with nobody and I needed to be my own advocate and I needed to make friends.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

So it wasn't so much I had people to kind of like hide behind or they took the reins, like I had to be that person for myself. I really think that's the main thing that made me kind of find that like sillier, goofier version of myself. And you just meet so many different people Yep. And it just becomes like, oh, like everyone's coming from all over, no one's really like judging me.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

So like I feel comfortable here.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, what an environment to like make friends in, right? Yeah. The serious, serious way of saying it is like, paint adheres people or it's an adhesive, but really it's just like, you know, doing that hard work. Yeah. And you know, it opens you up and makes you vulnerable to who you really are and then people can bond.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I think it also becomes much harder to make friends as you get older because you're not put in environments too unless you have like minded Yeah, that's point. So, you know, if all of your friends are like at college or something like that and you're just kind of like alone starting something on your own is where you're gonna like, you're going to the same place every day, you see the same faces eventually.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. What brought you to jiu jitsu? Were you struggling? Like did you know you needed something to break you out of your shell or?

Speaker 1:

I think that it would have been I never would have found it this way, but like on my own just as like a hobby Mhmm. Which I wish I would have because Yeah. It's so neat, but I didn't know what jujitsu was. So I couldn't have just like started it. I knew what like the UFC was I knew what like, you know, boxing was, but I didn't know like what jujitsu was.

Speaker 1:

So, back in the summer of twenty twenty one, in the beginning of the summer, I had an altercation at work and I was, as I do, sticking up, know, inserting myself to defend somebody who wasn't being treated right and in turn, somebody that I trusted and didn't think they would put their hands on me did. Somebody much bigger than me like

Speaker 2:

A male?

Speaker 1:

A man.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And I never ever ever

Speaker 2:

What line of work was that?

Speaker 1:

It was like a family business. Okay. The person wasn't family but Mhmm. And this was during COVID ish time too, like the beginning.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Not the beginning of COVID but the beginning of summer. So it was definitely more so like, I never thought ever if you told me that a man was gonna put his hands on me, like I would be like, yeah, right.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. You

Speaker 3:

almost feel like I know what

Speaker 1:

to do in that sit like, I'm No one's putting their hands on me, like, I can I can stick up for myself? I was like that kind of person.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

So when it happens and you just black out and you're like, oh, I don't know what to do. Like, I don't know how to defend Like, this is really scary. Luckily, somebody else was there

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

To step in and de escalate the situation. But it's a lot of what goes on your head on in your head that's like, what if that person wasn't there to de escalate that situation? What if the man that was there wasn't fucking six four and huge and was able to, you know, pry this apart. Yep. And it was kind of just like, I mean afterwards I was like, like I this didn't happen.

Speaker 1:

Like you think like this

Speaker 2:

didn't And

Speaker 1:

then, you know, you start and you hear like, you know, all the different things happen to different people and it's like, okay, well, maybe it wasn't that bad. Like, maybe it's other people have it worse and like, it's really not that bad.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

But I was like, I'm not okay here. Yeah. Like, I need to do something so that I can like, feel safe and not feel like that was really like, I just felt like you don't know what to do. Like

Speaker 3:

you're like Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Or you really just didn't know. You you think you would know what to do. It's like, I was not somebody people fucked with. Yeah. Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

And I was like, oh, okay.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. That's scary.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

You almost feel like when you said you've never visualized that ever happening, you almost feel like it's like, oh, even for societal reasons like, oh, a guy's never gonna come, like, put his hands on Like Yeah. That's just

Speaker 1:

It's actually not somebody that you

Speaker 2:

Trust me.

Speaker 1:

Know and you trust. Yeah. You know, that's I think the most times that stuff like this happens is when it's somebody that you

Speaker 3:

When your guard's down.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. Your guard is down. You think like, okay, maybe we're having some sort of verbal altercation, but you're not gonna fucking put your hands on me. Yeah. Like, that's not gonna happen.

Speaker 1:

You're like probably two hundred and fifty pounds.

Speaker 3:

Like, Like,

Speaker 1:

I'm not.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

You know?

Speaker 3:

You used the phrase blackout?

Speaker 1:

Oh, I literally blacked out. Yeah. I wouldn't be able to tell you what happened if I didn't have it on video. Yep. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I Yeah. Was not there.

Speaker 3:

And I think I think most people don't understand that, like when you're putting in that situation, like people are like, oh, I'll know what to do or I'll figure it out. There's like your brain shuts off. Yeah. But you're

Speaker 1:

The craziest

Speaker 3:

thing you're like blackout.

Speaker 1:

Oh, literally blackout, but the craziest thing is the most I've ever felt that was in my first jujitsu competition, my first match.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I blacked out and I didn't, I couldn't hear him out coaching me.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I did not know what was going on. So it's like it mimics that.

Speaker 3:

Yes.

Speaker 1:

And that's why I think competing is important because it's able to mimic that.

Speaker 2:

Yep. I said to put my son Parker's on a few tournaments, competitions and Amanda will be yelling from the side. He can't hear He's only done Jiu Jitsu World League, so you're not on the the floor. He's done wrestling matches too, like, but the wrestling matches are There's barrier. You're route well, the wrestling matches, you're allowed to stand right around the circle.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm. Like, it's stupid. I don't know why they allow that. But just the worldly, there's a barrier. Like, you're literally he's in an arena, and you're you're in the stands.

Speaker 2:

I'm like, Amanda, he can't hear you. Like, all he hears right now is wah wah wah.

Speaker 1:

You're screaming for you

Speaker 2:

right now. That's what it feels that's what

Speaker 1:

it You're screaming so you feel better?

Speaker 2:

You're better off just not even yelling because I've done the wrestling matches, like, back in the day. Like, you go out there and you just like, it's literally just a like, you don't even know what's going on.

Speaker 3:

It's like a it's like a power lifting stage. It's the same thing when you step up on the platform. Well,

Speaker 2:

not quite. Yeah. Not quite. But You're you're I mean,

Speaker 1:

I don't know. I've never power left, but I wanna tell you. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

I mean, it's similar. I mean, if you

Speaker 2:

have Yeah. You can drive

Speaker 3:

400 pounds on your back that's about to crush you. I mean

Speaker 1:

That's pretty scary.

Speaker 2:

It's It's to me.

Speaker 3:

I need to go down and come back up. There's a black curtain. There's, a blackout where your body just basically says, I'm gonna do what I'm trained to Right? And like that's what was missing when you had Yeah. Right?

Speaker 1:

Yep. There was no I think now if I was in a situation like that, even if I blacked out, at least I have instincts. Yeah. Right?

Speaker 3:

Yeah. So that's the thing, like when the black curtain came and you blacked out Yeah. There was nothingness. That's the scariest part. But now that you're trained, the black curtain comes and it comes down, there's skill there, there's training, there's muscle memory, your body knows, like, you know what I mean?

Speaker 3:

There's a plan of attack. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

So it was like an actual altercation. Like they last for extended period of time or

Speaker 3:

was it? Mean, we don't

Speaker 2:

have to get in.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. No.

Speaker 2:

It was it

Speaker 1:

was it was like, not like over days. It was like one instance.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

But it was, I mean, I could it was verbal until it wasn't.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah. Okay.

Speaker 1:

Okay. So you just don't think it's gonna turn into Yeah. Anything more than that.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Without without going in, like, too deep into it, like, what after it Mhmm. You started to deny that it happened and that's like a it's common. You know what I

Speaker 1:

The thing is like I would never pin I would never say that I would be a person like that too. It's just weird how like

Speaker 3:

your body Trauma does to you.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. You what I was just like, well like,

Speaker 3:

Wasn't that bad or it didn't happen this way or it didn't, right?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, was like, it's not like a big deal or whatever, like I, and then I'm just like, but then it's when it's just you and like your thoughts, you're like, okay, I'm I know, like I'm self aware enough to know that like you're you're you're not like acknowledging how you're feeling right

Speaker 2:

now Yes.

Speaker 1:

About this, right? Because you just want it to go away.

Speaker 3:

Yep.

Speaker 1:

But that's not going to fix any of the actual problems which is why like I think with training, like when a lot of girls have things happen to them and then they come into the gym no matter what it is, you know, no matter how severe it was Mhmm. When they are when they don't train with men because of that right off the bat, I think that's like the worst thing you can do because now you're building this this hurdle that you're going to have to overcome one day when you train with a man.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

So You're like so what took you what took you to my where I was going with that was

Speaker 2:

like Yeah.

Speaker 3:

That space that you were in, I get it. Right? What How did this switch flip to you saying, Okay, look, I'm going to break out of, It wasn't that bad. Maybe I did something. Did it even happen?

Speaker 3:

Maybe this is just a big misunderstanding. Like, all those waves of emotion and processing. Did the switch flip and you say, okay, jujitsu. Like, I'm gonna walk into this.

Speaker 1:

Somebody suggested that I train jujitsu. I think I was just in a bad mental space. Like, there was a lot of stuff happening in that year. My dad was really sick. Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

And then that happened and it was just like, I, there's so much going on right now that like, I'm not in control of.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And somebody suggested that I train. I didn't even think I was gonna do jujitsu. I thought I was gonna do kickboxing which is just like so ironic because I thought that's like, you know, the most ideal way to defend myself. But then when I walked into my intro, Al had asked me about like, you know, what made you want to train? Which I think is an important question to ask and I was just like, this happened.

Speaker 1:

And then he's like, oh, okay. So, you want to know how to defend yourself? And I was like, yeah. He's like, well you're probably not gonna knock a dude out, so you know, jujitsu. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

That's like the most ideal martial art for me to be learning for self defense, which is just so funny because like, we were just talking about this on the car ride here, it's like, I did not think that it was ever not gonna be self defense, but it's the last thing I think about when I train now.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

You know?

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

But I think then, I just decided, I was so nervous to walk into the Oh, my God.

Speaker 3:

You were like, was gonna ask you that question now.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. So did you go on Google and like just look up? Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And And the gym was suggested to me, so that's where it's like, okay, if somebody's gonna give me advice on where to go, great.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Was so nervous to walk into the gym, I had my friend do my intro lesson with me. So, I was like, okay, at least I'll have like a System.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. I

Speaker 1:

just He needed like just a face there that like I wouldn't be so scared because I did not know what I was walking into.

Speaker 3:

Plus you're not like, you're walking into a very close, like, close quarters practice that is going to trigger what you just went Yeah. So Yeah. So smart of you to have an anchor, to bring an anchor with you, a familiar face there.

Speaker 1:

And something that's cool about the gym too is there's, it's a one on one. So I wasn't thrown into a class Oh. Where I was now gonna be put in that maybe like, I didn't know how I was gonna feel. Sure. So it was just a one on one and that way my friend was like a good sized body of me to like work the moves on whatever I was learning.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. That's actually from what you guys have told me about your school, Long Island, like, they they seem to have a good business operation going Yeah. That's a very smart because a lot of the times you go to these jitsu school, but it's just a person opening up a school. But you go and they're like, oh, go ahead. Go

Speaker 1:

Yeah. You get lost in the background.

Speaker 2:

We start in five. Yeah. And then you're, like, running around doing backward answering.

Speaker 3:

Well, the thing is, like, for some people, like, you know, different strokes, different folks. For some people, they might wanna just go into the tank and just figure it out. Yeah. That's how their, like, brain works. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

For other people, like the situation you were coming in, you're coming from a very sensitive situation, like that was, I would, I don't use the p word often, but maybe the perfect on ramp for jiu jitsu for you at the time.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. It was like I needed, the keyword. Yeah. I needed that to be like, okay, I'm after as soon as it was done, I think like as soon as it started, I was like, oh, I'm signing

Speaker 2:

up. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I was like, this isn't even I was like, I like this. This feels good.

Speaker 2:

Had you had any background in athletics or sports?

Speaker 1:

I played tennis actually. Yeah. Which people think you like don't have to be athletic for. But you do. Absolutely do.

Speaker 1:

And that's like the only real sport that I did. I did that in high school and both my brothers are really good at tennis. So that was like the family sport. But other than that, what I was lacking was a hobby. I didn't have anything.

Speaker 1:

So, I would wake up, go to work, come home, go to bed. I didn't go to the gym, I didn't do anything. I literally had nothing. So, like, yeah, you're gonna be like depressed.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Like, don't have anything. So this, Dude Just You wasn't just me like, I thought it was just me like, I'm gonna learn how to defend myself, get enough skills and that's it, right? But it's like, okay now, like I have a hobby now, wait, I feel like I have a purpose. I don't feel like I'm just like, you know, working to live and just like life just goes on and I'm like, okay.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, you're fulfilled.

Speaker 2:

You feel

Speaker 3:

a sense of coming in Yeah.

Speaker 1:

%.

Speaker 3:

For sure.

Speaker 2:

It helps when you're good at it. I was gonna say, you you said in the beginning that you're like like you need searching for something to make you feel better essentially for I butchered whatever you said, but I was like, that's crazy because you do make me feel worse.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. But you keep you keep coming back.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I also like have short term memory loss. Like, don't even, if I was bad one day, like, when I think back about on my jujitsu journey, like, don't even remember struggling with certain things which is like kind of ironic because like, I know I did or like, Al will show me a move and I'll be like, it'll store in the back of my brain and then like, a year later I'll be like, look at this sick thing I figured out. Right? And he's like, I showed that to you a year ago. I hadn't made that up.

Speaker 1:

So that also helps.

Speaker 3:

Listen, I think, I don't know if you you clinically have short term

Speaker 2:

memory loss. Okay. Alright. Don't take this.

Speaker 1:

I don't wanna affect you. It's not clinically, but I literally don't remember certain things.

Speaker 2:

That's

Speaker 3:

good. So that's actually a good thing. It's good entrepreneurship. It's good in jujitsu. Had I have big short term memory loss.

Speaker 3:

Clinically.

Speaker 2:

There are some no.

Speaker 1:

Okay.

Speaker 3:

No. Not

Speaker 1:

clinically. I don't know. You asked me something.

Speaker 3:

I have, like, the mind of an elephant.

Speaker 2:

Thank you for checking that. I appreciate that.

Speaker 1:

I have

Speaker 2:

remember everything.

Speaker 3:

Like, Drew

Speaker 2:

will tell you.

Speaker 3:

Like, I have a very good memory.

Speaker 2:

Like, I remember conversations we had, like, two years ago. Yeah. Like, I get it.

Speaker 3:

But I have a habit of, like, forgetting the shit that I should forget. Yeah. I forget some stuff I shouldn't forget sometimes, and now that I said that, I just remembered something I

Speaker 2:

was supposed to do today that

Speaker 3:

I didn't do. But anyway,

Speaker 2:

having to return memory losses, it's it's important

Speaker 3:

in entrepreneurship and jujitsu. I had a moment this Sunday. Somebody many pulled me aside after opened my mat and they were like, hey, look, like, is getting really good. Like, good work. And I, like, appreciate that.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

And immediately, I had a memory of my first class, and I wore my gi pants on backwards.

Speaker 1:

Oh, my God. Know, didn't go to gi classes because I didn't know how to tie my belt, and I was so mortified.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. So

Speaker 3:

I put my

Speaker 1:

I wish you showed up.

Speaker 3:

I tied the belt, but it was all back.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. It was all backwards. He tied belt behind Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. So it like I had I was like, wow. I completely, like, forgot about that. And in this moment, it, like, came back. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

You know what I mean? So I'm I'm a fan of short term memory loss. Not clinical.

Speaker 1:

Just No. Not clinical. Purposeful.

Speaker 2:

Not Yeah. We did this or that episode before you came. And curious. Gee or no gee?

Speaker 1:

No ghee. You should know this drill.

Speaker 2:

Well, I said I really don't have a preference personally. I do I do know you train ghee though. Right? Sorry.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I I trained in the ghee. Now, it's more of like a you have to take your medicine kind of thing. Yeah. You know?

Speaker 1:

Yeah. It's like I have to train in the ghee because I gotta at least make it like, I at least have to make it like one or two classes in the gi. Yeah. It started that my schedule didn't allow me to train in the gi. So I was just not able to make the classes, so then you hate it because you suck in it so much.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. So I'm like, why are you grabbing me? I can't get you off of me. I don't like this. Nogi's just like, it's so much more fast paced and it's so much more like, I can just fucking fly and jump on top of you and like do crazy stuff.

Speaker 2:

You are like a spider monkey kind of Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I just like, Whatever happens happens.

Speaker 3:

Here I am.

Speaker 2:

The other jiu jitsu related question we had was start from standing or pull guard?

Speaker 1:

So we're ever evolving just like a Right?

Speaker 3:

Work in progress.

Speaker 1:

It was guard pulling all the time, every day

Speaker 2:

of the All the time.

Speaker 1:

All. All. All. And I just recently started taking wrestling classes. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And now it's wrestling like is buffering in my brain. Like it's not like you could teach me something in jitsu and I can get it and like I can implement it and then wrestling it's like, okay, here's my window of opportunity, it's gone. I can't force it. Like I need you to react a certain way. So therefore, it's harder for me but I am enjoying the process and so I would say, I'm fifty fifty on that one.

Speaker 1:

The

Speaker 3:

wrestling Your wrestling journey as you described it is my wrestling journey. Well,

Speaker 2:

we're in a state.

Speaker 3:

It's literally the same thing. Like, with jujitsu, you show me something, I get it. Now what Danny and Nick showed

Speaker 2:

me at the seminar, took

Speaker 3:

me a minute.

Speaker 2:

I was telling her that

Speaker 3:

it Took me a minute.

Speaker 2:

You real it's like a geometry class. It's just it's so

Speaker 3:

much at once. You know what I mean? But it's so much at once, but it's not. Once you, like, unlock the first three things, you're like, oh,

Speaker 2:

I get this.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. You know?

Speaker 2:

Whereas the old school approach is like, oh, pin pin arm down, put arm on like,

Speaker 1:

it's just

Speaker 3:

very Wrestling for me, same thing. Like you said, like, jujitsu, you show me something. You only have to show me once. Yeah. I have to go through a couple iterations, but then I got it.

Speaker 3:

Wrestling, I'm like, buffering.

Speaker 2:

Wrestling is kind of crazy.

Speaker 1:

Oh, wrestling is insane. Yeah. People that are like, your parent put you into wrestling when you were like five, I'm envious of you. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

That it's, you know, I'm not making any excuses, know, I'm in this for the long haul, but I wish. Let's

Speaker 2:

just say Well, son started wrestling at four. Yeah. But hear me So I had this dream for like a a state champion in high school, and he just did not he did it well. He was he was a good wrestler, but he just did not like it at all.

Speaker 3:

No. Aw.

Speaker 2:

And, like, I I just feel like you need that dog in you. And he doesn't have any older brothers. Right? He's the only child. Like, a lot of the kids I feel like took to wrestling take to wrestling at that young age are getting like they have that dog in them.

Speaker 1:

Oh, they're animals.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. They kinda

Speaker 1:

they scare me.

Speaker 2:

So I was like, alright. I was trying to do it to the time. I was like, alright. You come try to jujitsu. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

And we'll see how you like that. And then you can pick. And he like, dad, I love jujitsu. And like now he's training multiple times a day, but I would love I I asked him last night, like, oh, when are gonna start wrestling again? He said, never.

Speaker 2:

I'm like, alright. You say that Yeah. But freshman year in high school, I'm like, yeah. What's like, you've been trained you've been trained jujitsu since you were five, six, like you're going

Speaker 1:

to make it realizes that his jujitsu needs wrestling, then he'll voluntarily play.

Speaker 2:

But that's part of the issue is that movement is very guard heavy. And his guard is so good that he doesn't need wrestling at all. He they start pulling guard. So.

Speaker 3:

But when he does get to high school, when he starts wrestling, he'll be, like, way more equipped.

Speaker 2:

Exactly. The first time he's ready. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Right. Yeah. He'll have a great guard. Then guess what? You'll learn wrestling.

Speaker 1:

You'll be so good. You'll be unselfishable.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Exactly. That's the goal.

Speaker 1:

No one will touch you.

Speaker 2:

I'm I'm holding now hope that my that my state champion days are still ahead of me.

Speaker 3:

I say start building the trophy case now. Yeah. Start building the trophy case now so that when he gets there, you're good. Just pop it right in. Just pop it right in the case.

Speaker 3:

What else on jujitsu? Wanna talk about anything else jujitsu?

Speaker 2:

No no other this or that questions.

Speaker 3:

No? No. What what has I don't know if we fully articulated it, maybe. But what is it about jujitsu that you love the most? Like, looking at your journey thus far, you mentioned, you know, camaraderie and the friendships and all of that.

Speaker 3:

But as you've gone through your journey, is there

Speaker 2:

something that you love the most? To add on to that. Like, when did it change from like, okay, this is cool, I'm doing this all the time to like, okay, I'm gonna Yeah. Wait. So I can shout

Speaker 1:

you guys out

Speaker 2:

here. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I can. Okay. Really? Because you guys were

Speaker 2:

a part of

Speaker 3:

this. Mean, you're here.

Speaker 1:

Let's do it. Yes. When I first started training, again, was like self defense. I was like, I'm this is just for fun, and like, to learn how to defend myself. And then, know, Al's like, well you should like, you know, think about competing.

Speaker 1:

And I'm like, yeah, right. Never happening, that's so scary.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Never happening. Then, I'm scrolling on Instagram, and then I'm like, wait, this girl's cool. She competes. Molly.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah. Molly.

Speaker 1:

So I'm like, oh my god. Wait, she's really cool. Okay. Maybe cool girls compete. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Fuck. So then I'm like, okay. And then I find Amanda and I'm like, fuck this girl too? Yeah. I'm like these girls are so cool and like, I guess this is what I have to do.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I guess if I wanna be hot girl jujitsu That's amazing. I have to compete.

Speaker 2:

That's amazing.

Speaker 1:

And then, that kind of gave me like the, I guess push of being like, yeah, do it. Like, look, these girls are cool and they're doing it. Like, was like, alright, maybe I'll do it. So then a year into training, I did my first, it was like a local tournament. Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

And my journey on competing has, I think in the beginning, it was just highs. I was just like, this is so much fun. Yeah. Like, this is good, like, I'm I had this like, oh, you're you're fucking scared of me like mentality.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And then somewhere along the way it's like, okay, where'd that girl go? She's kinda scared.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

She's I'm scared now. Really? I'm learning to find the joy in competing again. Obviously, this year for me has been like a busy year. I started a business with my sister, we have our podcast, so we have a lot of stuff going on.

Speaker 1:

So, competing took a little bit of the back burner there.

Speaker 3:

Okay.

Speaker 1:

But this year, I'm planning on competing a lot more and really focusing on finding the joy in competing again. Sure. I saw Brianna St. Marie post something about that and I was like, oh, that really resonates with me.

Speaker 2:

Did you have a lot of success with competing in the beginning? Is that Yeah. Okay.

Speaker 1:

And I think I set then this expectation for myself.

Speaker 3:

This is how it was gonna be. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And then you start realizing that like, as you start working your way

Speaker 2:

up Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

All these motherfuckers are just as good. Yeah. So Yeah. It's not, it's I think competing is a skill in itself that you have to develop and it's like, can be, you know, great in the training room but I can walk out there on the mats and not do any of that jujitsu. And I think that's the feeling.

Speaker 1:

That disappointment is what I don't like feeling.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

It's like I didn't do any of my jujitsu. So

Speaker 3:

I mean, think we we describe those as a journey. Right? Like a lot of times you start it and it's fun, and then it gets hard, and then you're like, wait a second, where's the fun part? And then you work your way through it, then it gets fun again, then it gets more difficult. So like, it's a journey.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. You know, it's a journey. One thing that in the beginning of your journey

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

You're kinda like, hey, I'm doing jujitsu for fun and for to learn how to defend myself. Like, you're latching those two things together, and I think that's, like, really unique. Because I I don't know how coming from, like, DV like, a a a a violent situation where you're looking to learn how to defend yourself and still being like, hey. Let's just sprinkle the fun in.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I can't even like

Speaker 3:

Maybe it's your personality.

Speaker 1:

I can't even fully credit myself. I think, yes, it is my personality. I think I've done a lot of mental work on becoming a more positive person and I think it's easy to say like, just be positive and then it's like, oh, say that to me. Like, what do you mean just be positive? Everything sucks.

Speaker 1:

How do you want me to just be positive? Yeah. You know, when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. So, I think that a lot of like my mental work and I stopped viewing myself as like a victim to my circumstances. Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

What do you want? Like I want people to feel sorry for me, no. Like I don't wanna just be a victim and live in this mentality of like, well something bad happened to me and that's why I'm here and blah blah blah. I didn't wanna feel that way. Yep.

Speaker 1:

So, think that's part of it is I did a lot of mental work, a lot of like gratitude and just being more present and everything like that. And I credit also a lot of it to like the environment. I think the environment that you're in, if the coach is a good coach and they're making it fun for you and they keep you engaged and it's not If you feel cared about and seen and all that, I mean, I can only credit Al for all of that for me.

Speaker 3:

Shout out Al.

Speaker 1:

I don't think I would fall in love with it if I didn't start where I started with the coach I started with. Yeah. I think that really plays like a a big part.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. So well said. So well said.

Speaker 2:

Al, did you suggest she competes just because that's what people do or did you see potential? Definitely saw potential. Yeah. Yeah. He

Speaker 1:

thinks I'm gonna be like some crazy world champion.

Speaker 3:

Naturally, just like aggressive.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah. She's killing it.

Speaker 3:

The dog. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Which, you know Eagle. Not everyone wants to be friends with you then, but that's what's That's okay.

Speaker 2:

You're the aggressive role. I think mostly,

Speaker 3:

you were saying, maybe not everybody wants to be a friend when you got the the eagle in you, right? But I think most people come around because most people wanna feel that type of power. Yeah. You know what I mean? And I think most people come The

Speaker 2:

right people come Yeah, they

Speaker 1:

And if not, that, I think you find the right people. Yeah. I think you're not always maybe placed into the environment with them, but like, for instance, like, from me going starting jiu jitsu, being on my phone scrolling, seeing these two girls being like, oh, they're so cool. Now like, I'm friends with them.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Like, we're friendly. We, you know, we see each other here, whatever. Yep. So I think you then are placed into that community of the right people. And I didn't need to force anything.

Speaker 1:

I wasn't there to make friends. I was there to learn how to defend myself. If friends came along, great. And people come and people go.

Speaker 2:

Sure.

Speaker 1:

And I think that's you know, just a part of the journey.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And yeah.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. So you said you had a lot going on this year, right? A lot of good stuff, right? So you mentioned business and podcast with your So why don't you tell a few a little bit about those two things?

Speaker 1:

Yeah. As for our business, you know, I'm your social media girly. So, it's all things content creation. So, it's businesses, it's really weddings is what we like jumped into that was is kind of like on the up and coming content creation weddings. It's like a newer thing.

Speaker 2:

Oh, is. And I'd say it's crazy. People great business to get into because people have no budget when it comes to the wedding. Oh, people are Like they'll spend Mhmm. It's like, photographer, levy, could be $8,000 for a wedding, $500 on a different day.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Mean, like, people just

Speaker 1:

It's like wedding? Oh, the price is up.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. And and people are like, you know what? Great price. I'll take it. So true.

Speaker 2:

It is true. It is true.

Speaker 1:

We try not to take advantage of people. Don't get me wrong.

Speaker 3:

So are you so are you are like boots on the ground at the wedding Yeah. Like creating content? Yeah. That's awesome.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I play very awesome. I've always like been into content creation so getting into this was like kind of comfortable rounds in that sense. Honestly, I shout out the bride that just took a chance on us with no nothing to show. I had nothing like no portfolio.

Speaker 1:

She just like trusted me. Yeah. And I'm like thank you because

Speaker 2:

Did she pay you for that?

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

That's cool. Shout

Speaker 1:

out. Like it wasn't just like a trial, like she fully like was our first person with nothing, no portfolio to show and I think once people saw what we could do, because it's a little bit different, the content we're shooting isn't traditionally like content creation for weddings is just all on your phone. But we're doing it on a camera, so it's a little bit more elevated content. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

That's

Speaker 1:

it. Yeah. And it just, it itches my brain the right way. Love Where

Speaker 2:

do I go to?

Speaker 1:

Thebridalclub.bts.

Speaker 2:

I'm sorry, don't

Speaker 3:

So shout out First customers. Yes. And how important they are. On your journey. And sometimes I don't think they know how important they are.

Speaker 3:

Oh, yeah. Like you go into a I'll say sandwich shop because that's like where I see them all the time. You go into like a sandwich shop and they have their first dollar. Yeah. Like that the customers are

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Like framed on the on the wall. And it's Drew's Drew's pulling up a live look.

Speaker 1:

I just had a I

Speaker 2:

just had

Speaker 1:

a viral one. Swipe down.

Speaker 2:

That is legit, dude. Like, the not what I expect. I expected something much more

Speaker 1:

My favorite one's pinned.

Speaker 3:

So are you working so do you sometimes show up to the wedding and there's a photographer there that you've never okay. Alright.

Speaker 1:

There's photographers and videographers, and then sometimes it's just me.

Speaker 3:

Okay.

Speaker 1:

I'm just like the background girly, pretend I'm not Got

Speaker 3:

you.

Speaker 1:

You know, some people like are super receptive to it, other photographers obviously like they're used to being the photographer so like they're not used to like having another person there. I just try not to get any in anybody's way, but

Speaker 3:

To not get in anybody's way, to have that approach, to like be the ninja and create that type of content is pretty amazing.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. That's the content too. Like, what's that? Like, that's not.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Let's go.

Speaker 2:

They're not like just your typical real No.

Speaker 1:

I like, we really care. Like we really care about what we put out and like it needs to be perfect. Yeah. It it will not be anything less

Speaker 3:

than It needs to be the p word.

Speaker 1:

It needs to be the p word. I used it. And I and I also just love it. So like I need to remind myself to like take a break. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Like I love it so much that like I will stay up all hours of night if I'm editing something and just keep going because I love it.

Speaker 3:

That's how you That's how you know.

Speaker 2:

I was gonna say your first customer, one, probably paid a a banger price, but also probably got triple the value. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

She got so many reels.

Speaker 3:

Are you posting too at like live posting? No. Okay. So you're doing post.

Speaker 2:

That could be a service. Oh, okay. It's an add on.

Speaker 1:

But it is an add on. But we it's all like raw footage and then you get it the next day and then depending on what package you choose, you can get however many completed reels. You can get, you know, three, whatever it is.

Speaker 3:

She's locked in. I knew it was going on, so forgive me. Knew it was going on, I knew what you were up to, but I didn't realize the extent to it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. You were up to it.

Speaker 1:

And I can't say it's all me. It's dope. My little my little assistant over there, he he helps a We

Speaker 2:

know who gets the angles. Yeah. We we we know. Yeah. Who gets

Speaker 3:

the angles?

Speaker 1:

But yeah. So that's been like our new endeavor this year, and it's taken off. We have weddings booked until like 2026 which is just crazy to think of. But me and my sister are both so creative so it was like we didn't have anywhere that was like fulfilling Us An outlet. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And also like it is nice that we can also make money from it. Yep. You know? Sure. Sure.

Speaker 1:

Loving that. And then our podcast, back to what you were saying, is we started it to honor our dad. So he was like the wisest man ever and he just had so many little like phrases and things like that that like now on my journey of like becoming better with like my mindset and everything like that, I'm like, oh, great.

Speaker 3:

Makes sense, right?

Speaker 1:

Yeah. This makes sense. But I think a lot of times with like parents, you don't realize that until they're here anymore unfortunately. But I think that I feel almost even like a stronger connection with him now and feel like guidance through those things. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

So, our idea with podcast is we like to sprinkle in little bits of like him. Mhmm. It's kind of like a self help sort of way, but like in like a hot girl way. Like in a way that's just like, we're just girls chitchatting. We're just two sisters.

Speaker 1:

We're just having fun.

Speaker 2:

Don't think I understand

Speaker 3:

the hot girl. Do you understand the

Speaker 1:

hot I

Speaker 2:

think you should define it for people that like a hot girl is like, that's like,

Speaker 1:

you you No.

Speaker 2:

You don't have to be Yeah. It's your it's your identity.

Speaker 1:

It's your aura honestly.

Speaker 2:

It's your

Speaker 3:

energy. The energy you give off. It's like

Speaker 1:

a few energy. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

I identify as a hot girl.

Speaker 1:

I know. You're the original hot girl.

Speaker 2:

Bro, between bro, between

Speaker 1:

You're the

Speaker 3:

Yeah. You

Speaker 2:

dig your own home, bro. I don't even have to dig one for you.

Speaker 1:

On The Real, I wait. I'm not I'm not a hot girl, but I wanna wear a matching set. And I said, anyone can be a girl.

Speaker 2:

There There you go. So Yo, Dane. You gotta put that in the trailer, bro. It's gonna be like

Speaker 1:

He's he's zoned out.

Speaker 2:

Duh. Yeah. Dane, you missed a gem, man. You missed a gem, like, sixty seconds ago. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Danny's actually we weren't

Speaker 1:

recording this whole time.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Alright. Right. Dude, can

Speaker 1:

you go back

Speaker 2:

to the part where you said you I'm not even gonna say it out loud. Yeah. Yeah. Cut it up. And then it's gonna be me saying it.

Speaker 2:

I don't know. I'm gonna I'm gonna stay away from that. I'm gonna go with this new energy.

Speaker 3:

I What's

Speaker 2:

the name

Speaker 3:

of the podcast?

Speaker 1:

Oh, the name of the podcast is the Yes, for the iMan. My dad like fully thought like everything was like named after him. So like Uh-huh. He had like, he's like the iPhone. That's like, because my name

Speaker 2:

is That's funny.

Speaker 1:

Ira, and he's like, he drove an I eight, he's like, yeah, that's because That's amazing. Yeah, he was just like, he was in his own world and I think that's like really what I try to emulate of like, he always say like, keep the focus on yourself, keep God in your life and the rest means dip. Wow. So like keep the focus on yourself.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

You know, have your faith in whatever you need to believe in, the universe, God, whatever it is.

Speaker 2:

Say it one more time.

Speaker 1:

Keep the focus on yourself.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

Keep God in your life and the rest means dip.

Speaker 2:

Wow. I like that. I really like that.

Speaker 1:

Had so many little Ira isms, we call The

Speaker 3:

first part of it, keep the focus on yourself, some people will hear that and think, well that's selfish.

Speaker 1:

Mhmm.

Speaker 3:

But in reality Yeah. It's you filling your Yeah. So that when it overflows, you give to others. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I think you can take it in so many different ways too. Like keep the focus on yourself, like, don't be so focused on what everybody else is doing.

Speaker 3:

Yep.

Speaker 1:

Because your comparison, it's the thief of joy, right? Yeah. So keep the focus on yourself in that sense. But just, it translates to so many different parts of life.

Speaker 3:

I had a question for you that I wasn't gonna ask, but now I'm gonna ask because we clarified that. In this space, your content creation business is called what again? I'm sorry.

Speaker 1:

The Bridal Club.

Speaker 3:

The Bridal Club. BTS, right? Is there a lot of competition in that space? And I didn't ask the question because I am, like, the like, if you ask me to name, like, people that compete in Fuel Hunt, like, I can't I can't do it. Like, I can name a couple people that whatever.

Speaker 3:

But, like, competition is the last thing on my fucking mind. But since we just had that discussion about I'm genuine genuinely curious about just like

Speaker 1:

I

Speaker 3:

wish I the business landscape.

Speaker 1:

I wish I knew. I'm so like I literally think like what I have to offer, I don't think anyone's doing the same thing. Boom. I think, yes, maybe there's other content creators, but what you're getting with me and my sister is it's we're on a different level.

Speaker 3:

It seems like a unique model to me and like that's why I ask like you have everything that it takes to make it successful and I just wonder how many people out there are trying to do the same thing. Think it's also Business curiosity.

Speaker 1:

Your personality matters. Like Oh. When you're getting somebody like you need to feel like that person's your best friend on your wedding day. Mhmm. So it can't be somebody who can't you need to be

Speaker 3:

a personality. You

Speaker 2:

have to

Speaker 3:

have the feeling of this person gets me.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Because they are taking or cares. Right? You're creating Yes. You're you're actually solidifying their moments. You're you're creating something tangible so they

Speaker 1:

can relive their I fully cry.

Speaker 2:

Dude. I was at a wedding most recently with that. They had a content creator, but that was my first experience with one. But they weren't even, like, super close friends. I got emotional.

Speaker 2:

I feel like weddings just make me emotional in general.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. I mean, when I spoke at your wedding, cried. I mean, I cried.

Speaker 2:

I cried like a baby. What day

Speaker 3:

is it?

Speaker 1:

Oh, a cry baby. Don't get me wrong. Yeah. But like, if I'm watching a movie, I'm not really gonna cry. No.

Speaker 1:

But in like real life instances

Speaker 3:

I cried at Bluey, man. Yeah. When we watch him Bluey,

Speaker 1:

cried. Bluey?

Speaker 3:

I cried

Speaker 2:

at Bluey.

Speaker 1:

He's lost.

Speaker 2:

I I can't say I'm a

Speaker 1:

hot God forbid. It's a

Speaker 2:

little different. Is it? It's a little different. Really? I think.

Speaker 2:

I think it's a little different, man. I'm Bluey. I'm, you know, I let my emotions out. On my wedding

Speaker 1:

on your sleeve.

Speaker 2:

On my wedding day, I cried. Like, I I sobbed. Like, it was I got the waves of emotion is what gets me.

Speaker 3:

I think I held my emotions in for way too long. So, I'm still, like, I still have emotions from like twenty five years ago that I'm still letting out. I'm still letting out. No,

Speaker 1:

that's real. Yeah. That's real It's so for real. Yeah. Like, I've always been somebody who has like been able to like verbalize how I'm feeling

Speaker 3:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

To a fault clearly. But, it's never been something that I've struggled with, so I've always said how I feel Mhmm. And actually I had to learn the opposite of maybe you don't need to maybe you don't need to say that. Yeah. Maybe keep that to yourself.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. Because not everybody has your best interest at heart simply for that. Is that if you, I would tend to be vulnerable with people who, wow, I just told you how I feel about all these things and you're gonna take advantage of me.

Speaker 3:

Yes. Or you're you know, use it against you

Speaker 1:

in another situation

Speaker 2:

or I think

Speaker 1:

it's more so like you gotta protect yourself.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. For sure.

Speaker 2:

I've said this before, but I do agree is that people don't necessarily want what's best for you. They want what's best for them for you. Mhmm. And I think that comes out in a lot of your interaction with people in in in daily life is sad, that is to say.

Speaker 3:

I mean, think some of it's subconscious, to be honest. I mean, there are people out there that are just, like, gamers, and they 're trying to manipulate you or whatever, but I think a lot of people, it's subconscious. You know

Speaker 1:

what It's just like how you're

Speaker 3:

you I see the world this way, I see this going this way, you have an inkling of it going that way too, let me push you towards that.

Speaker 1:

I think

Speaker 3:

it's you're

Speaker 1:

an NPC. Like so many people are just literally NPC's and they don't do any self work and they like don't try to better themselves or like be decent human beings.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I think that's what it is. Like they just are like this is how I feel and like that's it. I'm just gonna like play in this game of life. Yeah. So Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I think it's just about like doing your inner work and becoming like emotionally intelligent Mhmm. And like realizing that, yes, you need to be selfish to a certain extent but anything in extreme is like not good.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. I mean, like, you should be self you should be selfish to be selfless.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. Mhmm.

Speaker 3:

Right? I mean, that's the goal.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. You know what

Speaker 3:

I mean? So fill your cup till it overflows Mhmm. And then give it away to everybody else. Mhmm. You know what I mean?

Speaker 3:

And then repeat the repeat the cycle.

Speaker 1:

Yep.

Speaker 3:

You know? So as you pour in everybody else, your cup empty, repeat the cycle.

Speaker 2:

Sounds like an aneurysm.

Speaker 1:

Oh, sounds like it. Yeah. There's so many, and now I'm like, what else is there? Like you obviously, I'm drunk. There's so many little

Speaker 3:

The fact that you said in some degree you feel closer with him now Yeah. Because of like all that reflection, like creating something and like bringing something to life that like honors him is amazing.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Amazing.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. That's the point. I mean, there's so many people that didn't get to meet him, right? Yeah. So it's like, if I can carry on any bit of him Yeah.

Speaker 1:

For all those other people, that's kind of the goal. Because they're like light bulb moments. When you hear these things, you're like, oh, wow. Like, that's so true.

Speaker 3:

We've we've had a ton of them on the show recently, and we're saying like, sounds cliche until it's not.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. Exactly. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Until hits you until it hits you at that point in your life when you need it most. Mhmm.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Where it all

Speaker 2:

makes sense. Yeah. Then it all makes sense. Yeah. You're like, wow.

Speaker 2:

Like, that's what that quote means. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So the show, you said the name of your show, but where can the community find it?

Speaker 2:

All major platforms or like?

Speaker 1:

On Spotify recently YouTube. So I'm getting new. Used to be like we could just be in my pajamas and be like no one's no one's seeing this so this doesn't matter. Yeah. But now it's I mean it's just in my your nice pajamas.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. In my cuter pajamas. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. In my But

Speaker 1:

yeah, so it's it's it's casual in the sense that like we're just we're just chitchatting. Yeah. Like us, we're just like we're yapping right now. There's no like script or anything. So yeah.

Speaker 3:

We learned that the hard way. We when we first started.

Speaker 2:

We did our first couple episodes were a bit scripted.

Speaker 3:

We felt like we felt in they were scripted, but they weren't. Yeah. Like, didn't sit down and say like, this is what we're gonna talk about. This like, we had that free flowing

Speaker 2:

Script is a bad word. Yeah. Not scripted.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. We had that

Speaker 1:

free No. We're not like

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Exactly. Rigid, I

Speaker 3:

would say. They're rigid. Because, like, for me personally, I just felt intense pressure to always bring the IRIS. Mhmm. You know what I mean?

Speaker 3:

Yeah. I felt intense pressure. Like, somebody's going to sit here and listen or watch this. Yeah. And I need to make sure, like, literally every five seconds Yeah.

Speaker 3:

It's adding value to their lives.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. And it was very rigid. Was a lot of pressure.

Speaker 1:

People just wanna see you guys. They just wanna see, like, oh, who are these behind Fuel On? Yeah. Like, what

Speaker 3:

Well, they wanna see this. They wanna see jamming about real life and Yeah. How we feel. And if something, you know, quotable spins out of it Yeah. Great.

Speaker 3:

Great.

Speaker 2:

I was gonna say that's the thing. A lot of these times we instead of trying so hard to deliver iorisms or value, like, we just end up talking and delivering value through our words. Yeah. And and clever things. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Speaking from radiance. I mean, that's how Bedros said it. Speaking from radiance, like, you know, you're like Yeah. You're just letting it shine. Mhmm.

Speaker 3:

You know what I mean? And then and then the the quotables or the value, it just comes out naturally.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

You know?

Speaker 1:

I think that's the best way to do it. I again, I tried to like because I'll start talking about one thing, like, you'll ask me a question and I'll start talking, answering it, and I'm like, wait, did I even answer the question? Yeah. So I do the same thing that's where like me and my sister are a good team like she'll ground me and like wait you didn't you didn't answer what we're supposed to do. So I think there needs to be a balance in every team, right?

Speaker 1:

Yeah. There's like

Speaker 3:

For sure. For sure.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. How it works.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Drew's the fun one and I'm the not.

Speaker 1:

I'm the fun one Drew. So I get it.

Speaker 2:

Exactly. Exactly. Not the workhorse. I I wanna take that to to the gray that Dalia said I don't work.

Speaker 1:

No. He's literally speaking my She said paid actor. I said you're a paid actor because you are.

Speaker 2:

So that doesn't insinuate you don't work.

Speaker 3:

Actors work, dude.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Well, I said I hosted the last episode we just did. And now I told Joey the the part of his paycheck that goes for hosting the podcast is now coming to my position.

Speaker 3:

Well, it's a zero.

Speaker 2:

So zero on the paycheck that goes, so now you just got zero. And you're not taking all of I truly know the shots either, dude. So they're I'm they're staying with me, man. There's no one day when it comes we do get paid for it. Exactly.

Speaker 2:

Alright. Yeah. I'll I'll break you off. Exactly. One your show, I believe there's a

Speaker 3:

bit of manifestation talk on your Okay. So talking about manifesting. Mhmm. So since probably episode the first time you intro'd and took the, you know, the wheel on the show, I've been saying, I'm gonna lose my job. I'm gonna lose my job.

Speaker 3:

I'm literally manifesting.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Like now, I'm gonna do I didn't wanna do it. Like Yeah. Joey does speak much better than me at this point, and maybe not forever, but one day I want that. That's a threat.

Speaker 3:

I like that. I like that.

Speaker 2:

But so I'd always like shy away from anything like And then I just eventually just started doing it. I think I do a much better job of it now and even just speaking in general. But

Speaker 3:

it's hard to listen to some of those, like, I'll be honest, it's like hard to listen to some of those original episodes.

Speaker 2:

Not because they never I would never

Speaker 1:

I can't either.

Speaker 2:

Not because they weren't

Speaker 3:

like and I'm sure that 50 episodes from now,

Speaker 1:

you're gonna see the same thing.

Speaker 3:

No. Nothing. No shade. You're amazing.

Speaker 2:

It's all I'm gonna

Speaker 3:

hate this Yeah. 50 episodes.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. It's almost because you're If you scroll to our 5,000 posts, we I I looked at so we have 5,000

Speaker 3:

That's the same thing.

Speaker 1:

It's Yeah. Because you always wanna be better.

Speaker 3:

5,000? I wanted

Speaker 2:

to make a big thing. Yeah. We it's current we we shouldn't. We should take them all down and just go ahead.

Speaker 3:

Growth,

Speaker 2:

man. It's

Speaker 1:

growth. Growth. Don't you know?

Speaker 2:

You mean you don't like our photos of Michael Jordan that we used to post?

Speaker 1:

Aw.

Speaker 2:

With our text overlays? Exactly.

Speaker 1:

There you go.

Speaker 3:

No. It's growth. You know?

Speaker 2:

No. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

You have to It's growth. That that's the thing is like you have to start somewhere. Like me and my sister would've started this business or this podcast if we wanted it to be perfect right off the bat. Right? So you you'll learn with anything you're starting as you go.

Speaker 1:

You can't like not if you're so scared of messing up that you just don't do it, then you're never going to do it. Yeah. So you just gotta.

Speaker 3:

That's why it's important to have this conversation because there's somebody that's gonna watch this.

Speaker 2:

Yes. And

Speaker 3:

be like, I'm sure. They're gonna watch one of the quotable parts and they're gonna be like, those pe I can't be like those people because those people have something I don't have. So I'll never start a show. You know what I mean? Or I'll never start a business.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

But the reality of it is, we're the same person. It's just we started already and we didn't quit.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I think a lot of it is like here too. Like if you constantly think you're going to fail, you're gonna fail. Mhmm. But if you believe, like for instance, this is something silly.

Speaker 1:

I was at in on the new year, me and Al made a list of stuff that you know, we wanna achieve this year.

Speaker 3:

Love that.

Speaker 1:

We have it hanging on our fridge.

Speaker 2:

Love

Speaker 1:

that. And so, originally we were making the list and I was like, no no no no no. We have to start over. We're doing this wrong. We're saying these We have to say these things like they already happened.

Speaker 1:

Mhmm. So, then we take out a new piece of paper, we write them as if they already happened, hang it on the fridge. One of my things is that one of my bridal club videos is gonna go viral and we're gonna book a bunch of weddings. What happens?

Speaker 3:

Boom.

Speaker 1:

One of my videos goes viral, has over a hundred thousand views and yeah, the weddings are gonna come. So, I really fully believe that if you're looking for good things to happen to you, good things are gonna happen to you. And that's where I did get into manifesting, I wanna say like a year ago.

Speaker 3:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

I found a podcast called Manifesting Miracles. And it was like, you know, a little cheesy, but I was like, you know what, like, just wanna, I wanna be a better version of myself.

Speaker 3:

Is, it's it's woo woo, and it's cheesy until it isn't. Yeah. Until your real goes viral,

Speaker 2:

until you're booked in through 2026 with

Speaker 3:

your weddings, you know what I mean? Mhmm. But you have the work ethic to back it up. Yeah. So like you said, you get lost in your art.

Speaker 3:

Like if somebody doesn't stop you, you will edit throughout the night. Yep. So you have the belief that it's going to happen paired with the work ethic to make it happen. And that's that's the magic. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. That's the manifestation. It's the magic. Agree.

Speaker 2:

The one thing that has to get paired with that, like you said, the work, like the work. Mhmm. That's where people get lost. And I think have a bad relationship with the word manifestation or think it is woo woo because they don't see all of the work that

Speaker 1:

also does. Can say my video is gonna go viral. But if I don't post a video, what's gonna go viral?

Speaker 2:

But when they hear manifesting, think, oh, this is some person saying

Speaker 3:

There's also there's also some people out there, and none of the manifestation books are people that I follow, but there's a lot of people out there that will try to convince you that your vision board's enough. Like, every day, you just have to write it a hundred times over, stare at your vision board, and it's enough. That's not No.

Speaker 2:

It's not

Speaker 3:

enough. No. It's not enough. Now, will those things spur you into action, the work Yeah. To make it?

Speaker 3:

They absolutely will. So if I see somebody, one of these manifestation coaches, and they're saying, look, have to write it 100 times over every morning in the book. Mhmm. It's like, okay. I see where you're going with that, but tell the other half of the story that, like, you are gonna feel guilty as fuck Yeah.

Speaker 3:

If you don't do the thing that you just wrote a hundred times. It's kinda

Speaker 1:

like motivation versus discipline. Right? It's kind of like the same sort of thing.

Speaker 3:

It is. It is. Yeah, it is.

Speaker 2:

What I also think is interesting too that I've learned about manifesting is that your goals and your manifestations are nice, but they don't just show up to you on a silver platter. Right? Like, it's not like I manifested this and then it came in the the way I thought it was going to come. Mhmm. It comes to you in a different way, on a different journey, on a different path.

Speaker 2:

Yep. Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

I think, again, I said it like a little while ago, like, when you change the way you look at things, things you look at change, right? Mhmm. Like, if I got into a car accident, right? Mhmm. God for fucking bid.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. And I got a new car, I could look at that like, that is the shittiest fucking thing. I can't believe I got into a fucking car accident. My life sucks. Blah blah blah.

Speaker 1:

Or I could look at it like, wait, look at this brand new car I

Speaker 3:

just And I walked away from the accident.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Like I walked away from the

Speaker 3:

accident and I got a brand new car like

Speaker 2:

You could have been manifesting a new car that year. That's insane. That's what I'm saying. That could be

Speaker 1:

the Yeah. Like you could be saying that you wanted you wanted a new car whatever it But it that is not ideal maybe the way it happened. But for instance, my sister bought her house, hated her kitchen. Could not sand her kitchen. It was weird.

Speaker 1:

It was like blue and like all stainless steel. No offense if that's her kitchen.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

So then, I was gonna fuck this girl's

Speaker 2:

Someone's sitting in their kitchen like, oh my god.

Speaker 3:

You know what? I was with this all fifty seven minutes. Now I'm fucking out of here.

Speaker 2:

Good bitch. This is what

Speaker 3:

hot girl kitchens are?

Speaker 1:

I'm out. I'm out. So she loved her house, hated her kitchen. What happens? Her house has a flood.

Speaker 1:

Yep. Guess what? Insurance covers all of the repairs. She gets new floors and a brand

Speaker 2:

new kitchen. Yeah. That's crazy.

Speaker 1:

You know, it sucks. You have

Speaker 2:

to be

Speaker 1:

But. You have to

Speaker 3:

be really careful with where you point the manifestation. You gotta be real careful, right?

Speaker 1:

It's more so like if you look at everything bad that happens to you, right? Yep.

Speaker 2:

As

Speaker 1:

this is happening to me, not for me.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

Life is gonna suck. Oh yeah. But if you look at everything like this is happening for me

Speaker 2:

Yep.

Speaker 3:

Yep.

Speaker 1:

Everything is good.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Yep.

Speaker 1:

Even the bad things are good. Yep. And guess what, if I never had that really shitty situation, I would never start a Jiu Jitsu.

Speaker 2:

You wouldn't have the life you're

Speaker 1:

living now. I wouldn't be sitting here right Yeah. Or even like I literally call me crazy, I would when I remember seeing you guys in the beginning, I'm like, just wait. I was like, I'm gonna be there. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I'm gonna be there and I'm gonna be modeling for Fuel Hunt. I literally manifested this.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And I was like, me and my Me and my sister were literally like, wait, this is crazy, this is really happening.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. That's

Speaker 1:

crazy. Like, you're really you're really doing it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And it's like you guys feel like you're just like normal people but like you have like a impact on people. Was like, I'm gonna do this. This is a goal I wanna achieve. Yeah. Right?

Speaker 1:

Yeah. So it's just cool how like shit like that happens. We

Speaker 3:

There's a a book, Law of Attraction, and in that book he calls it the book of proof. So I don't know

Speaker 2:

if you're a book of proof person,

Speaker 3:

but like when things like that happen Mhmm. I write them down. Okay. Now at this point, like I have a really good I'm very good at keeping records mentally of my book of proof. But things get hard.

Speaker 3:

Things don't work out the way that you think they're going to work out or the way you want them to work out sometimes. But it's really important to keep a record of the things that just work out. Yeah. Because that's proof

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

That the energy that you're directing, both the belief and the work Mhmm. When you direct it towards something, it can happen. Mhmm. You know

Speaker 1:

I My dad used to say that you get a book, a composition notebook and you write everything down in the front of the book that you wanna happen and anything bad you can write in the back of the book. Yeah. And that was like, he'd say that to me and he'll be like, okay, yeah, okay, Leave me alone. Yeah. And then now I'm like, what am I doing every morning when I'm freaking journaling?

Speaker 1:

I'm like, oh my god.

Speaker 3:

If you don't write that stuff, what a wise man. If you don't write that stuff in the back of the book, it lives inside you. Mhmm. Mhmm. Then it prevents the things from that are in the front of the book from

Speaker 1:

ever happening.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Okay. So that's, like, a a fear journaling

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Like, methodology. Yeah. Yeah. Powerful stuff.

Speaker 2:

It's fun you say that. I really don't even know how Talia crept into our life. I feel like she was I just feel been here. Like like, I literally can't tell you when we reach out or what made us reach out or how, literally I'm like, it's how

Speaker 1:

I think Amanda helped with the connection because I was like, okay, like I'm ready. Again, I can say all I want that I wanna, you know, be a part of this community, but if I don't take any action, nothing's ever gonna happen,

Speaker 2:

Yep.

Speaker 1:

So, I reached out to Amanda and I was just like, hey, like my following starting to grow and I'm starting to build myself as a brand and you guys were a company that I really wanted to represent. I loved your gear. You guys were my first real rash guard. I used to just wear like long sleeves.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And your designs I loved and I just felt like a girl in them. Yeah. So, I was like, you know what, I really I really like this brand and I really would like them to be the people I represent, right?

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And so then I was like, hey, like do you think you could help with this connect? Blah blah blah. She helped with the connect and then

Speaker 2:

That's great, I don't even remember that.

Speaker 1:

Off we went.

Speaker 2:

I don't have the same memory that Joey had. Have short

Speaker 1:

You have long term.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. I I don't know why I meant that. Remember I don't know why I'm either.

Speaker 3:

I remember the connection, but I didn't the the story that you told about, like, seeing Molly and Amanda and seeing some of yourself in them, and, you know, that, like, link of identity, that was powerful for you to tell. Because that wasn't, that I didn't have registered, but you know.

Speaker 1:

It was literally like, I think an ad. Like I think it was an ad on my Instagram, but like the fact that that snowballed into so many things I did, like I don't even think they realized, I'm like, oh, they probably think I'm fucking weird. But like, I don't even think they realize, like, how much they have impacted, like, my jujitsu journey of, like, somebody to, like, look up to. You know, somebody that, like, does this stuff, but, like, they're also cool.

Speaker 2:

It is crazy that our brand being, the the brand of grit and hard work has taken the form of the hot the hot girl brand too. Feel like it's in it's in the hot girl industry.

Speaker 3:

But I think it's power. I think that's what it is. It's power. Right? Like, you do the grit and the hard work, you feel more powerful.

Speaker 3:

You feel like a hot girl.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm. Would say the hot girl brand, the brand of hot girls also. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I also think that like jujitsu stuff, you guys are the only brand that's just like not like doing weird shit.

Speaker 2:

Cringe.

Speaker 1:

Like it's cringe, it's weird, it's like, I was like, I'm not buying a rash guard, what is this?

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah. I'm not

Speaker 1:

spending money on this. Are you kidding?

Speaker 2:

That's And

Speaker 1:

I was like a gorilla with like all this weird stuff on it. Yeah. Or like the Starbucks one like I said in my video. I'm like, it's enough.

Speaker 2:

You know what

Speaker 1:

It's not gonna just be weird. Like, I'm not weird.

Speaker 2:

I was I mean, and kudos to some of our competitors. And there are some nice Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Of course.

Speaker 2:

Jujutsu has taken a turn in the Sure. Where it used to be. Like, there are some

Speaker 1:

No shade.

Speaker 2:

No shade

Speaker 1:

of tea.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. There are some If

Speaker 1:

you're offended, that's you're And even

Speaker 3:

like, even us even us, like, our our gear is it's very specific. It has a message. Yeah. And I think that Even our on trend pattern things that we're doing of late, the message is still there.

Speaker 1:

My sister actually asked me, when I told her what the, like, what everything stood for, like the Everybody Wants to Eat the Fuel Hunt, she was like, oh my god, I get it. Like, I love that.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

You know, like, not everyone's willing to do the hard work. Like, I think that's so powerful.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

To have that behind the brand. It's not just like, oh, is a cool name.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. You know? I couldn't, to be honest, like, personally, I couldn't do it. Like, this has been about community for me since the beginning

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

And making people stronger. And the way to do that is through words first and then action. So, like, I couldn't have just, like, a trendy No. I couldn't have, like, a trendy brand. Like, I just couldn't do it.

Speaker 3:

Like, there has to be some. It's gotta be the gear and the

Speaker 1:

growth for Right?

Speaker 2:

That's what

Speaker 3:

Gear and the growth

Speaker 2:

for That's what differentiates us though is the fact that we do have purpose behind our apparel. The hard part for us is sometimes when making business decisions, blending the two, like, okay, like this is great for community, but we will actually be terrible for business. Think that's where like the line we've always tried to teeter because it's

Speaker 1:

like because I think you guys are just like

Speaker 2:

You

Speaker 1:

go such authentically like genuine people. Like, you're not just looking to like make a buck.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

You know what I mean?

Speaker 2:

Exactly.

Speaker 1:

Like, you really care about people. Like when I talk to you guys, like in one of my episodes, was literally like shouting you, have to listen

Speaker 2:

Which episode? I gotta listen.

Speaker 1:

I don't know but it was shortly after one of the shoots. I was just like, I literally feel like you guys are just like my brothers.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Like I even more. Don't even barely talk to my brothers. Sorry guys. But, I just feel like so comfortable with you guys. Like, I just feel like you guys are just cool people.

Speaker 2:

Thank you.

Speaker 1:

You know, it's not so much like, I'm nervous. Like, your your energy doesn't make me tense or nervous or like

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

Closed up. It actually brings out like, the more extroverted part of me, which is where I'm like, okay, we were meant to align,

Speaker 2:

you That's interesting you say that because when I was saying I didn't know how we stumbled upon Talia, was gonna say she's like the second little sister I never wanted. I never wanted. She just showed my life on.

Speaker 3:

Gonna be. Yes. Yep. No.

Speaker 2:

Brianna knows. First of

Speaker 1:

She knows.

Speaker 2:

She it's very interesting that you're very you love my sister. You gotta get along with her well because Listen. That says something.

Speaker 3:

At some point, you have to start to ask yourself,

Speaker 1:

who's the problem?

Speaker 2:

Who's Who's the problem? You took the words out of my mouth. It's definitely my sister. I know full well. Oh, god.

Speaker 3:

I love you. I'm gonna be giving

Speaker 1:

you I love

Speaker 3:

you. Over the next, like, three weeks.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. He's always taking the new like, we'll be, like, on meetings and, like, I'll me and Brianna will start bickering Mhmm. For lack of a better word.

Speaker 3:

What Danny said? I'm always bickering.

Speaker 2:

I'm like, right, Joey? It'll be like,

Speaker 1:

I'll out. I'll out.

Speaker 3:

Where I'll say, actually, that's that

Speaker 2:

is boring.

Speaker 1:

I said it

Speaker 2:

was It's never my side.

Speaker 3:

And she's like, thank you, Joe.

Speaker 2:

Thank you, But

Speaker 3:

I I appreciate I appreciate the kind words, and you're, like, a % dead on accurate. Like, you know, at the end of the day, like, it's not it's never been about the dollar Yeah. At all for us. Like, we just want better humans Mhmm. And better society.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 3:

And we believe that we've got the recipe for that, and it's all rooted in hard work. And that's

Speaker 2:

I mean, I'd to build a

Speaker 1:

I got not only one, but two magnets on the fridge with all the Yeah. With all the girls with you.

Speaker 2:

Well, you gotta keep up with the other guy, the one guy we just posted. Yeah. It's like

Speaker 3:

Yeah. He's got, like, nineteen

Speaker 2:

oh one this His whole his whole fridge is just

Speaker 1:

pure. Alright. Pipe down. Yep.

Speaker 2:

That's funny.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Well, you got a lightning round?

Speaker 2:

Oh, I do. I do have a few. You do have a lightning round? Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

I do. Alright. Did you okay. Lightning just prepped for lightning. Quick questions, quick answers.

Speaker 1:

Oh my god. I'm never good at that.

Speaker 2:

Let's go. Your favorite quote. I think we might already know.

Speaker 1:

My favorite quote?

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Kinda like when you change the way you look at things, things you'll get change.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm. Hate to win or love to win, hate to lose.

Speaker 1:

Love to what are you asking me?

Speaker 2:

Do you love to win or do you hate to lose? Oh my

Speaker 1:

god. I hate to lose. I'm really competitive. So I but it's something I'm working on.

Speaker 2:

Okay.

Speaker 3:

Man, that's a good one, Drew.

Speaker 2:

The next one is what is the How

Speaker 1:

do you remember these?

Speaker 2:

I don't know. Think about them before. Hey, actor. Literally. Good job.

Speaker 2:

So I Well, I have a few set ones, and then as the conversation goes on, I I'm thinking, like, okay. Like this. I I know a lot about the people too, so I know, Ari, I wanna go with the Well,

Speaker 3:

could you have done this as fluidly our first ten episodes of the Alright. Boom. There you go. Growth.

Speaker 2:

Second one.

Speaker 1:

Okay, Jinx.

Speaker 2:

For what is the proper way for all the jujitsu men out there for a jujitsu men man to slide into a jujitsu girl with the like, what is the correct way to approach way? To approach a girl. No way. That's the proper way. No way.

Speaker 2:

Well, they're living Yeah. A living success story. They're awesome. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

We are.

Speaker 2:

In person, like

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

That was in person. In a role. Yeah. Yeah. I meant metaphorically, Sly.

Speaker 2:

Like, is the proper way for a a a man jiu jitsu to approach the the girl at Jiu Jitsu?

Speaker 1:

Know what? Hot take is they you just have to be there and the woman has to approach you. Ah. So I think

Speaker 2:

You to be the hot guy. Yeah. Saying like and then have the career.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Hot guy. Hot

Speaker 1:

too.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, of course.

Speaker 1:

You know, people may be like, you're creepy, get away from me. Yeah. And like, it's just taken the wrong way and then there you go. So, think you just have to like be you and don't say weird shit. Oh.

Speaker 1:

And then let them

Speaker 3:

Good advice.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Them My DMs are just a scary place to be. You just don't wanna be in them.

Speaker 2:

Would you be like a jujitsu hot girl influencer? Like that's gotta be Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Oh yeah.

Speaker 3:

My I said this, I forget who I was talking about this. My DMs are weird. Dude, my personal DMs are They're a

Speaker 2:

weird You

Speaker 1:

can't even explain this to somebody.

Speaker 3:

They're a weird place? I can only imagine

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Where your DMs are.

Speaker 1:

It's just it's a

Speaker 2:

Today, I

Speaker 1:

had a guy

Speaker 3:

DM me and asked me why white American males are so violent. And I'm like, what is this conversation?

Speaker 1:

Like, why am I gonna say the

Speaker 2:

first all, who are First of all, who are you? And what is this conversation?

Speaker 3:

Why? Dude, weird place.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. It's a lot of people being like, could you could you sub me? Could you could you break my arm?

Speaker 2:

We were to.

Speaker 1:

And I'm like, don't

Speaker 2:

be If we're rolling around in

Speaker 1:

oil. It's just like

Speaker 3:

yeah. Yeah. Weird.

Speaker 2:

Think we've seen some weird comments on your on your post too. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. People people are just

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Well, it's because back

Speaker 3:

down to

Speaker 2:

what we started talking about too. It's like being in a room with no one, but talking to someone on the on

Speaker 1:

the Oh, yeah. They're Yeah. They all do warriors.

Speaker 2:

They don't do that.

Speaker 1:

They would never say that to

Speaker 2:

when you go to a post and there's a creepy comment and people comment back and say, like, bro, like, what does your wife and three kids think about this company?

Speaker 1:

My god. Right?

Speaker 2:

Like, they literally don't even think about the fact that they literally have their whole lives, like, portrayed on this.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. Are you dumb?

Speaker 3:

Plus, the other thing too is, the more you do that, and maybe this is just me and, like At least have a burner account. A burner account.

Speaker 1:

Drew's telling us he's

Speaker 2:

a burner Yeah. Yeah. I saw it. Oh, you're Drew Will.

Speaker 1:

And it's And Drew Will.

Speaker 2:

You're Wow. There was no picture. I don't know if you guys saw it. It's like

Speaker 3:

a picture of a truck,

Speaker 2:

I think. He did. So it could be you, bro. Yep. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

It's too fits.

Speaker 2:

Drew, it could be you. They're just like it looked like

Speaker 3:

a lot of generic pictures.

Speaker 2:

I told Joe we were talking about long life's episode. I want to be off the grid. I don't want want I want I love the I I want the same community. Mhmm. I wanna have my cake and eat it too.

Speaker 2:

Oh, you want your cake and eat it too. I want to the people I have in my life, I wanna be able to interact with these, but I wanna be to just go and be.

Speaker 1:

I get that though. Yeah. I do, ironically, I do get it, but if I didn't need, like, if social media didn't fill this creative void for me the way it did, I think I would be ghosted too. Yeah. But it just fill it fills me, like, it it fills my cup.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. So

Speaker 3:

I've I've I've changed my relationship too. Like, I used to, you know, kick it to the dirt Mhmm. Social media, social media that. Can't wait to, like

Speaker 2:

Well, buy

Speaker 3:

be wealthy enough to buy an island and that I can just sit on the island by myself. But the reality of it is, it's not what I want. Yeah. Like, what I want is what you said. The community, the ability to create.

Speaker 3:

Like, as an artist, which Mhmm. That's how I see you. As an artist, like, we've never had more opportunity than we do now to create anything we want at any time with almost any tool for free. Yep. You know?

Speaker 3:

And do people use it in fucked up ways? Yes, of course. But, you know, they use all sorts of other type of instruments that way also. You know what I mean?

Speaker 1:

Think it's also like a generational thing like I use which like is so scary that TikTok might get banned but or is banned. But I use that as like a search engine because like when I'm going on social media, I'm getting somebody's authentic reviews response.

Speaker 2:

That's fair.

Speaker 1:

You know? I use it as like a way for to say like, okay, should I buy this or this or if I'm buying this, what size should I get? Which is why like Sure. For instance, I always put my sizes when I'm like

Speaker 2:

posting Do I didn't even

Speaker 1:

My sets.

Speaker 3:

It's it's people do that.

Speaker 1:

You know, like I've posted a video that's like I'm this height and this weight, this is what I wear because that's what I wanna Yeah.

Speaker 3:

So Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Thank you for that. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Thank you. Like, if you are creating for the right reasons, and you're creating authentically, and you're creating something that makes other people better, you can rapidly do that nowadays. And that elevates everybody's art. And I know some of my painter, some of my friends that work in painting, sculpting, everything, they're gonna roast me for saying that you can create art, but I that's the way I see

Speaker 2:

it nowadays. Yeah. Mean, look

Speaker 3:

at what we've done. Yeah. Yeah. The same it's the same thing.

Speaker 2:

I will say my tirade is against technology and the hold it has on us, less on social media. Yeah. It's

Speaker 1:

toxic. It's horrible.

Speaker 2:

Even if we're not with our like, my phone we're thinking about what's happening on

Speaker 3:

our phone. Here's thing. Here's what I wanna I wanna leave you with. I wanna I agree with you, but let me let me just devil's advocate.

Speaker 2:

Have your mind.

Speaker 3:

All that. Can I have a moment? I don't know.

Speaker 1:

Whatever. It's yours.

Speaker 3:

Is it is it is it the technology or is it our psychology? So the technology has been built Mhmm. To leverage weak points in our psychology. The technology has been built to change the way we think.

Speaker 1:

He's right.

Speaker 3:

Change our psychology. It's you're kinda shooting the and this is this is me over the past, like, 90

Speaker 2:

You're saying you work on my I do self work.

Speaker 3:

No. No. What I'm saying is you're shooting a messenger. Like, it's it's

Speaker 1:

It's tapping into the weakest parts of us that, like

Speaker 3:

And it's good at.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

So I'm not saying, like, you're like, I got this dude, doing squirrel every once in while.

Speaker 2:

I'm not taking a pencil. I'm just saying you're keeping it real.

Speaker 3:

It's Yeah. I'm keeping it real. Like, I start I used to blame the technology.

Speaker 2:

It's not the phone. It's me.

Speaker 1:

It's like if I feel bad about myself

Speaker 3:

built for the phone because of what they know about your psychology, that's that's what it is. So, like, if you understand the psychology Yeah. Then you can build a good fence around it. Yeah. So that you you you're not gonna let in with yeah.

Speaker 3:

There's a book. Oh, man. I forget the title. Yeah. Know.

Speaker 3:

It's very hard to get, actually, the book. Like, if go on Amazon

Speaker 2:

They don't want you

Speaker 1:

to it. Because they don't want you to have it.

Speaker 3:

So it's not on it's not on

Speaker 1:

the Kindle.

Speaker 3:

It's not on the Kindle. And if you, go on Amazon, they have, like it's one of those books that's only available on hardcover, and the book's, like, $300. Oh. I forget the the name of the book.

Speaker 2:

There was a Warren Buffett book that was like that. I never got.

Speaker 3:

And in that book, like, it outlines, like, how. Oh my god. Dude, I'm used to build software. Like, I I know this. That's one of the reasons I like.

Speaker 2:

Look at

Speaker 1:

this case.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Oh,

Speaker 3:

yeah. Yeah. I mean, that's one of

Speaker 2:

the reasons I king.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. What's that

Speaker 2:

technology king?

Speaker 3:

I mean, I I guess.

Speaker 2:

No. It really

Speaker 3:

is crazy. You you understand what

Speaker 1:

I'm what you're saying. Because, like, me doom scrolling, if I'm scrolling and scrolling and I feel bad afterwards, it's like, I only person I have to believe is me. Yeah. I don't have to pick up the phone.

Speaker 3:

It's a much more straightforward way of putting it that makes sense

Speaker 2:

to a lot more people than my than my tirade. My and we're gonna

Speaker 3:

Yeah. That's fine.

Speaker 2:

But my

Speaker 3:

You still got the lightning round to do. Oh, wait.

Speaker 2:

We already did Yeah. The challenge the my personal struggle with the phone is work, email. Like, just, like, knowing that there's

Speaker 1:

You don't

Speaker 2:

get to clock And I I want to be I want to be where I am. That's all. I wanna be working when I'm working and and Present. With my family, present, doing the.

Speaker 3:

I installed last year, I installed Opal. I dunno if you've ever used the Opal No. So I used it to basically just create fences around the time that I could use social media.

Speaker 1:

Okay, so you're basically putting like child

Speaker 3:

It's basically parental control.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, parental control

Speaker 3:

and So, I have my day is blocked out, right? Then I blocked out my phone. Like, that's way was looking at it. Right? So if I have magic time in the morning and I vomit shower at night, right?

Speaker 3:

I instead of relying solely on my willpower

Speaker 2:

Uh-huh.

Speaker 3:

I also have this block on my phone. And I used it for, like, the better part of the year.

Speaker 1:

And then it creates a habit.

Speaker 3:

And, yeah, it created a habit. And not that, like, my habit was super out of control, but, like, everybody gets pulled into the abyss every once in a while.

Speaker 2:

Like, you know? Oh, everyone. You text you text, and you're like, hey. Look. Like, this thing.

Speaker 2:

What do you think about this? And I'm like, oh, wait. Let me look at the feed real quick.

Speaker 3:

And then I go on the feed, and I'm like, oh, my friend's stories. Yeah? And I'm like, let me big up my friend. And then I get to the next story Big up.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Big up. Yeah. Oh, that's just awesome.

Speaker 3:

And then

Speaker 2:

I get to the

Speaker 3:

next story, and I'm like, well, that sucks. And then I get to the next story and I'm like, death and destruction. And then I get to the next story.

Speaker 2:

And then Yeah. And before you know, it's out of control.

Speaker 1:

No. You're right.

Speaker 2:

If you watch one reel and then you you accidentally swipe to the next, like, it's

Speaker 3:

a perfectly Well, doesn't it automated

Speaker 2:

It's a goes, doesn't

Speaker 3:

my awareness needed some honing. It raised my level of This year I've uninstalled it and I've been fine.

Speaker 1:

It's called Opal?

Speaker 3:

Opal, o p a

Speaker 1:

l e. I think that I might need to do that because sometimes I find myself like for this for content creation, I'll go on to reels as like, sometimes I gotta scroll for inspiration, right? It's like, I'm scrolling for inspiration, but then when does that turn into, I'm just fucking doom

Speaker 2:

scrolling. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

So, the recipe for social, right? Yeah. I'm sure you've heard it, right? Entertain, right? Inspire, educate.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm.

Speaker 3:

Right? I so I thought a lot about this. Sometimes I would go on because you'd say something to me, and I'd be like, okay, need to check the feed or the reel or whatever. Can go with one intention to be inspired or like, oh, wait. I saw a creator post this type of transition, and I wanna see the And that's what you go for.

Speaker 1:

Uh-huh. And you're sucked in.

Speaker 3:

But then you get sucked into the entertainment, and then the entertainment starts. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

And you're like, so

Speaker 1:

It's like a chick. Right? It's a can't just

Speaker 2:

have one. That's my point earlier. It's a perfectly curated feed of entertainment just for you. Like, know what you're The algorithm. So but I read a book, by Rick Rubin called The Art of Creativity, I believe it's called.

Speaker 3:

That's great. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

When did you read that? When? Yeah. Probably last year.

Speaker 1:

He's in his writing. I'm

Speaker 2:

not reading it. I'm surprised you didn't tell me you read that.

Speaker 3:

Really? Yeah.

Speaker 2:

I feel when I read

Speaker 1:

it He's offended.

Speaker 2:

Probably was like a Joey book. It is. Yeah. But one of the

Speaker 3:

I'm not up with everything in that book, by the way. Like, some of the things I disagree

Speaker 2:

with Yeah. Okay. So one of the messages I kinda I was thinking about the tone of that book. It was a very creative book. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Mhmm. Yeah. So But he has You said at what point?

Speaker 3:

He has this thing, like, where he's, like, always creating for self. Yeah. And, like, we talked about that a little bit. Like, you gotta be selfless. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

You have be selfless. Yeah. But, like, he took it, I think, in that book to, like, another level. Sorry to interrupt. But that's one of the things that, like, didn't get him.

Speaker 2:

So to Atalia's point with the at what point does it turn into does it turn from research to doom scrolling? Mhmm. It kind of made me think like I feel like Rick Rubin would just be like well it's whatever you want it to be right like creativity might take hours of doomscrolling.

Speaker 1:

Until you see the one thing. You're right. You're right.

Speaker 2:

You're right.

Speaker 3:

You're right. And that's where I'm kinda like not with it. Because like I know, like, what's filling my cups so that I can pour in other's cups, and I know what's just making me, like, laugh. Yeah. And they're not real laughing.

Speaker 1:

But Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Do I need to laugh for six hours straight?

Speaker 2:

Mm-mm. And then, like, you know what But what is creativity? It's, like, you know I mean? Like, what is inspiration?

Speaker 3:

Okay, Rick.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Alright, Rick. No. Yeah. You're right.

Speaker 2:

You're right.

Speaker 3:

I mean, I think the case you're making too is, like, maybe that's what you needed in that moment you

Speaker 2:

didn't know. Yeah. To to be creative.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Inspired. Yeah. Like, maybe you needed to shut the switch off

Speaker 2:

to be able to turn it back on. So what I'm saying is doom scroll for three hours. Doom scroll.

Speaker 3:

Oh, You're

Speaker 1:

gonna get Doom scroll galore.

Speaker 2:

Roasted, bro.

Speaker 1:

You're roasted. He's he's gonna get canceled.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. This this episode I've seen like it. Like after

Speaker 3:

we coach John, it's been like a steady decline, bro.

Speaker 2:

It was

Speaker 1:

like ever since I said that he, like, was a paid actor. He's just like,

Speaker 2:

yeah, we got time. I really had to live it.

Speaker 3:

Well, we did the lightning round already,

Speaker 2:

so we

Speaker 3:

don't even really have anything to close out.

Speaker 2:

I have one more question, but we don't have to do it, but we can.

Speaker 3:

We can.

Speaker 2:

What's favorite people hunt set?

Speaker 1:

Oh my god. So it's like, is it because it's like sentimental or what, you know? So I have to if I'm taking like the sentimental part out of it, I'm gonna say the new one. The black and white, starts with a k.

Speaker 2:

Kumo. Kumo. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I'm gonna say that one.

Speaker 2:

You and thousands of Thousands of A lot of people. We're talking.

Speaker 1:

It's just like, it I actually had somebody Guys, see this is how I'm like, ugh, aligned. I had somebody come across my video and message me and was what's the different I see that Fuel Hunt has new shorts, like what's the difference between the two kinds of shorts? Which one should I wear? Am I allowed to wear these ones to Jiu Jitsu? And I was like, I got you.

Speaker 2:

This is

Speaker 1:

why I post what I know?

Speaker 2:

Please use Kotalya when you're trying to Yeah. I know.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. I actually didn't even tell her but I was

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And you'll see it there.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I don't wanna like plug myself too hard.

Speaker 2:

Well, just plug your code on On the fuel line. On the show.

Speaker 1:

No. He didn't leave the numbers. So

Speaker 2:

it's it's really I fucking I forgot.

Speaker 1:

That's okay.

Speaker 2:

Talia10. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

There you go. Talia10.

Speaker 1:

But

Speaker 3:

Was it Any other questions? No. You did lightning round. I am having

Speaker 2:

I had so much fun this episode.

Speaker 1:

I actually

Speaker 2:

I don't remember if I opened the episode up or not. Did I lose my job for this episode? No. You did. Did.

Speaker 2:

Did. Alright. The host sits in this seat.

Speaker 1:

And you know what? Even if you didn't, it was just we were just chatting. Yeah. We were just chitchatting.

Speaker 2:

It was just perfect. I will say tell

Speaker 3:

you what. The keyword.

Speaker 2:

You are born for the camera though. Like you are you are a personality.

Speaker 1:

You. Did you

Speaker 2:

How how do you deal with this like at home?

Speaker 1:

Twenty four seven.

Speaker 2:

20 four seven like this lively and entertained?

Speaker 1:

Always on. It's beautiful. Like literally always on. Could you believe that?

Speaker 2:

My god, 11. Congruency like Amanda, my wife. Yeah. Like, you met her but I

Speaker 1:

I Once.

Speaker 2:

And she's like a bubbly goofball at home Mhmm. At work, all phases of life. Yeah. There's no.

Speaker 1:

I'm never serious. Sometimes I'm like, if I said something, like like I will just prank, like that's just like my energy is like I'm constantly, if I said, everything I said today was authentic and true. Let me preface that.

Speaker 2:

But you will prank.

Speaker 1:

But I will prank. I'll just be like, yeah, like that person is my cousin. Yeah. Like people will just be like, oh my god, really? I'm yeah.

Speaker 1:

And it's not my cousin. Like, you just have to have fun in life.

Speaker 3:

You gotta have to have fun.

Speaker 2:

You know? You gotta have fun. I agree.

Speaker 3:

Let's recap where everybody can find you. Most people know where to find you. I know

Speaker 2:

where find where can they find Yeah, so not just you, but also

Speaker 3:

your bridal business, content creation business, and your show. Yes. So let's just recap.

Speaker 1:

So me, of course, the most important one, it's Talia Nierman, t a l I a n I e r m a n on all my socials. You know what, I hope to see a YouTube channel coming for me this year.

Speaker 3:

Mhmm.

Speaker 1:

I just gotta do it. And, but Instagram is where you'll mainly see me. And then for, if you're getting married or you know somebody getting married, it's the bridalclub.bts on Instagram. Mhmm. And then the iworld podcast, I think.

Speaker 1:

It's the iworld podcast. At the iworld podcast. Yeah. Then we have, we're still building up our other Instagram, the social club. It's in the works.

Speaker 1:

I don't even know if I wanna tell you to go there yet.

Speaker 2:

Good. Well, okay. Alright.

Speaker 1:

It's funny because like it's ironic. I'm making content for other people, but I'm not doing it for that page.

Speaker 3:

Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Got a lot of other I

Speaker 3:

got you. Got you. Got you.

Speaker 2:

One thing will feed

Speaker 1:

the other.

Speaker 2:

Yes. Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Yes. Thank you for coming in today. We love having you here. Thank you. Whether it's for a shoot, show, whatever, we love having you here.

Speaker 3:

Al, we love having you here

Speaker 2:

too, man. We all love having

Speaker 1:

you Professional chauffeur.

Speaker 2:

Nice. Nice.

Speaker 3:

Doing his content creation, transportation.

Speaker 2:

He might start his own company soon.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. He's gonna have a a competing brand.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. He's gonna pop up. Tell him he's like, I don't know any of my competitors except for, like, the one living in our house. Exactly. Exactly.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

In all seriousness, we love having you both.

Speaker 1:

I love that.

Speaker 2:

So thanks

Speaker 3:

for coming through. I'll leave the few with

Speaker 2:

a reminder. Always choose hard work over handouts. Always choose effort over entitlement. Remember, no one owns you. No one owes you.

Speaker 2:

You're one of the few.

Speaker 3:

Now let's hunt.