The Silvercore Podcast with Travis Bader

This is part two of our three part series where Travis Bader and Paul Ballard discuss situational awareness in an urban environment. This episode centres around what to expect when you are in condition red and the fight is on.

 

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All right.

Here's the much
anticipated part

two of the urban
awareness podcasts

that we've recorded a
couple of weeks ago.

Now we decided to break
it down into three parts

before the incident,
during the incident

and after the incident.

And we've actually
received a fair bit of

feedback from the first
podcast that came out.

And we're going to
be talking about that

a little bit in this
podcast, but the crux

of this prod cast
episode here will

be some suggestions
on what to do if you

are in an incident,
the during stage.

And, you know, we talked
about some other colors

and in our first podcast,
it was a big emphasis

on yellow and orange.

Today it's red and
contrary to everything

you've ever learned.

Red is go, red is go,
and we're going to

learn how we make red
as the go, or learn.

We're going
to discuss it.

This is not a, this is
not a training thing,

this is a discussion.

Now I should shut
out right at the

very beginning.

One of the people I
spoke with is, uh, he's

an ex British special
forces, uh, individual

who's written a book on
this topic about what

we're talking about now.

He hasn't published a
book yet, but he's in

the process of getting
it published, but he has

a social media account
called sixsight.co

S I X S I G H t.co.

And if you go on his
TikTok account or on his

Instagram account, You're
going to see a whole ton

of useful information,
broken down into just

little bite sized chunks
and you'll take some

videos and you'll look
at it and I'd recommend

anybody after listening
to this, check that out.

Okay.

I also had a, uh, an
individual call up

Paul, were talking
about this earlier and

he works for the Range
Langley, fantastic range.

I'd recommend anybody
in the lower mainland

or anyone visiting
the lower mainland.

Go check out The
Range Langley.

You don't even need to
have a firearms license,

you can rent firearms,
you can use them there.

But, uh, this fellow,
Jared, he's a range

officer there and he
was sitting in a Browns.

What is it?

socialhouse, browns pub.

Brown socialhouse,
I guess.

Brown socialhouse.

There's a plug for
brown socialhouse.

I guess so, out in
Burnaby and this was

2017 and there was a
shooting that happened

right in front of him.

And he was on a
date at the time.

So we'll talk a little
bit about the, that

incident or what
he relayed in it.

In the during, as well
as we'll touch a little

bit on the after and
then get into more

of the next podcast.

Yeah.

And I think it's
important before we

get into this, too,
just to talk about the

impressions that we
got from the listeners.

And one of the
things was, you

know, people said,
oh Jesus, all great.

You know, uh, if it's a
shooting or a stabbing or

a, an active, um, type of
situation like that, but

this needs to, you know,
open your mind here.

This, this applies
to, uh, an individual

assault, this applies
to you're out for a

jog, uh, and somebody
starts to jog with

you or follow you, uh,
you know, leading to

a potential robbery
or sexual assault,

any, anything that is
of a traumatic event.

At the, you know, sort
of at the behest of

somebody who has evil
intent, we really have

to, you know, emphasize
this is not, you

know, training for the
accidental occurrence.

This is not for the,
you know, trip and

fall type of thing.

This is where somebody
has evil intent and

you need to be able to,
you know, avoid that.

And that's where
we're going with this.

So it, you know, again,
uh, you're out there

walking your dog fluffy
and, uh, coming the

other way is the urban
wolf on the end of

somebody's chain and,
you know, understanding

what happens if all of
a sudden that that pit

bull turns and starts
to take your fluffy

apart, how are you, you
know, are you, have you

got a plan beforehand?

And I'm not here to talk
from a dog's trainer's

perspective, but, you
know, do you have a plan?

What, what you
going to do?

If, if fluffy gets
attacked, what's the

right thing to do.

So, you know, again,
that can be as traumatic

as, that can be
probably to some people,

even more traumatic
than them getting

attack themselves so.

You know, the difficult
part I had when kind of

formulating my thoughts
on all of this is that

almost everything that
we talk about can also go

into the, before podcasts
and trying to separate

the during and the after,
because all of the points

that we talk about in
during are something that

you should be mentally
prepared for before.

Right.

And things that happen
after you should have a

plan, beforehand, of how
you would deal with these

things in the aftermath,
because there's, there's

a lot to the, after.

Yes.

And I mean, we are,
you know, in the

during, this is the
execution of the plan.

Now the, you know,
at this point we

have recognized that
there is potential.

It's a, and we're not
looking for it to happen,

we just are recognizing
that it could.

Uh, this is not
this, when it will

happen, this, it could
happen and are you

ready when it could?

So planning, we've
recognized that

it could happen.

We've recognized that
we're going to take steps

uh, once we recognize a
situation has changed,

that no longer are we,
you know, in our day to

day, we're moving from
code yellow to code

orange, we see, you
know, there's potential

for something to change.

And now, it's gone off,
the, off, it's it's it's

now imminent, imminent,
real, and a direct

threat to yourself, your
family, your dog, uh,

whatever the case may be.

Right.

And how are you going
to go into that?

So red is go.

Red is absolutely go.

When you find yourself
going, there's no

getting out of this at
this point, I've got a

flee, uh, and like, not
just walk away, flea,

not cross the street.

As we talked about
in code orange, this

is as fast as your
legs can move you.

Uh, you must get out
of the attack zone, uh,

the threat zone that's,
that's there and, and

menacing, you know, your
potential wellbeing.

And that means all
the things that

you thought about.

As you were in code
orange, looking for

your escape route,
you're now execute.

So over that planter, uh,
around the car, behind

the car to get out of,
you know, some ballistic

protection, if it's, if
it's a firearm situation

to get physical distance.

If it's a blade, uh,
to, you know, to avoid

that, get out of physical
reach, um, start calling

for help as well is
another part of that.

You know, plan that
you've had before

all of these things.

And done without
emotion, like, oh, this

will be embarrassing
if I start yelling

for help, forget that.

It's, it's now to the
point where you're going

to yell for help, you're
going to scream at

the top of your lungs.

You're going to make the
biggest scene you can,

you know, if somebody's
physically trying to

take your wallet to,
to molest you, to,

you know, pull your
child out of your arms.

To hurt you, to
do damage to.

Yes!

You or harm you and
the ones you love.

You've got to completely,
uh, eliminate your

ego about ohh, what
will people think

of me if I do that?

Well, that part has,
has, has left, uh,

that scenario you are
now in it for good.

I've heard that one a
lot from people coming

back as being a barrier
to acting properly,

was the fact that they
were embarrassed of

looking foolish or not
doing the right thing.

And that led to inaction.

Absolutely.

And I, I have seen that
not a lot, but I have

seen that, uh, in uniform
police officers, on duty

police officers, where
they are not acting to

the full, you know, uh,
efficiency at that moment

because of what are other
people going to think?

And they've got all
the eyes on them.

That's right.

And they've got all
the after repercussions

as well, looming
in their head.

Which is maybe something
we're going to, you know,

in-law, not we, I'm out
of it, but those who

are the trainers for law
enforcement going to have

to address, is this, you
know, reservation as a

result of what appears
to be immediate lack of

support for the police.

I still believe that, you
know, Jane and, and, uh,

Joel Canadian and, you
know, the, the citizens

out there think the cops
are doing a good job

and are wholly behind
them, but they're just

not voicing that enough
for the, for the good

people, law enforcement
to realize it.

However, getting back
to that, um, when the

moment comes, your
ego leaves, you do

everything you can.

Um, we are still heavy
emphasis on what our

discussion here is for
an armed or an unarmed

civilian in society.

We are not talking armed
service personnel, either

military or police.

That's not the purpose of
what we're saying here.

So now within
physical limitations,

if it's, if it's.

Within your ability
to fight off the

situation, then you do
it and you fight with

such determination and
drive that whatever

the situation is, you
fight till it stops.

Now, legally you've,
you've thought about that

beforehand, because you
can use as much force as

is necessary to stop that
assault, but no more.

No more.

That's a bit of a
tightrope isn't it.

Right, and, and when
we think about this is,

you know, the desire,
once your attacker is

down to start laying the
boots to them, this is

what separates us from
those kinds of people.

Honestly, uh, when the
person is down and the

situation is ended, maybe
now just withdraw and,

you know, and, and get
away from them, you know,

you've, you've, you've
stopped that assault.

That's, that's another
thing, but that,

that desire to think
you should sit there

and make them pay,
that's not up to you.

That's, you know, in,
uh, in our society.

However, society
completely allows

you to stop something
that's happening to you.

So you've, you've
actually touched on a

whole bunch of points
in just that short

little bit of time.

Uh, I think anybody
who's going to find

themselves in this
situation should be

completely prepared for
the adrenal dump and the

physiological effects and
the psychophysiological

effects of that
adrenal dump.

Of feeling like they're
operating in slow motion

of not being able to
articulate their thoughts

well, or to really think
as well as they normally

would in an, in their
pre training situation.

Yes.

So the, the physical, or
the physiological effects

of visual narrowing,
auditory exclusion, uh,

the adrenaline dump of,
you know, near superhuman

strength that you never
thought you had, those

are all good things,
like even, you know,

you're so scared you,
you wet your pants, but

you gotta think now,
well, I don't have to

worry about that anymore.

That's over, you know,
that that's the, the,

the ego side, but,
you know, I try not

to make light of it.

You know.

Nobody wants to fight the
person who just crapped

themselves, right?

That's, that is, that's
or throw up, boy,

I'll tell you there's,
you know, a lot to be

said, if, if you feel
physically ill and can

throw up, that might
stop somebody wanting

to hang onto you or
touch you, you know,

that, that revulsion
that they would find.

It, it sounds funny and
it's not something a

lot of people thought
about, but that's it.

If that's, if that's
your, uh, you know,

the, the arrow that
you have in the quiver

at that time, draw
that arrow in fire it,

you know, it's there.

If you've been fortunate
to have maybe taken some

form of, of martial art
or you're just good with

your hands and you think
that you can overpower

your attacker, man, this
is the time to do it and

do it with efficiency.

No, no half measures.

A punch to stop the
assault, not a punch just

for the sake of a punch.

And that's, that's
another thing I've

seen a lot of in my
experience is, not

hitting hard enough.

You know, when, when it
goes to trial later and,

and you're concerned
about, you know,

explaining yourself,
cause you're what we

would call a nice person,
a normal person, property

raised, good parents.

You don't want to look
at the judge and say,

yeah, you know, I, I
had him, your honor.

And of course the
defense says, well, how

hard did you hit him?

Well I didn't want
to hit him too hard.

No, the answer is, I hit
him as hard as I could

at that moment to try
and stop the assault.

And, and again, don't let
your ego hold you back.

It's the point though,
where you recognize

that you've stopped
it, that you have to

break yourself away.

So when we talk about
getting in a physical

altercation, I've
always found space

or distance is your
friend in all of this.

And it's all about either
increasing that distance,

you got reactionary gaps,
so you can start to make

some better decisions
because of threats a

little bit further away.

Or decreasing that
reactionary gap.

If you've made that
decision to go hands-on

because a lot of times,
if someone's going to

be trying to hurt you
and they're using their

hands, or they're using
a weapon, decreasing

that distance will put
you in a safer zone.

For example, a baseball
bat, there is a very

dangerous area of
someone's swinging

a baseball bat and
that's going to be at

the tip of that bat.

If you can get far
enough away that the bat

doesn't hit you at all.

Perfect.

If you can't get in
tight, get in close, get

hands on and do whatever
you have pre-conditioned

yourself to, to try
and stop that threat.

And if that just means
grabbing onto the

person and holding them
until other people can

come in and help you.

Then that's,
that's what you do.

And the other thing
that you brought up

Paul, which I think is
of huge importance was

what, in the policing
world, they called

tactical communication.

Use your voice.

If that means yelling
and screaming and just

to get eyes on you.

Great.

But if you can use
that time to articulate

something such as go
away, leave me alone.

Don't touch me.

You're not, if someone's
pretending that let's

say you're a female and
someone's pretending

that you're their
husband or boyfriend,

you're not my husband,
you're not my boyfriend.

Get, make it clear to
everybody else around

what's happening, because
you're doing two things.

You're hoping to get
a desired effect out

of the individual and
maybe they'll comply and

you've, you could use
your voice in order to

prevent having to use
physical harm, but you're

also creating witnesses.

Yes.

And, and what you're
saying there too is, we

are talking to the people
out there and we're

saying, you're going to
recognize that this stuff

could happen, you're
going to have a plan.

You're going to be
ahead of yourself

because you've
thought about that.

But you yelling,
you're not my husband.

You're not, I don't
know you, this man does,

this has, help me, help
me, is going to maybe

draw somebody else in
that's thinking, oh

my God, this is real,
what I'm seeing here.

Right.

And maybe that's going
to cause them to react.

In society, they're
sheep, there's wolves

and there's sheepdogs.

And this is just
the way it is.

Not every sheep dog
wears a uniform.

Not every sheep dog
has had training.

Sheepdog is inside,
it's in your heart.

And there are people
that, you know, it

doesn't take much and
suddenly that inner

sheepdog comes up.

A mother and her child,
is one of those things.

That, again, I see, man,
you threaten a child

around that child's
mother and there's a

woman who's not formally
trained in everything.

That's a person who
can go into code

red quite easily.

And for, you know,
without any formal

training, really take
care of business at that

time, do the right thing.

We talk, at length about
exiting the situation,

you know, plan of escape,
but you know what, there

are just some people that
are, aren't going to do

that they are sheepdog.

They're going to
take care of other

people, people they
don't even know.

You know, we often have
words for them like

heroes, you know, like
that person was a hero.

That was a person
that has that inner

sheepdog, and it, and
it gets out in that

moment and they, they,
you know, bless them.

They put their,
their, others ahead

of themselves in the
moment and that's

going to happen.

Not, you know, not
everybody is going to

run away, but if it
comes down to it, if

it's you or somebody
else, you gotta pick

you and your family.

Right.

You gotta.

Right.

You know, that's the
most important thing.

And, uh, but again,
make it real, get

rid of that ego.

Absolutely anything
you think that, that,

uh, you can, you can
offer up that will make

other people realize
that they need to

get involved in that?

You know.

One thing that I, I find
often is that people

will mentally prepare,
they will physically

condition themselves.

They'll make sure they've
got the cardiovascular

strength to be able
to go a few rounds of

somebody and come out on
top because quite often

fights are just won by
the person with the best

cardio, not necessarily
the most technique or

the strongest individual.

But in that whole quiver
of arrows that they have,

uh, they should always
be keeping in mind, is

there a possible way to
deescalate the situation,

but they shouldn't
hold that so close

that all they're trying
to do is deescalate.

It's a, there is a fine
line between training

a person to be a sheep
and training them to

be a sheepdog, or just
training that person

to be a wolf , because
you can, you can give

so much information out
there that everyone just

leaves and they're just
ready for the fight and

they're ready for the
next thing that happens.

So looking to deescalate,
but not having that

as the hindering block
to, uh, to actually

having some action.

And in a lot of
cases, hopefully the

deescalation occurred
in code orange.

The deescalation was by
taking opportunity away.

And at that point
actually creating

sufficient physical
distance or a barrier,

uh, that stopped
that initial attack.

But now we're talking
the attack is on

and I totally agree.

You get some distance
we'll give you time.

Time will give you the
chance to think, but

it can work against
you in giving your

adversary time now to
think, and they can re

um, renew their assault
with a little bit more

planning on their part.

Remember, everybody's
suffering this

extreme, emotional,
um, effected at that

time, the attacker,
the, the victim or the

person being attacked.

It, it, it is
all there, right?

You can, you know,
ever watch a little

dog that gets attacked
by a much bigger dog.

And the, the bigger dog
comes in, recognizes

that, you know, it's,
it's got that, you know,

superior strength and
size and everything else.

But the little dog
goes absolutely bizerk.

He bears his teeth,
he opens his eyes,

his eyes roll back and
he doesn't run away.

He just keeps screaming.

And it's, you know, the
sounds that come out of

that little dog or like,
you know, and you watch

the big dog go that was
not what I expected.

And that is who
you got to beat.

You got to not be
what they expected.

The wolf expects you
to just, you know,

once they're grabbed
to maybe offer some,

you know, ineffective
resistance and that's it.

We're not here to train
people, you know, in

physical defense, you
know, or, or techniques

or anything else.

Right.

But even though you've
never thought about it

before, never got, you
know, hands-on with

another person, you
got to remember the

eyes of your attacker.

If you don't have
distance and you are

close, you gotta, as
you're screaming, think

about, oh man, the
screaming is not making

this person let go.

It's not slowing
the attack.

You might now have
to get physical.

And the simplest thing,
if your hands are free

and your thumb with its
two solid joints is to

make that thumb straight,
lay the flat of your hand

against the side of a
person's head and push

your thumbs as far into
their eyes, as you can.

And as much as you know,
people can take steroids

and lift weights.

Uh, we don't see too
many people except

real showman that
are lifting weights

with their eyelids.

You can force your thumb
through that eyelid.

You can get in there
and that threat or

that attack to the eye,
hopefully can give you

some time, get some
distance, distance

and time they're
interrelated, you know.

And it's not like on TV,
it's not like, thumb goes

in the eye, eyes done.

It's out.

I've had my thumb about
halfway into a person's

eye before thinking, for
sure this person is going

to be blind afterwards.

And nope.

When the thumb came out
and the person got off

it, and that, that gets
a person out of your

face pretty damn quick.

Yeah.

Uh, he had a cut under
his eye and his eye went

right back into place.

But it's a
very unpleasant

feeling I'm sure.

At the moment.

From the way that that
individual reacted.

Yeah.

And we all can relate
to the, you know, the

bang on the tip of the
nose and, you know,

a flat palm driven
into the tip of the

nose and just start
turning that cartilage

round and round.

And I mean, it does
absolutely nothing to

somebody who's a, you
know, a serious fighter.

Who's had their nose
broken lots of times, but

the average person, if,
you know, particularly

if it's a, it, if it is
a true coward, that's

there to, uh, attack
a smaller person.

They probably have not
and that might be enough

to distract them as well.

But the triangle between
the eyes and the tip

of the nose, if your
hands are free, you

know, and that's the
best we can offer up

on this, you know,
this podcast, right?

The rest of it can
be followed up by a

host of individuals
that are out there.

And maybe just
think, what's not

allowed in the UFC.

And maybe there's
a reason why.

Or, yeah, that's right.

Any.

Grabbin' the hair, if
the person has hair.

Yep.

I've broken fingers on
hair before from, from

being in an altercation,
but it's really difficult

to keep a head up and
for a person, typically

they don't have much
muscle in their neck

and you can really
control an individual

through doing the things
that they tell you

not to do in organized
professional events.

Biting, yeah.

That's cheating.

Yeah.

Well, there's no
cheating in code red.

And that's it.

There's no rules in
code red, except when

you've stopped the
attack on you, you

must then withdraw.

You must, not withdraw,
but you cannot continue

to, you know, to
finish somebody off.

It's it's just that,
is that's the only

rule we have here.

Tell me this, Paul,
quite often people

say, well, you got to
meet force with force.

What do you
think about that?

Equal force.

If someone.

No.

The, your force must
multiply you, you

know, you've got to hit
twice as hard for it.

That's the only
way to go over it.

I mean, in law
enforcement, um, the

need to control an
individual is, is, is,

you know, addressed
in the gymnasium in,

you know, or the, the
dojo if somebody is

taking formal martial
arts and what it takes

in a traditional sense
to disable or overcome

somebody is shocking.

Like when people think,
oh yeah, you know, in the

gym and you have a big
padded stick and you say,

all right, we're going to
strike him on the thigh.

And that's going to
cause the thigh to buckle

and away it goes, is
great, until you finally

figure out that this
stuff, you gotta hit way

harder than you ever got
hit or hit somebody in

training for it to work.

And that's, again, that
ego thing, you got a

really, you know, it's
no, unless you have

that training, you
know, you've, you've

got to hit way harder
than you expected.

You've got to push
yourself to your absolute

limits until it stops.

And don't be afraid.

And that's where the
trading sometimes

falls apart.

When people are
training in a martial

art, that's an art and
it's great, and it's

great for mental and
physical conditioning.

But when they continually
train, I hit you here,

you go down, we do this.

You hit me here, or I
punch, you block and

you start getting this
training mindset of,

well, when I throw my
punch, I'm not throwing

to connect because he's
got, my opponents, got

a practice their block.

You can really ingrain
some negative effects

from this training,
that whole mental

detachment and.

You've said it so many
times now, absolute

ruthless aggression,
being able to take

their mind and say,
I'm not stopping

until this is over.

Right.

And that, that is
really, uh, difficult

thing to, you know,
to invoke, cause

it's not an emotion,
it's just, it's raw.

It is completely raw.

It's taking how
you've trained, what

you know, what you
have in your skillset

and utilizing it.

Okay.

Um, and I'm totally
trying to avoid, you

know, firearms in
this whole thing.

They're like, that's.

Well, that's your
background, you're a

firearms instructor, so
it's easy to go to that.

And I want to take out,
you know, the use of

a blade in response to
an attack, you know,

that's, those are all
things that, uh, we

can't advocate here.

You, you can't tell
somebody that that is

the right thing to do
because we're, you know,

this is Canadian law.

This is it.

You, you are allowed a
weapon of opportunity

by all means.

So somebody is attacking
you with a baseball

bat and they drop
the baseball bat.

And they're ready to
take you on a, with

their fists or feet
or whatever it is.

Do you now secure
the baseball bat?

You got to think,
well, that's a weapon

of opportunity, I'm
still subjected to

this person's attack.

That's a different thing.

And, and again, in
the moment you use

that effectively.

So everything really,
as you go through your

day-to-day life, you can
look around, everything's

a weapon of opportunity.

Your laptop is pretty
expensive, but it's

not worth your life.

That's right.

And it would probably
hurt pretty hard if I

folded it up and whacked
the person with it.

Or the corner of
the laptops straight

into the face, right.

You know, again, in that
triangle, around the

nose, you know, under
the, the, the septum,

you know, those types,
they, man, that stuff, it

hurts and it distracts,
it may not disable or

incapacitate, but it'll
give you a bit of space.

It's, you know,
people recoil from

those kinds of things
and it's unexpected.

Your pint glass.

Your pencil.

Your pencil, your
salt shaker rolled up

in a napkin, right,
at the dinner table.

But when you're walking
to your car, like

everybody's got automatic
unlock on their car.

So they got a fob.

So now we're, we're out
of luck, but the old, you

know, huge ring of keys
and, you know, I always,

you know, in the dark
carried my keys through

my fingers, you know.

Sure.

For a cheap pair of, of
a brass knuckles, but

you know, it's there.

Um, one of the things
always is, you watch

people when they're
getting into drunk fights

and they tend to start
pulling their shirt off.

So now there you are
in the bar having your

nice dinner and some
guys now taken offense

to you and you know,
you've, you've done what

you can to deescalate.

He's, he's drunk and
he's pushing at you.

And, and you're trying
to get out of there.

And of course now the
crowd comes around and

here's your weapon of
opportunity is when he

gets that shirt over
his head, that's it.

Jersey him.

Yeah.

Jersey him.

That's , happens every
day when you know, we're

watching pro hockey in
the old, well, I guess

more so in the old days,
but that something you

got to think about,
you've got to have it

in there and use it.

Who cares?

There's no rules.

There's nobody coming
running in with a black

and white shirt that's
going to say, wait, you

shouldn't have done that.

And if you're having
a hard time thinking,

hold on, am I in
condition orange, or

am I in condition red?

What you just pointed
out there is a very

common indicator and
there's lots of them,

that the fight is on.

You might not be aware
of the fights on,

but if someone starts
taking off articles of

clothing, it's a very,
very common precursor

to wanting to fight.

Time to fight.

Right.

Or maybe they keep
looking at, you have a

pint glass in your hand,
you're holding it and

they keep looking at it
and they're looking at it

because they view that as
a possible weapon that'll

you be used against
them when the fights on.

What they're looking
at, how their

body position is.

Again, like I say,
Allan Pease has got

some good books on
basic body language.

But they're clenched jaw,
clenched fists, uh, how

they're looking at you,
all of these things,

you don't even have to
rationally be able to

articulate, well I read
this book, or I heard

about it on a podcast.

I I'm willing to
bet, you know.

And you will know when
it's happening, if you

just trust your gut.

Right.

Yeah.

Doesn't lie the hair
on the back of your

neck, not lying.

Right.

You know, that's,
that's, that's

telling you the truth.

Don't ignore it.

Never, ever exhort, you
know, and I guess we kind

of talked about it, but
you know, the difference

between men and women
and what feelings they

have, but if you feel
it, it's probably real.

Right.

Well, it is real.

It is real and it's real
to you .And whether or

not history will look
back and look at it as

the real event, as long
as you have downloaded

the proper responses, you
can square yourself with

it, hopefully afterwards.

And that was one of
the things that you

brought up before.

And then we talked about
you're number one, you

protect yourself because
if you can't protect

yourself, you can't
protect your family,

your friends, your
loved ones around you.

And you go in that
process, how you do

that is going to have
to be something that

you can feel good about
afterwards, because

all of this mental
preparation and the

during preparation
will lead into the

next podcast as well.

Right.

And you know,
it's just funny.

Um, An unconscious
sheepdog doesn't help any

of the sheep, you know,
and if the sheep happened

to be your family, I
like that, you know,

we got to go stay with,
and you gotta remember

that, uh, the wolves are
looking for easy prey.

Right.

And you don't see the
wolves going after

that you know, the
Akbash herd dog out

there in amongst, we
don't have to be sheep.

We could actually
have alpacas or

something like that.

But, you know, whatever
the herd of domestic,

you know, critters are
there is that, that sharp

set of ears, you know,
that look of alertness

and the wolf is not
going for that sheepdog.

And, you know, it's,
it's, it's fascinating

to, uh, you know, to,
to really put yourself

into that position.

I mean, I'm going to
just, you know, talk

a little bit about
being in things.

Um, I've had, you
could say the, the good

fortune for being able
to talk about it now,

but the misfortune of it
happening in the moment.

Um, literally, uh, to
full-scale urban riots

and being on the pointy
end of the stick for

those, well the first
one most especially,

back, you know, when,
uh, you know, we always

called a game, anyways,
we won't talk about that

because that'll be wrong.

But, um, watching
things happen literally

in slow motion.

Literally.

And they aren't, they're
happening in real time,

but you are in such an
elevated state through,

you know, the adrenaline
dump and everything else.

You go into this hyper,
um, observant state where

things seem to slow down.

You're looking, you
know, with, with visual

narrowing, you're looking
into a tube, all the

other things around you
really aren't important,

but seeing that person
that's throwing a

bottle directly at you,
throwing a brick at you,

sometimes that tunnel
vision changes, and you

can see, you know, with
stuff going towards your,

your, your teammates
at the moment and, and

seeing that's strange.

In the middle of a
full-blown riot, the

one thing that will
take you away from your

normal day to day is the
sheer amount of noise,

explosions of the gas
grenades going off, the

yelling, the screaming,
the breaking of glass.

Uh, the sound, fire
is very quiet funny

enough, but you can
hear fire, you can

hear the crackling
of stuff burning, but

it's not very loud.

So in amongst all of
these incredibly loud

things, you're hearing
the subtleties, you

hear the sound of,
you know, um, a bottle

being broken, which
is not in itself very

loud, but then you, you
know, you're turning

yourself, uh, to those,
those unusual sounds.

Voices, hearing people
in the crowd actually

discussing what they're
about to do to somebody

in the riot squad that
we are with, we call

them, uh, you know, all
sorts of nice things,

that was a riot squad in
the, in the, you know,

um, public order unit.

Like they're actually
talking about that

and you can, your
auditory exclusion

takes you into their
conversation and that's

happening 10, 15 feet
away amongst the den.

I recall listening to the
boss on a cell phone, in

the middle of the riot,
we're holding the line.

He's probably standing
15, 20 feet away from me.

And he's talking to,
you know, the commander

in the, in the, in
the center, you know,

who's making all the
direction and I can

hear their conversation.

I can hear the voice
on the cell phone, not

just him talking, just
thinking, you know,

taking myself back.

Thinking this is,
you know, not really

pay attention into
the moment, but

afterwards, to be
able to articulate the

words that were there.

And, and until it
happens to you, you

can't believe it.

And for somebody
who's never been in

that before, that's
gotta be disorienting.

So to have a little bit
of an idea of what to

possibly expect in these
situations can give a

little bit of comfort.

And, and that's why
you got to listen to

somebody who's been
there when they say the

stuff's going to happen.

Don't freak out.

Don't freak out.

It's good, it's your body
uh, you know, getting

you ready for that.

You know, this is how
many million years of

evolution, you know, has
changed so many things

in the way we live,
but that primal ability

of fight or flight.

And we keep emphasizing,
it's all about flight.

All these physical
occurrences that are

happening and their
real, they are real, are

there to help you get
out of the situation.

One of the things you
may not necessarily feel,

uh, in the moment is the
adrenaline is now pumping

you full of strength that
you never had before.

And that's good.

You'll be able to run
faster, jump higher,

swim longer, punch
harder, all these things,

but they will happen.

Shockingly is when
you, you know, hey,

the critical incident
you look over and

there's a kid trapped
underneath of a car.

There's just
been a collision.

And that car's on top
of a kid and everybody's

pulling the kid and
they can't get them out.

And suddenly somebody
emerges from the crowd

and they lift the
car up for everybody

else to pull through.

And we hear that all
the time, 80 year old

woman lifts car off,
you know, husband in

garage when jack fails.

This type of stuff, but
people get the benefit of

however many years that
we've had this as, uh, an

instinctual response, you
know, the adrenaline dump

and all the other things.

And don't be afraid,
use them, use

them effectively.

So we talked about
the one plus one

rule, the rule of one
plus one before, if

there's one bad guy,
there's probably two.

If there's one person
talking to you on the

street that you don't
know, there might be

a reason why, there
might be a second person

they're working with.

But in a fight, don't
think that this is

just the one aggressor.

You could have an
innocent person who's

just happened to be
walking by passively

acquiescing, minding
their own business, and

they see this fight and
progress, and they look

at you as the aggressor
and all of a sudden

now it's you against
more than one person.

And I don't care how
many Steven Seagal movies

a person has watched.

When you start having
a physical altercation

with more than one
individual, it gets

tough really quick.

We're now in code
red, maybe we're with,

uh, our spouse, our
kids, or someone else.

Now that person
needs to be your

ally in that moment.

If you're in that
confrontation and you're

down on the ground
and you say somebody

else comes along.

Now there's wolves
that are just going to

come along and they see
something happening and

their pack mentality
forces them to just

start kicking the
people that are on the

ground and see that
lots, lots, and lots.

People are totally
un-involved in whatever,

you know, sparked the
incidents, but they'll

come out of the crowd
because they always,

you know, wanting to
kick somebody, you know,

cause they've seen it
on TV and that stuff.

So yes, you gotta be
wary of that, but you

know, your, your backup
may not be in the form

of a physical backup,
but again, clarifying

to the crowd, help
him, help him, help

the guy in the red
shirt, he got attacked

by the other guy.

Right.

Or something
to that effect.

Everybody needs to
know they got to

all work together.

It's no good if they
go into that lockup

phase and just stand
and stare at you get in

getting it, you know,
so to speak, everybody's

gotta be together.

And that was always
a big part of the

self-defense system that
I would teach my kids.

The big one is
you're not my mom,

you're not my dad.

Right.

If someone's trying to
hurt them or take them or

do something, make it be
known to everybody else

around what's going on.

But as well, they're not
in a position to be able

to physically help in the
way that I'm sure they

would want to, but they
can sure use their voices

to be able to help.

And having that game
plan ahead of time

with your family or
with your friends.

That's a very
important conversation.

Yeah.

That, that plan that
you've had with your

kids saying the only
people that will ever

come and pick you up from
school will be somebody

that you've met before.

And even saying that
as a problem, because

we know that it could.

Statistically.

You know, but you got
to start with that and

you say, is it okay if
grandpa picks you up?

Yes.

Is it okay if grandma,
uncle Joe, you know, and

we are trusting uncle
Joe, mom, dad, sister,

brother, whatever, if
it's not one of those

people, you don't go.

The only people
that you would go

with are the police.

And again, making
the kids understand.

Now we're kind of going
off into the stranger

danger thing, you know,
suddenly it's not one

of those people that
you've preauthorized.

The kid needs to
start letting it out.

You're not physically
capable, but you've got

a voice and use it and
don't go and don't go and

don't go, no matter what.

There's no such thing
as a, as a person that

wants you to help them
find something, you know,

the classic, you know,
I'm here looking for my

dog, can you help me?

You know, or, or
any of those, kids

are just nice.

You know, they've been
properly, brought up.

Kid can still be polite
and start screaming his

head off a second later.

So fights on, we know
absolute aggression.

You think of Malone
from the untouchables.

What did he say?

He says, uh, see
if I can do it.

If he pulls a knife,
you pull a gun.

If he sends one of yours
to the hospital, you send

one of his to the morgue.

Yeah.

Something like that.

But, but essentially
what you don't want

to do is someone's
attacking with force,

you meet that force.

You have to go one.

Overcome the force.

One step up and keep
that force until the

thread has stopped.

Um, do we want to talk
about Jared's story?

Well, just, uh, you
know, and I, I'm just

going to take us back
here again, though.

We keep talking about
the use of force at

this point, but let's
talk about, we had

the escape option.

We don't run so far
and then turn around

and try and start
taking pictures of it

or turn back to look
to see what we'd done.

We run so we know that
we are in a position

of true safety,
like secure behind

something that's not
penetrable or whatever

we're in our car.

Somebody wants to
get into our car.

There's no reason in
the world for somebody

to come out of the
blue and start pulling

on your door handle
that's going to be good.

Now, if it's clearly
evident that that's

somebody who's going to
be a victim themselves,

can you get them in and
get them out of there?

Without the suspect
or the, you know, the,

the attacker getting
in with them, you know,

that's a consideration.

So your emotion is
one thing, oh, I want

to help this person.

But the reality, there's
not going to be better

if I drive my car away
a little bit and get

on the phone and come
back with, you know,

the ability to deal
with it on your terms.

And that just comes
down to, from teaching

a survival mindset.

There is only one
person and that's you.

Yeah.

That's not always going
to be the right thing

with yourself afterwards.

And people have
such a difficult

time accepting that.

And, and, you know,
they say, oh, that's

like, you know, this
is the degradation of

human society if that's
all you're thinking of.

And, and that's what
we become that we're

telling people to
abandon everybody else.

But again, if you
can't continue on.

I remember in my early
twenties, when I got

a license to carry in
the states your CCW and

few different states
of reciprocity and, uh,

Marty Hayes, Firearms
Academy in Seattle did

some training there with
him and did some basic

scenario training as a
part of the CCW course.

And one of the big things
that they really want

to get across is that
firearm is not there

for you to be a hero.

You're not a cop because
you have a firearm on,

you're not there to
help the cops cause

you have that firearm.

You're there, that
firearms air for one

reason only, and that's
to protect you and your

loved ones and that's it.

And you forget
all the rest.

And that was a really
difficult thing to think

about especially as a
young male testosterone,

wanting to help
people all the rest.

Really, when it comes
down to a survival

situation, you're there
to protect yourself,

cause you might not have
all of the information

required to make proper
decisions, to interject

yourself into the,
into some, some other

sort of situation.

And I remember that was
one of the scenarios.

A couple of people
arguing, someone

pulls a gun out
and what do you do?

Do you interject?

No, you take off, the guy
with the gun was actually

a cop undercover right?

And so when people start
making these judgment

calls of how, how
could you just do that?

Really, from a survival
situation, that is where

your head should be.

Yeah.

And that's true,
you know, you hear

repeatedly, oh, you
know, if there had been

somebody with a gun
there, probably would

have ended the whole
thing, but you know,

that, that's where
this, this idea having

an armed society and
all of the ability to

they, you know, to carry
a concealed firearm,

everybody has sort of a,
an armchair idea of how

this is going to work.

And it's not
that way at all.

It is that, it's that
deep down personal thing,

you know, it's just you
and the attacker in the

moment, yours is not to,
as a, as an armed citizen

to come in, until you
can clearly recognize it.

But the fact that you
come running down the

street, withdrawn gun,
might be the worst

thing in the world,
thinking that you're

going to end somebody
else's situation.

You have to read it.

When you're in your
own, different thing.

And the same goes
for people who carry

a utility knife or
who happened to have

dog spray on them, or
who've taken that napkin

and put salt shaker
in there and using.

Not a paper napkin.

It as a weapon.

Not a paper napkin.

Not a paper napkin,
but the same thing

applies to all of these.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And, and like I say, you
know, arming yourself

ahead of time, um, is
also arming the person

that attacks you.

You know, so if you
are going to, uh, put

a knife on your belt
or put a knife in your

pocket, you know that,
uh, in the moment,

if somebody gets your
knife, now you need to

recognize and fight that.

I think there's a
misconception, when

people think about
knives, they think,

oh yeah, I caught this
knife and I can use

it for self-defense.

You're going to kill
the person you stab,

you should probably
resign yourself to that.

If you use a knife
for self protection,

the likelihood of
doing serious grievous

bodily harm or death
is pretty high.

It doesn't take
much for a blade to

penetrate in order
to do serious damage.

And likewise, I don't
care how many movies

they've seen of disarming
a person with a knife

and you touch on this
before we used to do

it with felt markers.

Okay, let's try
disarm, guaranteed,

and that's just the
tip of the marker.

You're walking out
with ink on yourself.

You have to
resign yourself.

If somebody does have
an edged weapon, you

are going to get cut
and you're going to

have to be able to
fight through that.

Yes.

Again, you know,
completely eliminating

your emotions, your
ego at the time, if you

look down and you're
bleeding, means nothing.

You, you know, as long
as you, you still got

the energy to fight, you
got to keep fighting.

Cuts, don't
kill you fast.

Um, you know, and that's
kind of a fortunate

thing, unless somebody is
highly trained and knows,

you know, how to use the
proper link to blade in

the correct technique.

In most cases, you know,
we see a lot of, um,

stabbing, if you can get
always get lucky and hit

something, but you know,
it's be shocking and

it's a big help if you've
ever seen in an animal

that's being butchered,
how much space is in

and around some of the
organs and you know how

that, uh, doesn't become
an immediate way to go.

Okay.

But the big thing you
carry a weapon, you

know, a knife, you, uh,
you brought something to

the situation and, and,
and you bring a gun, you

brought something to the
situation, which you know

that your attacker may
not have had that before.

And if you're not, you
know, physically capable

of keeping that in your
possession, that's not

going to be a help.

So Jared, Range
Langley, 2017 he says.

And Jared, if I'm telling
the story and I get it

wrong, I'm sure you'll
let me know, but I

did take notes and I'm
going to try and get

the information across
cause I think, I think

you had some good points
here that the listeners

would appreciate.

He says, Travis, if
you think there would

be some value in the
listeners in this story

of hearing the situation
that I went through.

So background on Jared,
he'd say range officer

at The Range Langley,
he's accustomed to

being around firearms
and hearing gunshots.

He spent some time down
in LA, he says he's

heard gunshots in an
urban environment, kind

of knows what that's
about and he spent a

fair bit of time offering
like physical security

services for nightclubs
in the form of a bouncer.

And so he's, he's
got a, uh, uh, some

situational awareness
and physical conditioning

he's on a date.

I think it was 2017
browns social pub.

And in the evening, I
guess a waitress drops

a highball glass, hits
the ground flat makes

a big bang nose, every,
nose, big bang noise,

and everybody looks
around and yells OPA

and they clean it up.

And there we go.

Uh, later on in the
evening they hear a

similar bang and this
time it was a round going

through the glass and
followed up by some more

rounds going through
and immediately he.

And more people
yelling OPA.

Yeah, he did.

I don't think he said,
they said OPA at this

point, but the first
thing that came into

his head and I think
most other peoples there

was, Jared, I'm not
trying to speak on your

behalf, but I'm trying to
recollect what you say.

First thing that came
into his head was is

this another high ball
glass hitting the ground?

Because it's not normal
that you're going to

have gunshots coming
into the restaurant where

you're, you're eating in.

Well, by the second
round, people knew

what was going on
pretty quickly.

And he was under
the table with his

girlfriend and, or the
girl that he was on

a date with anyways.

And she was freaking out.

And apparently most
of his energy was

into, went into trying
to keep her calm.

Uh, he looked for exits
and he saw one and there

was one out by the patio,
problem was there was a

fellow doing backflips.

Cause I guess he had
been hit, right by

there trying to get
in and he yells out,

don't let him in.

They want him,
not us, right.

He says right or wrong,
whatever people judge

that right or wrong,
he says, but why do

we want to invite that
danger inside here?

He says, he looked and
he gets to see these

people, but they're
dressed all in black.

Uh, and that's about the
most he got out of it.

He says the adrenal fog
kicked in, the adrenal

dump right off the bat.

But then the adrenal
fog, trying to, uh, think

things through, I, I
guess the, let me just

take a look, make sure
I'm not missing anything.

Here are the notes.

So his exit was blocked.

He says afterwards, if
I was really thinking

about it, places have
more than one exit.

I could have gone through
the kitchen and no one

going to think twice
about someone going

through a kitchen in
this sort of a situation.

He says afterwards, I
kind of wish I spoke

with other people
that were around me.

Like, hey, do you
know what's going on?

Hey, do you have a plan?

Sort of like
coordinate the other

people in there.

He says he didn't do
that, but this is a

benefit of hindsight.

Uh, he says he had to
stick around for about

four hours while the
police came in and they

took some statements
about what happened.

And they were
asking, what are the

people look like?

He says, I don't know,
it was all in black.

It's all I saw, but it
sounded like there was a

semi-auto and a revolver.

And it sounded like this
many shots were fired

because of his background
of working in the

range, that's where his
mind immediately went.

And those are things
though, that, as

we talked about
beforehand, is what

has been downloaded
to your subconscious.

So that's there.

That, that ability
to recognize those

things, is there.

Back to you, sorry.

Mhmm.

He, and part of this
will go into the after

as well, uh, which
we can we'll delve in

further, but he says, uh,
everybody wants to hear

the story afterwards.

Everybody wants to talk
about it afterwards.

And there was
anger involved.

He was angry at the laws
that he couldn't carry

a firearm or angry at
the body armor laws, or

that he couldn't protect
himself in a way that he

figured that he should.

Um, and these are
all things that a

person would have
to square themselves

with, for the after.

And we'll talk about that
in greater detail, but

it was an interesting
story and I didn't do it

justice, Jared, I know
because we spoke for some

time on this one and he
had a lot more details.

But his survival
mindset was right.

Uh, afterwards squaring
yourself with, I

guess, one of the,
uh, uh, women in the

patio opened the door
and allow this person

to come in bleeding
all over the place.

I believe that was
the individual ended

up, uh, passing.

Um, yes, survival
mindset was right.

But I think afterwards,
some people might have

a hard time with that
too, like, me over them.

Well, yeah.

And that's the part,
again, that we keep

going back to is, you
know, it's you, and

afterwards you can
imagine that other people

say, you know, there
was some guy yelling,

don't let him in.

Can you believe
that, that's the

degradation of society.

We're all finished as
a, as a human race,

but you know what,
unfortunately, it's the

right thing to do in
those kind of moments.

That person is not your
kin, that person is not,

you know, in your team,
I'm talking, you know,

if it was a battlefield
situation and that was

a member of your squad,
a hundred percent he's

coming in and we're
going to fight out

there and fight that guy
back in, because that's

what we're there to do.

This is you went
out for dinner on a

date, that's not what
you're there to do.

There is the sheepdog
that's going to do it.

And you know, like
he said, the woman

that, that let him
in, that's, her inner

sheepdog came out.

She just couldn't,
couldn't get beyond

not helping a fellow
human being and

that's, that's great.

But did you know, she,
how much risk did she put

herself at doing that?

That that's the part
that we don't know, and

we can armchair forever.

People love to armchair,
but I'm just, you

know, that that's
the way it goes.

You know, it's funny, you
know, just based solely

on what you said um,
he talks about looking

up and seeing the exit.

That's you know,
sometimes could be

talked about as a bit
of tunnel vision because

the activity is there and
within the activity of

what you're looking at
is the red exit signs.

So back in the
subconscious exit, but

in the upfront, in the
cognitive level, not a

good choice because that
is also the danger area.

That's the, you
know, we could use

the term, killzone.

I got a good story
for afterwards, which

actually takes us back
to this, but we'll, we'll

save that, you know,
uh, going ahead, but

you're, you're right.

It's it is, you
know, restaurants.

Hey, you know, we
just heard here in the

province of British
Columbia, if it depends

on where you're living
from, we're going to

have our opening today
is going to be announced

at one o'clock and
you know, going into

a restaurant or a bar,
um, it's, you know, you

can, how many years my
wife and I have been

together, she understands
that she doesn't even

try to sit anywhere that
allows me to not keep my

back away from the door.

Um, and it's just,
I've done it all my

pretty much adult life.

I can't comfortably
sit with my back to the

room unless I'm sitting
with somebody I trust.

And if I know that the
person that's sitting

with the eyes on the
room, I'm good with that.

But if I'm there with
anybody else, any non,

um, known entity, I just
can't get comfortable.

And, and that's just
something I always do.

And I sit down and I
look, and I see as I'm

ordering, where's the
in, where's the out.

Just happens and
it's not a hard way

to live your life.

It really isn't.

It's not, it's not,
it's not overbearing,

but we going back to
what we talked about

already, but it's there
because in the moment

grab a hand, run through
the kitchen, just like

Jared said, and it would
have been over for him.

It would have been over.

So there's other
things that could be

done in the moment in
something like that.

Which may or may not
be useful for this

situation, but we talked
about the mental prep

before of being able to
identify a person, look

at their skin color, look
at their height, look at

their gender, look at any
distinguishing marks that

they have, that would
be difficult to change.

Same with vehicle,
even though we all

know in these sorts of
situations, like Jared's

talking about there's
stolen vehicles that

get torched an hour
later, but direction

of travel, which way
were they heading?

Because when they're
under the table,

they called 911 as
I'm sure everybody

else was as well.

Uh, the more information
that they can gather in

the during, the better
off, they will be in

the afterwards as well.

And the more they can
articulate and user

tactical communication,
their, their voice and

the during in a way
that that's properly

pre-programmed, that they
they're saying the right

words in the right way.

Hey, drop that weapon.

Everyone looks, they
look at the person you're

talking to and they
assume that person's

got a weapon right?

Whoops.

They made a mistake,
they didn't have a

weapon, they're just
being aggressive, but

they still got that
information out there.

If they downloaded that
information to their

head and they used in
that situation, that

could be a useful thing
in the after as well.

Um.

Yeah, that's right.

I mean, well, we still
talking about the moment

your code red, it's real
it's happening, but you

may not be the focus
of whatever the, you

know, the, the energies
of the attacker is.

But you're still feeling,
you know, all of the

other things that come
on when, when it's

real and going down.

And trying to keep
yourself, um, focused

on the thing to be of
some value later is

some consideration.

I just, you know, there's
something keeps playing

in my head when gunfire
happens, particularly a

handgun, based on four or
five rounds, I've trained

people to fire over
the years at the range.

What people tend to do,
is if they're untrained

with a firearm, is send
rounds to the ground.

Mhmm.

And that in, you know,
just some consideration,

if you're going to lay
flat or stretched across

towards somebody that's
out there can put you

in a, a bit of risk at,
you know, ricocheted

rounds that, that go low.

So, I mean, if you're
far enough away, it's

probably not a bad
choice, but stay in

skinny and tall and
trying to get behind

something, because again,
that's a more difficult

target, particularly
at distance, you

know, all concerned.

It just kind of
popped into my

head in the moment.

That, those would be
some of the things,

you know, based on my,
you know, makeup of

experiences might be.

So I would, I would
consider distances,

you know, I know how
far people can shoot,

when they can hit.

I keep looking at the
way people would shoot

in those situations
and whether it's aimed

fire or just, you know,
point and squeeze or

point and jerk trigger.

It's mostly point and
click that I seen.

That's it.

And that can be darn
effective at a darn

effective at, at the
shorter ranges and we can

see that clearly, right.

Um, but you know, some,
some things, you know.

If the person comes in
swinging a knife, don't

get down, get around
something, get, you

know, get physically,
get the bar between

you and that person,
get tables between you.

But if you, if you lay
down, you've lost your

reactionary time, right.

Cause now, you've
got to get up to

move away from them.

Um.

You know, when you talk
about rounds hitting the

ground and the ricochet,
I remember as a kid,

uh, my father would set
up different shotgun

shells, green ones,
red ones, blue ones, 12

gauge, 20 gauge, .410,
and they'd all be on the

ground at different areas
and call out a color.

Red, okay.

Got to bring it
out and try a point

shooting or body index
shooting or instinctive

shooting, right.

And get the gun out
without using the sights.

Squeeze the trigger,
shoot the shotgun,

the casing, shotgun
shell on the ground.

And it didn't take
me long to realize

I, as long as my
left and right, my

windage was good.

Uh, my elevation could
be dead on or pretty much

anywhere in front of it
cause I could skip the

round into that shell.

And so I could speed
things up quite quickly.

Maybe I didn't quite
get a dead on, but

I was in front of
it and skipped in.

So the same thinking
applies to walls.

That's right.

Yeah.

The spall coming
off of, you know.

Spall and walls.

Like

if you're going to hug
a wall going down and

there's gunfire, you just
got to shoot anywhere

at you or in front
of you on that wall.

And you're probably going
to be catching a round.

Yeah.

It is something to really
consider, you know,

people lay down under
a car, but a shot fired

under the car can also
spall off the asphalt or

concrete that's there.

So getting behind a car
means, you know, getting

behind the wheel, you
know that, so you've

got that protection of
the tire, physically

on the ground,and
the rim, you know, to

stop any spall or, or
indeed any projectiles

going to need.

Those are the things,
can you analyze that

quickly in the moment?

No, but if you've
thought about it before,

these are the things,
this is the plan.

This is the plan
that you made.

We're talking code
red, we're talking

execution of the plan.

Uh, some other things to
consider is, you know, if

whatever you're doing is
not working in code red,

like this is not making
things better for me.

Oh.

Pivot and adapt.

Right.

Have you have you,
in the planning stage

before any of this
happened, come up with,

you know, a scenario in
your mind, I'm punching

somebody I'm, I'm doing
the attack that I'd

always thought I would
do in this situation,

it's not working, so
what's the secondary?

Those judo chops that I
was practicing so much,

man, they just didn't
work quite as good.

Yeah.

And you know, the, and
the, the, the compliant

partner I had in the gym
who would lay down and

scream, you know, this,
person's not doing that.

So it's always, you
know, plan a, the

simplest plan b uh,
when a isn't working.

And boy, if it's plan
c, this has gotta be a

really effective thing.

Uh, but it's, it's gonna
be, you know, almost at

the point where getting
distance becomes the most

important to regroup.

I just, one of the most
incredible conversations

I ever had, um, the
RCMP years ago, fully

embraced the Gregg method
of instinctive shooting.

Um, and some of the
older RCMP members

that I know that can
tell you about this.

And, and Gregg had
developed is the,

what was his last name
two G's, a system of

sightless shooting.

Right.

And when he trained
you initially, you

would use 22 rifles
that had no sights

on them, and you were
actually holding them

clearly out of the aim.

And by gosh, you could
hit an amazing amount

of stuff as you trained
in the Gregg method of

sightless shooting and
without getting into it

too much, it was adopted
in the RCMP training and

they referred to it as
instinctive shooting.

Right.

And it's a word that
absolute or a phrase

that absolutely curdles
my urine when I heal

or hear people use it.

But I'll just tell you,
this is how, if you

think you have a plan
and you're trained with

a plan and you're in
code red, what to do.

So this RCMP officer,
um, long story short,

a robbery occurs.

He sees the robbery
suspect, he's in

the police vehicle.

He stops the individual
who immediately

exits his vehicle.

He draws his six shot
revolver and from the

Gregg method of, and he's
basically shooting well

below his line of sight.

He's seeing.

Cause that's
how he taught.

That was the
Gregg method.

How they're taught.

And it was the sort
of a triangle press

out from your body.

And your eyes are up here
and the guns down there.

And he's shooting at
the bad guy who in turn

is one arm extents and
shooting back at him.

And they start aroundy
round the police car and

aroundy rounds happening
and they're, both of

them are shooting.

He fires his six
rounds, he recognizes

that he's unloaded.

He accesses his
speed loader, reloads

fabulously, he's got six
fresh rounds ready to go.

And he says he couldn't,
he doesn't even recall

the reload it went
so smoothly, you

know, clean ejection
of the spent cases.

And he starts
firing that method.

And he goes through
his full 18 rounds,

the six in the gun, the
12 off his belt, bad

guy goes through the
magazine that he had in

a semiautomatic pistol.

And now it's one of those
dead silence because

there's no more gunfire.

Nobody's got ammo.

Neither one of them
were hit in this

exchange that, you
know, in probably 10

plus rounds fired on
the part of the bad guy

from his semiautomatic
pistol, 18 rounds fired

from the revolver.

And I said to him, you
know, when I got the

opportunity to speak
to him, I said, well,

why didn't you just
put the sights on him?

No one ever talked
about using that.

It was never something
that was offered up as

a solution to the bad
guy, not falling down.

You will respond exactly
as you've trained.

Correct.

To your lowest level
of training that you've

been able to perfect,
is where you'll respond.

And Peter principle can
also come into place.

Correct.

And I will tell you, or,
from every single person

that I have trained in
uniform, that the most

important thing is to
learn to use your sights.

Everything else is just
frosting on the cake.

If you need in
that last moment to

use your firearm.

So anyways, not that
I'm advocating anybody

use a firearm, but that
is the understanding.

When you come up
with a technique,

the first thing that
you practice is the

full-proof side of it.

Right.

And then everything
else goes to support it.

So.

Hick's law, not Peter
principle Hicks laws.

What I was thinking
of and Hick's law

essentially says that
the more options that

you have in your head,
the more likely you

are to dither between
choosing one of them in

a stressful situation.

So if you have that
one option, which is,

we use a sights or my
one option that I've

really downloaded.

If I have to fight,
I fight hard and I

fight aggressively.

I'm not afraid
to be dirty and

use hair or eyes.

Um, that can really play
to your benefit when that

adrenal fog kicks in.

Correct.

And, oh, let's talk about
what happens if you've

planned, it's code red
and suddenly you find

yourself completely
unable to fight

without emotion or ego.

And all of a sudden,
your feet are stuck

to the ground and you
realize, wow, all I'm

doing is breathing
at, you know, any

highly, um, accelerated
rate of respiration.

You know, there's horns
honking in my ears.

The lights are flashing
and everything else.

Get out of that, that
should be another plan.

And that's that, you
know, um, autogenic

breathing, just blow
your lungs clear.

Well, your lungs clear,
empty your lungs,

shake your head just a
little bit, slap your

hands on your thighs.

Just get, get
some, you know,

physical stimulation
there, back in.

Now, you know, those
things that maybe

break in that, that fog
that's occurred that,

and you use the word
mental fibrillation

or tactical dithering.

You know, those, those
are the things that

can potentially happen.

And unfortunately I have
seen that effect occur

in others, in some very
tough situations that

I've had the fortune,
good fortune to be a

part of, so I can talk
about it later, the

misfortune to be in some
pretty, you know, tough

scrapes in the moment.

But you can watch others
and yeah, and it's, it's

a thing to, to take that
with you as well, but how

do you break out of that?

Autogenic breathing
just absolute complete

emptying of your lungs
takes, you know, all

of a sudden your, your
whole physical being is

now coming back online.

It's almost like
a restart and that

could be a huge help.

Um, again, slapping your
hands and your thighs,

give your head a little
shake, you know, that,

that pinching, some
of those things can

just bring . You back.

Interesting.

No guarantees, but
you know, having

something, uh, to, to
work with on that case.

That's, that's a good
point, little, little

physical tips that
people can do to kind of

break that psychological
block that they're in.

When two things that
I've used in the

past, if you're in a
stressful situation, a

box breathing where you
three seconds in, hold

it for three seconds,
three seconds out, hold

it for three seconds,
three seconds in, and

just keep repeating that.

And that's one
way to help calm

yourself in a suit.

And I mean, even in
mountaineering or rock

climbing, and I know
you've done a fair bit

of that, there's been
situations where you.

That was a long time ago.

Where you've, I know
there's been situations

where I've found myself
in areas where I'm over

my head and you have,
that, you can't stop, you

can't move back and you
have to press forward.

And one of the things
that I just do, I can,

I can, I can, just
some sort of a mantra

that goes through your
head and you just do

it and you can achieve
some otherwise maybe

seemingly superhuman
type things or what other

people would sit back
and say, how the hell

does that person do it?

It's because you're
a very singular in

your purpose and
what you're doing.

And you keep repeating
that to yourself as you

work your way through.

Yeah.

And I've always, uh,
well, mine is, you

know, get on it, get
on it, get on it,

get on it, get on it.

And that's the thing that
yells in, in, you know.

Brian, what's your Brian,
Brian Calgary police

retired now, but he talks
about the wind principle.

Mm.

And what's important
now, and I'm not going

to steal his thunder and
we'll get his name here

for the next podcast.

And you should listen
to him talk and he

continually repeats
the mantra, WIN,

what's important now.

Okay.

So now I've put myself
in a better position.

I've got distance
from the subject,

what's important now?

Do I continue
to move away?

Do I now have to
rescue somebody else,

what's important now?

And it evolves,
it evolves because

you're now taking
successional steps,

you've done something,
what's important now.

And of course, then
in the end you win.

That's a, uh, an
adaption of your

OODA loop, observe,
orient, decide and act.

Correct.

And everybody's got their
thing, I guess, last

name's going to come.

We'll we'll have it
for your everybody

here uh, shortly.

Okay.

Do we want to talk
about anything else

in the during, or do
we want to save the

rest for the after?

I think, uh, get
rid of your ego, get

rid of your emotion.

Your purpose is singular
it's to make whatever

is that high degree of
stress, right there, an

attack or imminent attack
or an imminent threat to

your life or wellbeing
stop or get away from it.

And, and to do it, you
know, as efficiently

as your physicality,
uh, your training or

your experience will
allow you to do it.

And that's, that's
the thing, get rid

of the emotion.

Really.

Don't be afraid.

Uh, not don't be
afraid, you're going

to be afraid, take your
fear and turn it into

righteous indignation.

That's an important thing
for people to understand.

Everybody gets scared.

Totally.

Sure.

It's normal.

You should be scared
in that situation, but

take from that fear, the
strength and just the

words are how dare, how
dare you do this to me?

How dare you do
this to that person?

How, how dare you
change my life right

now by doing this thing.

And that will give
you the, you know, the

ability to continue on.

But, um, no, I
distracted myself

from the fear side.

Uh, it'll come back.

Okay.

Okay, Paul, let's
wrap this one up.

If the listeners have
anything that they

would like to add,
well, they might have a

difficult time on this
because we're going to

be recording our after
right, right now, but

we can definitely post
it up on social media.

For sure.

And if the demand is
there, I'm happy to make

a synopsis of all of
these things and put it

up into blog posts for
people to be able to have

some downloadable assets.

Absolutely.

Thank you very much Paul.