I Used To Be Crap At Sales

Why do top performers consistently close more deals — even when they’re selling the same product, to the same market, with the same tools?

In this episode, Scott Cowley breaks down the “3 Whys” Framework — the system elite sellers master that most reps never even think about.

Top performers don’t win because they have better personalities, smoother pitches, or clever hacks.
They win because they deeply understand the three questions every buyer must answer before they ever commit:

1️⃣ Why buy anything?
2️⃣ Why buy now?
3️⃣ Why buy you?

Scott learned this the hard way: after nine months in a sales job without closing a single deal, he realised he didn’t understand any of the real Whys buyers use to make decisions.

Today, the 3 Whys form the backbone of how he teaches founders, SDRs, AEs, and revenue leaders to sell in a more predictable, high-impact way.

In this episode you’ll learn:

🔥 Why deals “stall” (and why that’s just a missing Why Now)
🔥 How elite sellers create clarity, not pressure
🔥 The seasonality mistakes that cost companies months of pipeline
🔥 Why most training focuses on the wrong Why
🔥 How to build discovery that uncovers real, actionable change drivers

If your pipeline feels unpredictable — this framework will change how you sell.

What is I Used To Be Crap At Sales?

Even the most prominent voices in Sales were crap at Sales once.

Join bestselling Author, Founder and Sales Coach Mark Ackers as he speaks with successful Sales professionals about their early Sales struggles, and how they overcame these challenges to become the people they are today.

Mark Ackers: Hi everyone. Here's
what's coming up in today's

episode. Now today's guest.
Where do I start? He's an

Australian who studied at the
University of Technology in

Sydney and has gone on to have
an amazing sales career along

the way. He's also worn hats of
advisor, fractional VP of sales,

and of course, he's one of our
brilliant coaches here at my

sales coach. But, and there's
always a but it hasn't always

been smooth sailing. In between
those successes, there's also a

job where I spent nine months
for a cyber security firm, and

he didn't close a single deal.
If you haven't guessed it

already, my guest today is Scott
Cowley, did you used to be crap

at sales?

Scott Cowley: God Yes. I was a
super high performer, as I said.

Joined this organisation and I
was like, ready to make some

serious cash, and it just never
worked. And then the CEO sat me

down and basically said, This
isn't working. Handed me my P 45

and I was out the door that day.
I was very immature every role

I'd been in. When I left, I
didn't have any friends left in

the organisation. I understood
what the product did really

well. You could monitor a bunch
of Twitter accounts. You could

get a lot of information, but I
had no idea why someone would

pay at the time, two analyst
salaries for this product. Some

businesses, the seasonality is
so easy. HR tech, for example,

the sale will happen in q4
implementation will happen in q1

Mark Ackers: you've actually
gotten a journey where you've

learned the three whys. You've
created your own frameworks. How

did you go from being let go for
non performance to being able to

sit here today. How did you
learn all this?

Scott Cowley: You have to deeply
understand why someone is buying

your product. And I break it
down into this three whys. Why

buy anything? Why buy now? And
the one that people are really

good at is, Why buy your
product? Most people are really

good at one of them, but it's
the last one that they're really

good at. Why buy anything? A lot
of them are bought in. Why buy

now they got completely wrong.
It's probably the one that the

buyer is going to struggle the
most to answer, but it has to be

in that order, because if you
don't have Why buy anything,

they're not even going to
entertain you long enough to get

to why buy. Now, if you've
chosen a path that requires

sales, you either have to get
good at it, or the business

doesn't exist. The biggest thing
I wish I had to learn a lot

younger is

Mark Ackers: Hello and welcome
to another episode of The I used

to be crap with sales Podcast.
I'm Mark Akers co founder and

Head of Sales here at my sales
coach, and I'm your host, Scott.

Welcome to the UK, to the myself
coach headquarters, and to the

orange chairs. Is it okay say
Good day mate.

Scott Cowley: Yeah, Good day
mate. To you too. How you doing?

You okay? I'm all right. Yeah,
I'm all right. Jet lagged. I've

been in Europe for like, two
weeks, so the jet lag is gone,

but I'm flying out in two days,
so the jet lag will be back.

Mark Ackers: The opportunity to
have you in offices and on the

podcast was too good to resist.
Scott, we always start with a

yes. No question, did you used
to be crap at sales? God, yes.

And how crap are we talking on a
scale of one to 1010, being the

crappest you could be.

Scott Cowley: I mean, I did have
a sales job for almost a year

where I didn't sell anything.
I'm gonna say a one. So 10 is

the crappest you can be. Oh, I'm
gonna be a 10, a solid 10, like,

I definitely used to be crap at
sales,

Mark Ackers: I tell you what,
Scott, why don't we start there,

then set the scene for us. This
was your job in London, wasn't

it? The cybersecurity firm,
yeah, one of them, yeah. Okay,

so tell us a little bit about
that role and what you were

doing.

Scott Cowley: So I did have a
role before that where I was

quite senior. It was the role I
started in Australia, moved over

to the UK. Was a senior sales
rep within that organisation.

Left there. I was trying to find
a job with the highest OTA

possible. I wanted to make
100,000 pounds. And then I

joined. And I still to this day,
have no idea why anyone would

buy the product. The whole time
I was there, I was listening to

other people's sales calls. I
understood what the product did

really well. I understood how it
could you could monitor a bunch

of Twitter accounts. You could
get a lot of information and

then make that information into
a certain format. But I had no

idea why someone would pay, at
the time, two analyst salaries

for this product. I have looked
them up not too long ago, and

they have grown quite a bit as
an organisation. So maybe they

worked that problem out, but I
could never work it out. And

they have customers, so, like,
it's 100% of me problem. That's

probably my worst experience in
sales joining I was a super high

performer, as I said, join this
organisation, and I was like,

ready to make some serious cash,
and it just never worked. Yeah.

Then the CEO sat me down just
before he was going to the US

for a trip, and basically said,
This isn't working. I said, No,

it isn't. It had to be my P 45
and I was out the door that day.

Things are slightly different
now, but yeah, that

organisation, I wish them the
best. I just I couldn't work

Mark Ackers: it out. Just for
those listening for context,

what year are we talking about
here? When was this I

Scott Cowley: think it was 2017
Yeah. 17. Yeah, it might have

been 2018 when I left, but I
think I joined in 2017

Mark Ackers: in a scary way.
Doesn't feel like it was

Scott Cowley: that long ago, but
so recent. Yeah, so and you said

before,

Mark Ackers: and just picking up
in your language, you said you

were a super high performer.
What's your definition of that?

The

Scott Cowley: previous company
when I was. Australia, I was top

three in Asia consistently.
Never was number one, but I was

kind of two or three
consistently. Then when I moved

to the UK, I was consistently
top five for that. That office

sold to Latin America, Middle
East, Africa and Europe. So

yeah, that office, I was
consistently top five again. I

was never number one, but I was
always kind of there or there

abouts and that organisation as
well. When I first joined, I set

the target of being number one
in something. I ended up being

number one in outbound sales for
two months running, which wasn't

something they did track, but I
tracked it. So like I was good

at that job, but I think I got
good at selling that product,

not good at sales. And
subsequently, I've had to learn

how to be good at sales itself.
But there's definitely that

imposter syndrome that's like,
Am I still crap at sales? Like

every time a deal that it should
have gone a certain direction,

in my mind, doesn't definitely
that imposter syndrome kicks in

and you're like, maybe I am
still crap at this thing. So

that's yeah, that definitely I
have been a super high

performer. I have been literally
fired from jobs or a job in a

sales capacity.

Mark Ackers: There's a few
phrases that I want to pull out

there. I just suppose again for
context, when you said top

three, top five out of how many?

Scott Cowley: In Australia, it
would have been 25 okay, in

Europe, it would have been,
let's say, double that 50. And

then when I was number one,
because right at the beginning

of when I joined in Australia,
when I was number one at the

outbound thing, there would have
been 150 reps worldwide.

Mark Ackers: Okay, so in
Australia and London, basically

what we're saying is in the top
10% Yeah, effectively, okay. And

then the bit that pleased me,
because I thought I'm gonna have

to go here, and I don't know how
you'll take it. Is when you said

it's a me thing, oh, 100% that
was a me thing. And that's what

I was gonna get to because I was
gonna ask, was the company

successful? Are people buying
it? So

Scott Cowley: that company, when
I joined, there were four sales

reps. One got fired three weeks
after I joined for non

performance. Two of us joined at
the same time, so there's four,

went to six, went to five, then
myself and the other guy who I

joined with Pro also left within
the year. I think the other guy

did close a few deals. I think
his was voluntary. So they Yeah,

at the time, they had three
successful sellers. I think

Mark Ackers: so the interesting
thing that, that you said was

you took it straight to the
salaries of two data analysts.

She was like, why would someone
pay the equivalent of two data

analyst salaries? And then you
spoke about imposter syndrome.

One of the things that I talk
about a lot, and I see in sales

people, are mindset issues
around need for approval,

imposter syndrome and a weakness
for money. And the interesting

thing I remember, early in my
career, I used to think no one's

going to pay the equivalent of
my salary for this product. And

that's because what I thought
was expensive actually to

another business wasn't. I
actually had this conversation

my wife a couple of weeks ago,
and it didn't, I didn't deliver

it in the best way, but she was
talking about something being

very expensive. You know? She's
saying, oh, one of our

customers, they're paying, I
can't genuinely come in the

amount, but it's a lot of money.
And I said, is it a lot of

money, though? Is that a lot of
money? Because to you and I, is

busy, and she, she just didn't
want that conversation, like,

What do you mean? It's like, it
was like, millions, right? And

she's like, of course, a lot of
money. I was like, Is it to

them? And when you start talking
about two data analyst salaries,

we're talking about what's
expensive to us, not to the

business, I'm just wondering
there, like when you say it's a

me, thing, was it weakness for
money at the time? Need for

approval, imposter syndrome
holding you back. I

Scott Cowley: think part of it
is I didn't understand that

product did not contribute
directly to the bottom line.

There was no way to use that
product to make more money. I

fully understand spending, and I
I've definitely my opinions of

how much is too much, how much
is expensive, all those sorts of

things these days completely
different. But the reason I

related it to two analysts is
one of the quotes in all of the

collateral for that company was
from a navy customer who

explicitly said this saves us
two analysts. So I was trying to

relate it to the way that the
customers described it, and I

couldn't understand that
product. There was no way it

impacts the bottom line. So if
you think about the reasons

people buy anything, you've got
more money or less costs and

more revenue hits the bottom
line. You've got more time or

less time spent on certain
things, so, like, more

capability, or you've got, like,
a grudge purchase or a

reputation purchase, or
something like that. Like, no

one buys insurance expecting it
to end up on the bottom line.

That's why you just don't pay as
much for insurance as you would

for something else. Whereas a
salesperson, you're hiring them,

expecting a multiple of their
salary as an ROI. So thinking

about in that context
specifically, I was relating it

to the way that the quote from
their buyer related to it, I

will say I've probably had, I
mean, I've definitely had money

issues and money the. Thoughts
over the years, but I do exactly

what you do of Well, hang on,
let's relate that to something.

Because my my apartment in
Australia, is a million dollars,

like, that's a lot of money to a
lot of people. To me, our

apartments too small and we need
to upsize so like relating it

into the millions is I can I now
have that conversation with

other people exactly around the
money worthiness element, and I

don't think at the time it was a
money worthiness thing, because

I'm very good as well
personally, of putting who is

Scott and what Scott's worth
completely to one side, because

the product I'm selling, or the
product that I'm coaching people

and training people to sell,
it's not us, like at the end of

the day, no one really is buying
us. They buy into us, but

they're buying the outcome the
product gives them. One of the

newsletters I wrote, I kind of
remember how long ago was

talking about how at the end of
the day, if your customer or

your prospect could solve the
problem they had without ever

speaking to you, they'd probably
be happier, because they just

don't have the problem. They
don't have to put any resources

into the problem. Therefore, the
only reason they're talking to

you is because the pain is so
great that they have to invest

in it. They have to put cash
into it. And that's that's one

of the things that I do to get
around the money worthiness when

I'm coaching people. I'm
coaching people, because it's

coming back to your question.
No, it wasn't me having issues

with charging that much money.
It was me trying to relate to

why would someone buy that? And
that's why, as much as I can, I

much prefer products that hit
the bottom line so that are

directly money, not time or even
grudge or reputation, because

money is so much easier to sell
and you can charge a hell of a

lot more for

Mark Ackers: it. So again, lots
of insight there. Here's

something that went through my
mind when you were talking and

it feels like you're going to
agree with me. I hate the

phrase, people buy from people.
People buy people. Yeah, I'm

with you. Give us your takeaway,
because it feels like on the

same page, but people still say
that now, people buy people, buy

people. And I think it's a load
of nonsense.

Scott Cowley: No, it's 100% a
lot of nonsense. As I was

saying, if someone could solve
their problem without ever

knowing your name or spending
any time with you, they would.

They don't. They don't want you.
Even in the context of where it

really is that they're buying
you, in the employee, employer

context, they still don't want
you. They want their problem

solved at the end of the day.
There are so many examples of

when a sale gets made, but a
human is not in the loop. I

changed my electricity provider.
I don't care who that company

is. I don't I just looked at the
deals that came up. I don't care

this, like Australian owned and
they do something with the Snowy

Hydro scheme. All that says to
me is that maybe you're adding

cost on that I don't need in my
life. That's an example of where

a sale got made and a person was
not involved at all. Those sort

of sales happen every day. And
there's also the examples of

where, like, as a buyer, and
this is one thing that I think

sellers really struggle with, is
really properly empathising with

the buyer and understanding
because they've never really

been a buyer, but like, buyers
often don't want to talk to you.

They just want their problem
solved. So there, there are

definitely circumstances where
the human, the seller

contributes as a net positive.
I'd probably say there's more

examples where the seller is a
net negative of the

conversation, but the buyers
already decided they need

something and they're going to
buy anyway. They're going to buy

from someone. They just, they
pick that organisation, and then

a seller just has to be involved
to kind of square the

Mark Ackers: circle. It's
interesting if we start to look

to the future, take your example
about switching electricity

providers. If we exaggerate that
point and go far enough back,

you'd have had to have gone
somewhere to speak to someone.

Then it become you could speak
to someone over the phone. Then

it become you could speak to an
agent. Now you don't need to

speak to anyone, and you can do
it. How do you see this playing

out in the future of B to B
sales, where buyers don't need

or want to speak to sales
people? How's this career and

this profession and your mind
going to change? Oh,

Scott Cowley: you hate my answer
here, because I have this debate

with different people at
different times, and I never,

I'm very wishy washy on this
one, because no one can predict

the future. Humans are never
going away, because, especially

in most B to B contexts, the
buyer doesn't even know they

really have a problem. When
there's cold outreach involved,

will there be less sales people.
There's one angle of I can see a

decentralisation starting to
happen, because we've definitely

seen, over the last kind of 20
years, 10 years a centralization

where big businesses just keep
getting bigger. But I can

definitely see a
decentralisation happening where

you then end up with a hell of a
lot more sales people, because

there's just more companies. And
if, even if every company only

has half the number of sales
peoples as the really big

companies, there's still just
more jobs available. But I can

also see the centralization
continuing, and you end up with

like, one seller, three or four
assistants, and like, a really

powerful AI behind them, and.
And you end up with less sellers

because the centralization
continues. It's super wishy

washy answer, because I just
don't know. But at the end of

the day, I think if an
individual is watching this and

they're thinking about their own
career in sales, I think there

will always be a space for sales
people, especially in B to B,

especially in my sweet spot, is
what I'd call me. And you always

have to define that, because mid
market means it's different to

every business. Mid market, to
me, is kind of that 10k a year,

up to about 100k a year, where a
seller is needed to help really

scope and deeply understand if
this buyer actually has the

pain. But it's not a complex
sale that involves buying

committees and multi year sales
processes. It's a it's a much

simpler, what I call a simple
sale. You only really need one

person. You don't need sales
engineers, you don't need

potentially even SDRs, and you
don't need a cold call it to

then hand over to closer. I
definitely didn't answer your

question. I told you that I'm I
don't know the answer your

question, but I gave you two
ideas there.

Mark Ackers: I mean, both ideas,
one will play out, I'm sure, I

suppose, for what it's worth,
how I see this going, I think

the way in which I see sales
leaders and businesses operating

today, it's about, how can we
get our sales reps to do more

selling by removing all the
manual, time consuming elements,

and you think about like the way
the tech landscape has changed

over the last 15 years, I feel
like I sound really old when I

talk about the first year in
sales. I had a company

directory, book, business cards
from the desk that I inherited

from the person that got let go,
and a phone LinkedIn was a CV

Library. But if you think about
all the tech that you now have

on top so businesses are like,
how can we make sellers more

efficient, more effective, spend
more time selling. For me, the

missing piece is, how do we make
the sellers that we have better

at their craft? And if we make
them better at their craft, and

we remove all the time consuming
elements, we naturally need less

salespeople, but the ones that
we have are better and will earn

more. And I think that's where I
agree with you. There will

always be a space for
salespeople. I think the missing

thing is only the good
salespeople. And I think, I

think that's where I see it
going, Yeah,

Scott Cowley: but like, that's
just not human nature. That's

just not how humans end up
responding to these sorts of

things, like, only the good
sales people. Well, what about

when you need to hire someone
like you can either go down the

path of hire a high performer
from somewhere else, but are

they going to be a high
performer for you don't know,

because at the end of the day,
in a lot of the sessions that I

run, I can show people scripting
that's worked for me or that's

worked for previous companies.
And I know it works, but I don't

know if it's going to work for
you. I don't know if it's going

to work for your industry. I
don't know if it's going to work

for your geography. I can't
defend there's no script you can

write. This is exactly how to
sell. So you either go the high

performer route and hope that
they work it out, and you give

them the tools. And one of the
cool things I love about my

sales coaches, it really is
supporting those people as they

come in, or you go the other
angle, and you got to train them

up from somewhere. And this is
where I think it's really nice

to only have high performers,
but if you carve out the middle

performers, there is no space
for those high performers to

appear from somewhere.

Mark Ackers: So no, again, we're
on the same page. When people

talk about like the SDR role
disappearing, I think where are

ies coming from? Yeah. And
actually, just the strategy of

hiring high performers, what a
wish that would be. Yeah. Here's

the problem, high performers
don't want to leave because

they're performing. Well, when
you've got someone applying for

a sales role, they're unlikely
to be a high performer, because

that likely be a side step or a
cut back in commission. Like

there's got to be a real reason
for them. So, no, no, we're

saying the same thing. You're
going to have to hire people.

But it can't just be about,
well, hire anyone, throw loads

of tech at them and make more
efficient more effective. It's

got to be, how can we improve
them and their craft? That's why

I see changing.

Scott Cowley: But is that? Is
that any different to if you

think about kind of the idea of
centralization,

decentralisation, the ebb and
flow, like 30 years ago, there

were a lot less sales people. In
30 years time, will they just be

roughly the same number as a
ratio of the population? Or are

you, are you saying you think
that there will be just a lot

less in general? Because I think
the job of sales has exploded,

but I think it's exploded
without necessarily having them

backing behind it. So we're
almost returning to the norm.

It's a regression of the mean,
as opposed to now is the

outlier, as opposed to now is
the standard that we're going to

Mark Ackers: stay at. Sales
leaders, I guarantee this, the

forecast you're looking at isn't
accurate. Why? Because your reps

have deals that become stuck in
the pipeline, things like

champion leaving, not being
taken to power competitor enters

the deal at the last minute.
They're ghosting. You imagine if

your reps had access on demand
to support where they could get

one to one deal coaching with
one of our expert coaches.

That's what we provide. Your
reps can use it and.

Proactively. Perhaps they've got
a meeting coming up and they

want to ensure they're putting
their best foot forward. They

can book time with a coach and
prepare for that upcoming

meeting. Or perhaps it's
reactively. There's a snag,

there's a last minute problem.
They need help moving an

opportunity forward. They can
book same day coaching with one

of our expert sales coaches and
get help deal coaching gives

your reps every opportunity to
secure the best outcome and keep

your forecast as accurate as
possible. That's fair. I think

when people talk about there
being less sales people, they

don't. They don't acclimatise
the fact that whether to be more

people. You think last, I'm
going to get this wrong now. But

what maybe last 30 years, the
population has gone up by 2

billion people, something like
that. Who knows, right? But I

remember it being six, it feels
like it's eight now. So you will

have more sales people there,
but I think the onus will be on

removing low performers, mid
performers, giving them the

right tech stack, but focusing
on developing them. And doing

that quickly. You'll have to
hire people that aren't top

performers, but it's how can we
improve their craftsmanship?

Because whilst you can give them
loads of tech stack, prospects

have their own tech stack as
well, and it sort of cancel each

other out, you need to have that
craftsmanship. Well, you're

Scott Cowley: also getting the
idea of, are sales people born

or made? And I'm 100% in anyone
can learn to sell. Now, not

everyone should learn to sell.
But anyone can I have a this is

like a secondhand story, but one
of my I know a recruiter who

just can't read people. He's on
the spectrum, and he just does

not understand facial reactions
and those sorts of things. But

what he did, and he's a super
high performer in his space,

what he did is he learned if I
say x, the response will be y.

If they then say y, and my
response of z will move them

through as we're going. So he
was forced to learn how to sell,

but really he was just forced to
learn how people work. And

that's the example of, like most
people think, that sort of

person who can't read another
person, there's no way they're

going to be able to sell.
Because, as you were saying, a

lot of people think sales is
about people being sell from,

sorry, people buy from people.
In that example, he just learned

a

Mark Ackers: process. Is that
the example that you spoke about

earlier, where you've learned to
sell a product, appreciate

recruitment would be more of a
service, but you can productize

it in this example, where he's
learned the process like you're

talking about. But actually, if
you put him in another

situation, he wouldn't be a
great salesperson. Is that what

you're saying? Probably

Scott Cowley: okay. But if you
think about your question

around, are we only are we? Are
we going to have high performing

sales people? If I'm a business
leader, I don't really care if

my team can sell I care that
they can sell

Mark Ackers: my product, agreed
and that. Because why would you

care about how they sell other
products and services, but very

few businesses have a product
that just sells itself, right?

Like very few, most people have
the kind of problem that you

spoke about with the
cybersecurity firm. People buy

it, but you've got to go out
there and educate people. You've

got to make them aware. Not many
people live this inbound life

order taking. And then you could
argue, well, they don't need to

be great at sales, because it's
the inbound life and it's

ordered. It's order taking.

Scott Cowley: Oh, but I love the
outreach guy. He talks about,

build a product that people just
want to buy and build a sales

team that can sell any product.
If you can get both of those,

you're going to have a unicorn,
like no matter what, which is

really hard to do, by the way,
both independently, building a

product that people just want to
buy with a mediocre sales team,

or building a mediocre product
with a great sales team that's

hard enough to then do both.
That

Mark Ackers: is probably why
it's called a unicorn fair.

Fair. So I want to get to the
why, right? Why do people buy

it? I suppose just before we get
there, we kind of needed to

conclude the start in our tune
story when you got let go for

non performance, when that act
did finally fall and you had

that meeting, it sounds like you
were in a place where you

agreed. You said, Look,

Scott Cowley: I was already
talking to recruiters. I was

already in the process of
leaving. What did you learn

about

Mark Ackers: yourself, though,
when you look back, because it

feels like that might have been
a real penny drop moment for you

that you have to figure out that
why? What did that period of

nine months not selling having
been in the top 10% elsewhere,

what did that teach you about
yourself?

Scott Cowley: There was a lot of
humility that had to come from

that. I also, up until that
point, I was very immature, and

I kind of every role I'd been
in. When I left, I didn't have

any friends left in that
organisation. I burnt bridges

every single job or client I've
subsequently worked with,

literally from that moment, from
when I when I did get fired, I

have a relatively good
relationship with maybe, like

one or two, like a handful, that
there's there's things have gone

wrong, but even when that
happens, I still think I have a

pretty good relationship with
them. So there's a lot of

growing up that I had to do at
that point. And I was in my

early 20s at this point, so I
was still pretty young. But then

also, it just taught me that you
have to deeply understand why

someone is buying your product.
You have to understand I break

it down into three. There's
three Whys most people are

really good at one of. Them, but
it's the last one that they're

really good at.

Mark Ackers: So I've been really
looking forward to talking to

you about the three whys. Let's
just imagine someone listening

doesn't know what what you're on
about. Bring it to life for us,

the three whys, what those three
are. And then let's dive into

why people are only good at one
of them and

Scott Cowley: etc. So the three
whys, and it's from your buyer's

perspective, not from a
salesperson's perspective. Why

buy anything? Why do any change
at all? Because, as we were

talking about earlier, if an
organisation could have their

pain solved without ever talking
to you, let alone buying from

you, they would. So why does
that organisation have to do

anything or buy anything? Why
buy now? Why not last year? Why

not next year? Because if you
don't have to make a decision,

it's just human nature that you
want you'll naturally delay that

decision. And the one that
people are really good at is,

Why buy you? Why buy your
product? And almost everyone

that I work with, they can
answer that third one super

easily. Almost anyone should be
able to answer that third one,

because it's really why, once
you've already decided you want

roughly what you're selling, or
once your buyers decided roughly

what you're selling, why you as
opposed to competitors, all

three of those. But it is in
order to because, if you just

have Why buy now, well, they
haven't even decided they want

to buy anything in the first
place, and no matter how good

your product is, no matter how
painful The problem is that

you're solving, you're still
only solving maybe one, 1% of

their pain, because everyone has
1000s of problems. I deal with

every day, and especially if
you're selling into relatively

senior leadership, if nothing
else, they're recruiting all the

time, and they're worried about
their top performers are going

to leave. You probably don't
solve that problem with your

product, unless you're a
recruitment firm. But like,

you're probably not solving the
number one thing on their mind.

So you have to give them the
number one thing for their

company at the at a minimum. So
why buy anything is by far the

most important. Why do you have
to change it all? Then why buy

now? And the cool thing about
this, I worked with a company

who just got this completely
wrong, and it's a good story

behind it. They were selling to
sporting organisations, and they

were mostly selling to Premier
League teams. That was like, who

they were really going after,
and why buy anything? It was

like this statistics programme
around the players and how to

build a team. Why buy anything?
A lot of them were bought in,

like a lot of the I can't
remember the job title, but a

lot of them were 100% Yep, cool.
We like this. We want this. Why?

By now, they got completely
wrong. The person that I was

working with kept getting the
response from their really an

influencer, not even a buyer.
Our budgets get reset on the

first of, I think first of
August. That's the new Premier

League season, right? Why? By
now they were looking like the

first of August was their thing.
It was also, it was budget

reasons as well. The budgets for
that organisation reset on that

day. But also the transfer
window opened up. However, when

they reached out to every single
one of their buyers, and they

claim to have about four or five
teams ready to go. All the teams

went, Oh no, the budget's
already assigned. So they just

completely messed up the Why buy
now. They had Why buy you like

they're all all of the, let's
call it heads of performance. I

can't remember the exact job
title. We're all on board with

why buy this organization's
product. But they messed up the

Why buy now? And they had to
wait an entire year, well, about

10 months before the budget
conversation came up again, and

they were able to even do this
because it was not a cheap

product. It was not a
discretionary product. They

could have just just purchased,
even when you get why buy

anything? Why buy now is
probably the hardest. It's

probably the one that the buyer
is going to struggle the most to

answer, but it has to be in that
order, because if you don't have

Why buy anything, they're not
even going to entertain you long

enough to get to why buy now.
And if they don't entertain that

long enough, and they have like
that conversation, and they've

got a buying committee, well,
what happens when your your

champion, reaches out to, let's
say it's a CRO they then talk to

the CEO, and they're like, hey,
I want to buy this product. They

go, cool. What are the
alternatives? They go, look to

market, and they find something
else. Why buy you is the moment

you have to drop in there. Maybe
they have to do three tenders or

something like that, so you have
to have a good reason at the end

there. But all three of those
are vital, and they're vital in

that order. And that's kind of
one of the biggest things I

learned from that failed job. I
didn't know why they would buy

anything. I didn't know what the
pain was. That was was big

enough that I never even got to
Why buy now

Mark Ackers: it's a really
interesting example you've just

given. And whilst I don't want
to hone in on this football

example, I think the bigger
point that I'm making is not

understanding your craft, but
you said it earlier, not

understanding how buyers buy in
that in their world, and the

reason the football example,
kind of irritates me. So I'm a

big football fan myself, right?
If I was going to sell into that

market, I would know the
transfer window opens at the

first of August. I would know
the financial fair play, or PSR,

which. Do is about profit and
sustainability rules and

financial fair play, so they
have to spend certain amount of

money each window. I would know
that, and I would think to

myself, well, you're not going
to wait and have a recruitment

meeting on the first of August.
You're gonna be planning who

you're gonna be buying, January,
February, March, maybe even two,

three years out. Like sometimes
football clubs track players for

several years before they buy
them. So it feels like a huge

mistake not knowing how your
company clients or in prospects

buy to get the timeframe wrong.
That feels like actually the

biggest mistake they could be
making.

Scott Cowley: Yeah, and that
idea of understanding the

seasonality of your customer is
huge and understanding. And this

is where, like some businesses,
the seasonality is so easy. HR

tech, for example, they will the
sale will happen in q4 the

implementation will happen in q1
that's just kind of HR tech.

That's how it gets purchased.
When I was selling the yoga

studio management tool, mind
body, if they did not have a big

January, that business didn't
exist at the end of the year. If

they didn't have a big
September, they didn't make any

profit for that year. So
understanding the seasonality of

how that fits in, but as you
said, like they're not buying

the tool on the first of
January. Interestingly enough,

though, because I sold that
product, the mind body online, I

sold that in Australia, and I
sold that in the UK. The

seasonality is the same, which I
thought was super weird, because

it's actually flipped in
Australia, January is summer. In

the UK, January is winter, and
then September, obviously spring

or autumn, depending on but the
January one kind of makes sense.

It's like, okay, New year, new
me, New Year's resolution, gyms

and yoga studios do really well
that time, but September was,

like, totally unintuitive that
it'll be both not 100% why? To

this day, September was always
the time. I've kind of got some

theories, but understanding that
the seasonality of your

customer, and it might not be
intuitive, but you've got to

then also as a seller, and this
is what comes down to honing

your craft. Understand, if
that's the seasonality, when do

they actually have to make the
purchase? When do they actually

have to start the
implementation? Let's say your

product, just as an example, has
a three month pilot, and you

just that's your sales process.
That's what has to happen. So if

someone needs it ready to go by
the first of Jan, at a very

minimum, they need to go start
three months before that. But

really, they're probably gonna
need a month in between the

pilot and the implementation to
do all the paperwork, which

means you need four months,
which we're getting back to,

what October, September,
whatever month it works out to

be. And then think, like, you
probably got to go a month

earlier for budget approvals and
legal red lines. And, like, just

really working out, okay,
someone wants to start on that

day. When do they actually have
to make the decision? It's like,

six months earlier.

Mark Ackers: Do you think most
sales people know the

seasonality of their buyers?

Scott Cowley: Most know the good
ones? Yeah, even if it's just

intuitive, I think a lot of kind
of top performers, maybe not a

lot, but like a decent number of
top performers, just intuitively

learn how to sell that product,
and therefore intuitively learn

the seasonality of it. And then
often they don't change

industries. Because if you think
about recruitment, like if you

change from one recruitment
provider to the to another, and

you're still, I got a friend who
she recruits financial crime. So

she deals with banks. Banks are
the same regardless of whether

she's at whichever company it
is, so like, there, she doesn't

have to learn how to sell, and
she's actually very good at

this, but she doesn't have to
learn how to sell. She only has

to learn how bank seasonality
works from a recruitment

perspective. So you don't
necessarily, yeah, you don't

have to go further, but direct
answer your question, no, I

don't think most understand it
at a deep enough level that they

could then apply it to their
next

Mark Ackers: job. I agree with
you. That's that's the second

one. The first one is, Why buy
anything? Now here's the

challenges that I want to see of
you, if you see as well, is that

requires you to almost challenge
your prospect, push them away,

ask tough questions, almost not
make the happy years assumption

that, ah, we're talking you must
want to buy. This is the why

can't you keep doing what you're
doing? Why? Why would you you

surely wouldn't want to rip out
and replace what you've

currently got. Why not wait six
months like talk to you about

the difficulties that sellers
have with with that around

please.

Scott Cowley: Okay, so I worked
with a dude in Switzerland who

was selling a package that would
allow NGOs to train people where

there was no electricity, like a
projector, Speaker bundle, and

let's just say it's 10,000 euros
he could easily get on the phone

with NGOs, and just like go
through a discovery call and

learn that they deeply had the
problem of, let's say Doctors

Without Borders, or however, the
French, the French pronunciation

is, they drop in a team into,
let's just say Egypt, and

they're going somewhere. Like,
right in the desert, and they're

going to try and train up some
some people out there from a

medical perspective, but there's
no electricity, so this thing

had a portable battery. It had
like, a pop up screen, like all

those sorts of things. The NGOs
loved it. They were like, Yes,

super exciting. He'd then have a
demo so discover quickly, then

have a demo conversation where
they'd go through more details

off the back of that. He then
put together a proposal, which

would take about two hours. And
he needed sign off very small

company. He needed sign off from
the founder for pricing that

whole thing, 30 minute
discovery, hour demo, two hours

of his time, plus a little bit
of sign off from the founder

before they ever had to say,
yes, we're interested. So, like,

instead of thinking about it as
does the buy? Like, do you need

to push the buyer go the other
way? Like, why are you wasting

your time on someone four hours
that's half a working day before

they give you anything? When I
showed him that, and we worked

through that, he was pissed,
because he's dealing like, spend

a lot of time with these tiny
NGOs who, as much as they want

it, they're never going to get
the funding allocated, because

the NGO world, especially the
way that, let's not go down

there, but like, just that's a
hard sell to spend any money on

this product. Even though they
wanted it, they had no idea how

to even get the budget for it.
So he ended up, like, we

basically flipped it around, and
he came back, and he's like,

Yeah, I'm saving two days a week
just not talking to the wrong

people. And also, he looks so
much better to his the founding

team, because he's not pulling
them in all the time to, like,

give approval on stuff that was
never going to close. So instead

of thinking about it from the
buyer's perspective, I always

think about as a seller, is this
person worth your time? Have

they proven that they're worth
your time? And yes, challenge

them, but like, it's your fault
if you go and spend a lot of

time with this person and they
were never qualified in the

first place.

Mark Ackers: So I agree with
everything you said there. I

think we're talking about
different things. What I'm

saying is, when you speak to
let's just say you're speaking

to the right person. Sales
people will struggle, in my

experience, to understand why
they're going to buy versus

because the easiest thing to do
is stick with what you've got,

right? Everyone's got something
in place, whether that's manual,

whether that's whether that's a
competitor, or, yeah, it could

be something like spreadsheets,
right? Whatever, they've got

something in place, or they
don't realise they've got the

pain. My point is, sales people
struggle to go but why would you

change? Why? Why? Why couldn't
you stay the same? And it's

because we don't want to ask
those difficult questions, what

you're talking about. And again,
couldn't agree more is, and I

learned this too late in my
career. But spend your time with

people that can actually buy and
want to buy, I feel unwell when

I think about early in my
career, how many trips to

London, trips out the office.
How many zoom calls I had with

people that simply could never
buy or would never buy, but I

felt like it was my duty to
spend time with them, because

these are the leads I had, the
meetings would be put on for me.

And what I never really, truly
appreciated was, if I fell in

this role, no one's gonna go.
Yeah, but you spent your time

with the wrong people, so don't
worry about it. Yeah, they're

gonna say you've not hit your
number. You've gotten

Scott Cowley: it's one of the, I
mean, even just that last thing,

it's one of the best things
about sales, and the worst

things about sales as as a
career, it's really clear

whether you're achieving your
goal or not, whereas. And then

the best thing about that is it
means it's also really easy to

get paid a lot, because it's
directly attributable. If you

contribute a million quid, okay,
you're easily worth 100 maybe

200,000 pounds, if not more. And
I'm talking cost here, as

opposed to salary. Whereas you
go the other way, and it's like,

okay, you work in the customer
support team. How much value did

you actually attribute to the
bottom line of the business?

It's really hard to measure. And
even if you're the absolute best

support tech on the planet, are
you going to contribute nearly

as much as a salesperson who put
a million quid on the bottom

line? I mean, maybe, but, like,
it's so hard to make that

argument where if the sales team
just goes, yeah, cool, we added

a million pounds, super easy.
But the other side is it's so

measurable, if you don't sell
anything, which I did, once

you're not giving the ROI to the
business, you're going to be

gone pretty quickly, whether
voluntary or involuntary. So

it's one of the one of the best
parts and worst parts about

sales. Where

Mark Ackers: did you learn this
stuff? Like, obviously you had

your penny dropping moment when
you had to figure out the why.

Why do people buy but you've
obviously got on the journey

where you've learned the three
whys. You've created your own

frameworks. How did you go from
being let go for non

performance, and I appreciate
you were successful before that,

but from being let go for non
performance to being able to sit

here today and really have such
a strong grasp on selling your

own frameworks, your own
approach. How did you learn all

this? So

Scott Cowley: the probably the
easiest answer, is books and

then applying it, reading a lot
and then trying to apply it as

well as, like, I'm one of those
weird people that always knew I

was going into sales. Like, I
decided at about 15 I was going

to go into sales. I ended up
getting an accounting degree

because I was following the Tim
Ferriss advice of get two skills

that don't normally go together,
and then put them together so I

can read a balance sheet like
anyone's business, and I can

build a cash flow statement. But
then I always wanted to go into

sales. And the way that I ended
up learning that it's both on

the job, I don't think you can
learn sales from a textbook, but

you do have to. You do have to
be open to new ideas and

understand that your ideas are
never going to be as, not

necessarily as good, but like as
varied as if you go and read a

book from someone else. So read
a book, then apply it. I'm

actually a really big believer,
and I try and push a lot of my

coaches and my clients, to make
one change every day, if you

like it, keep the change at the
end of the day, if you don't

revert back, if you do that
every working day, that's 200

changes you've made your sales
process by the end of the sorry,

200 changes in a year, your
sales process is going to be

completely different every
single year, but it's only going

to get better, because you're
only keeping the ones that make

sense. So I think it's really
important, as I say, read the

books, listen to the podcasts.
I've done a number of courses.

I'm a big fan of Benjamin
Dennehy, UK's most hated sales

trainer, big fan of his. I just
finished gap selling by Keenan.

That was awesome, the number one
book, and I've given this book

away at least a dozen times, if
not more. Is Jeffrey Gitomer the

Ultimate Sales Bible.

Mark Ackers: I think it's just
called the sales Bible. Sales

Bible, black book. Yeah, yeah,
no,

Scott Cowley: it's blue. This
one, the latest 120, 15, is

blue. He's got a bunch of them.
I'm a big fan of that. So what I

and what I did with that one?
This is when I I first learned

to sell I would read one chapter
of his, because the way he

builds his books, he writes a
column, and then he basically

takes 50 columns and rewrites
them a little bit and puts it

into a book. So he writes a
column every week for a

newspaper. So it's very, very
digestible, maybe two pages

worth of content, maybe four at
most, read it and try and

implement it that day. That's
that's how I think that's the

only way to learn sales, because
it's not academic, or it's not

something you can learn without
actually applying. So you've got

it, you've got to actually be
selling as well. I don't know if

I answered

Mark Ackers: your question
there. No, you definitely

answered the question in the
sense of, you've taken it into

your own hands, right? You've
gone out there and you've looked

for content in a way in which
you can digest it and understand

it. The penny for me that I'm a
few years older than you, just

the fact that I read that sales
Bible by Jeffrey Germer a number

of years before.

Scott Cowley: Yeah, I had the
original because I got it before

2015 and then since then, it's
always been the 2015 one. But I

love that

Mark Ackers: book. No, I it was
what think, I think it was the

first sales book I ever read.
And I remember reading on

holiday and someone took the
piss army, like, just someone in

the pool, because, yeah, the
sales Bible and they and I

remember like, just looking at
him, thinking, well, this book's

amazing. Like, you know what
you're about, but it was just

some old blown took the piss out
of me for it. But anyway, my

point being, you go out, you
found content, you digest it.

Here's the here's the bit that
people don't do, though, and

anyone listen to this podcast
will be able to relate to this.

How many times do you hear
something, read something? Think

that's a great idea? Yeah, maybe
even on this podcast. And I

suppose that's the one dynamic.
People listen to this are doing

that already, because they're
already because they're already

listening to the podcast. How
many times you hear a good idea

and think that's a good idea,
I'm going to do something, and

then you never, ever do it. And
that's the bit that you're

talking about, the most
important bit, putting it into

practice. And that's where I
found coaching is the most

effective way. So talk about
your experience. Obviously,

you're a coach with my sales
coach, and you've done that for

a long time, but what about
being coached yourself to be

held accountable and put things
into practice. Coaching

Scott Cowley: and the
accountability element, some

people need different things out
of coaching. Me. Personally, I

have my own coach, and he's not
actually a sales guy, but he

very much holds me accountable
to every session. Okay, what are

you actually going to do after
this, what's your one thing? And

even I was the coach to one of
the my sales coach team just

before recording this, and we
talked about a lot of things.

And I said, okay, cool. Now
you've you've got a sales call

in nine minutes. Which one are
you going to apply, and how are

you going to apply it? And she
said, we're going to do this.

And I said, Cool, then let's do
it right now, and you roleplay

it together. But then I think
the hardest part about coaching,

from a coachees perspective, is
it can be anything like my coach

is a is more of a life coach,
even though I kind of hate that

term, but he's, he's more of a
life coach than anything else.

We kind of just have a
conversation and it ends with,

so what are you actually going
to do from here? As long as you

actually have that conversation,
it triggers something, and

you're typically more likely to
take action, especially if you

then commit to it. It's like,
how are you going to apply that?

Well, I'm going to get this to
you by this day at this time,

and then if you don't, well,
there's a huge. When you're

talking to that's responsible to
say, Hey, Scott, you said you

were going to do this. You have
my number on WhatsApp. Why

didn't you do it?

Mark Ackers: Give me some ideas
when you've given people that

change. One thing change. What
are some of the changes that you

see people make to kind of
inspire people listening to this

Scott Cowley: podcast? Yeah, a
big one is what I call the

Sunday night test. And this is
like, I'm almost certain I came

up with this, but let's be
honest, Nothing is new under the

sun. Most people that I work
with in the sales world, they

don't actually talk to their
customers in language their

customer needs to hear. So I'll
make that real for you. Do you

know what a widget is? I would
think so it's if you crack a can

of Guinness. Oh no, oh, thing,
oh sorry, yes, busy. That's what

a widget is, right? I thought,
you know, like a widget on a

dashboard? No, that's my point.
The it's not the original, but

like that, that physical thing
is actually called a widget in

the Guinness. Can in the
Guinness, or any, any soft drink

that adds

Mark Ackers: Guinness, can't
taste nice in Australia. No,

Scott Cowley: it's different.
It's different. But then again,

it's not as good in the UK,
Scotland. No, go to Dublin, and

it's

Mark Ackers: just going there
next month. I can't wait. Yeah,

it's amazing. Anyway, sorry,
totally off track. So that's

Scott Cowley: what a widget is,
actually, that thing inside a

Guinness can but could you take
a synonym for that is a gadget.

Now, if you walk into the
Guinness factory and you start

talking about gadgets, kind of
the same thing. Gadget,

etymologically, comes from
widget. It's the same root for

that word. But if you're talking
at cross purposes, they're not

hearing you, and every time you
say gadget, they're like, What

is he talking about? And you're
talking about the widget. So the

Sunday night test, the first and
most important thing to remember

about it is you've got to talk
to your customers in their

language, the way they need to
hear it. It's not about being

accurate with information from
your perspective. It's about

being for them hearing you
specifically. Now, what actually

is it? It's Imagine your
customer is lying awake on a

Sunday night at 2am in a cold
sweat, and they are dealing with

the pains that you solve. How
are they describing that pain to

themselves, and exactly what
language are they using? And I

mean, I can probably give you an
example. I don't imagine that my

sales coach prospects are
actually thinking, we need

coaching. They're probably
thinking, maybe one angle is,

why is my team underperforming?
Maybe another angle is, how do I

support my absolute top
performers to get even better?

They're not thinking, I need my
team to get some coaching. So

the Sunday night test then leads
into when you're cold calling

someone. Hey, we sell coaching.
Oh, cool. I don't need coaching.

Hang up. Hey, we help top
performers get even better. Oh,

I'm intrigued. Let's keep
talking. So if there's one thing

you can change, it's really
deeply. Get into the Sunday

night test on the pitch that you
have. Does it pass? Does your

audience actually think about
the problem that you solve and

use the language that you're
already using with them? Because

again, if you walk into the
Guinness factory and start

trying to sell them a better way
of doing that little thing, and

you keep saying the gadget
inside your cans, even if they

like cognitively understand it,
they've got to think about it,

because it's actually called a
widget.

Mark Ackers: You've signed your
team up to another E Learning

course. You've hired a trainer
to come in and run a workshop.

But guess what? Six months
later, pipeline and performance

is still lumpy, my sales coach
turns learning into doing. We

evaluate everyone on your team,
we identify with real data the

critical gaps that are holding
them back, and then we remedy

it. We match each person to
their dream coach and provide

consistent one to one coaching
to help them fulfil their

potential and hit the number
less one size fits all,

training, more personalised
support, which results in the

growth of your team. That's
predictable sales execution.

That's my sales coach. I love
the Sunday night test. I have a

similar version of that, where
it's your prospect comes home

for dinner and they've had a bad
day. How do they moan to their

partner? Yeah, here's the
problem that sales reps have

with this. It's twofold. One,
most sellers have never done the

job of the person they're
selling to, yep, so they can't

truly understand their world.
But secondly, when you think

about how lots of organisations
onboard sales reps come and

spend time with the tech team.
So the tech team do what

technical people do, and they
tell the sales person all the

technical knowledge, how to
build reports, how to customise,

how to log in, password resets,
dashboards, data, widgets,

gadgets, etc, glance up with the
marketing team. Well, the

marketing team will give you all
the marketing buzzwords of the

product and how it works, and
awards they've won, and why

they're so great, how they stack
up to the competition. You'll

then spend time with other
people across the business, and

they will continue to speak to
you in their language, in their

world, which is very much
organisation language, right?

It's their own internal
vocabulary that they've created

over a period of time. What
rarely happens is someone sits

down. Of a salesperson goes, let
me tell you all about the person

you selling to, their world,
their language, and that's why

so many pitches when you go out
to the three Whys why us? I know

you're right. When you say out
of those three things, people

get that one right. The most
people still mess that one up,

because they, of course, all
they do is talk about

themselves. And that's why so
many pictures aren't using the

language of the prospect.
They're using technical

language, marketing language
jargon, and it confuses people.

I had a cold call today, and if
you think this should be just

something that's easy to say yes
to, for me, it's someone that's

based in this city, in
Newcastle, I still they've

called me twice now I still
don't know the name of their

business, and both phone calls,
I've said from where, sorry,

I've still not clarified,
Phil's. I don't want to feel

stupid and ask for a third time
on each call, because prospects

don't do that. But all I could
get out of this individual was

that it's something to do with
data, something to do with

making it streamlined so we can
use AI on it, right? I haven't

got a bloody clue what that
does. It makes no sense to me.

Whereas, if they would have
said, look, and spoke in my

language about a problem that
would resonate me and led with,

I'm just around the corner. Do
you fancy meeting for a coffee?

That's really hard to say no to.
It's a local business. He's the

co founder of the business.
Feels like someone that would be

good to meet, but the phone call
that I had a couple of weeks ago

than the one I had chasing up
today, which isn't all about

like data and infrastructure, it
just doesn't speak in my

language, and that's where it
goes wrong. So that kind of ties

to your point. We are seeing so
many reps fail at what you'd

call the Sunday night test.
We're not enabling them in the

right

Scott Cowley: way. You're right.
And if you think from a business

perspective, you can do the
enablement, but from an

individual perspective, my
answer would be, that's nice,

and it's not your fault. That's
the way the training is, but the

numbers still your
responsibility. Go talk to some

customers, like, how hard can it
be find your auntie's best mate

who happens to be in the
industry, and just spend an hour

with them? Just like, hey, how
do you think about this? Have

you ever heard of this company?
But

Mark Ackers: this is a
difference, isn't it, Scott,

this is the people that see sows
as something they've fallen

into. They see sales as a thing
that they do, and they don't

have accountability. They don't
take responsibility for their

results. They lack the
motivation desire, they lack the

commitment. And again, people
listening to podcasts don't fall

into that bracket, right?
Because they're already doing

something about it. But you're
right. It's about Turton

Academy, but I think it comes
back down to that mindset of

imposter syndrome, need for
approval, reaching out, having

those conversations, almost
admitting I need help, I don't

know. I'm trying to learn, and
that's very difficult for people

Scott Cowley: to do. It's also
really difficult when you're in

the company like and you've been
there for a year or two or

three, to go to actually admit
that to yourself, let alone

admit that to the organisation.
Because could you imagine

someone and some leaders would
be more receptive to this? I

imagine you'd be more receptive
because this is still a small

business. It's on its way up,
but it's still pretty small. But

could you imagine working for a
fortune 500 as a sales rep and

going to your leadership and
going, I don't really understand

what we do. I don't fully get
it. Can I go talk to some

customers? I can't see anyone
ever doing that. So there's,

there's almost a like, you have
to do it by stealth, and you

have to decide that sales is a
career as well as a profession,

as opposed to it's a job. Did

Mark Ackers: you do any of that
in those nine months when you

weren't selling? No, and is it
for reasons you've said,

Scott Cowley: I had a lot of
growing up to do before that

role. So, yeah, it's a really
good point. I didn't do that. I

do it now. I definitely do it
now if I need to, but I'm also

my audience. I just love talking
to them. I just have friends in

this space. It's kind of just
what I do. So I can also

empathise with someone who's
like, Man, I sell tables. I

don't like the people that buy
my product. I don't really want

to go and spend time with them.
I can kind of kind of empathise

with that. And table is just a
random example. But like so many

sales jobs, I get it like it's
not an interesting thing. It's

not a sexy thing to be selling.
But at the same time, I just

come back to do you want to be
good at your job? And if you do,

then you got to put the effort
in. It's a profession. So one of

my clients right now is a an E
Learning product for

accountants, and specifically
all accountants, that is an

actual profession. You have to
be to call yourself an

accountant, you have to have a
qualification, and you have to

keep doing continuous
professional CDP, CPD, whatever

the acronym is. She then sells a
product that makes doing those

hours easy, but ultimately, like
everyone who treats their

business as a profession has to
put the time in. I know also one

of the other coaches here who I
have a lot of time for, Neil,

when he was either an SDR or an
SDR manager, he used to put time

aside during the nine to five
and. To go and do his own

research into the industry, into
sales techniques, a couple hours

a week. It wasn't a lot, but it
was still enough time. So you

can do this in a nine to five
but you have to decide that it's

a profession, it's not a job.
Because if you think about it,

if you're if you're a barista.
Now, some people treat that as a

profession, I'd say 90 to 95% if
not higher, treated as a job.

You don't really need new
training. If you're a barista,

if you know how to use the
machine, you know how to you

don't have to go and do it, and
you can do your job really,

really well. That's just not
true in sales. If you want to be

really good at this job, it is
always changing, but also you

need to always be growing,
because if you're not, someone

else is going to be growing, and
they're going to beat you to it,

and especially if you always
want to stay as an individual

contributor, which I think most
people want to stay there. Like,

my first management job did not
end well, and it kind of burned

me. I never really wanted to
manage people again.

Subsequently, like, I got forced
back into it, because that's

kind of the direction my career
is going. And it took a lot of

soul searching, and I read a few
books, and I, like, I had to do

a lot of work on myself to go,
okay, I can actually be a good

manager. And then I added in as
a question to all of my team,

like, start, stop, continue.
What am I doing that? What am I

not doing? You want me to start
doing? What am I doing that you

want me to stop doing? Like,
you're like, hey, this, I hate

this. What do you want me to
continue doing? Because I don't,

I don't know everything, and
every person is different, and

that's obviously in the sales
world of like, being a leader

within sales, but that's true
with your prospects as well.

Like, there's things that you
need to learn, that you're doing

that you need to stop doing.
There's things you need to learn

that you that you need to start
doing, and there's things you're

pretty good at that you want to
continue doing, but they never,

as you said, they're never going
to give you that feedback

directly. So you have to
experiment. That's where the one

experiment a day comes in the
market will tell you, if you do

enough reps that you're going in
the right direction. And if you

exactly like that guy who's cold
calling, like, let's also take a

second, he's actually doing the
dials, and he's following up, so

he's doing the initial work,
which is the bit that a lot of

people don't do to begin with.
Then he needs to hone it. He

needs to experiment. Change his
pitch a little bit, see what

happens. As you said, if he had
have said it in one certain way,

that'll work for you. You got to
remember, though you're only one

prospect, he might be killing it
with the rest of his audience

the way he's reaching out to
them. He probably isn't. But

like most organisations, if you
if you look at most pipelines,

odds are any one person that the
sell seller talks to will not

close. Let's say you got a 30%
close rate. That's one in three

people who even make it to an
opportunity will buy from you.

So two out of three won't. So no
matter what you do, you got to

remember you're starting from a
baseline of this probably won't

work, but if you don't try it,
it definitely won't work. That

whole idea of the enemy of the
great is good. That was

Mark Ackers: interesting when
you spoke about raising your

hand internally, saying, Look, I
don't understand. I need help.

I'll tell you where that really
plays out. One when you just

hired someone. Yeah, you can
easily do it then, well, you say

that, it can be difficult. To
say, Look, you know the job, he

was hired before. I don't know
if I'm any good at it, right? It

can be, can I go and speak to
customers, but to say I'm

struggling or don't quite get it
can be different. But the one

where I see it the most is and
this, this is what always seems

to happen, is top performers get
promoted into a manager role.

Yeah, yep. Now, here's the
thing, it's totally different

job. Yeah, they're not, they're
not the same skill set at all,

and that's where it's difficult
to go. You just promoted me to a

manager role. I don't know how
to do it, and you obviously

alluded to it there. Your first
manager role didn't end. Well,

what? What happened there?

Scott Cowley: I was a top
performer. It was, yeah, top

performer. I moved to the UK to
become a sales manager at mind

body. That was the reason didn't
stay in Australia. I Australia.

Also, the Rugby World Cup was
on, and I always wanted to go to

a World Cup, 2003 Rugby World
Cup 15. Oh, okay, yeah, where

Australia made the final? This
is where I show my age again,

because that's when England beat
Australia in the 2003 final.

See, I'm thinking of the one
where Australia knocked out

England in the pool. Yeah, I
forgot about that one. But no, I

came over for that and also to
there was no manager role in

Australia, but I knew that was
the next step, a little bit

though. I I pushed too hard, too
young. I was a good seller of

mind body. I was not a good
salesperson. I was also very

young, so I got into that role,
and I kind of didn't understand

what management actually was.
And the guy who was mentoring me

on the way in the UK, some
things happened in his life, and

he actually left the country
pretty soon after I was promoted

there wasn't really good now, I
have to give them credit,

though, there was an in house
trainer, and I spent every week

I spent an hour one on one with
him. So like, they really tried.

They actually did the opposite
of what most organisations do.

They had training just for us
managers. They also had, I had

one on one support. That guy
also had written a book on this

and was doing a PhD in coaching
and training. So like mind body,

really, I had all the tools. I
still as a manager. I failed. I

wasn't very good at the
management thing. And. Um, these

days, I've had to learn skills,
and I've had to I've also read a

lot of books. I also the first
management role where I think I

succeeded. I found a great
leader. I was working for an

organisation where the CEO, when
I was head of sales, he just

knew what he was doing when it
came to managing people. So I

think that one of the lessons to
take away from this is, go find

mentors. Go find people who are
one or two steps ahead of you,

ideally, and work with them. And
other people have already been

on this journey. Like, let's be
honest, there's not that much

new going on. Most things are
they've been solved before. They

just haven't been solved by you
in the exact way. So like, There

are mentors out there who can
help, or coaches out there who

can directly help with the
problem you've got.

Mark Ackers: Here's the
interesting you don't even need

to go and find a mentor or coach
anymore, because there is a

company out there that will
match you to your perfect sales

coach and mentor in my sales
coach, and you could be one of

their coaches that they get
matched to. And that probably

brings us to a nice sort of
concluding chapter. You spend

your time working with many
people, but one of your key

areas is working with founders
that aren't natural sales people

or consider themselves sales
people, and that's really your

passion. What's the fastest
mindset shift that founders that

aren't sales people need to make
when they start working with

Scott Cowley: you, the first
shift is that anyone can be a

salesperson. Do you truly
believe that anyone, anyone can,

not everyone should, but anyone
can. And if you, if you are a

founder of a business that
requires sales and you want the

business to succeed, you

Mark Ackers: have to learn to
sell. Is it easier, though?

Founder led selling? No,

Scott Cowley: it's not easier.
It's different. As a founder,

when you've been doing it for a
few years, you are a true

industry expert. You're not
really a salesperson. Now, the

bit that is easier is when you
get in the room and you have the

title of founder or CEO, people
listen when you get in the room

and you have the title of SDR or
sales person, you have to earn

the right so it is very
different, but you got to

remember, founders, sales is
only one of their jobs. It's the

most important one, because a
business without revenue is just

a hobby, but it's still only one
of their jobs. So I wouldn't

necessarily say it's easier,
because they don't get nearly as

many reps to try new stuff, but
directly, the number one thing

that they have to change to
begin with is anyone can learn

to sell, and you've put yourself
in a position where you either

learn or your business doesn't
survive. That's that's the long

and the

Mark Ackers: short of it. And
what's the difference? Then, if

you believe anyone can sell, but
doesn't mean they should, what's

the difference between those
that shouldn't, shouldn't. It's

a

Scott Cowley: life choice. So in
this context, especially if

you've chosen a path that
requires sales, you either have

to get good at it, or the
business doesn't exist. That's

kind of burning the boats.
That's the whole idea of you've

backed yourself into a corner.
That person has to learn how to

sell. And if you've chosen a
sales job and you actually want

this thing to work. Because the
cool thing about sales is every

sale is slightly different,
especially when you get into

decent sized kind of the 10k
plus deals, as opposed to

selling something on the street,
where it's just a repeat that's

the same thing time and time
again. There is a skill set

there. But every sale to a in a
B to B context is an edge case,

because otherwise they wouldn't
need you as a salesperson. They

just solve it themselves. And
that's the example. If we go

back right to the beginning, I
change electricity providers

without talking to anyone,
because I don't need any

information. I don't need
anything from them. I'm

literally just switching
something over. So if you're

actually going to require sales
people every single sales a

slight edge case. So you're
always learning to answer your

question really directly if you
choose to do it, and I

appreciate that this is a very
high agency answer, but if you

choose to do it, then do it. But
you don't have to choose to do

it. Just like, let's be honest,
you don't have to learn how to

swim. If you're in Australia,
don't go to the beach if you

don't know how to swim, but you
don't have to go to the beach,

so you don't have to learn to
swim, but everyone can learn how

to swim. Yeah, I'm happy with
that answer.

Mark Ackers: Great. What is, and
we'll wrap with this, Scott,

what is the one thing that you
wished you'd learned earlier in

your sales career?

Scott Cowley: Oh, there's too
many. The one thing would be,

buyers. Buy. Sales people
influence. So another way of

phrasing that a sales person
doesn't decide when a sale

happens, only the buyer does. In
fact, that's a positive. If the

sales person could decide, every
salesperson will say, Well, I

don't want to talk to them. I
just want them to buy and credit

it to my name, which means the
profession doesn't need to

exist. So the biggest thing that
I I wish I had to learn a lot

younger, is that it's not about
me as the seller. The seller is

merely an influencer who's
supporting a buyer, but the

buyer actually decides to buy or
not. The seller doesn't decide

for them. And once you learn
that, it kind of opens up. It's

never about. You at the end of
the day, it's about them, and

therefore, be the guide, be the
influence that they need. But if

you push them at the wrong time,
they're just going to say no,

and that's okay. So like really
understanding that ultimately

the buyer is the one who makes
the decision. The seller just

helps. And

Mark Ackers: this is where it
comes back to understanding

seasonality, understanding why
buy anything at all, why now it

all ties really nicely. Scott,
I've loved this chat that we've

had. I think we've covered a lot
of ground, again, probably only

a fraction of the things that I
wanted to cover with you, but

it's been great to have you
here. Thanks. You're definitely

going to stand long in the test
of time of travelled service to

be on the podcast. I know he's a
record that will live a long

time with you, but yeah, thanks
for coming on, and I'm looking

forward to we're heading out
tonight, right? Been a pleasure.

You.