The Built To Win Podcast

In this episode of the Built to Win Mini Podcast, host Luke Mccluskey sits down with Tom Benjamin, the founder of The Bagel Project, to discuss the mindset required for success in the competitive world of entrepreneurship. Tom shares his inspiring journey from professional rugby player to business owner, revealing how he has scaled his bagel empire from an initial investment to five thriving stores in just a few short years. With a goal of reaching 20 stores before an eventual exit, Tom emphasizes the importance of resilience, discipline, and a willingness to embrace failure as a stepping stone to success.

During their candid conversation, Tom reflects on the pressures of entrepreneurship, the internal dialogues that fuel his drive, and the significance of consistency in achieving one's goals. He candidly discusses his early fears of failure, his evolution in mindset, and how he learned to delegate effectively as his business grew. Tom's insights on balancing passion with practicality and the necessity of a strong support team provide valuable lessons for anyone looking to navigate the challenges of building a successful brand.

  • (00:00) - - Introduction to Built to Win Podcast
  • (01:30) - - Guest Introduction: Tom Benjamin
  • (02:45) - - Tom’s Journey and Business Goals
  • (04:15) - - Mindset and Handling Pressure
  • (06:00) - - Internal Dialogue and Risk Management
  • (08:20) - - Fear of Failure vs. Drive to Succeed
  • (10:15) - - Lessons from Playing Professional Rugby
  • (12:00) - - Working Hard Under Pressure
  • (13:45) - - Delegating and Managing Stress
  • (15:30) - - The Importance of Work Ethic
  • (17:00) - - Finding Balance in Life and Work
  • (19:15) - - Non-negotiable Habits for Success
  • (21:00) - - Motivation During Low Points
  • (23:00) - - Separating High Performers from Others
  • (25:15) - - Vision for Building the Bagel Brand
  • (27:30) - - Learning from Setbacks and Failures
  • (29:15) - - Navigating Difficult Times in Business
  • (31:00) - - The Appeal of Bagels and Market Opportunity
  • (33:15) - - Resilience: Built or Wired?
  • (35:00) - - Reflection on Success and Failure
  • (37:30) - - The Addictiveness of Winning
  • (39:00) - - Finding and Building Purpose
  • (41:30) - - Habits Everyone Should Adopt
  • (43:00) - - Worst Advice in Business
  • (45:15) - - The Importance of Taking Risks
  • (47:00) - - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
  • (48:30) - - Closing Remarks and Future Plans

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welcome to another episode of the build to win podcast

today I am joined by Tom Benjamin good to have you on

so Tom is the founder of The Bagel Projects

founded it in 2023 scaled organically

from initial investment to currently five stores

with a goal to get to 20 stores

and then an exit

have I missed anything no

no no

that's good cool

perfect but um

so today we wanna talk about mindset pressure

discipline and all that stuff

all that stuff that makes you successful

um so uh

let's just kick on okay

cool into it okay

so when you've obviously taken risks right

yeah when everything is on the line

everything is on the line

you know financials reputation

all of that stuff

what does your internal dialogue sound like

I think you've got a just like back yourself

I think that's the biggest thing that I've always done

is I

I kind of eliminate risk by saying the worst thing is

you know as long as you're not getting yourself

in crazy amount of debt

I lose all the money I can go again

and I think I just break it down like that every time

that's like the easiest bench up for me yeah

if I lose all the money I can go again

and I think once you look at it like that

and money's not like a real tangible thing that you

hundred percent need and decisions you make

the better decisions you don't have to apply that risk

that people say might be too risky

I just think well so worst thing the upside out no yeah

yeah if if if it doesn't work and I lose

then I lose and I can just go again but if I win

the upside is a lot bigger than

me sat here and doing nothing

just like fair well

actually that's one of my later questions

but I'm gonna just ask a question now um

are you driven by well I think you just answered it

but are you more driven by the buzz

of the drive to succeed yeah

or the fear of failure

I think beginning it was fear to fail

like I didn't want to fail like a

I started off I used to play like professional Rugby

okay so I was in a big environment where if you failed

you got dropped hmm

you can't fail you can't get dropped

so I kind of applied that early when I started as in

I can't fail whereas now I'm very relaxed

like I actually

I hope I do fail a few times because I feel like you

I know it's really cliche to to think to say

but on the things that I failed on

I've learnt so much 100% to where we are now yeah

I almost think

if I hadn't have had those real bad times

or real bad failures in

in the sense of looking at it as a failure

then I wouldn't be where I am today

so I'm actually really grateful for for failure

so when all I am yeah it really doesn't um

it doesn't faze me like it used to yeah yeah

I was really scared of failure

whereas now I just think

be driven back yourself and I know it's coming yeah

yeah you you can't you can't yeah um

you can't win everything you do no

all your ideas all your innovations

all that stuff that you're gonna do yeah

some of it is just gonna fall on its ass yeah

and some of it is gonna absolutely fly

but somewhere in the middle

you find the balance of growth

definitely

that's really into I didn't realise that you um

you played professional Rugby who did you play for

so I was at Nottingham

I did a bit of Bedford and then yeah

I came up through like Cardiff Met um

so I played at university there for three years yeah

and then yeah

I came so nice high standards it was good fun yeah yeah

it was good good stuff what

what do you do differently

when the stakes are at that absolute highest

yeah I think for me

I probably work like I know as hard as I can

like I'll

just work every hour that I physically can

and be committed to what I'm trying to achieve

I feel like if I work as hard as I can

and it still doesn't work

at least you can look at yourself and be like

you know there's no question of we

at least you didn't put the work in

so that's the biggest thing for me

I'm just making sure that I am working to my limit

and now I guess

I'm better at delegating and splitting the task down

whereas before I take everything on

we're expanding obviously quite quickly now

before I take the full fit out and brand in

our launch strategy everything would be me internally

I would work on it whereas now I'm kind of

we've meet and I'll divvy bits out

and I think that's helping me get better

whereas I used to just take it all off yeah

you start meddling as well yeah

the trouble is when you do delegate yes

you start thinking do it like that's that's

that's a tough bit

but you gotta let people come through

hundred percent you gotta let people come through um

okay have you ever felt like you were going to like

break with stress and what did you do in that moment

I probably just carried on working to be honest

early on that's like we used to have a

we had a cocktail bar

and then I was opening the Bagel Projects where

I was working till 2:00am

getting up at 6:00am a bit to bake

like to roll to open the store

and that was probably the point where

you know you thought you're gonna break

and for me I just think

I feel like when you look back

and I think that I don't know how you got through that

but at the time

it just felt like it was a necessary evil

I had to do to get through

so where does this work effort come from

I'm not I actually don't know

like I'd say maybe my mum's obviously been a

you know

she's come all the way up through food manufacturing

I started as a food technician

went all the way through to like CEO

yeah obviously huge company

I think seeing you know

that in quite a male dominated industry

her do that's pretty incredible

I don't I

at school I was

I didn't really have a great work ethic

I think in Rugby

I probably rely maybe more on talent than work

but I think in business I felt like I was very under

maybe

I didn't have the skills that was necessary to succeed

so you make up for it so I make up for it by work

that's probably where I've got to with that

it's crazy isn't it

yeah it's crazy

cause I I similar to you

I just I just couldn't get through school

hmm and get my head down

it just didn't it didn't work with my brain

but when there's something that you're interested in

and it's exciting

then you get into that hyper focus mode and it's like

nah like this is all exciting

I know it it you it's the old set yeah

100% yeah

it's probably

I think I've got quite an addictive personality

like business for me is so I just find it so addictive

so I think that's why I enjoy it yeah

yeah and I I you know

if you enjoy what it's it's clear show right

if you enjoy what you do you never work a day yeah

you probably not seeing it as work yeah

no I don't

and I always say that to like my friends

and now you know that I know works works shit

whatever I'm like I just don't

I just think I get to surround myself

with people that I wanna be around

and then we get to build something really cool

from an idea to a brand

that's like what excites me and what I enjoy yeah

nice OK

in your in your opinion what do you think separates

people who perform under pressure

and people who don't I think it is a mindset

and I think you either have

I think you should motivate a factor

I think I used to motivate myself by saying

you're not good enough to be here

and that was my motivation

whereas now I motivate myself by saying

you are good enough you just gotta go and

step on and prove yourself for the next level

and if I feel like you gotta be fighting an internal

dialogue to push yourself through that pressure

and some people crack and say it's too hard

I'll turn away hmm

if you don't have something internally driving you

that's where I think and what is it that drives you

I think now

I wanna build the biggest bagel brand in the UK

that's the goal

like aside from financials and anything like

you know

I want that's my goal and I think we can achieve it

I think being able to do that from

just to start rolling you know

physically making the bagels myself to do that

to see where we are and

you know we're getting into position where

speaking to potential investment

to be able to drive us to that next

that next stage I think that's my biggest goal

and that's what drives me

and was that always there

I don't think so in terms of like a business sense now

I think we started off so I started off with bars open

the first bar just before covid uh

as I was playing Rugby as well

and that was very much like this

I was like I'm getting to run a business

but I'm also getting to drink with my mates perfect

but the business acumen of it didn't really come in

and I think maybe as I stopped playing Rugby

and I didn't have that passion

I lost all of you know

like from like 12 all the way through to like 24

I was playing Rugby to a high standard

and then like I just had to finish doing that

losing all of that time that I had

and then I think found like a huge passion for business

and then just kept developing and developing

and like we do multiple things

clothing brand and a few other bits that

that we do just because I love it

like I find like it's just yeah

it's such a passion for me

do you have much of a social life now

a little bit um

more I imagine my

my girlfriend would probably say

we could have been a bit more

but yeah I feel like I'm trying to find a balance

but I do think that the balance is really difficult

and I I think when it's a passion

and something that you absolutely love

I don't think you wanna be away from it

rest of the hand yeah

that's the thing and I really enjoyed it

so doesn't seem like a

it's not a task for me to go and do it yeah

okay fair

what what what are the non negotiable habits that um

have driven your success

I think in terms of being like disciplined

finding routine and keeping yourself accountable

obviously you all know I guess

it in the sense of

if you say you didn't turn up to work today

but no one's gonna you know

say that what what why aren't you in work

like you you control it yourself

I think that's the same for me

but my internal thing is like

you have to turn up every day

you have to show up

you have to do this just making them non negotiables

you find in times you know

you have pretty low motivation points and you feel like

I'm not motivated but if you just stick in the routine

and you have your habit

you just get through it and you know

you look back on like three weeks and you're like god

I really didn't maybe wanna be in work

or I wasn't that motivated

but having that routine

and having those habits just drives you to

catches your fault when yeah

motivation 100% yeah

and then when you're super motivated

it's like you've got everything lined up and you yeah

yeah so when

when when when the motivation is is low and you know

you got cause we all get sometimes like where it's like

you know I could just have a day after that

but you don't what is it that's

that's that's that's getting you in

I think it's just that internal

you know we want the big

I wanna create the biggest brand and I want to do that

and to achieve it you have to turn up daily

I think for me it's about showing the team that

you know if they ever think that oh

you know I would hate to see my like boss or whatever

not turning up to work

or taking a half day or choosing

picking and choosing I'm very much like

I wanna show them that

this is a standard that I'm setting then

you know

hopefully that then drives everyone along along with me

so I think they're all the bits of playing to it

when I'm not moving yeah

I love that I absolutely love that

and what do you do consistently

that most people wouldn't have the discipline for

I think just like consistently working

and consistently trying to be better

like every single day

I know it's between like hospitality

but in terms of the bagels

I will looking at

every little bit of detail on how we get better

that's 100% how we get better

and then I think for myself

I'm now looking at how I can have a better routine

to make sure I'm eating better sleeping

training like all the things that when I started out

I wasn't doing I'm like

well no wonder I felt burnt out

feel like

now I can work at a pretty consistently high level

sustain it because I'm looking after my body

yeah it's like

you know not just putting work is 100% focus

because if you don't look after everything else

you start you've got to find a balance

you have to find a balance

you have to work less yeah

it doesn't mean that you have to work less yeah

it just means that you need to prioritize other things

yeah like that's an important factor in your life

yeah like

I wouldn't train

because I feel like an hour and a half

going to the gym is an hour and a half

out of my working day because now I'm like

if I do that I give you your release at the end of like

you know and ideas yeah

me yeah

and if you go at 6:00 and you do that

and then you go home and finish the

you know I always say like the creative bits

I don't find work

so from designing t shirts or designing our new menu

or doing anything like that

I'll do that at night

because I just feel like I can have the TV on yeah

do those types of bits but then like the harder work

get that done in the day yeah

yeah so you can finish off the easy stuff at night

yeah and what

what does a locked in day look like for you

I would say into well

I'd get get up we go into the bakery in the morning

I always get into the bakery

just because that's like our time

to make sure everything's getting right out the door

so we got centralized prep and bakery

that then all goes out

and then I kind of have team meetings in the morning

we're normally then looking at how we can develop our

either new menus or now new sites

doing quite a lot of investment work

so kind of like forecasting what we look like now

what we look like with six sites with nine sites

and when that comes in

and the pinch points on investment

and pinch points where we're gonna be short on cash

and looking at all those types of things

very much do that and then I'd say like afternoon

I normally look at something like the clothing bits

dropping to the bars and then evenings just

you still got the bars yeah

yeah yeah

still got the bars we got you for four

have you yeah

nice so it's good nice

just don't get to go in them much now

no she working yeah yeah

yeah I do

I do um

I go in a bit

check on them like a couple of times a week

but we've got good management in there yeah

um and I think it's often you

you have to prioritize something and understand why

why you want things to grow

and I think for the bagel project

we've really got a business

and kind of like

the unit economics really add up to scale

bars are really good but you know

you you have to be in them constantly and driving them

yeah I think the scalability

the investment in to set up a bar

versus the payback is a lot longer than what we call

yeah yeah

fair um okay

um what would you say when I

when I talk about something that didn't go to plan

what is that one thing that comes to your mind

where it's like

or maybe a failure a setback or whatever it might be

yeah I mean

we had a pretty big one

when we launched a cocktail bar at 6 Richmond House

it went it did go really well for a couple of years

and we had a flood

we overinvested like the the fit out cost were silly

we'll never recuperate that money back

and I think we were

almost flogging a dead horse for a bit

like it just wasn't turning

so we closed that and reopened as a different concept

just rebranded and now that's doing a lot better

oh nice

but I think it's that was because I was scared of fate

I thought if we close this

you failed you can't do that but then I was just like

it doesn't doesn't matter

and then we closed it reopened

and all of those problems we were having

seem to have gone away and now yeah

so I think what did you learn from that

I think just you're gonna fail sometimes

you're gonna make really bad decisions

and you can't hide away from them

you have to just accept that

that was a really bad decision

how do we can we reverse it

can we make it better and if we can't

then just accept that it's a bad decision and move on

instead of I think we kicking the cat

yeah it was

and that's what we did you know

for too long like for nine

even probably a year

we were just looking at it losing money

just gonna I'll get better

like we'll change this we'll change that

and it doesn't so you gotta just make

you just gotta make the right decision

yeah it's difficult

you don't know what they're like yeah

yeah absolutely

absolutely it's a

it's a tough one

especially when there's emotional attachment involved

yeah as well it's

you know it's a baby of yours

yeah okay

what would you say the hardest period of your career

yes been

and how did you navigate it

I would probably say as we

as we had the as Richmond house and

and we're opening the Bagel Project

cause at the time I'd only done bars

I never done like a cafe

so it was a complete new concept to me

I had to teach myself how to bake

it was like baking and operating the site

as well as running the cocktail bar

that was running till like 2:00am

so I think in terms of like

flipping your mindset between like

trying to operate a cocktail bar

and then flipping it back to opening a bagel shop

in the more yeah

that was really difficult

and I think

I didn't know whether I was making the right decision

I thought I was stretching myself too thin yeah

um but now I've Learned

I think now I'm trying to test ideas all the time

where did

where did the idea for the bagel project come from

um I first I used to um

drink quite a lot so the bars were perfect for me

and then I started drinking less and I was like the

the appeal of

being in them all the time became less and less

and I think then

seeing that there was a shift in kind of like

you know younger people coming through

they're not drinking as much

there was less drinking culture and I think I'd seen

you know the the face of it

I thought if we can make a product and we can sell that

we cut the middle man out

like with beer for instance

you buy a brewery they're making it

they put a cost on you get it from the wholesaler

so they've put a cost but by the time you get it

you've had like two extra cost

and you're then putting your margin

you know you've got like three up upsales on it um

whereas I thought if we can make our own product

we're a wholesaler

we're a supplier and we sell the own product

so that allowed us to have a bit more margin

and I thought it'd be worth a shot at it

the investment cost in wasn't a crazy amount

I thought it was worth a punt and

mm hmm and I will see it soon

soon why bagels

um I'd always

I'd seen when I went into university

I'd seen a bagel shop um

it was like kind of like a New York deli

I really like the concept

I thought it was really good

and Nottingham didn't have anything

and I thought we if you've got an opportunity

especially in hospitality

to get into a market without any competition

yeah like you are laughing

you have to yeah

I literally did a search and I was like

there isn't and then did another one

I was like there's literally no bagel shops in London

yeah

and then I think as soon as we got a bit of success

we'd I then took a loan against my property out

because I was like

we have to try and monopolize this market

and now we've got to like three

and obviously we would we got the

the two more coming to make us five

within two and a half three years

I think you know

competition is now on its way

is that um yeah

it's pretty big competition

but I feel like it's I just see that as like um

a compliment they're obviously looking at it and saying

there's an opportunity so I just say like we're

you know we're doing the right thing

and it like motivates me more like absolutely

it's giving me like you work at a

such a better level

now that somebody's trying to take the next one out

yeah yeah

it's so good I actually am

it's horrible yeah

yeah it's

it's a hard feeling I think it's

you know it is something you're dealing with

but I

I think I've just said that we are gonna get better

if we get better every single day

is that bigger business yeah

there you could be more agile

like yeah

yeah and I think we

we understand like I'm in it every single day and they

they I know that that won't be the case in that

that that side so yeah

feeling pretty good for it excited

good love that

do you do you believe that resilience is built

or do you feel that it's wired into someone yeah

I think there's a bit of both

I think you do have to have like

it is a crazy mindset to you know

I imagine you've probably felt it as well

but you're working stupid amount of hours

and probably not getting paid at the end of it

I know for the first like 12 months

even probably longer we

you know we were just reinvesting everything

and I was taking like minimum out

I could out of the business

like

there has to be a level of resilience built into you

I think and then I think you learn it more over time

and the more you do more resilient you get

and you know say like something comes in

you've probably seen it before

so you understand how to get around it

so resilience is built in

but I think there's got to be some natural in there

what do you think on it yeah

I'm probably with you on that

I think I think you built

I think resilience is built in school

yeah a lot

a lot a lot of it yeah

playground banter and all that stuff

I think you

you have to learn to cope with certain things

but I feel that you have to go through that

when you get later in life

you have to go through like hard knocks letdowns

failures to build resilience

like you can't just expect it to be there

you have to it's really difficult question actually

it's a really difficult one to answer

I think bounce back ability

it depends it all it all depends on mindset

it all depends on mindset

it depends on how you

what emotion you attach to that particular outcome

will depend on how you respond to it

with resilience that's not my take on it

so if if you're walking around glass half empty

almost expecting everything to happen

then when you get knocked down

you're gonna stay down

because you are kind of bringing it to the

to the forefront um

whereas I feel if it's just like well

nothing can knock me down whatever whatever comes to me

I'm gonna come back two times stronger

but it's difficult it's it's it's it's it's um yeah

it's a hard one so it's a hard one

I don't know yeah

I know I I think that I get that yeah

we we touched on this earlier

but what what

what has failure taught you

that success never could have

I think it's the feeling of failure

I think obviously you get better at dealing with it

but it still it stings

we've been in a period now where we've kind of gone

like back to

back to back record weeks

and the feeling of that versus like

the feeling of a bad week is complete

I feel the feeling of success for me

I don't really feel it uh huh

like it's next yeah

I don't you know I say the

the biggest thing that makes me feel like

I've achieved something

is when I walk into the bakery

because it's like you know

we've got a proper bakery now

and I just to roll in like a tiny little yeah

you know with an oven that could fit 24 bagels

and that is the thing I think I was cool yeah

but you know the failure

I think it stinks

and I think that feeling is is different yeah

it's um

it's where you learn yeah

it's where you learn if it's that painful

if it's that much of a failure

you just not gonna do it again yeah

yeah hundred

do you know what I mean and

and and you just become a lot more

diligent in your decision making

or whatever whatever yeah

it makes you think in a complete different way

I think yeah success

I don't think makes you

you've obviously worked hard to get there

and you get the success

but when you like have a really good week

obviously reflect on it yeah

I think the reflection is just in a different way

than it is when

for me I don't know about you

like when we have a record week month yeah

or whatever it might be

I I appreciate it for the moment yeah

but then I'm just like okay

we've proven we could do that that's a new benchmark

yeah

what can we go to next 100% and then it's never ending

you constantly you constantly chasing

but that's it it's a good thing and a bad thing yeah

it's a good thing when you wanna scale something

massive massive

but it's also a bad thing cause you're never satisfied

yeah I think that's it that's satisfied

I think as soon as you begin to become satisfied with

like either normal average

then I think that's when you you should look

I think to get out yeah

get out or yeah

as soon as you're happy with that was an OK week

like and you're not reflecting on every single detail

yeah I think when I say success and failure like

you know we still reflect on everything when we succeed

mm hmm but I think when you would it's that feeling

I think when you fail yeah

that's what stops you want to yeah

do it again yeah

I find that when we go through a tough tough phase

right we all go through it

that's when we learn the most

that's when I then build processes

that catches the fall that then that

that that will stop that from happening again

that will stop that from happening again

but my chairman always says to me

he always says he's my noni mentor

he always says to me said

when everything's going well

keep your eye over your shoulder

cause you're about to get left up from something yeah

right you don't know where it's coming from

so while they're just there

and you're dealing with them

that's great yeah right

that's great

cause you're moving forward and and stuff like that

but when everything's going perfect yeah

a big left hook is coming somewhere cause it's never

it is it's never your success is never linear yeah

I think that's what we like

we're in a good position now

we got good systems in the stuff

and obviously we're looking to expand

but that's the thing for me that I'm always like

looking at

whether we can develop other angles to the business

that we're just cause of the clothing stuff

we're now launching like online

we can have a website and we'll run that through like

um shopify

so I'll be able to sell our merch and yeah

run our ad stream the same that we do with our clothing

so I'm like well

I've got a physical store

I'm trying to build my brand

I'm gonna now build an online presence

and that's gonna act as its own ecosystem

someone might wear a Bagel Project T-shirt

because they think it's cool

in London they're wearing the brand

there's got a physical store

it's like in the times that we're a little

like things are going well

I'm like

how can we get better and how can we make our business

like I want to be a hospitality business

that's like thinking completely different than yeah

yeah traditional like this is what we do we

we serve people we do this

I want to have like an ecosystem that all fills yeah

that's smart smart now I like that

what does winning actually mean to you now

yeah um

I think it's very similar to

probably how you feel about it

I think when we get a win

I just it's it's how do we get better and how

how do we do it again but how do we do it bigger

and I think from a perspective of um

I think because it's

I've been very used to being in the team

winning in the team is such a good feeling

I don't know if you play sport

but just it's such a good feeling where it's like

when you win by yourself

even though you've got a team around you

is still quite lonely it's a different feeling

and I think it's like a what what's next then

or how do we improve or get better

and I know I keep saying it

but it's just an internal dialogue

I always have in my head is like

even when I was driving over here today

I was like

calling couple of the team and just thought about this

we think about that yeah

we've got someone's coming up

how do we look at maybe doing this

we've got like a mobile van that we put around

it's like how can we get that into cooler events

like so there's always things that I'm thinking of it

yeah um

the wins for me is just how do we keep

keep building on it

and did you always have that internal ideas factory

or is it is it just is it something that has

you know since you got into business

it's it's then started

you know falling from the sky these ideas yeah

I think I that's I think it's hard to

I don't have really a great memory

I think probably just getting hit in the head

a lot of most people like to do that yeah

that I think it has probably done it to be fair um

but growing up in that

I can't really remember having like

loads of these crazy ideas or thinking like

I wanna work for myself or anything

I thought I was gonna be a professional Rugby player

I think that was like my goal and even post uni

I thought yeah

I can still do it and

and then when work kinda got busier that fell away

and I think that that was when like

I really stepped on into the business

and I think then the more learning you do about it

the more ideas you come

and you're thinking in a different way

in terms of like

how do I take a product and how do I market that

you know how do we look at our ads strategy

and all the bits that we're looking at

in terms like the clothing really helps me

and I wanna test everything

I wanna be in every market

because I know everyone says

you should focus on one thing and do it really well

and I agree

but I also think if I can learn different elements

even if one business fails

but I learn say the clothing fails

but I've Learned about ads

how do we target target someone

how do we run an email campaign

how do we do all those things

and that's something that's gonna help

the Bagel Project you know

so for me

I just wanna I wanna be as many places as I can yeah

fair enough fair fair um

we kind of already answered this

but I'm gonna ask it again

is winning addictive yeah

yeah yeah

I yeah

I find it super addictive

like I think just that it's it's

it's like it does give you a good feeling

doesn't it yeah

yeah you know

it's impressive what you can achieve

I always take it back to like a base of like we had no

you know

we didn't have a business two and a half years ago yeah

so everyone's cool yeah

I think it's addictive do you find it addictive

massively I find it usually addictive

I I am absolutely addicted to the deal

I really cherish and I love my family time by

by the time I go to bed on Sunday

I am chomping at the bit to get back in the office

because I know deals are about to land

yeah and I'm just and I'll never lose that

when I do lose that that's enough

but yeah I'm I just I'm that's what that's why I'm here

you know because I'm just addicted to the deal yeah

I just love it it's math

it's a good feeling though

yeah it is yeah

it's a really good feeling okay

so when you talk about

when we talk about like people's purpose

do you think that it do you think that is found

or do you think that is built

I think it's a mixture but I do believe

if you haven't found what your purpose is

and you're trying to just build something fabricated

and I do think eventually that runs out

like I do think if your sole motivation was like

financial gain in a business

I think you might get to that point

but you'll have something in your head that you like

if I get to that

then I'll be happy or then I'll be you know

I'll find my purpose

I don't think that really it might serve some people

I can only speak from my personal perspective

like if it was that motivating factor

that was it I don't think I could

I think the purpose would run away pretty quick

absolutely I'm a big one on purpose

like I think about purpose is like happiness yeah

free yeah um

yeah happiness and I mean

what more do you want than being happy

and if somebody if X is gonna make you happy

then and I think that's it

isn't it

I think it's it's a process more than the end product

I find yeah

I think the yeah the journey is like so fun like yeah

just being in it all the time and seeing growth

and they're all the bits I really enjoy

and I think it's it's it's stressful

isn't it and it's hard I think yeah

it's easy everyone would do it but you know

I think you if you enjoy all those elements

and like you say it makes you happy

like I couldn't work for someone

I don't think I would just get fired pretty quick

I wouldn't be I couldn't

I don't think I could deal with the progression levels

and like if I came in an entry and I was

I would just want to keep

you know I would just be like

I would say a lot of experience level

then I'll be like for me

I always say to my team like

experience for me at some point

I think it matters but the stage we're in

like I just want people that want to work and enjoy it

being around and I enjoy being around

like the biggest thing for me

because I didn't have two and a/2 years ago

I didn't have any experience

you know deny to make a bagel where I was like

we are where we are today

if it was based on the experience

I would have never been able to stand

you know yeah

that would have been a barrier to entry there yeah

yeah yeah

I'm I'm with you 100% on that

I very very rarely do I hire anybody um

with recruitment experience every

everyone even like my board now yeah

like my commercial director

my sales director all home grown yeah

um that's why yeah

absolutely they

they learn it your way yeah

um and they don't necessarily come with egos

oh well

we could do it better if it's like

hang on this is how we do things around here

um buy into it

yeah buy into it

and you can and then

then you put them on a journey of

of progression and that's how you get loyalty

and culture and stuff like that

definitely that's how you get it

that's it yeah

and that's important

and last thing you want is looking over your shoulder

and then thinking do I trust that person

yeah I've got a really old

that tight knit team that I trust

yeah I think that's important for me

like it takes a me a long while to like trust you

yeah especially when I know that business capacity yeah

I'm probably like from a friendship

I'm quite like yeah

you know yeah

in a business sense it takes me a long

long time for me to be like yeah

it's your neck on the line

yeah it's your neck on the line

yeah so you got a bit right

you have to be yeah

um okay

if everything disappeared tomorrow

what would you rebuild first

um

I probably look at doing some of like the online bits

mm hmm what are you talking about from like a business

yeah yeah

yeah yeah

so you just got tomorrow you start again

yeah but I had all the

I knew everything yeah

yeah you got your knowledge

yeah I would probably look at like the um

e commerce side

just because I think in terms of like a quick like

you know

money in versus money out from a minimal investment

I'll be able to make some money back quite quick

yeah

as soon as I then gained a little bit more financial

then I look at how we probably took

where we are now as a brand

what works like unit economics

and then be able to like

bring that into a unit and expand quickly

but so like the the service of like

from your perspective of service base and like

especially ECOM online products

you know the overheads are so much lower yeah

with like a hospitality

like our overheads are extremely high

you know with business rates rent

you know all the

all the stuff that the government are

piling on at the moment you know

it all feeds into it

so it makes it a harder industry to be in

so I probably would look online

mm hmm if I was gonna go fair enough

what it what do you feel is one habit

everyone should steal from you

just I'd say consistency yeah

that is what I've tried to set stay now just consistent

make my I have a to do list

I have like important tasks need to get done

would be good if I did like

and if you had an absolute crazy day

and nothing's gone wrong

try and get these done at the end yeah

I just do that every day even if I'm like not in work

there'll be like a few bits I put on it yeah

I just do that at the end of the night

when I finish my day

ready for the start of the next one

I just do that daily yeah

and that's been the biggest thing that has helped me

so simple as well yeah

I know it's literally the most simple thing

and then I sleep better

because everything that I was thinking out

on a piece of paper and then in the morning

as soon as I sit down you know where you are

then you just start working through

so it's it's just that monotonous cycle of like

you know what you need to do yeah

yeah um

um what

what what is one belief um

that you hold that most people would disagree with

probably the I'm

I'm quite strong on the the experience thing

yeah people like a couple of my mates didn't get jobs

like a guy he's trying to be get one at the moment

he's like you know

looking for more experience

I just do it it

that fundamentally just does my head in

yeah cause I just think it's like you could have

could have had the best person

and you could mould them and you can work with them

you might have to put a bit more time into them

but that could be like the best asset you have

absolutely because they don't have experience

on a piece of paper

and it probably goes back to my school days

because school just used to annoy me like yeah

you know you just put in a box yeah

and if you don't fit

if I'm like really dyslexic and stuff trying to read

I struggle with

and then retaining the information to regurgitate

on a piece of paper yeah

I struggle with yeah

yeah yeah

so then it was like oh wait no

you would you can't go to a top university hmm

but it's then you're like

well this is mental yeah

but then I look at my class and I'm like

not not been up to get but you know

I'm probably out achieving yeah

person that went to Oxford

oh god yeah

so it's like yeah yeah yeah

west there yeah

yeah absolutely

I had to have a conversation with my

my little boy he's 11 years old

he came back he's like

I got um

I got Star Student of the week

yeah he's in year 6

yeah and it was a really nice

really nice statement from his

from his teacher about how he's doing really

really well but I comment on it

he's working really hard to um

he's working really hard to tone down his exuberant um

his exuberant personality

I'm like that's his personality

yeah yeah

like why should he stop why should he

why should he tone down on like how exuberant he is

that he that's never offended anybody

so I had to sit down with him and say that

that I disagree with you

stay here and well done on getting all of that

but I don't like that like that just yeah

it is hard yeah

I think just get put in a box yeah

and if you don't fit dead into it and yeah

but yeah absolutely yeah OK

worst advice you see people follow

I I think in the online space there is a lot now oh god

I can't that's probably another pet peeve of mine

but yeah if you're selling a course

and you haven't got a business

then yeah you shouldn't or have one or yeah

you shouldn't listen to a word they say no

because unless you're scaling

something that people can physically see yeah

so that would be a big one is I would say

be really careful who you're listening to

from online space perspective yeah

and then like another one

I think

is people now get really put off the idea of risk

speaking to one of my friends the other day

he's just come back from America working

and we were speaking about business

and I was like why don't you start your own

so I made a risk I was like well

you ain't got a job at the moment he's like yeah

I know but like you know

I'll get one so I couldn't take on that risk

and I think people are so

you know it's drilled in that yeah

don't take risk don't do this

if you haven't got security in your job

or this or that then you know

you're not gonna be in a good space

whereas I look at it from the reverse side

you have got to go through you know two

three years of it

you're definitely not making all you know

making a bit of money but it been really hard

but once you get to the other side

and the way that you view things is worth that

two years yeah

failure or perception of failure yeah yeah absolutely

I think that's the that's the challenge like here right

there's a like there's a lot of rejection involved

there's a lot of rejection

recruiting is a really really hard sales job right

and I have to

constantly do mindset sessions with people

to get them to take risks yeah

and just be themselves and yeah

and not not put on a corporate mask

we're far from corporate it's like just be be yourself

I hired you for your personality no experience

I hired you for your personality

do that

just go and just just go and do that and but you know

when you look at how school is and

and everything around you is just like

oh my don't take this stay in the lane yeah

do that and it's just um

it does coach you that way doesn't it

yeah absolutely yeah

that's that's

that's what the whole world is like

yeah Tom

you've been great yeah

I really appreciate you joining me today

if you uh

if you don't know follow the bagel projects

I'm so excited to see how quickly this one scales and

uh yeah

appreciate it great cheers

thank you for joining me cheers

thank you thank you