Morning Cereal

Start your day with inspirational quotes, followed by a fun journey through nostalgic facts from this day in history. Then, we dive into the first chapter of Dale Carnegie’s iconic book, How to Win Friends and Influence People.
In Part 3, Chapter 3, Part 1, we’ll explore Carnegie’s timeless advice on building authentic connections, the art of influence, and creating positive interactions in every area of life.
In This Episode:
  • Daily inspirational quotes to spark your motivation
  • Fun historical facts from this day in history
  • A deep dive into Part 3, Chapter 3, Part 1 of How to Win Friends and Influence People
Whether you're a leader, communicator, or just someone looking to improve your relationships, this episode is packed with actionable insights.
Tune in now and let’s grow together!
Resources:
Carnegie, D. (1981). How to win friends and influence people (Rev. ed.). Simon & Schuster.

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Good morning, and welcome to Morning Cereal!
Pull up a stool, grab your favorite cereal, and let’s kick-start your day with a spoonful of inspiration, nostalgia and personal growth. Join your host, Shaen Inglis, as he highlights the music, movies, and moments that made the 80s, 90s, and 2000s unforgettable—kind of like digging for toy at the bottom of the cereal box. Each episode, Shaen also reviews a chapter or so from top wellness books, offering practical insights to help you set a positive tone for your day. Start your mornings right—no cartoons required!

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Good morning.

And welcome to morning cereal

Okay, good morning and welcome to

Tuesday. Hey everybody, I have something

super special for you

today and like Christmas

It only comes around once a year. Now.

I'm super excited to tell you all about

it today is and you know

What you probably already know it but

today is national cow milked

while flying an airplane day. I

Repeat it's national cow milked while

flying an airplane day

So grab your Holstein and

your PJ and you're ready to go

And you might be thinking that I made

that up. I did not these

are all actual national days

National cow milked while flying an

airplane day is celebrated

annually on February 18th

And again, I'm sure you all knew that but

it's celebrated annually to commemorate

the day a cow named Nellie J

Became the first cow to be flown and

milked in an airplane. It happened in the

earliest 20th century

But if you don't have a cow or a private

jet, it's also national drink wine day.

That's something I can get behind Cheers

Alright today's quotes one fun nostalgic

quote and then a second quote to tease

our book review later in the episode

Hopefully one of these quotes will speak

to you and jumpstart your

day in a positive direction

The first quote is from Celine Dion and

she says quote life imposes things on you

that you can't control

But you still have the choice of how

you're going to live through this

End quote life is always throwing stuff

at us and it's incumbent upon each of us

to hit these obstacles head on

Stay positive and move

through them. Thanks Celine

All right today's teaser quote from the

book review is quote if we know we are

going to be rebuked anyhow

Isn't it far better to beat the other

person to it and just do it ourselves?

End quote and as usual we'll unpack that

here in just a minute

during the book review segment

But first let's jump into our usual dose

of fun and historic facts

from this day in history

And today's news facts and

birthdays are for february 18th

We're going to start all the way back in

1885 and that's when mark twain first

published adventures of huckleberry fin

in the united states

Then in 1898 inzo ferrari was born

He's the italian race car driver that

would go on to found the

ferrari car company in 1947

Then in 1930 the planet of pluto was

discovered by a 24 year old american with

no formal training in astronomy

Then in 1977 the space shuttle took off

on its maiden flight the enterprise and

it was mounted on a boeing 747

shuttle carrier aircraft

However, the first free flight of the

space shuttle took place on august 12th

in the same year of 1977

Then in the next year 1978

Hawaii hosted the first ironman triathlon

where contestants had to swim 2.4 miles

They had to bike 112 miles and complete

the marathon run measuring 26.2 miles

And happy birthday. If today is your

birthday you share a birthday with

Rapper and entrepreneur

dr. Dre. He turns 60 today

Actor john chevolta. He turns

71 and yoko ono. She turns 92

Now the number one

song on this date back in

1994 was the power of love by seline dion

And I have to say these last two days

have been just jam packed

with some of my favorites

And seline dion is no different. Selene

is my favorite singer.

She speaks to my soul

And i'm okay saying that now

It took a lot of time for me to get used

to that and I took a lot

of flack for that in the 90s

But I could definitely rock some serious

adult contemporary just as

much as rock and rap in the 90s

Selene's song the power of love was a

cover of the original song

from 1984 by jennifer rush

But seline's version went multi-platinum

and earned seline her

first number one hit in america

And the number one movie on this date

back in 2004 was first 50 dates

And that's another adam sandler movie

this time co-starring drew berrymore

And apparently adam sandler was on the

fence and he wasn't

sold on making the movie

So drew berrymore typed him a letter to

convince him on an actual typewriter

And kids that's a machine with keys to

produce alphabetical

characters one at a time on paper

That's actually the dictionary's

definition of a typewriter kids a

dictionary is like a paper google for

defining and spelling words

All right

Well, let's go ahead and move on to some

personal growth in the book review

segment of morning serial

This is where we take a few moments to

reflect on lessons learned from the

current book we're reading

Currently we're reading through dale

carnegie's how to win friends and

influence people as you know

It's a timeless book that is consistently

on all the must-read lists

And it's packed with rock solid advice

and actions for all of us to use and

build healthy

foundational concepts to live by

Yesterday we finished up chapter two of

part two entitled a sure way of making

enemies and how to avoid it

And in chapter two carnegie revealed that

there is an art in how we handle

difficult conversations

Especially when we are trying to change

someone's mind or see things our way

It's difficult to change someone's way of

thinking and their beliefs and that's

because they are deeply held and they're

associated with their self-esteem

Carnegie says quote when we are wrong. We

may admit it to ourselves

And if we are handled

gently and tactfully

We may admit it to others but not if

someone else is trying to ram the

unpalatable fact down our esophagus

end quote

Carnegie's principle number two is show

respect for the other person's opinions

never say you are wrong

And that follows part three principle

number one, which was the only way to get

the best of an argument is to avoid it

All right. So today we begin the third

chapter in part three, which is entitled

if you are wrong admit it

And carnegie jumps right into one of his

personal stories to wet our appetites

Carnegie tells the story of how he would

take his dog for a walk

in the park near his house

And since they rarely ran into anyone he

would let his dog run without a leash

which was against the law

One day carnegie and rex his harmless

little bulldog. They ran into

a mounted police officer who

Completely tore carnegie apart about

breaking the leash law rex could have

killed squirrels and bitten babies

And the police officer said that if he

caught carnegie and

rex again without a leash

Carnegie would have to

take it up with the judge

The policeman left carnegie

with just a verbal whipping

Well carnegie and rex tried the leash and

muzzle for a few

days, but neither liked it

So they chanced the walk the next day

without a leash and a muzzle

And as luck would have it coming up over

the hill came the same police officer on

horseback and rex was

sprinting towards him

Before the policeman could even speak as

carnegie knew he was in for it

Carnegie beat him to it by saying quote

officer. You've caught me red-handed. I'm

guilty. I have no alibis. No excuses

You warned me last week that if I brought

the dog out here again without a muzzle

you would find me end quote

As you probably suspect the officer

cuffed carnegie and

took him directly to jail

I'm just kidding just seeing

if you were paying attention

No, the officer who just scolded him for

ignoring the law and the dangers rex was

to squirrels just a few days earlier

Was completely different

The officer said that he understood the

temptation that there

weren't many people out there

And maybe they should just go run on the

other side of the hill where he couldn't

see them and they'd

all just forget about it

What was the difference

and what's carnegie's point?

Well, it comes back to people want to

feel important and the

policeman was no different

Carnegie says quote so when I began to

condemn myself the

only way he the policeman

Could nourish his self-esteem was to take

the magnanimous attitude

of showing mercy end quote

Instead of fighting with the policeman

carnegie shot that down by immediately

saying the policeman was

right and that he carnegie

Was in the wrong

Carnegie says quote if we know we are

going to be rebuked anyhow

Isn't it far better to beat the other

person to it and do it ourselves?

Isn't it much easier to listen to the

self-criticism than to bear the

condemnation from alien lips end quote?

It reminds me of a story I had once and

it was only once never before had it

happened and never again

I promise but I once rolled through a

stop sign on the way home

from a kid's soccer game

And I should have known better because

this particular neighborhood is

constantly patrolled

by multiple policemen

Well, as soon as I rolled through the

stop sign a cop pulled out with his

lights right behind me

And luckily for me there was an immediate

right into a parking lot that I just I

turned into right away

In fact, I knew I was caught immediately

and I began turning in almost before the

policeman turned on his

lights to pull me over

Similar to carnegie the cop was almost

laughing when he came to my window

because of how quickly I pulled over

Knowing that I was caught red-handed. I

told him yeah, that was a

pretty bad california stop

And he too let me go with just a warning

Carnegie suggests that when we take the

initiative to admit we are wrong

That we should say all the negative

things about ourselves that the other

person is thinking and wants to say

And be sure to say it all before they can

Then carnegie says quote the chances are

a hundred to one that a generous

forgiving attitude will be taken and your

mistakes will be minimized

end quote

Just as the policeman

did with carnegie and me

Well, i'm interested to see where this

chapter takes us as some people really do

struggle with

admitting it when they're wrong

But it's a reflection of maturity

So come back tomorrow as carnegie

discusses trying to defend these mistakes

that we make at times

Okay, I know you're anxious to get on

with milking your cow at altitude today

So I just hope your day

is off to a fantastic start

And if this day or this week has

obstacles laid out before you

Just keep taking it one step at a time

stay positive. Keep moving forward and

you're gonna get there

Thanks for joining us today. We'll see

you back here tomorrow

and have a fantastic day

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